FabSwingers.com forum: Sex vs romance

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo thats a hard choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to choose. Can I have one of each please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to choose. Can I have one of each please.

With me you can

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance.

You could lose you’re sex drive for a number of reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can still have sex and companionship though right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd choose romance.

It's the romance that makes you feel loved, thought about and taken into consideration.

It's the romance that reminds and shows you the other person has been thinking about you, that they've thought of a gesture they want you to have/experience/think about.

Sex is wonderful, but doesn't replace love.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Sex. Every time.

Not a great romantic, and I get companionship and love from my friends and my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd choose romance.

It's the romance that makes you feel loved, thought about and taken into consideration.

It's the romance that reminds and shows you the other person has been thinking about you, that they've thought of a gesture they want you to have/experience/think about.

Sex is wonderful, but doesn't replace love.

You die hard romantic you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex, I don't want a relationship so romance is not something I am after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd choose romance.

It's the romance that makes you feel loved, thought about and taken into consideration.

It's the romance that reminds and shows you the other person has been thinking about you, that they've thought of a gesture they want you to have/experience/think about.

Sex is wonderful, but doesn't replace love.

You die hard romantic you

Or a fucking idiot. One of the 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance there's always Fab for the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd choose romance.

It's the romance that makes you feel loved, thought about and taken into consideration.

It's the romance that reminds and shows you the other person has been thinking about you, that they've thought of a gesture they want you to have/experience/think about.

Sex is wonderful, but doesn't replace love.

These words are truth. Sex is pretty much meaningless without at least a bit of romantic connection

Fuzz

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Sex. Every time.

Not a great romantic, and I get companionship and love from my friends and my family."

Same! And you can always adopt a puppy if you need more love

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Romance... I'd miss cuddles and that loving feeling to much... Sex I could live with out if it meant keeping romance for the rest of my life.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Love*. But it would have to be the real deal. The take your breath away and enduring kind. I’d whittle my clitoris away with a vibrator if i had to. As long as he watched and talked dirty to me as i did it, i’d cope.

* I reserve the right to change my mind at any time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you see elderly couples who are still very much in love, I don't think it's coz they had plenty of sex and no romance. It's because they showed one another they care, they love, and they cherish

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"When you see elderly couples who are still very much in love, I don't think it's coz they had plenty of sex and no romance. It's because they showed one another they care, they love, and they cherish

This completely - absolutely true romance of caring for someone so deeply, and them caring equally as much for you, that nothing else matters puts anything else into insignificance - yes I enjoy sex, and I'd miss it if I couldn't have it, but not nearly as much as I would miss that feeling of togetherness that romance brings

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

When I see elderly rampaging sexually in the assisted living homes because they have lost their loved one, that's why I choose sex

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Romance. Don't get me wrong, I love a good cocking and I'd probably have a teary wank bemoaning the end of it. But having that closeness with another through a romantic connection is really something else - the words, just being with another and enjoying their presence. So yes, romance for me.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Romance for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?"
i choose romance with sex what you gonna do about it what you gonna do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?i choose romance with sex what you gonna do about it what you gonna do

Looks as if I'll have to raise my pimp hand to a few dissenters here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex a get way too frustrated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a very tough question to answer for differnt reasons but if there was a gun to my head I'd pick sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?"

Sex with passion

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By *e Sing TooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I refuse to choose. Can I have one of each please.

Amen!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Romance, passion, connection. These things along with great sex are a perfect combination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Romance, passion, connection. These things along with great sex are a perfect combination."
kissing and stupendously salacious kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an incurable romantic, but sex is good too....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These words are truth. Sex is pretty much meaningless without at least a bit of romantic connection

Fuzz"

Why does sex have to mean something, it is 'of the moment' physical pleasure, why bring along the emotional baggage?

A little bit of 'romance' is ok, wining and dining etc, providing it is just the prelude to sex

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I'd choose romance.

It's the romance that makes you feel loved, thought about and taken into consideration.

It's the romance that reminds and shows you the other person has been thinking about you, that they've thought of a gesture they want you to have/experience/think about.

Sex is wonderful, but doesn't replace love.

See i'd agree but I don't see romance as love. So i'd have to choose sex and hope that one day love came along.

I'm not romantic at all.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

And they only met last week at the Derby n Joan and had a dry fumble in the car park ...... awwwwwwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance and love. I'd give up sex to feel loved every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance and love everytime.

Sex is ok but love is something else.

Spending time with the one you love, caring about them and them caring about you is much more important than sex although obviously sex enhances that.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I would choose sex. I have managed to live quite happily without love and romance but no sex would make me sad.

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I gave up smoking.

I don't drink alcohol

I won't give up coffee or sex

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Interesting responses! I don't class romance as being the same as love and a lasting connection with someone, caring for each other and weathering the storms together. Romance to me means flowers and candles and smushy stuff and that's really not me.

So to answer the OP - I'd choose sex as I don't rate romance. Love is different...

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex sex and more sex i wanna have sex until me nob drops off

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

You can have the sex without romance but no romance without sex....

Sex it is

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"If you HAD to choose between only having romance without sex, or only having sex without romance for the rest of your life, which would you choose? And why?"
I dont do romance.. so it would be sex

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Have to sex, comes with less heartache

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Hmm .. define romance? I can do without all that Disney shite, I don't need promises and flowers. I'm my own 'the one'.

But I do love intimacy, respect, kindness a long with my sex .. deep friendship too. Is that romance? Or sex?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Can I choose romance and then meaningless sex with others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance, it's the soul. Sex is physical.

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