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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's your dad like?

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"What's your dad like? "

That’s such an open question. In what way? Mine has sadly passed away.

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

A complete cunt. No idea if he's dead or alive nor do I care.

Blade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft under.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

Mine was amazing but hes dead now

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My father would womanize, he would drink. He would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My father was a relentlessly self-improving boulangerie owner from Belgium with low grade narcolepsy and a penchant for buggery. My father would womanize, he would drink. He would make outrageous claims like he invented the question mark. Sometimes he would accuse chestnuts of being lazy."

Was your mother a french teenaged prostitute with webbed feet called Chloe?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Violent. Haven’t seen him since I was 3.

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Was your mother a french teenaged prostitute with webbed feet called Chloe? "

Yes! How did you know that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was a gentle giant who would do anything for anyone. I didn't realise what he actually had to endure or that he was actually my hero until it was too late.

I held his hand as he passed away in 2011. He was only 52. The demon drink took over. I miss him every day and I'm incredibly proud to be big Rabs daughter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad was wonderful. He was intelligent, funny, stubborn and I really couldn't say a bad word about the relationship we shared. My dad passed a few years ago, he was too young. I miss him every day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

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By *rgoodnbadMan
over a year ago

greenock

"Mine was a gentle giant who would do anything for anyone. I didn't realise what he actually had to endure or that he was actually my hero until it was too late.

I held his hand as he passed away in 2011. He was only 52. The demon drink took over. I miss him every day and I'm incredibly proud to be big Rabs daughter. "

Nice, big Rab would be proud of his daughter too.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

He's wonderful. Hes a tall, broad, half Dutch ginger with a disgraceful sense of humour. I love chatting about politics and general life life with him and he's a really great dad.

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

A shadow of his former self but still a legend to me, even though he possibly has no idea who I am anymore.

Fuck dementia.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"A shadow of his former self but still a legend to me, even though he possibly has no idea who I am anymore.

Fuck dementia.

I'm sorry

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Deeply ambitious, hard worker, self effacing. A social chameleon in many ways. Refuses to conform socially, somehow gets away with the combination of defiance and ineptitude. Fiercely intelligent. Shows love and affection in highly idiosyncratic ways that are hard not to be insulted by sometimes.

An enigma.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

Hope he has speedy recovery xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A shadow of his former self but still a legend to me, even though he possibly has no idea who I am anymore.

Fuck dementia.

I'm sorry

Thanks.

We had years to prepare as was diagnosed early but the changes you see over time are often seriously hard.

If it ever happens to me I'm straight on a plane to Switzerland.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A shadow of his former self but still a legend to me, even though he possibly has no idea who I am anymore.

Fuck dementia.

to the 'fuck dementia' and a big hug xx

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

My dad was a complicated man with some amazing qualities but equally magnificent flaws.

We didn't speak for over a decade but managed to rebuild some sort of relationship before he passed away in 2014.

I have inherited his talent for manipulation, his love of music and his love of language, as well as his gloriously healthy blood pressure and low cholesterol. Thanks dad!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Personality wise I'm very much a daddy's girl

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

sorry to hear that, big hugs x

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"A shadow of his former self but still a legend to me, even though he possibly has no idea who I am anymore.

Fuck dementia.

I'm sorry

Thanks.

We had years to prepare as was diagnosed early but the changes you see over time are often seriously hard.

If it ever happens to me I'm straight on a plane to Switzerland.

Oh I'm so sorry to read that, dementia is a compete bitch.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

I hope he recovers well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was an amazing man who worked hard his entire life to provide for his family. He loved his wife more than life itself, done everything for his children and his grandchildren were his little angels. Unfortunately some of this I didn't realise until it was too late

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By *asteregg01Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's your dad like? "

Dead, and best place for him to be honest.

When men have children and make no effort to cultivate a relationship with them, dont expect them to suddenly be interested in a relationship in adulthood.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

An inspiration. He turned 71 last week and he is the best man I’ve ever met. I consider myself very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hero

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What's your dad like?

Dead, and best place for him to be honest.

When men have children and make no effort to cultivate a relationship with them, dont expect them to suddenly be interested in a relationship in adulthood."

Same goes for mums, too.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Old, deaf, and still annoying.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Dead and 6feet under

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

Oh Jennie, so sorry, how is he now? Xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

My Dad is still my hero, even at 90. Love him to bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biological dad, I'm not going there

My step dad on the other hand is the best. Always there when I need him and I've learnt a lot from him. Couldn't have asked for a better father figure

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's your dad like? "

My dad passed in 2011. I cried for the dad he never was.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"What's your dad like?

My dad passed in 2011. I cried for the dad he never was. "

I'm sorry. I empathise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad is probably the funniest man I’ve ever known. He’s got such a brilliant sense of humour, even when things don’t always go as planned you can always count on him to make a joke about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is a spineless bastard. He refuses to face up to his mistakes and doesn't give a shit about his children.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

My dad is one of the most horrible people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. Violent culminating with him aiming a loaded weapon at me as a teenager. But apparently it's all my fault

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is a spineless bastard. He refuses to face up to his mistakes and doesn't give a shit about his children. "

.....Are you my half sister?

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"My dad is one of the most horrible people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. Violent culminating with him aiming a loaded weapon at me as a teenager. But apparently it's all my fault"

Saying that his actions are your fault is the classic defence of a narcissist. Their gaslighting never stops.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"My dad is one of the most horrible people I've ever had the misfortune of meeting. Violent culminating with him aiming a loaded weapon at me as a teenager. But apparently it's all my fault

Saying that his actions are your fault is the classic defence of a narcissist. Their gaslighting never stops."

No it doesn't, don't see him now except at family events. He's not my dad he's someone who used to be part of my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is a spineless bastard. He refuses to face up to his mistakes and doesn't give a shit about his children.

.....Are you my half sister?"

Quite possibly - given my father's habit of having kids and abandoning them, it wouldn't surprise me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My curiosity got the better of me when I was 21 and I tracked him down. He was an alcoholic down on his luck. I didn't both meeting up with him again, I felt I had been spared a life of misery not knowing him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

Oh Jennie, so sorry, how is he now? Xx"

He is well enough to be annoying the hospital staff by constantly asking when he can go home! Got to stay in for at least a week as they run more tests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

I hope he recovers well

Thank you x

He's in the right place xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

Hope he has speedy recovery xx"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best man I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my pals fancy him, all of my husbands pals want to be him. He’s cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A prick. Like father like son.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

Oh Jennie, so sorry, how is he now? Xx

He is well enough to be annoying the hospital staff by constantly asking when he can go home! Got to stay in for at least a week as they run more tests."

Aah bless him, speedy recovery

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By *airytaleOfNewPorkMan
over a year ago

Close By

I have a lot of animosity towards my father because he used me to cover for an affair... I'll never forgive him for making me feel like that.

I DO, however, read through the comments from those who have lost their fathers and feel a twinge of emotion that I'm actually lucky he is still alive... Because no matter how he treated me, he's still my dad. I adored him right up until the age of 15, he was my hero..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead 31 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your dad like? "

Quiet but you wouldn’t fuck with him and a fantastically dry, childish sense of humour.

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Dead and what a nasty man he was.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Sadly been gone almost 6 years,but he was a good egg who was funny and generous.

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By *e Sing TooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Mine is brilliant. A man I have constantly looked up to. Generous, kind and inspiring.

And at this moment, lying in a hospital bed having had a heart attack 2 days ago

We’re so sorry. You have our best hopes for his recovery.

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By *e Sing TooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Deeply ambitious, hard worker, self effacing. A social chameleon in many ways. Refuses to conform socially, somehow gets away with the combination of defiance and ineptitude. Fiercely intelligent. Shows love and affection in highly idiosyncratic ways that are hard not to be insulted by sometimes.

An enigma."

You sound like someone who has worked through their early life experiences. Well done.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My dad is my hero....the only man I will ever fully trust x

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

A sorry excuse of a human. Denied my existence for years. Is a raving right wing Christian fanatic. Lives a complete lie within a community of religious nuts. I don't bother with him now.

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

My real dad no idea never met him and my step dad is a complete twat

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