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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just can't get hang a this forum doings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Join in on conversation. It's not a place for people to come running to your desires, usually. It's more like a pub, just chat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it "
Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically"

I’ve been here nearly a year and I’ve still no clue

Just bumble through fella...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically"

Read around the forum and see how others do things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically"

Ok, I think I see what you mean?

When you do “reply and quote”

After [\quote], then you type your stuff in response to what the first person said. Their stuff is in grey, yours is in black.

Did you mean that?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically

Ok, I think I see what you mean?

When you do “reply and quote”

After [\quote], then you type your stuff in response to what the first person said. Their stuff is in grey, yours is in black.

Did you mean that?"

I suspect he means that he's not getting things from the forum that he hopes to.

All forums have cultures and norms, and unfortunately everyone needs to figure them out, more or less. (This isn't the clique thing, it's, on any forum, the way you engage with people matters)

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

OP just be yourself. There are all sorts of posts on here...Daft ones, tongue in cheek ones & also sensible serious ones... mainly daft ones.

Just be yourself

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Or generally, treat it like you would chatting to people in a pub

Don't try to be being something you're not ... be yourself

Says the poop chucking monkey

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically

Ok, I think I see what you mean?

When you do “reply and quote”

After [\quote], then you type your stuff in response to what the first person said. Their stuff is in grey, yours is in black.

Did you mean that?"
I don't know anymore. Think a need t lie down f a bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or generally, treat it like you would chatting to people in a pub

Don't try to be being something you're not ... be yourself

Says the poop chucking monkey "
Being myself is the problem. I don't think what other people think. I'm very random

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Or generally, treat it like you would chatting to people in a pub

Don't try to be being something you're not ... be yourself

Says the poop chucking monkey Being myself is the problem. I don't think what other people think. I'm very random"

Join in with other people

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

As a relative newbie myself I'd say just jump in. If I've something to add I just say it, sometimes there is a conversation sometimes it's ignored.

There are a lot of longstanding friendships on here so it can be difficult sometimes to feel as though you have a place. Try not to take it seriously, join in when you want to, don't worry about making an impact, don't use the forum for validation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically"
dont worry too much whether its the right thing, its a forum you'll never please everyone

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By *lbinoGorillaMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Or generally, treat it like you would chatting to people in a pub

Don't try to be being something you're not ... be yourself

Says the poop chucking monkey Being myself is the problem. I don't think what other people think. I'm very random"

I like random

I've also got a brain like a car crash - bits flying everywhere - and love random leaps of logic

Embrace your inner randomness!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a relative newbie myself I'd say just jump in. If I've something to add I just say it, sometimes there is a conversation sometimes it's ignored.

There are a lot of longstanding friendships on here so it can be difficult sometimes to feel as though you have a place. Try not to take it seriously, join in when you want to, don't worry about making an impact, don't use the forum for validation."
Thank you. I will dive in like an Olympic diver

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"As a relative newbie myself I'd say just jump in. If I've something to add I just say it, sometimes there is a conversation sometimes it's ignored.

There are a lot of longstanding friendships on here so it can be difficult sometimes to feel as though you have a place. Try not to take it seriously, join in when you want to, don't worry about making an impact, don't use the forum for validation. Thank you. I will dive in like an Olympic diver"

Maybe avoid stories about accidentally pissing in someone's mouth?

Just throwing that out there as a suggestion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically"

Being nice is a good start

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically

Being nice is a good start "

Rebel!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m confused (doesn’t take a lot ) but please explain in what way you can’t get the hang of it Leaving posts and replys etc Saying right thing basically

Being nice is a good start "
I said sorry your royalness

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Welcome to the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Welcome to the forums "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe avoid stories about accidentally pissing in someone's mouth?

Just throwing that out there as a suggestion... "

sorry was chuckling to myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Maybe avoid stories about accidentally pissing in someone's mouth?

Just throwing that out there as a suggestion...

sorry was chuckling to myself "
why did same thing happen to you............. you touched his helmet with your teeth didn't you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Just join in. Type instead of talking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk as much mind rubbish as you like, everyone else does.

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