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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? " Is that what you do? | |||
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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? " Sounds more like a nervous fidget!! | |||
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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? " Oh GMF. I didn’t know you cared | |||
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"I'm not really that great at subtle or hints if I fancy someone I just say so. " *crestfallen* | |||
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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? " Damn, I constantly play with my hair. How many people have thought I was flirting when I was probably just thinking about food or something. | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach." Oh good fancy a fuck? | |||
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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? " If it is, I flirt with everyone I speak to | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach." I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. Oh good fancy a fuck? " That's a very generous offer Doc but maybe if I was a bit older | |||
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"Is lip biting and hair twiddling to be considered as flirting? If it is, I flirt with everyone I speak to " Ooh I forgot to mention in my OP about picking up signals wrongly and making assumptions - good point | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit " Why am I imagining you presenting your bosom as you do | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. Oh good fancy a fuck? That's a very generous offer Doc but maybe if I was a bit older " Yeah I was thinking of joking geriatrics’r’us | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit " Got to love innuendo | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit Got to love innuendo " I try to keep the phrase "a bit of hows your father" alive just because | |||
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"Clarity is always best at some point! I think I'm good at reading signals and giving them but you can only do that for so long. I don't like to presume and we are all good at filtering things, one way or another, through our own lenses. There can be many truths. So I like upfront x " I think this media especially makes it more difficult in that respect and asking questions to clarify meaning and explaining meaning are important. | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit Why am I imagining you presenting your bosom as you do " Ah but no one did it like our Babs | |||
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"I'm terrible at spotting signals when directed at me, if someone is being subtle in their flirting, I will have absolutely no idea. I found out the other week that my girlfriend had been trying to get my attention for ages on the forums. I was completely oblivious. " Bloody nora. It was hitting you in the face. I'm not mystic meg or am I. | |||
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"I'm terrible at spotting signals when directed at me, if someone is being subtle in their flirting, I will have absolutely no idea. I found out the other week that my girlfriend had been trying to get my attention for ages on the forums. I was completely oblivious. " Brilliant . Flirting with you is definitely a challenge, I’ve tried it . That said you were probably right to ignore it | |||
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"I’m terrible Doc, I really am, I don’t have a clue " See I never know when you’re serious or just taking the piss that’s why I always ask you | |||
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"You have to tell me out right that's the way I roll....." Sometimes saying it directly is quite scary though and it often comes out all the wrong way too | |||
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"I’m terrible Doc, I really am, I don’t have a clue See I never know when you’re serious or just taking the piss that’s why I always ask you " In this instance, I’m serious | |||
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"I have no clue. I need to be told directly or I just think someone is being friendly. I’m far too shy to approach anyone myself." I wish I was a bit more shy at times and other times I wish I had a bit more devil may care... | |||
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"I’m terrible Doc, I really am, I don’t have a clue See I never know when you’re serious or just taking the piss that’s why I always ask you In this instance, I’m serious " Yay I guessed that one right | |||
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"When they start stroking my bum I think I might be in with a chance but outside of that I haven't got a clue. Terrible at recognising the signals. " Bbbbbbuttt what about consent. May I stroke your bum please? | |||
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"I'd rather they spat it out. Although it obvious at times" but what if I like to swallow? | |||
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"I’m terrible Doc, I really am, I don’t have a clue See I never know when you’re serious or just taking the piss that’s why I always ask you In this instance, I’m serious Yay I guessed that one right " Well done and great video | |||
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"When they start stroking my bum I think I might be in with a chance but outside of that I haven't got a clue. Terrible at recognising the signals. Bbbbbbuttt what about consent. May I stroke your bum please?" I rarely discourage it | |||
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"Sometimes I get it - it's hard not to. Most of the time I just think they are being friendly flirty (you know, no real intent) and go with that. It's a pleasant surprise when you find out it's a bit more than that. I like directness but not overt directness if that makes sense? More gentle flirting that builds in anticipation and tension and you wonder if and when they'll kiss you. I like that moment when it clicks and you realise that yes, they lust after you as much as you do them." Puckering up myself reading this That's just how I like it. | |||
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"Some will understand the subtle supposedly innocuous conversation, but as the crumbs are laid, it just flows naturally and you both understand the underlying message. Some you do have to slap around the face, take the plunge face to face and just kiss them. Then they might get it, some you still have to spell it out " Actually I like both approaches if I’m honest. However. You need to be on the same wavelength for the subtle innocuous conversation with an undercurrent to work. I must say though I’ve never been slapped around the face and kissed. I did get close at a social though, we hadn’t even got through the coffee shop doors before something a bit like that happened and Lisa’s approach too | |||
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"Some will understand the subtle supposedly innocuous conversation, but as the crumbs are laid, it just flows naturally and you both understand the underlying message. Some you do have to slap around the face, take the plunge face to face and just kiss them. Then they might get it, some you still have to spell it out " Nothing says it like... nothing lol | |||
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"When they start stroking my bum I think I might be in with a chance but outside of that I haven't got a clue. Terrible at recognising the signals. Bbbbbbuttt what about consent. May I stroke your bum please? I rarely discourage it " Good to know | |||
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"Some will understand the subtle supposedly innocuous conversation, but as the crumbs are laid, it just flows naturally and you both understand the underlying message. Some you do have to slap around the face, take the plunge face to face and just kiss them. Then they might get it, some you still have to spell it out Nothing says it like... nothing lol " Sings “You say it best when you say nothing at all” yep ok I’ll get my coat | |||
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"I'm often dreadful with hints. And will tend to assume the worst. I definitely need metaphorically slapping sometimes. Particularly about sexual things." A bit of slap then tickle then | |||
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"Sometimes I get it - it's hard not to. Most of the time I just think they are being friendly flirty (you know, no real intent) and go with that. It's a pleasant surprise when you find out it's a bit more than that. I like directness but not overt directness if that makes sense? More gentle flirting that builds in anticipation and tension and you wonder if and when they'll kiss you. I like that moment when it clicks and you realise that yes, they lust after you as much as you do them." Yep it’s hard to get that balance right with people. | |||
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"I’m terrible Doc, I really am, I don’t have a clue See I never know when you’re serious or just taking the piss that’s why I always ask you In this instance, I’m serious Yay I guessed that one right Well done and great video " Shhhh I thought that had been forgotten about | |||
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"Most of the time I'm oblivious even if someone introduces themselves as Ms/Mr Flirt from Flirtsville and uses a lot... ...but every now and then trails are laid and mischief abounds and it's both unmistakable and magical and just flows naturally...and that is when it's at its best " Nah we’ve never been subtle with each other. Not since the re-enactment of the Ollie Reed and Alan Bates naked wrestling scene was mentioned | |||
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"I run around with "Fuck me" on my forehead, just makes it easy x " Is that tattoed or in biro | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? " But what if it’s lemon drizzle? | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? But what if it’s lemon drizzle?" I’d ask what the drizzle is | |||
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"Some will understand the subtle supposedly innocuous conversation, but as the crumbs are laid, it just flows naturally and you both understand the underlying message. Some you do have to slap around the face, take the plunge face to face and just kiss them. Then they might get it, some you still have to spell it out Actually I like both approaches if I’m honest. However. You need to be on the same wavelength for the subtle innocuous conversation with an undercurrent to work. I must say though I’ve never been slapped around the face and kissed. I did get close at a social though, we hadn’t even got through the coffee shop doors before something a bit like that happened and Lisa’s approach too " True re the wavelength and it’s something special when it happens. Haha you need a tango slap and kiss | |||
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"I run around with "Fuck me" on my forehead, just makes it easy x " Yeah good idea. Carry a post it with it on just in case | |||
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"I run around with "Fuck me" on my forehead, just makes it easy x Is that tattoed or in biro " Post it note x | |||
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"If know one notice me on here. Who notice me in the real world,.." come out come out wherever you are | |||
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"I run around with "Fuck me" on my forehead, just makes it easy x Is that tattoed or in biro Post it note x " great minds | |||
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"Completely useless at picking up any flirty signals from others. Maybe that's why I'm resigned to living in the cave..... I've been there that long I cant remember if I could ever flirt. Now I just talk and listen and wait to be hit over the head with a stick before I realise anyone is actually interested or flirting with me. Life would be much simpler if some didnt just talk in riddles or were more open about what they may seek.... " I thought it would be a club given that you live in a cave. You could always use your club to get a few back there too | |||
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"Some will understand the subtle supposedly innocuous conversation, but as the crumbs are laid, it just flows naturally and you both understand the underlying message. Some you do have to slap around the face, take the plunge face to face and just kiss them. Then they might get it, some you still have to spell it out Actually I like both approaches if I’m honest. However. You need to be on the same wavelength for the subtle innocuous conversation with an undercurrent to work. I must say though I’ve never been slapped around the face and kissed. I did get close at a social though, we hadn’t even got through the coffee shop doors before something a bit like that happened and Lisa’s approach too True re the wavelength and it’s something special when it happens. Haha you need a tango slap and kiss " Yay you’ve been tangoed. Always wanted to learn to tango......horizontally | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? But what if it’s lemon drizzle? I’d ask what the drizzle is " always good to clarify, you don’t want to assume that one | |||
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"I'm not good at picking up on subtlety, I like direct communication. Say what you mean and mean what you say kinda thing. " Sometimes it’s good to censor it though | |||
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"I’m crap I need it spelt out" I think there are times with the amount of flirty stuff, empty compliments and sycophancy it is hard to spot something genuine | |||
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"I tend to notice it but then convince myself they don't mean it " Hi. Nice shoes. Would you a biscuit. God I sound like a dirty old man. Oh wait | |||
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"Completely useless at picking up any flirty signals from others. Maybe that's why I'm resigned to living in the cave..... I've been there that long I cant remember if I could ever flirt. Now I just talk and listen and wait to be hit over the head with a stick before I realise anyone is actually interested or flirting with me. Life would be much simpler if some didnt just talk in riddles or were more open about what they may seek.... I thought it would be a club given that you live in a cave. You could always use your club to get a few back there too " Lost my club somewhere. Still it means the baby seals are safe It's the boomerang people, those who come and go time after time, each time taking a little more and giving a little less that are the scary ones.... Maybe it's just consistency and knowing I'm not just a toy to be picked up and put down that allows me to flirt be open and..... | |||
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"I’m useless" Im sure your worth and usefulness comes out in many ways but It really does help if someone lets you know they really do like you. | |||
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"I'm terrible at spotting signals when directed at me, if someone is being subtle in their flirting, I will have absolutely no idea. I found out the other week that my girlfriend had been trying to get my attention for ages on the forums. I was completely oblivious. Brilliant . Flirting with you is definitely a challenge, I’ve tried it . That said you were probably right to ignore it " See? Not a bloody clue Doc! | |||
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"I tend to notice it but then convince myself they don't mean it " . Ah no...that’s really tough on yourself when you do that. I hope that doesn’t mean you both miss out because of it. | |||
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"I'm terrible at spotting signals when directed at me, if someone is being subtle in their flirting, I will have absolutely no idea. I found out the other week that my girlfriend had been trying to get my attention for ages on the forums. I was completely oblivious. Brilliant . Flirting with you is definitely a challenge, I’ve tried it . That said you were probably right to ignore it See? Not a bloody clue Doc! " it was even on one of your threads - sigh | |||
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"I'm terrible at spotting signals when directed at me, if someone is being subtle in their flirting, I will have absolutely no idea. I found out the other week that my girlfriend had been trying to get my attention for ages on the forums. I was completely oblivious. Bloody nora. It was hitting you in the face. I'm not mystic meg or am I. " Apparently so! *gallic shrug* | |||
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"I'm usually pretty good at picking up on subtle, but I'm absolutely useless at doing subtle... people tend to know if I like them or not" yep, I’m not subtle at least I don’t think so. | |||
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"I take it all as banter and then when I realise it's actually meant (which could take some time) I freeze or make a joke coz I don't quite know how to react P" Yep TT you never realised | |||
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"I take it all as banter and then when I realise it's actually meant (which could take some time) I freeze or make a joke coz I don't quite know how to react P Yep TT you never realised " See, even now I think you're messing P | |||
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"I'm not the most perceptive at picking up on flirting ques especially over text , in person it's different if they have been on the toilet in the restaurant for three hours I tend to assume they aren't interested " it could have been the oysters they ordered, those fuckers work quick | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? " Oh man, really? I am so not good at this game. I need to study and study hard!! | |||
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"I take it all as banter and then when I realise it's actually meant (which could take some time) I freeze or make a joke coz I don't quite know how to react P Yep TT you never realised See, even now I think you're messing P" | |||
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"I doubt I'd see a hint even if it was in front of me lit up with neon lights. So to me just make it obvious. Call a bucket a bucket. " A bucket and a spade for Seeside it is | |||
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"I get all my info from the eyes they dont lie " The eyes, nearly everyone is headless on here | |||
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"I like the flirting thingyo " Come on then big boy, pucker up | |||
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"I'm so terrible at picking up signals " Have you tried EE? | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? Oh man, really? I am so not good at this game. I need to study and study hard!! " Here, come use my kitchen table to study on | |||
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"I doubt I'd see a hint even if it was in front of me lit up with neon lights. So to me just make it obvious. Call a bucket a bucket. A bucket and a spade for Seeside it is " I'll make a sandcastle on the beach. | |||
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"I doubt I'd see a hint even if it was in front of me lit up with neon lights. So to me just make it obvious. Call a bucket a bucket. A bucket and a spade for Seeside it is I'll make a sandcastle on the beach. " Perhaps someone would like their body sculpting in the sand | |||
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"Defo eyes for me and if you ignore the eyes then your missing the signals.surely I'm not alone on that" I agree, the eyes are the windows to the soul, but reading them is another matter. Then again...sings *You can’t hide your lyin’ eyes And your smile is a thin disguise....’ Or ‘What do you want to make those eyes at me for If they don’t mean what they say?’ | |||
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"Did someone mention cake??? " Yeah but what does it mean? | |||
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"Much prefer people to just be direct and say what they want or don’t want. Also sometimes saying nothing also tells you want you need to know, especially when it comes to knowing if someone is interested or not. " Yep silence can be deafening | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. I just giggle like Barbara Windsor and ask if they fancy a bit " Ooh, saucy! | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. " P is going to provide lessons | |||
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"Did someone mention cake??? Yeah but what does it mean? " Dunno!! Does it come with custard?? | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. P is going to provide lessons " Is she? Oh god P | |||
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"I doubt I'd see a hint even if it was in front of me lit up with neon lights. So to me just make it obvious. Call a bucket a bucket. A bucket and a spade for Seeside it is I'll make a sandcastle on the beach. Perhaps someone would like their body sculpting in the sand " Not dun sand sculpting before but Id be willing to give it a go for a lovely lady. | |||
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"I usually pick up some signs but then doubt whether I'm just being optimistic. Unless she throws herself naked at me these days I probably wouldn't respond.." What’s the worse that could happen if you did check out the signals? | |||
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"Did someone mention cake??? Yeah but what does it mean? Dunno!! Does it come with custard?? " Wouldn’t be cake then it would be pudding | |||
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"Forum flirting is a tricky one to fathom really. I always just think it means people are happy and being playful. " I think that’s when it becomes helpful to be slightly more direct if interested. | |||
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"Forum flirting is a tricky one to fathom really. I always just think it means people are happy and being playful. " Anything a man says and does is flirting in the hope of getting lucky ... anything a woman does is being playful... | |||
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"I doubt I'd see a hint even if it was in front of me lit up with neon lights. So to me just make it obvious. Call a bucket a bucket. A bucket and a spade for Seeside it is I'll make a sandcastle on the beach. Perhaps someone would like their body sculpting in the sand Not dun sand sculpting before but Id be willing to give it a go for a lovely lady. " There was a lovely section on one of the recent episodes of Naked Beach using body sculpting in sand to help with body confidence | |||
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" Terrible, when I was leaving a job years ago, a woman I had fancied for ages came to my office to say goodbye, i didn't expect it but as she came in she closed the door behind her amd gave me one of the longest hugs I've ever had. It wasn't until 2 yearsater I was speaking with an old colleague and he told me she had come to my office to sleep with if I had wanted to. I was completely oblivious and happy to be getting the hug " I don’t think I’d have picked up on a long hug as a sign either, just a show of affection | |||
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"If I do I usually then think I've misread things! I don't like to push it as I think women must get fed up with being flirted with. I'm probably missing out! " I think you find out pretty quickly if they don’t appreciate the flirtation. I think given what is being said many of us could do with a little more self belief to reduce missing out. | |||
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"If they offer me cake, that means they want bending over the kitchen table, right? Oh man, really? I am so not good at this game. I need to study and study hard!! Here, come use my kitchen table to study on " Knocking on your door there, and not the back one, just to be clear. | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. P is going to provide lessons Is she? Oh god P" Special edition of Auntie P’s advice line? | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. P is going to provide lessons Is she? Oh god P Special edition of Auntie P’s advice line? " People would remain celibate for all eternity P | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. P is going to provide lessons Is she? Oh god P Special edition of Auntie P’s advice line? People would remain celibate for all eternity P" Omg | |||
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"Completely useless " Hopefully we’ll get an advice line | |||
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"I'm bloody rubbish. P is going to provide lessons Is she? Oh god P Special edition of Auntie P’s advice line? People would remain celibate for all eternity P" That’s what went wrong for me. Now you tell me | |||
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"I'm terrible at giving signals, much prefer when I'm d*unk and I'm much more upfront about what I want. Reading signals I'm absolutely shit with, if I think I'm being given a signal I tend to ask them if that's what they meant by it just for clarity. " Clarification is rarely a mistake | |||
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"I'm really bad at it and I'm also really bad at putting out the signals that show I'm interested in someone(s)" See Chloe’s post-its | |||
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"Hopeless, I just don’t get subtle signs. I need it spelling out. I’ve been completely taken aback when someone has said they liked me x " Yes I’ve experienced a few people being taken a back, and I thought I was being pretty obvious | |||
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"People watching and picking up cues is one of my strengths " Right you can run the training then | |||
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"Completely fucking clueless!" We definitely need better signaling systems then. | |||
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"I'm not to bad picking up on signals the only problem is that its usually about 2 days to late when the penny drops I'm quite a friendly chatty person so normally just see it as nothing else " Does anyone know of a signal speed reading course? | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach." FAF? | |||
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"Much prefer people to just be direct and say what they want or don’t want. Also sometimes saying nothing also tells you want you need to know, especially when it comes to knowing if someone is interested or not. " I thought I was being clear | |||
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"I'm crap at flirting which is probably why I've missed out. As far as reading signals, I'm so so. I need flirting lessons. " I think there’s a market for it if we can find a tutor | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. FAF?" That’s the spirit | |||
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"It's really not difficult if you're good at tuning into others. I'm good at reading people. It's a fantastic skill to have when you manage a team of people. " I’m still using a wireless radiogram - maybe I need to get with it | |||
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"I'm rubbish so I much prefer the direct approach. FAF? That’s the spirit " Nah, I feel like the whole forum knows I'm into her at this point. I don't know what being subtle means | |||
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"Can we all agree just to tell people stuff and not hint? " Depends on the person | |||
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"Can we all agree just to tell people stuff and not hint? Depends on the person " | |||
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"I’m a flirting slut apparently... but takes almost a Neon sign flashing in front of me to realise that it’s being responded to positively. I do love it when a women just leans in and whispers “just fucking kiss me” - that’s the signal I respond to best " Oh yeah that’s hot | |||
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