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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why? "

Maybe they read your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Meaning that's your guess or you have read it yourself and see issues?

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth


"You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why?

Maybe they read your profile? "

Ouch.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why? "

The mysteries of Fab messaging - maybe they didn't like your next message, maybe your reply to their reply got lost, maybe it was a bloke winding you up, maybe a million and one things.

Have found it's better to focus on those you do build a rapport and connection with rather than concern yourself with wondering about those that you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect there's a welly good reason

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I suspect there's a welly good reason "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect there's a welly good reason

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... Maybe they got a message from a better looking guy and wanted to see that pursuit through first.

I've had ladies stop messaging right after we agreed to meet. It happens, just move on.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Nope. I don't get 'you're hot' messages. I can't imagine why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meaning that's your guess or you have read it yourself and see issues? "

You mean you dont see issues?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay


"I suspect there's a welly good reason "

I suspect the same!!

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By *iss Penny TrationWoman
over a year ago

NW


"I suspect there's a welly good reason "

Didn’t get it ... then read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope. I don't get 'you're hot' messages. I can't imagine why. "

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile looks arrogant. Wouldnt reply either. Change it, theres being straight to the point then theres coming across wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile looks arrogant. Wouldnt reply either. Change it, theres being straight to the point then theres coming across wrong."

thanks for the feedback

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By *essica jamiesonWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Dont take it personal, no one owes me anyone anything regarding messaging bk & forth, plenty other females

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By *reemyspiritawakenmysoulWoman
over a year ago

coventry


"You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why?

The mysteries of Fab messaging - maybe they didn't like your next message, maybe your reply to their reply got lost, maybe it was a bloke winding you up, maybe a million and one things.

Have found it's better to focus on those you do build a rapport and connection with rather than concern yourself with wondering about those that you don't "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suspect there's a welly good reason

I suspect the same!! "

I concur.

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By *reemyspiritawakenmysoulWoman
over a year ago

coventry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile looks arrogant. Wouldnt reply either. Change it, theres being straight to the point then theres coming across wrong."

Op didn't ask for profile critique...

Careful you don't get a trip to the naughty step

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You send a thoughtful, considered message with face pic attached...you receive a reply saying something positive like 'well hello there...' or 'you're hot' etc and then nothing....no further contact. Just me getting this? Anyone one know why? "

You sent what you thought was thoughtful, the recipient obviously doesn’t like you or you would be further in communication now. No message means not interested.....

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Would you share a message that you send out? We get messages from guys who presumably think what they write is at least passable but in reality it's awful.

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