FabSwingers.com forum: Turning the blue to oooh!

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I read on the forums yesterday that today is (allegedly) the most depressing day of the year; too far from Christmas, dark, gloomy and not 'nearly payday' yet...

In the interests of turning those frowns upside down, share what you're happy about, what you're thankful for and the small victories.

Post as many as you like but aim for a few

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a roof over my head

A warm bed

A decent job

Children who love me

Food in my belly

Fresh water readily available

Few friends but good ones

Always look for positives before negatives x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today's payday for me Tea, so I'm happy

Fuzz

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Freebie pens and data sticks from supplier this morning.

Doesn't take much to make me happy...

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Today's payday for me Tea, so I'm happy

Fuzz"

That's a good reason to be happy!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Freebie pens and data sticks from supplier this morning.

Doesn't take much to make me happy..."

Freebies!!!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I have a roof over my head

A warm bed

A decent job

Children who love me

Food in my belly

Fresh water readily available

Few friends but good ones

Always look for positives before negatives x"

Perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Payday here too...

And the sun is shining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sun is shining! The best reason to be joyful.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've removed all my filters so happy to chat to those that feel happy to contact me.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"Payday here too...

And the sun is shining

Yay!!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The sun is shining! The best reason to be joyful. "

All that vitamin D!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I've removed all my filters so happy to chat to those that feel happy to contact me.

It that a reason to be thankful?

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

It's a beautiful sunny day, I'm on the mend and I have two hours to nap before the kids get home

Mrs TMN x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've removed all my filters so happy to chat to those that feel happy to contact me.

It that a reason to be thankful?

Maybe someone just wants to talk.

Who knows.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

The simple things in life are what makes me happy. Roof over the lad’s head, food in his belly, he’s happy and healthy; the folks healthy as they can be at their time of life; and knowing friends are happy and smiling

Nothing else matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The sun is shining! The best reason to be joyful.

All that vitamin D! "

I can feel my bones strengthening as we speak

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Sat at my desk eating homemade soup, number crunching data from an experiment that worked yay

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The sun is shining!

I don't necessarily have all that I want, but I do have all that I need.

& I have a cheeky Monday meet after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wake up each day, that's enough to put a smile on my face, everything else is a bonus.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We're having a lovely holiday in Florida! We're currently in Key West.

I have no idea why that might cheer anybody else up but I thought I'd throw it in there anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well today I am the most poorly I have been so far this year. So for me it’s pretty shite. But as others have said I’m not living a hard life! And it’s rather sunny so a walk in the fresh air with some sun is always a reason to smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is usually the smaller things to make me happy, but as from last weekend I now have the divorced and independant woman stamp... I can put the last year to bed and now look forward to the future... Il drink to that.....

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"It's a beautiful sunny day, I'm on the mend and I have two hours to nap before the kids get home

Mrs TMN x"

Wonderful!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I've removed all my filters so happy to chat to those that feel happy to contact me.

It that a reason to be thankful?

Maybe someone just wants to talk.

Who knows.

Not what this thread was about but if sharking makes you happy and thankful then fill your boots.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I just bought a pack of three strawberry trifles for 50p.

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"The simple things in life are what makes me happy. Roof over the lad’s head, food in his belly, he’s happy and healthy; the folks healthy as they can be at their time of life; and knowing friends are happy and smiling

Nothing else matters "

The simple basics are a very good reason to be thankful!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sun is out , beautiful day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read on the forums yesterday that today is (allegedly) the most depressing day of the year; too far from Christmas, dark, gloomy and not 'nearly payday' yet...

In the interests of turning those frowns upside down, share what you're happy about, what you're thankful for and the small victories.

Post as many as you like but aim for a few

Because I turned on who's near briefly and got a pleasant surprise!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I've removed all my filters so happy to chat to those that feel happy to contact me.

It that a reason to be thankful?

Maybe someone just wants to talk.

Who knows.

Not what this thread was about but if sharking makes you happy and thankful then fill your boots. "

Crikey. If trying to be helpful to those who may want someone to talk to is wrong then I beg your pardon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve actually got a rare day off work

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I am happy I am me and thankful for it. I'm absolutely tickled I got accepted to a club night that I was a bit worried I wouldn't be and am already a tad excited about that. I'm thankful for my family, my beautiful home, the love, friendships and support I have in my life. It's really good being me right now.

To anyone struggling a bit right now - I hope it passes and you feel happy soon. x

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

In the wise words of Paolo Nutini

I got a shelf full of books and most of my teeth

A few pairs of socks and a door with a lock

I got food in my belly and a license for my telly

And nothing's gonna bring me down

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

My health, my friends and my children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have THE most amazing friends who inspire and warm me.

I keep a roof over my head through hard work and sacrifice at times.

I have a son who's a cracking young man, who's working hard and has a beautiful soul.

I'm having a pamper day. I've never actually properly done this myself before. In a hotel, face masks, baths, foot things, smelly candle, soothing music on the speaker.

I have a man that loves me, whose promised me a night of "usness". The rest of the world can disappear tonight, just for tonight.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I have THE most amazing friends who inspire and warm me.

I keep a roof over my head through hard work and sacrifice at times.

I have a son who's a cracking young man, who's working hard and has a beautiful soul.

I'm having a pamper day. I've never actually properly done this myself before. In a hotel, face masks, baths, foot things, smelly candle, soothing music on the speaker.

I have a man that loves me, whose promised me a night of "usness". The rest of the world can disappear tonight, just for tonight.

P"
And you deserve it too P xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a roof over my head

A warm bed

A decent job

Children who love me

Food in my belly

Fresh water readily available

Few friends but good ones

Always look for positives before negatives x"

Doing a little positive personal reflection like the above on any low day is always worth it.

Can often help tremendously.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I'm having a pamper day. I've never actually properly done this myself before. In a hotel, face masks, baths, foot things, smelly candle, soothing music on the speaker.

I have a man that loves me, whose promised me a night of "usness". The rest of the world can disappear tonight, just for tonight.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Friends old and new. My health, or failing that my dogged determinedness. The fact that my family are normally thousands of miles from me. Good coffee.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I got food in my belly and a license for my telly

And nothing's gonna bring me down

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Absolutely no doom & gloom here

I have a nice house, a roof over my families head.

Jobs I love doing

Amazing friends, people who value & love me.

The only wee grumble is the bloody flu I've had which has floored me since New Years day.

Spent first week of the year unable to even make it to the bathroom unaided!

Felt better end of last week, went out to the Heathrow Social Sat.

I've been glued to the settee since I got home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy about the fact that one day my ex will be in a coffin

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

"I'm happy about the fact that one day my ex will be in a coffin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely no doom & gloom here

I have a nice house, a roof over my families head.

Jobs I love doing

Amazing friends, people who value & love me.

The only wee grumble is the bloody flu I've had which has floored me since New Years day.

Spent first week of the year unable to even make it to the bathroom unaided!

Felt better end of last week, went out to the Heathrow Social Sat.

I've been glued to the settee since I got home

Hair strokes and snuggles coming your way, Bird

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life

My son

Out walking on a crisp day in the sunshine with my dog

Sometimes the simple things are the best

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Got to the position in life where I don’t live payday to payday. (A precarious position but one I’m lucky to be in)

Studying is going well.

Sun is shining.

Considering I found out some shitty information at the weekend that kicked my in the slats I’m doing ok.

Roll on Spring

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Funnily enough today is the most positive day I've had this month, it's onwards and upwards from here!

I'm grateful for-

Having another week's holiday.

Having a big order to do that will bring in some much needed funds in February.

Having a warm, comfortable house to live and work in.

Being back on track with my IF life.

And hopefully getting a sexy wee trip to Glasgow before the end of the month

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I read on the forums yesterday that today is (allegedly) the most depressing day of the year; too far from Christmas, dark, gloomy and not 'nearly payday' yet...

In the interests of turning those frowns upside down, share what you're happy about, what you're thankful for and the small victories.

Post as many as you like but aim for a few

What about you OP?

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I read on the forums yesterday that today is (allegedly) the most depressing day of the year; too far from Christmas, dark, gloomy and not 'nearly payday' yet...

In the interests of turning those frowns upside down, share what you're happy about, what you're thankful for and the small victories.

Post as many as you like but aim for a few

What about you OP?

You really want me to post it on here?

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

The sun is shinning - that’s all I need today

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Friends, fun, future plans

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Making the best out of shitty situations

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I'm happy about the fact that one day my ex will be in a coffin

Ouch!

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

I'm happy with all I have my son my job my house

And I'm thankful that I am here and the big c has left my body what more could I ask for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had 2 Costa lattes today that always makes me happy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm happy with all I have my son my job my house

And I'm thankful that I am here and the big c has left my body what more could I ask for

Congratulations!

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

my company pay us weekly, makes me happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry, I forgot to be miserable. I had a nice day..

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm happy with all I have my son my job my house

And I'm thankful that I am here and the big c has left my body what more could I ask for

Great news

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the simplicity!,it’s really what most take for granted that mean the most in the big scheme of things so bravo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going away to a festival at the end of the month and very much liking that I'm looking forward to seeing people rather than dreading the social interaction. Similarly I've joined a running club and am enjoying running with other people. Ive even started speaking to people in the gym. Early days yet but 2020 might be the year os start to be social again

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By *apiomanMan
over a year ago

Shipley

Someone looked at my profile and it wasn’t a single man!!!

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds. "

Ahhh cute!!

I wore a rainbow coloured jumper today. I’m happy about that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone looked at my profile and it wasn’t a single man!!! "

It was s TV/CD, wasn't it?

Fuzz

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"I'm happy with all I have my son my job my house

And I'm thankful that I am here and the big c has left my body what more could I ask for

Great news

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

Ahhh cute!!

I wore a rainbow coloured jumper today. I’m happy about that! "

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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago

from the womb and tryout to get back

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

Ahhh cute!!

I wore a rainbow coloured jumper today. I’m happy about that! "
aw and you just made me even happier seeing your face in here the lady with a

of gold

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

Ahhh cute!!

I wore a rainbow coloured jumper today. I’m happy about that! aw and you just made me even happier seeing your face in here the lady with a

of gold

Ha ha you missed me?!?

so happy to read your news!!! It’s going to be a great year! X

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By *akemepurrWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I’m grateful for my hot cuppa and the stroopwaffle I’ve just eaten (although disappointed it was too small to balance on the top til the caramel melted so I just dunked instead). It’s also been quite a good day in general

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds. "

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By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

Ah! There she is!

Not my daughter I hasten to add!!

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By *milesforeverWoman
over a year ago

holmes chapel

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"To answer my own question; right now I feel that I have a lot to be happy about.

I have a good job where I'm respected which gives me a good life balance.

A home for me and my children.

My daughter slowly coming back into my life.

A new love with all of the future that holds.

Ah! There she is!

Not my daughter I hasten to add!! "

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