FabSwingers.com forum: Age

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do you go for the age range you do?

For me. Anyone young enough for me to be their mother is out, so is the age range of anyone that would be most suited to my eldest child.

And anyone old enough to be my parent.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Someone I can talk to about stuff we have in common

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Someone I can talk to about stuff we have in common "
and not think I’m an old git.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Someone I can talk to about stuff we have in common and not think I’m an old git. "
or a young whipper-snapper fellow-me-lad.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I've very recently changed my approach to this and am loving my new discovery...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my age and older. Its very rare I'm attracted to anyone younger. No real reason just attraction

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Similar, to you OP, although set higher than I can be their mum, but it is has been bent depending on the individual. High limit was just a random number, but I have broken it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone in a similar life stage to me, too young or too old just don’t seem to be able to have enough in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone i have a connection with.. I tend to go older

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had to check what I'd put but 10 yrs younger and a year older.... not too old as I'm cracking on myself but i look and act younger and hopefully we should have things other than sex in common

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I have quite a large age range. I've found over the years that I'm attracted to different people for different reasons and don't like ruling people out. It's more a guideline for me anyway rather than set in stone.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Old enough that we think we will be able to have something in common and hold a conversation. Young enough to not feel we are meeting couples who are our parents age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a first stage in whittling down the thousands of applicant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think age is a factor in attraction tbh personally it’s the mental and sexual attraction that I go for over age

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

It's not too far either side of my own age - I prefer someone that has similar life experience and outlook to myself. I have bent it slightly on very rare occasions

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I keep my age range relatively broad to count for the outliers and I've certainly met a few. I'm rarely interested in anyone younger than me but I have mine set to two years younger as there are always exceptions. I'm also not comfortable if I genuinely felt like someone could be my parent or even could potentially date one of my parents in the future (that would be too weird!). My upper limit is currently set to 45 so someone in the top end of that could technically be my parent if they were a teenage parent but as long as it doesn't obviously feel as though they could be it's fine so it depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm out of most people's age range

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a big thing for lady’s in their 40s 50s x Love older women but unfortunately nearly always out of their age preference

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Someone I can talk to about stuff we have in common "

Generally this. But it’s more so filtering the younger ones out than the older ones

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By *oggyfanMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

I like older so we’ve something in common

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a 19 year old son, so anyone under 30 kinda feels too young for me.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

"I'm out of most people's age range

If you are then I definitely am.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I'm out of most people's age range

If you are then I definitely am."

I’m sure yours says 26

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

I don't really care about the age. I've found girls in their 20s very mature and interesting but equally older women, mid 50s I'm finding extremely attractive. It's really about the individual for me

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

My age range isn't set in stone, it's more of a rough guide. Generally people around my age I find easier to strike up a rapport with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm out of most people's age range

If you are then I definitely am."
lol we are like a fine wine , mature and delish

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My age range was set at 45-55, I have met older but very rarely met younger, I feel more comfortable with someone around my age so we can talk about Choppers and buying fags for 50p with a note from ya mam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A question for those of you older than myself. Why do men 10+ years older than me have their range include women my age, whereas most women of similar age don’t include men my age?

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"I'm out of most people's age range

If you are then I definitely am."

Your the same age as my ex. I bet you can show him a thing or more.

I don't have a age range. If I get on with them. I'll have social.

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By *appyAsLarry2014Man
over a year ago

Matlock

At my age not a lot of options haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be my age or older really. I need to feel mentored, and older is wiser obvs

I may change my mind one day, all that energy in the yoof I could harness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer older rather than younger as a Dom, think it would be weird to have a Dom younger than me (could be wrong haven't been in that situation)

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

We agree with OP,

Anyone old enough to have parented one of us is a no go. Unless exceptionally youthful in looks of course.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

Is age as a number always equal maturity or immaturity ...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All about the connection at the end of the day

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"I don't really care about the age. I've found girls in their 20s very mature and interesting but equally older women, mid 50s I'm finding extremely attractive. It's really about the individual for me "

Hard to describe "attractive" in words and ranges sometimes .

The undefined spark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm way out of nearly every woman's age criteria.

Makes me feel sad sometimes, that my life is slowly shutting down on here, but still have some nice banter with some really nice people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone younger than my eldest nephew is a usually no go for me...tho there have been one or two exceptions (there's only 6 years between us). And it's super rare I'm attracted to anyone much older than 50.

Our age limits are more loose guidelines tho tbh. If we fancy someone it's usually got feck all to to with their date of birth

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I have my age limits set a lot wider than I would normally consider, just in case there's a hidden gem that I would otherwise miss. I generally prefer older though.

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By *ilsaGeorgeCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Why do you go for the age range you do?

For me. Anyone young enough for me to be their mother is out, so is the age range of anyone that would be most suited to my eldest child.

And anyone old enough to be my parent.

We don’t have age restrictions on our profile (we don’t have any restrictions). People define themselves by their conduct, and that’s all that matters for us. One of the most respectful men we ever talked to was half our age. One of the most immature women we ever spoke to was a little older than us. It just depends on the individual.

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Anyone old enough to be my parents.

(and no, we're not missing out

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'd meet people outside mine (and have) but it's set to minimise messages.

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I'd meet people outside mine (and have) but it's set to minimise messages. "

Generally it's about +/- 10 to 15 years for play, but I love the social side and talking with people so will meet most people in a 100% social only context.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is 18-99 but I'd probably meet older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has to be my age or older really. I need to feel mentored, and older is wiser obvs

I may change my mind one day, all that energy in the yoof I could harness. "

Power is nothing without control...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Prefer older rather than younger as a Dom, think it would be weird to have a Dom younger than me (could be wrong haven't been in that situation) "

With you on this!

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By *r Cheeky97Man
over a year ago

Devon

I'm happy with most ages but I tend to go older as some younger women are not as fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I much prefer older guys, always have done. Struggle a bit with same age or younger but depends on connection and maturity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is 18-99 but I'd probably meet older."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine is 18-99 but I'd probably meet older.

Pulse optional??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd meet people outside mine (and have) but it's set to minimise messages.

Generally it's about +/- 10 to 15 years for play, but I love the social side and talking with people so will meet most people in a 100% social only context."

That's made me think about my age range, socials are different and I hadn't thought about that side so much. Mine are set to keep messages down though

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I have quite a large age range. I've found over the years that I'm attracted to different people for different reasons and don't like ruling people out. It's more a guideline for me anyway rather than set in stone."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to keep my age range to a range I assume I'll find attractive. I've had to review upwards a couple of times because I've found those 50 something women to be both hot and insatiable.

I've excluded younger women because I've been fucked about by them a lot on here in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought my small age range would mean I’d have less messages, more in common to chat about, similar life experiences...but I keep finding out the people contacting me are younger or older but lying about their age

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Not really long as we’ve got things in common And we have a good laugh it should not be a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought my small age range would mean I’d have less messages, more in common to chat about, similar life experiences...but I keep finding out the people contacting me are younger or older but lying about their age

A lot of us randy guys in that age range with an appreciation of beautiful women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ages only a number it’s all about the persons sexual persona and how down to earth they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ages only a number it’s all about the persons sexual persona and how down to earth they are "

And jail is just a room

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Hard to describe "attractive" in words and ranges sometimes .

The undefined spark "

Very much so, sometimes that spark comes from unexpected places. I could be chatted as friend and over time start to realise I'm really attracted to her or conversely hit on someone I think is wow and come to that meh point lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I lowered my age range 6months after joining as became aware that the majority of males lie about their age and are older than they state.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Quite open with age range if it's just for fun as you can still have sexual chemistry/fantasies and interests, though for something more serious then +/- 10 yrs

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