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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Oh no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."
awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I'm not sure how you being "too nice" would have caused that. I wouldn't worry, on to the next one

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Probably felt guilty when he saw his wife.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Probably felt guilty when he saw his wife. "

I was literally just about to say exactly the same thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he didn’t enjoy it as much as you did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a fair bit for guys. If people are just after one offs with no follow up, they should say.

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."

Yup. I’ve had this. Actually went on to do a veri and noticed I was blocked, unblocked month or so later and he’s asking for round 2 hmmm let me think about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

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By *arklordMan
over a year ago

rugeley


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

"

this

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

His loss would allways stay a nice person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard not to interpret as him just wanting a functional fuck. Sorry op. Counter block and move on.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Probably felt guilty when he saw his wife. "

This was exactly my thought

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

"

Brilliant!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Hard not to interpret as him just wanting a functional fuck. Sorry op. Counter block and move on."

Basically what I was going to say

It happens, move on

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."

What is being "too nice" mean?

He was horny, you scratched an itch, got home and he probably felt ashamed...we'll never know.

Block him and forget him.

On to the next one hey!

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Ungrateful.

Fuck him. Actually dont. But you know what I mean. 'NEXT, PLEASE!'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good.awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it "

That's not true, he simply doesn't have to publish it. You're getting confused with blocking someone so that your veri to them doesn't show.

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By *actileGent69Man
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Has happened to me once, great meet and I did her a great veri but she refused to do one in return stating she didn't want others to know who she's met ?. Looking back the whole thing was a little off, she was utterly false and I was left feeling used in some way.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

That’s really poor form. Don’t allow him to affect your self confidence.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things."
I made a judgement based on the info available.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things. I made a judgement based on the info available. "

Which is one person’s side of it.

Comes back to if a guy posted something similar, the responses would be oh so different

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name. "

Not really

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Block back so they cant unblock you to so how off your veri when it suits them.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"We only have one side of the story, he might have seen things very differently and have what he considers a perfectly good reason for blocking her. Bit harsh to judge him just on one person's account of things. I made a judgement based on the info available. "

Yes, that is what you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name. "

How does one man blocking have any effect on any other men on here, decent or otherwise?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

How does one man blocking have any effect on any other men on here, decent or otherwise?"

Don't understand that concept either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good."

I'm more interested why you'd want to air you view on the forum? Sorry I am a bit different from the norm.....

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Have done this regularly usually when safe sex Is agreed upfront and the guy then tries to put it in without one , guys are like 14yrold dicks sometimes

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really"

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour. "

You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour. "

How are you associated?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.

You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though. "

And even if he was an utter dick and had no good reason for his behaviour, how does that reflect on any other man?

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.

You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though. "

I'm taking the comment 'the meet went very well' to mean it went beyond a social Pepsi (Maybe it didnt).

If it did, I'm just saying the op was treated pretty poorly by whoever it was she met.

And by association, it's not the way I'd treat someone I'd been intimate with, and i wouldn't want every guy tarred with the same brush - me included.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He should be stoned to death in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outdoor meet? Really? Brrrrrr!

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By *ossy78Man
over a year ago

birmingham

That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you "

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport


"That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you

"

Haha

Knew someone would say something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do i change my status to can accommodate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do i change my status to can accommodate?"

Go to the account tab and click on “ looking for”

It’s in there

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'm guessing it wasn't just a social, thats poor from the guy. Gives decent guys a bad name.

Not really

So a meet that's good enough to go further (foreplay or sex or both) then a block straight after?

Sorry but i wouldnt wanna be associated with such shit behaviour.

You have no idea what happened when they met, immediately after they met, what the op put in his verification, or his reasons for blocking though.

I'm taking the comment 'the meet went very well' to mean it went beyond a social Pepsi (Maybe it didnt).

If it did, I'm just saying the op was treated pretty poorly by whoever it was she met.

And by association, it's not the way I'd treat someone I'd been intimate with, and i wouldn't want every guy tarred with the same brush - me included. "

That's only her interpretation though. And only an idiot would assume because one man does something all men will do the same, so I wouldn't worry about those folk

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By *appyAsLarry2014Man
over a year ago

Matlock

Doesn't suprise me, the way people act here is very much at odds with real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't suprise me, the way people act here is very much at odds with real life"

How so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you

"

Must remember this emoji.

And he can have one from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's rude same as people who read messages an dont reply or block you

Must remember this emoji.

And he can have one from me

"

Could do with a "go read FAQ" emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry this happened to you Denise. Is a bit weird of the guy to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have had an outdoor meet this morning. Meet went well. No drama. Got home. did him a nice verify. Later was going to thank him and wow am blocked.i think am too nice at times for my own good.awwww thats really quite sad maybe he didnt like veri and blocking is only way to get rid of it

That's not true, he simply doesn't have to publish it. You're getting confused with blocking someone so that your veri to them doesn't show. "

if he were the type to show them publicly i meant

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Thrill is in the chase.

So many on here love the challenge, once goal achieved move onto the next target.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Bit of a coward

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Has anyone said "his loss" yet?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

whats being too nice got to do with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

"

You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block"

You can.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block"

You don't need to get as far as their profile page. Once you get to the bit where it says you've been blocked, click on the top right button and you can block from there.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block"

You can, the options are still there

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)


"What a prick!

Counter block and forget him!

You cant as you dont get to the profile page to block

You can, the options are still there "

The words of an experienced blocker

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