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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The only women I call (merched) girls are my old school friends. To call each other women would mean we actually have to admit we're not 16 anymore. Something none of us want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you, OP.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of"

You’re a 46 year old man

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

No, it doesn't and I enjoy a night out with the girls

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I hate it. A girl is a child.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am not alone

I’m relieved

I love you all ... whatever you call it

Let’s not fall out over this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girlies is even worse!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Floro bend over while I kiss your lily white ass.......

It's a phrase I loathe too but try and give your opinion and people scream feminazi !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse! "

Oh sweet mother of Jesus

Cringe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just said cringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse! "

Oh god, cringe

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Naughty ??

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh sweet mother of Jesus

Cringe"

Aaargh cringe, cringe so hard.

Girl to me is child.

Girlies is your overbearing grandma towering over you, pinching your cheeks and smearing lipstick all over you

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Naughty ??"

Where did those two ?? Come from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naughty ??

Where did those two ?? Come from?

Shut the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho."

You may stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Naughty ??

Where did those two ?? Come from?

Shut the fuck up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

I don’t like minge

The word

I like vagina

I’ll get my things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naughty ??

Where did those two ?? Come from?

Shut the fuck up

You’re literally salivating because I said fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

Can I say I'm "off out with the lasses?" Sort of encompasses all ages???

If I dont say that I'm just usually with "friends" because that's what they are - female, Male and everyone in between

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

I don’t like minge

The word

I like vagina

I’ll get my things

It’s ok, I don’t say minge usually.

Had a moment.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

Not going to mention that I'm a ginge then

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

You’re my new best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

Add panties to that list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho.

You may stay"

Thanks, you're good to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can I say I'm "off out with the lasses?" Sort of encompasses all ages???

If I dont say that I'm just usually with "friends" because that's what they are - female, Male and everyone in between "

Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say gals when I’m being patronising

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

I don’t like minge

The word

I like vagina

I’ll get my things

It’s ok, I don’t say minge usually.

Had a moment.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

Add panties to that list.

It’s the devils words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

Add panties to that list.

Oh god yes! Panties!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho.

You may stay

Thanks, you're good to me

Too good

Now hush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good job were not all the same then isn't it. I refer to my close friends as my girls my girlfriends etc. And frankly don't give a shit what others think. Oh and I'm a woman too. Loyalty is what counts to me not words

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho."

Good point about going out with the boys, men don't seem to have to same problem with the word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I say gals when I’m being patronising "

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I like been told I'm a good girl but I still feel my age wish I didn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a low tolerance for any grown up who says things like - girlies, holibobs, ickle...to name but a few

You’re my new best friend "

Yes!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Girlies in panties showing off their mingeeseses

I think I’ve just cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

What about bird?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Naughty ??

Where did those two ?? Come from?

Shut the fuck up

You’re literally salivating because I said fuck "

Stop being naughty and saying the F word

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho.

Good point about going out with the boys, men don't seem to have to same problem with the word "

It could just be me

Ok I’ll say it

I don’t like men saying going out with boys

You’re men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Girlies in panties showing off their mingeeseses

I think I’ve just cum

You’re gross

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

What about bird?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Went to stay with relatives years ago. They said , Oh you'll love it. The lads go to the pub and the girls go shopping.

I died inside. I did not go shopping ..... that's fucking work in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the word “fella”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Girlies is even worse!

Oh god, cringe

You said cringe

Rhymes with minge.

Not going to mention that I'm a ginge then

GingeMinge.

(Sorry, Floro!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Naughty ??

Where did those two ?? Come from?

Shut the fuck up

You’re literally salivating because I said fuck

Stop being naughty and saying the F word

You love it

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I don’t mind when my friends say girl or someone I know really well. But a stranger and I’m offended

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t mind when my friends say girl or someone I know really well. But a stranger and I’m offended "

Horses for courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is ace!! Loving this thread!! Is tinged ok?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I like girls

But then I like DDLG too

Joking aside I can’t think of anything decent to replace ‘girls night out’ or ‘girly weekend’ with

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"This is ace!! Loving this thread!! Is tinged ok?"

Yes. Lovely word.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm not too bothered how my friends refer to me but if a man referred to me as a girl I don't like it, more so if it's a man on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew!! But, I think I had better hang on for OP's decision!!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I know grannies who still say they're "going out with the girls" I still say "few of the boys are going football, you coming?"

I can see why "girls" might be used as condescending or belittling, but the above contexts seem perfectly normal to me.

I have stopped saying "girls" on the forums tho.

Good point about going out with the boys, men don't seem to have to same problem with the word

It could just be me

Ok I’ll say it

I don’t like men saying going out with boys

You’re men "

It's a fair point, and I don't like being called a girl by anyone. However, when I use girls I mean my school mates. It's what our mam's call us and it's a habit a routine, when we're together we revert back to our teenage selves and it's blooming lovely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is ace!! Loving this thread!! Is tinged ok?"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm not too bothered how my friends refer to me but if a man referred to me as a girl I don't like it, more so if it's a man on here.

Yes, it's not as bad if it's woman to woman in a friendly way. Most of the time coming from a man it grates.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like girls

But then I like DDLG too

Joking aside I can’t think of anything decent to replace ‘girls night out’ or ‘girly weekend’ with"

A weekend away with friends?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like girls

But then I like DDLG too

Joking aside I can’t think of anything decent to replace ‘girls night out’ or ‘girly weekend’ with"

That's why your one of my girls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Phew!! But, I think I had better hang on for OP's decision!!"

You were right to

No, it’s bollocks

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"I'm not too bothered how my friends refer to me but if a man referred to me as a girl I don't like it, more so if it's a man on here.

Yes, it's not as bad if it's woman to woman in a friendly way. Most of the time coming from a man it grates."

I agree. I feel somewhat degraded. Rather be called a slut and be done with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ll never be everyone’s cup of tea ... I’m more like an acerbic beverage

Humour is subjective

As am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

Interesting.....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

You lot haven’t half got out of bed on the wrong side this morning. Chill, breathe and relax...............

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm not too bothered how my friends refer to me but if a man referred to me as a girl I don't like it, more so if it's a man on here.

Yes, it's not as bad if it's woman to woman in a friendly way. Most of the time coming from a man it grates."

I find it patronising, if it's said by a 30 something bloke that calls himself 'sexyboy69' that's cringe!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You lot haven’t half got out of bed on the wrong side this morning. Chill, breathe and relax...............

You missed a trick with chillax there

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Oh Floro ... only you could get away with courting controversy but I love it!

I usually say ‘GFs’ girl friends - if I’m going on a night out with them

Is that still cringeworthy?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"You lot haven’t half got out of bed on the wrong side this morning. Chill, breathe and relax...............

We chill when we're ready and not before

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"You lot haven’t half got out of bed on the wrong side this morning. Chill, breathe and relax...............

You missed a trick with chillax there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind girl, but referring to ke as a girlie makes my shit itch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a pretty militant feminist it gets used for "night/day/lunch out with the girls"

Though don't call me babe or baby!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

"
i don't mind it, i don't let it affect me as long as they have a beaming smile just like the girl in the coffee shop thats all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is courting controversy the same as being argumentative?

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I'm not sure Lembit Öpik would have had so much fun with The Cheeky Women

And as for Van Morrison;'Brown Eyed Woman' would never have been a hit...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Phew!! But, I think I had better hang on for OP's decision!!

You were right to

No, it’s bollocks "

LMFAO!! Oops!!

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I haven't been a girl for 30 years - I'll tolerate it from friends in the context of girls' night out etc., but not anywhere else. I'm open and vocal about that.

I don't like "guys" in the context of a mixed sex group either - it re-enforces the idea of the masculine as the norm and erases women. I use folks instead.

Yep, full-on joy-sucking feminist here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I court controversies

But , I really don’t like it when women refer to themselves as ‘girls’

Us girls

The girls

No!! You’re Women

I’m a lover - not a fighter , so be kind to me

Interesting....."

Like pineapple and cheese

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure Lembit Öpik would have had so much fun with The Cheeky Women

And as for Van Morrison;'Brown Eyed Woman' would never have been a hit..."

And?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interestingly enough

I don’t like a lot of words

But I do love

Pedantic

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Contradiction too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hypocrisy

Enough for now or I’ll be in Coventry

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I have a friend from the SW regions and when he says it it’s more of a “gurl” which I find quite acceptable and endearing with that accent

I am with you ladies on the panties though, makes me shudder

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Hypocrisy

Enough for now or I’ll be in Coventry"

Pop in for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hypocrisy

Enough for now or I’ll be in Coventry

Pop in for a coffee

Ahhh thanks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I haven't been a girl for 30 years - I'll tolerate it from friends in the context of girls' night out etc., but not anywhere else. I'm open and vocal about that.

I don't like "guys" in the context of a mixed sex group either - it re-enforces the idea of the masculine as the norm and erases women. I use folks instead.

Yep, full-on joy-sucking feminist here

Don't apologise for being feminist. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't been a girl for 30 years - I'll tolerate it from friends in the context of girls' night out etc., but not anywhere else. I'm open and vocal about that.

I don't like "guys" in the context of a mixed sex group either - it re-enforces the idea of the masculine as the norm and erases women. I use folks instead.

Yep, full-on joy-sucking feminist here

you

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

girl and boy is used as slang here where im from. You would be walking down the street and you would hear well girl or well boy any craic. no names are used. doesnt matter their age although i think it dissipates somewhat as people get older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"girl and boy is used as slang here where im from. You would be walking down the street and you would hear well girl or well boy any craic. no names are used. doesnt matter their age although i think it dissipates somewhat as people get older. "
really they dont say " cmon old girl wheres the craic"?

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By *icenfunMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

"girl and boy is used as slang here where im from. You would be walking down the street and you would hear well girl or well boy any craic. no names are used. doesnt matter their age although i think it dissipates somewhat as people get older. really they dont say " cmon old girl wheres the craic"? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

And spanking a naughty girl is ok ?

Sheesh

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I haven't been a girl for 30 years - I'll tolerate it from friends in the context of girls' night out etc., but not anywhere else. I'm open and vocal about that.

I don't like "guys" in the context of a mixed sex group either - it re-enforces the idea of the masculine as the norm and erases women. I use folks instead.

Yep, full-on joy-sucking feminist here

Don't apologise for being feminist. Ever."

Haven't yet. Don't intend to

it's a non-negotiable thing for me. Great to see that it is for some o here too

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

And spanking a naughty girl is ok ?

Sheesh

I’ve just cum again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

And spanking a naughty girl is ok ?

Sheesh

I’ve just cum again

Don’t ever mail me again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"girl and boy is used as slang here where im from. You would be walking down the street and you would hear well girl or well boy any craic. no names are used. doesnt matter their age although i think it dissipates somewhat as people get older. really they dont say " cmon old girl wheres the craic"?

no"
awww i would

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Like most things it's about context, how it's said, who's said it etc and comes with a huge dollop of personal choice too - as this thread has shown for some it's acceptable, for some it's acceptable in specific contexts and for others it's not - ultimately it comes down to the context and how demeaningly it is meant/used.

I certainly wouldn't use it intentionally in a demeaning way, and definitely not in an initial message here, but I might say something like "Good night out with the girls?" just as I would say "I'm having a night out with the boys"

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By *icenfunMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

"Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

And spanking a naughty girl is ok ?

Sheesh

Oh yes

I love to spank naughty girls.

Why do I feel like saying " your a bad, bad woman " is like something wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Dont think I would want to spank a naughty women "have you been a good women" sounds wrong ?

And spanking a naughty girl is ok ?

Sheesh

Oh yes

I love to spank naughty girls.

Why do I feel like saying " your a bad, bad woman " is like something wrong

I’m laughing

Inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of"

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

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over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant "

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

"
their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

"
omg you're so pinickity

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Chicks?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chicks? "

Seriously dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

"
you're brash yes hated no, too strong a word, loved by your friends you've met, so endearing qualities to be explored

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Chicks?

Seriously dude"

That’s how I got half my username, a memory of an old friend always called me chick, plus some friends (non fab) call me it still

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

you're brash yes hated no, too strong a word, loved by your friends you've met, so endearing qualities to be explored

You’re cute .. but my hate gossip states otherwise

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I don’t mind most words if said in the right context.

The one that grated on me though is ‘dear’. I’m not the start of a letter or indeed anyone’s dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

you're brash yes hated no, too strong a word, loved by your friends you've met, so endearing qualities to be explored

You’re cute .. but my hate gossip states otherwise

"
lol knew it would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chicks?

Seriously dude

That’s how I got half my username, a memory of an old friend always called me chick, plus some friends (non fab) call me it still "

If it’s an old friend ... I get that

I’m just a grumpy old bitch

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Chicks?

Seriously dude

That’s how I got half my username, a memory of an old friend always called me chick, plus some friends (non fab) call me it still

If it’s an old friend ... I get that

I’m just a grumpy old bitch "

Oh you’re not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

you're brash yes hated no, too strong a word, loved by your friends you've met, so endearing qualities to be explored

You’re cute .. but my hate gossip states otherwise

"
I'm cute though........ my morning is over

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chicks?

Seriously dude

That’s how I got half my username, a memory of an old friend always called me chick, plus some friends (non fab) call me it still

If it’s an old friend ... I get that

I’m just a grumpy old bitch

Oh you’re not really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A night out with the ‘women’ doesn’t have the same ring to it

I’m 46 man

I think it’s ridiculous

So. I say ‘ I’m off out with my friends’

End of

Age doesn't determine whether a female is a girl or a woman... I think attitude does. So what we call ourselves is often irrelevant

True story

We all enjoy different terminology

their ya go I've done my bit for spicing threads up hope its enhanced your viewing pleasure

There you go

Their ya go - doesn’t float my boat

omg you're so pinickity

Hence why I’m so hated

you're brash yes hated no, too strong a word, loved by your friends you've met, so endearing qualities to be explored

You’re cute .. but my hate gossip states otherwise

I'm cute though........ my morning is over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum is 86 and still talks about meeting up with the girls. They wee friends at school. I talk about going out with the lads too. It’s just colloquial. I don’t say it to offend.

However I always refer to the women on here as women, using neither girls nor ladies as I think that’s appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum is 86 and still talks about meeting up with the girls. They wee friends at school. I talk about going out with the lads too. It’s just colloquial. I don’t say it to offend.

However I always refer to the women on here as women, using neither girls nor ladies as I think that’s appropriate. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My mum is 86 and still talks about meeting up with the girls. They wee friends at school. I talk about going out with the lads too. It’s just colloquial. I don’t say it to offend.

However I always refer to the women on here as women, using neither girls nor ladies as I think that’s appropriate. "

That’s dead cute

I am my own contradiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my afternoon however has just begun and the sun is penetratrating my back don’t you just love the sunshine........ i do

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