FabSwingers.com forum: how friendly are you

By *appyAsLarry2014 OP Man
over a year ago

Matlock

I've been here a while, I generally like a chat and a flirt but haven't really found people to be all that friendly here on the whole. I know people frown upon married men being here but my wife has fibromyalgia and is rarely in the mood for sex and I still get turned on......that's only normal isn't it?.Anyway, how does everyone else find the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you’re right that justifies it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I find the site fine

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The site is fine. I’m ok too.

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

I am a friendly twat it seem's.

Been called worse.

Find the forum to be friendly in general (compaired to some other forums I am on)

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Was it a joint decision you come on here ? I’m surprised you’ve not pursued something else , I couldn’t do that and soak from experience before you tell me how bad having a partner with fibromyalgia is

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By *appyAsLarry2014 OP Man
over a year ago

Matlock

I'n not sure what you mean by "soak from experience"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I'n not sure what you mean by "soak from experience""
she meant to say speak but her phone autocorrected

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Doesn't matter what your excuses are, lots of people just have no interest in chatting to or meeting married people unless the spouse is involved.

Also I tend not to chat to many people I would never intend to meet, for whatever reason. Its a bit of a waste of time.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Ah you’re right that justifies it

I wish that I was so wise at 22, maybe I wouldn't have made as many stupid mstakes as I did. It's taken me 58 years to learn what little I know about adult relationships and, I'm still learning.

OP, whatever your reasons for being here, just accept fab for what it is, a place to potentially meet some wonderful people and that not everyone will be into you.

I don't meet many people on this site as I prefer to go to clubs; the dynamics of meeting people for real work a lot better for me.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I think the site is great. I reckon I'm pretty friendly but I guess that depends on how you define the word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People tend to be less friendly and welcoming when you are on here, and married, without your wifes knowledge...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very friendly: I send personalised messages, I’ll chat politely, turn up to meetings as arranged, don’t pester people or call them names when they say they don’t like me, I’m kind, considerate and attentive.

I treat people as I like to be treated myself.

My single fault is my modesty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People tend to be less friendly and welcoming when you are on here, and married, without your wifes knowledge..."

He’s married without his wife’s knowledge?

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By *appyAsLarry2014 OP Man
over a year ago

Matlock

At least I've said I'm married.....how many people here are pretending not to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want to chat to a married guy

Especially one who says he isnt meeting

There would be no point

And I would suspect he was just after wank fodder

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By *appyAsLarry2014 OP Man
over a year ago

Matlock

Fair enough, thanks for your opinion

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I fish in a smaller pool than you straight folks

and I find my bait always gets a nibble on here, so I like it.

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By *appyAsLarry2014 OP Man
over a year ago

Matlock

that made me smile.......mainly for the line "My bait always gets a nibble"

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm super duper friendly if people take the time to talk to me

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m friendly and will chat and have a laugh with anyone....

Unless you pinch my last custard cream - then the bendy ruler comes out x

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Fabsters on here playing away it can be a bit rough, that's the impression I get.

I've found the time here to be a great release from the normal walk of life, made some great friends along the way.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Hello O.P.

EVERYONE on the forum likes to think they are friendly to all.

Just stick around, chat and make your own mind up.

It's really like a railway station with some people coming and going regularly and other passing never to be seen again so ........ just take each day as it comes .

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Hello O.P.

EVERYONE on the forum likes to think they are friendly to all.

Just stick around, chat and make your own mind up.

It's really like a railway station with some people coming and going regularly and other passing never to be seen again so ........ just take each day as it comes .

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I think I'm friendly enough. I answer most mails I just don't have to time to chat to everyone who mails. I have some good friends on here who I chat to almost every day and some I chat to every so often. As for married or not I don't judge I know not every thing is black and white in relationships. And yes I am actually single. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And thats the joy of the forum, it can be a one way chat at times but somewhere to let it all out.

Theres not many that will chat over messages if you arent looking to meet I guess.

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I also have a partner who suffers with health problems and now no longer interested in sex. This site can be friendly not always as some see a man playing away from home as a very bad thing. I have my partner's blessing to be on here. We use to be sa couple on another swingers site but now just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friendly but not to unsolicited messages.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Im not very friendly. And what's worse, is that im absolutely fine with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm friendly with those I want to meet. I ignore most others because I'm not here to chat to everyone. If that makes me unfriendly then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm friendly with those I want to meet. I ignore most others because I'm not here to chat to everyone. If that makes me unfriendly then so be it. "

This makes sense, just because you don’t want to chat to someone doesn’t make you unfriendly. That said Scarlett would love a friendly chat with you sometime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found the time here to be a great release from the normal walk of life, made some great friends along the way."

Yes, that is how I think of it, a break from normal life, I honestly don’t care about what people do, or their personal relationships, outside of Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been here a while, I generally like a chat and a flirt but haven't really found people to be all that friendly here on the whole. I know people frown upon married men being here but my wife has fibromyalgia and is rarely in the mood for sex and I still get turned on......that's only normal isn't it?.Anyway, how does everyone else find the site?"
i find it very friendly on the whole but you do get the odd very negative person just move beyond them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very friendly.

But sure I'm Irish. Tis part of our cultural identity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Female here...

I also have fibromyalgia. But here I am.

Wouldn’t personally use this as an excuse. Yeah I do have flare up days but still can have a lot of sex.

I haven’t really met a bad egg on here what I have though is people who you automatically after exchanging a few words know your not going to get on

And that’s okay!

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I’m a friendly guy and live nothing better than a good chat and a cheeky flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very friendly.

But sure I'm Irish. Tis part of our cultural identity

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thats true well not all but most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to think I'm a friendly kind of girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say friendly but I like to think I'm a good person and a kind boss. I like making others lives easier and happier and will help anybody out wherever I can. Although my good nature has been used and abused a few times I try to carry on, but I'm not a very open book and let very few into my private life and thus I can't call too many true friends, just a select few.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I only meet at clubs without a lack of attention, so I only use this site as light entertainment and never take it serious.

I do have many people on here that I call friends as I have met them and it's lovely to chat with them on here.

As for other people's reasons or personal situations , I'm a bloke that prances around in a dress so who am I to judge others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m friendly most of the time

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm sometimes friendly, sometimes very friendly, sometimes over-friendly, sometimes not friendly at all.

I treat people according to how I find them. Most people on here are friendly, I'm friendly back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m friendly most of the time

Oh and on the whole my personal experience of the site since I joined in on the forum has been friendly towards me. However I can’t say that is the case for everyone and certainly not for a lot of men.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm very friendly.

But sure I'm Irish. Tis part of our cultural identity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm super duper friendly if people take the time to talk to me

I concur with this.

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