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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well today I went shopping with a female friend who is now in the huff with me. lesson learned when asked if this looks ok never reply with maybe the next size up would be better

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I disagree, is farther you told the truth, politely.

I tried some clothes on a couple of weeks ago and the changing room attendant was a young man. I put one dress on and he said "that one, looks amazing, the last was OK, but that's great"

Made me happy, his honesty was refreshing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well today I went shopping with a female friend who is now in the huff with me. lesson learned when asked if this looks ok never reply with maybe the next size up would be better "

*facepalm* I'm permanently single and incapable of getting laid, and even I know better than that...

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

You're the devil. It's your job to say these kind of things. I'm surprised you didn't say four sizes up would look better.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

At least you could have gone for the classic, yes dear, your bum looks big in everything.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"well today I went shopping with a female friend who is now in the huff with me. lesson learned when asked if this looks ok never reply with maybe the next size up would be better "

She asked. Her huff is her cross to bear.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

Depends on who you are shopping with. I would expect a 'friend' not to let me walk out with something that didn't suit me for any reason. I would see it as an act of friendship if they were honest and said it was too long, short, tight, wrong colour.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Tell her the truth man , then go pick something off the rail for her yourself

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

So she'd rather go out in something that looks too small and she's in a huff because you told the truth? How did you actually say it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how you say it I guess.

To say ‘maybe the next size up would sit better’ is one thing, but to say ‘you look like bread baking in twine’ is deffo not ok.

I have had both these said to me the second one was in jest by a friend. And she wasn’t wrong

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Depends how you say it I guess.

To say ‘maybe the next size up would sit better’ is one thing, but to say ‘you look like bread baking in twine’ is deffo not ok.

I have had both these said to me the second one was in jest by a friend. And she wasn’t wrong "

Bread baking in twine!

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Like a roll of pork?

Those ones in string like you get at Christmas?

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis


"At least you could have gone for the classic, yes dear, your bum looks big in everything. "

Or the other classic, 'Should we maybe try the tent shop next?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's best to say it how it is, the Mrs gets 'you look like a bag of shit' if she asks and it does looks bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's best to say it how it is, the Mrs gets 'you look like a bag of shit' if she asks and it does looks bad "

How is it I'm still single?

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Could have been worse, you could have said try 2 sizes up unless your going for the muffin top look lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"well today I went shopping with a female friend who is now in the huff with me. lesson learned when asked if this looks ok never reply with maybe the next size up would be better "

Rookie error there ..the answer you were looking for was " nah doesn't quite sit right " let her then decide if she's going to try a different size to see if it "sits" better ...you're welcome

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Rookie mistake.

Always reply “it would look amazing on the bedroom floor” and wink

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