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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some people (mainly men) not take no for an answer? I've got nothing against anyone dropping me a message but when u ask to suck my cock and I tell u I'm straight and its not for me, you are not going to change my mind. I can only imagine what some women go through with the persecution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single men from messaging you.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"Why do some people (mainly men) not take no for an answer? I've got nothing against anyone dropping me a message but when u ask to suck my cock and I tell u I'm straight and its not for me, you are not going to change my mind. I can only imagine what some women go through with the persecution "

Thats why most women delete without reply. I do that too if not interested. It's not worth the grief you get back when you politely decline someone.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Because they have a huge sense of entitlement?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't for the simple fact I wouldn't tar everyone with the same brush. I have some single men asking about sleeping with someone they know or more often asking me general questions, that I've not got a problem with but when they're told no and still keep going it just frustrates me x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a man I'm not quite sure what gives anyone a huge sense of entitlement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I either delete or say no thanks.

I don’t offer any excuses. I’m just blunt and it works.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them. "

This k I will have to get the block button out lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I either delete or say no thanks.

I don’t offer any excuses. I’m just blunt and it works.

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I'm straight to the point myself so they're never going to change my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess that’s what the filters & block button are for

Some folk can’t help but be a pushy pest. It’s in their blood!

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them. "

I do that as well but before I have a chance to block them I'll receive a message from them calling me a "fat cow".

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live in a culture that tells us men have to pursue women and that persistence is a virtue - just look at half the romantic comedies out there. It doesn't help that more than a few women won't bother with anyone who doesn't "put the work in" by chasing them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them.

I do that as well but before I have a chance to block them I'll receive a message from them calling me a "fat cow"."

Inconsiderate pricks. Don't let them get you down, u look fine x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed."

Unfortunately we live in a world full of snowflakes who are offended by rejection x

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them.

I do that as well but before I have a chance to block them I'll receive a message from them calling me a "fat cow".

Inconsiderate pricks. Don't let them get you down, u look fine x"

It use to bother me but now I laugh. Someone who can't take no for an answer isn't mature enough to be on Fab.

And thank you.

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By *attyduk76Man
over a year ago

nearby


"A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed.

Unfortunately we live in a world full of snowflakes who are offended by rejection x"

So your not bi then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them.

I do that as well but before I have a chance to block them I'll receive a message from them calling me a "fat cow"."

I get that too sometimes. It’s a reflection of them, and just shows we were right to decline then. I report those ones and hope that they are removed from the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s just one of those things unfortunately. I’ll say a polite ‘no thank you’ once, after that I’ll just delete any messages unread and block them.

I do that as well but before I have a chance to block them I'll receive a message from them calling me a "fat cow".

Inconsiderate pricks. Don't let them get you down, u look fine x

It use to bother me but now I laugh. Someone who can't take no for an answer isn't mature enough to be on Fab.

And thank you."

Someone who can't take no for an answer isn't mature to sleep with someone never mind fab.

No worries x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If someone responds with anything but a "ok thanks for the reply" type message we block.

We're on a swinging web site with naked photographs of ourselves on display. We accept that this puts us at risk of being contacted by people who will push their luck. It isn't acceptable, it isn't our fault but it is reality we do what we can to mitigate the likelihood of it happening and take action when it does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed.

Unfortunately we live in a world full of snowflakes who are offended by rejection x

So your not bi then "

I'm 100% straight. Nothing against anyone who is but it's not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone responds with anything but a "ok thanks for the reply" type message we block.

We're on a swinging web site with naked photographs of ourselves on display. We accept that this puts us at risk of being contacted by people who will push their luck. It isn't acceptable, it isn't our fault but it is reality we do what we can to mitigate the likelihood of it happening and take action when it does."

People will take liberties if they can to avoid rejection

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If someone responds with anything but a "ok thanks for the reply" type message we block.

We're on a swinging web site with naked photographs of ourselves on display. We accept that this puts us at risk of being contacted by people who will push their luck. It isn't acceptable, it isn't our fault but it is reality we do what we can to mitigate the likelihood of it happening and take action when it does.

People will take liberties if they can to avoid rejection "

Taking liberties is a sure way to be rejected by us.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I used to think it was entitlement. I now think most of them are socially inept, desperate and have emotional and mental problems.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone responds with anything but a "ok thanks for the reply" type message we block.

We're on a swinging web site with naked photographs of ourselves on display. We accept that this puts us at risk of being contacted by people who will push their luck. It isn't acceptable, it isn't our fault but it is reality we do what we can to mitigate the likelihood of it happening and take action when it does.

People will take liberties if they can to avoid rejection

Taking liberties is a sure way to be rejected by us."

Totally agree

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Block single men from messaging you. "

this

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By *attyduk76Man
over a year ago

nearby


"A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed.

Unfortunately we live in a world full of snowflakes who are offended by rejection x

So your not bi then

I'm 100% straight. Nothing against anyone who is but it's not for me "

Just checking

I do think guys get very brave behind a keyboard, let’s face it no one would say it to your face ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A polite no thank you the other day resulting me being told to fuck off and called a stuck up old cunt. Blocking is easy but these people need to be reported and removed.

Unfortunately we live in a world full of snowflakes who are offended by rejection x

So your not bi then

I'm 100% straight. Nothing against anyone who is but it's not for me

Just checking

I do think guys get very brave behind a keyboard, let’s face it no one would say it to your face ??"

LOL. Like I say I've got nothing against someone asking the question but once told no I may not be so polite the 2nd time face to face

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By *ovegames42Man
over a year ago

london

Have clearly stated on profile couples and females only, still getting messages from single males, one even messaged me saying

“ I want to to force me to drink your P—S “.

Fuck me absolutely not, wish people would read profiles instead of just browsing through images.

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By *OXO2018Couple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Just block people who aren't our type, we are here for fun not to be abused by complete strangers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have clearly stated on profile couples and females only, still getting messages from single males, one even messaged me saying

“ I want to to force me to drink your P—S “.

Fuck me absolutely not, wish people would read profiles instead of just browsing through images."

I can live with the odd person that hasn't read my profile I've done it myself in the past but as far as I'm concerned no means no. I've never acted abusive when someone says no, I'm grateful for the honesty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block people who aren't our type, we are here for fun not to be abused by complete strangers."

I think I'm going to have to

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's a bit insulting, like they think I'm weak enough to cave if they persist enough. And indicative of their character also. If one "no" isn't enough, I delete their further messages, and block if they respond with abuse or aggression. They are in the minority though, thankfully!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a bit insulting, like they think I'm weak enough to cave if they persist enough. And indicative of their character also. If one "no" isn't enough, I delete their further messages, and block if they respond with abuse or aggression. They are in the minority though, thankfully! "

I've yet to come across a woman who has took offence to a sorry you're not for me. I'm also yet to come across a man who's become abusive but some just won't take no for an answer x

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, just delete the morons message. It’s what I do.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester

in my experience it’s not just single men that can’t take a polite no thank you.

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