FabSwingers.com forum: Is it a gay thing to watch porn with another man?

By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I've been wondering about this for a while now and I wanted to hear the opinions or experiences of others.

Is it a homosexual act to wank off together but not enagage in any direct sexual act with each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. A bit like when 2 women watching Disney movies makes them lesbian.

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I've been wondering about this for a while now and I wanted to hear the opinions or experiences of others.

Is it a homosexual act to wank off together but not enagage in any direct sexual act with each other?"

Why does it matter?

Will giving it a label rule it in or out? If so why?

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By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"Yes. A bit like when 2 women watching Disney movies makes them lesbian."

Depends on the Disney movie, surely

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

What do YOU think it is OP?

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By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I'm just curious, I would never rule anything out just because if a label somebody gives it. People are far to quick to assume the negative on here.

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I'm just curious, I would never rule anything out just because if a label somebody gives it. People are far to quick to assume the negative on here."

Apologies if you thought I had assumed the negative. I thought I was just asking two clarifying questions. My bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair it is on the gay/ bi side to do this, I would not expect two straight men to wank off together, unless they were young teenagers, not grown men. I don’t know of any gay men and their female friends that wank off together to porn.....

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By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

It would probably be a logistical nightmare anyway, it takes me ages to choose a video to watch, never mind having to agree on one to watch with somebody else!

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Well it's not an homosexual act if you are both just sat in a room wanking yourselves off. But it does suggest a degree of bi-curiosity to want to look at another guy wanking and cumming. But, whatever, it is just enjoy doing what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair it is on the gay/ bi side to do this, I would not expect two straight men to wank off together, unless they were young teenagers, not grown men. I don’t know of any gay men and their female friends that wank off together to porn....."

What about if they wank each other’s cocks

. It’s only touching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes. "

What about a straight mmf some then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done it but it was definitely with curios intentions

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Is this a time-sensitive question? Is he on his way over?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Dunno. My first fella had a mate who had a big cock and got it out whenever he could. He used to visit my fella with other mates of theirs and porn would get put on and this fella would get his cock out and start wanking.

Now i was innocent back then so just assumed that was it, but thinking on it, maybe they all got off on it.

Which is actually quite hot *wanders off for a ladyrub*...

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

I've sometimes been known to watch ch4's 'Naked Attraction' with my short haired domestic grey & white cat

I'm not quite sure what that says about me?...

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I've sometimes been known to watch ch4's 'Naked Attraction' with my short haired domestic grey & white cat

I'm not quite sure what that says about me?..."

You like grey and white short haired cats or Amanda Richardson or both.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"I've sometimes been known to watch ch4's 'Naked Attraction' with my short haired domestic grey & white cat

I'm not quite sure what that says about me?..."

I don't think it's gay if pussy is also involved

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

"I've sometimes been known to watch ch4's 'Naked Attraction' with my short haired domestic grey & white cat

I'm not quite sure what that says about me?...

I don't think it's gay if pussy is also involved

Brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been wondering about this for a while now and I wanted to hear the opinions or experiences of others.

Is it a homosexual act to wank off together but not enagage in any direct sexual act with each other?"
only you know that really........ do you feel ghey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes.

What about a straight mmf some then

I do not know any gay men that finger and rub their female friend’s vaginas. So bit odd a straight man would have a play with another man’s cock hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes.

What about a straight mmf some then

I’m bad. You did say alone. I’m off to spec savers

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes.

What about a straight mmf some then

That isn't two men alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it is no it is being sexually liberated and it sounds fun.

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By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"I dont think it is no it is being sexually liberated and it sounds fun.

I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont think it is no it is being sexually liberated and it sounds fun.

I agree!"

You sound very keen to wank and cum beside another guy it seems....

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By *ixenwhisperer OP Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

"I dont think it is no it is being sexually liberated and it sounds fun.

I agree!

You sound very keen to wank and cum beside another guy it seems....

I'm not against the idea of trying things out with a guy, I just know I'm not physically attracted to men, it would just be a sex thing. If you get what I mean!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

My straight partner wanks alongside his male bi friend. I don't see anything wrong with it if they both enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My straight partner wanks alongside his male bi friend. I don't see anything wrong with it if they both enjoy it. "
its a comfortable in your own skin thing

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

Surely it depends on what you are watching?

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

"I've been wondering about this for a while now and I wanted to hear the opinions or experiences of others.

Is it a homosexual act to wank off together but not enagage in any direct sexual act with each other?"

Sounds a bit Wrong unless the guys are bi curious to me

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I went into the sex cinema at Cita in Maspalomas last month.

In one of the rooms, 3 or 4 guys were sat wanking themselves to straight porn on a giant screen.

It never crossed my mind to wonder if they were anything other than straight.

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

"I'm just curious, I would never rule anything out just because if a label somebody gives it. People are far to quick to assume the negative on here.

Apologies if you thought I had assumed the negative. I thought I was just asking two clarifying questions. My bad. "

Not your bad .

OP still didn't get a chance to understand or reply your first question in your first post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you make eye contact you are definitely bi

If you get each others jizz on you ...even by accident

..you definitely gay

If you then start kissing ...you are a gay couple....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You may not be physically interacting but you're sharing a sexual experience with another man alone. So yes.

What about a straight mmf some then

That's why I said alone, I knew someone would say that

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By *ndefiniteSparkMan
over a year ago

ignites minds to unite ...

The only reason I see OP that you felt a comment being negative is what's in your head .

You said you are curious yourself and about others opinions .

Don't rule things out just because someone gave them a label.

Now unlabel your head for a moment at look at your post title and questions .

You have labeled that twice yourself before even asking others for their thoughts, like you are looking to be told is ok before you do it.

You could have asked simply for thoughts , opinions , experience , how others see it in their own eyes , most would have replied in their own words too.

And this is not a rant aimed at you OP.

I fight with labels , too many and not needed.

Unlabel your sexuality and do it , even if it's to find out it's not for you , but you might enjoy it and want to explore more .

The closest I got to that kind of experience was when we got a new projector and put some porn on the big screen , maybe if the guy was a closer fried we would go for it , but that was just a flatmate I didn't know for long so nothing happened .

But on the other hand I had no problem sharing a girl with one of my best friends .

That was fun , even if awkward when the swords touched when she said "I want both of you in my mouth at the same time " fuck it , we did it .

Moral from the other story for me personally is, I know I'm ok in a gangbang situation .

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Depends on who you want to believe!

Some will say yes, some will say no and some will not know! Others, like myself couldn't give a shite, but crucially,you OP are the one to decide.

Remember behaviour and identify are very different things...

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Joe and Chandler done it on friends , but then that isn't really an answer to your question xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everyone knows it's Star Wars lesbians watch together

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

"everyone knows it's Star Wars lesbians watch together

That's only because of the big light sabers and the dounuts on Leiyers head xx

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By *tableMasterMan
over a year ago

As experts on this we find most guys wanna join our group because they have a little bit of curiosity but then again most men are...

What man has never glanced to compare at the urinals?

If it feels good, turns you on and is mutually consensual then just do it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you watch porn yourself and are wanking then there will be parts when its the cumshot so you're wanking off watching a guy wank anyway. Do if you wanna wank with a guy then no big deal and anyway do what you want and stuff labels.

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