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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many protest too quickly The answer is still no though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Not every man is. I sometimes get a bit curious but I’ve never acted on it in real life.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

The only time I've ever watched gay porn was sitting in my mum's lounge with my 80 year old mum and niki

Nothing twitched and I've never had the desire to watch it since, so no, not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"
yes we're all ghey its in our jeans

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fknell ........ nothing of mine would twitch i'f i'd have watched porn with my parents either ........

Thumbs up to mum tho ........ I tire of those that think they invented sex and that little old ladies don't have a scooby about what's going on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. I think more are along the Kinsey scale than admit to it, but there are still some at the heterosexual extreme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fknell ........ nothing of mine would twitch i'f i'd have watched porn with my parents either ........

Thumbs up to mum tho ........ I tire of those that think they invented sex and that little old ladies don't have a scooby about what's going on"

do your teeth really go in a glass by bedside table lass?

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Fknell ........ nothing of mine would twitch i'f i'd have watched porn with my parents either ........

Thumbs up to mum tho ........ I tire of those that think they invented sex and that little old ladies don't have a scooby about what's going on"

Yeah, some channel 4 documentary that came on whilst we were chatting, I tried to turn it over but neither of the 'girls' wouldn't let me!

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By *Man1263Man
over a year ago

Stockport

No.

Not even a little curious.

Find women very attractive, so have no thought of men in any way.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yep. Usually the pinky finger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Women only for me please and I dont watch guy on guy porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NO. Very No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and more than just a little bit too

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Nope...but i am part lesbian

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I think some are definitely at the end of the scale and are heterosexual. I’m not sure what the distribution looks like in the Kinsey Scale but I’m certain it’s not a normal distribution.

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

That's a complex question to answer...

The short answer is no, the long answer starts with a no and ends with a kinda-sorta-maybe.

Straight is straight, no grey area at all...

There's some fantastic articles online which outline various "curiosity levels" if you will.

On a side note: there are straight guys who's curiosity pops up now and then, and that's all good... nothing wrong with that

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No I think some are definitely at the end of the scale and are heterosexual. I’m not sure what the distribution looks like in the Kinsey Scale but I’m certain it’s not a normal distribution."

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No definitely not, some guys are so straight you can’t get them to bend over

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"No definitely not, some guys are so straight you can’t get them to bend over "

Obviously need to do some flexibility work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many guys on here would say they are bi just to get with a couple where the man is bi ,???

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London


"No definitely not, some guys are so straight you can’t get them to bend over "

Hahaha i love this answer

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

Depends if they have met me! (and that is very definitely sarcasm).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

I (her) disagree with your statement, I think people should watch all kinds of porn, why do we need to label a person by this means?

If something catches your imagination and intrigues your mind enough through porn (in whichever category you chose) it simply means that something you saw in that porn vid made you cum. Tomorrow it might be something totally different or obscure, so what.

I watch a multitude of different porn vids because I want to see all different variations of 'sex'. I enjoy watching and listening to people having sex and being a voyeur, letting my imagination put myself in certain roles, or put my boyfriend in certain roles, seeing all different types of people having sex with all different types of people.

Yet I dont get given a label for watching porn, so why should men?

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"How many guys on here would say they are bi just to get with a couple where the man is bi ,???"

We have had 4 straight guys message today saying they are bi . Why people can’t be honest I don’t know. But after partaking in another thread where people say they will never meet bi guys or meet people that have met bi guys then you can understand why they feel they have to hide their sexuality .

On a site like this where people are open and understanding theirs still so much prejudice towards bi men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years."

Still no.

Been single for just shy of 10 years.

Still only interested in women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ribsaMan
over a year ago

A box at end of your bed

No

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

Gay, I'm not even happy

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston


"Gay, I'm not even happy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Usually the pinky finger. "

Nah, pinky is fine but if they start pushing back on the strapon, they caught the ghey

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"Yep. Usually the pinky finger.

Nah, pinky is fine but if they start pushing back on the strapon, they caught the ghey "

That's a different thread, really. Gay and ghey are very different; you can catch ghey quite easily...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

Every man?

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep. Usually the pinky finger.

Nah, pinky is fine but if they start pushing back on the strapon, they caught the ghey "

Lol The strapon is attached to a woman still right? If I pushed back it's because I'm loving the feeling but I'm definitely not imagining it's a guy hanging out of me

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By *arooned64Man
over a year ago

dudley

As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely..

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

No is the simple answer

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London


"As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely.. "

I pointed this out in a thread some time ago, just trying to open a conversation really... some of the replies I received were: "How must we know you're bi unless we open your profile and look?"

...I mean huh?!? Really???

I get that you have to open a profile to get all the info, but if you claim you are straight straight straight... why is you just looky looking?

...but wow! People got defensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all! I am 100% straight men dont appeal to me at all theres no curiosity! I got threatened with someone going to post my pictures all over facebook etc because some bloke who lives near me didnt like the fact I didnt want him to give me a blowjob his exact words was " every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man" my answer was do it I've nothing to hide am still waiting for them to pop up

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man""

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man"

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose. "

He did yes!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man"

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose.

He did yes! "

'Google search for "Descrete affair" returned 288k results.'

Makes me laugh everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man"

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose. "

they are from the same source ' discretus'

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man"

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose. they are from the same source ' discretus' "

Which is formed from 'discreet anus', confirmed, all men are a bit gay. Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""every straight man would take a discreet blowjob off another man"

...well at least he spelled 'discreet' right, I suppose. they are from the same source ' discretus'

Which is formed from 'discreet anus', confirmed, all men are a bit gay. Ta."

that analogy is buttiful

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

I am more than happy to watch a guy shagging the Mrs, happy to be in close proximity to other guys during sex play.

However just because I am comfortable being naked other guys I certainly don't want to bum them or suck them.

Enjoying watching sexual activity doesn't make you a bit gay!!!!

Enjoying sex with someone of the same gender generally counts as being gay.

Don't forget men by nature tend to be more visually stimulated than women.

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

I am more than happy to watch a guy shagging the Mrs, happy to be in close proximity to other guys during sex play.

However just because I am comfortable being naked other guys I certainly don't want to bum them or suck them.

Enjoying watching sexual activity doesn't make you a bit gay!!!!

Enjoying sex with someone of the same gender generally counts as being gay.

Don't forget men by nature tend to be more visually stimulated than women."

That a maybe? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

No stop with this ridiculous and embarrassing idea, far too much fantasy on the part of gay and bi men. Let us look at it from the other angle, how many gay men watch lesbian porn?....none exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hate labels.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely..

I pointed this out in a thread some time ago, just trying to open a conversation really... some of the replies I received were: "How must we know you're bi unless we open your profile and look?"

...I mean huh?!? Really???

I get that you have to open a profile to get all the info, but if you claim you are straight straight straight... why is you just looky looking?

...but wow! People got defensive "

I look at sporuts when I serve them up to Mr Ruggers, it doesn't mean I want to eat them, same as I look at womens and couples profiles but when we were meeting we wouldn't have wanted to meet them

Looking doesn't = gay or bi

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely..

I pointed this out in a thread some time ago, just trying to open a conversation really... some of the replies I received were: "How must we know you're bi unless we open your profile and look?"

...I mean huh?!? Really???

I get that you have to open a profile to get all the info, but if you claim you are straight straight straight... why is you just looky looking?

...but wow! People got defensive

I look at sporuts when I serve them up to Mr Ruggers, it doesn't mean I want to eat them, same as I look at womens and couples profiles but when we were meeting we wouldn't have wanted to meet them

Looking doesn't = gay or bi"

Sporuts??

Lol does one mean sprouts?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely..

I pointed this out in a thread some time ago, just trying to open a conversation really... some of the replies I received were: "How must we know you're bi unless we open your profile and look?"

...I mean huh?!? Really???

I get that you have to open a profile to get all the info, but if you claim you are straight straight straight... why is you just looky looking?

...but wow! People got defensive

I look at sporuts when I serve them up to Mr Ruggers, it doesn't mean I want to eat them, same as I look at womens and couples profiles but when we were meeting we wouldn't have wanted to meet them

Looking doesn't = gay or bi

Sporuts??

Lol does one mean sprouts?"

And them too !!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

If a gay guy watches straight porn does that mean he's now straight?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Jokes aside, I do wonder if this is the flip side of people denying homosexuality. You just need a good cock and you'll get over women etc.

People are allowed to identify how they want.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


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Is every man a bit gay/curious?

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No

I don't get this idea that being straight is not a thing or why the need to question....it is almost like it is old fashioned to be straight.

We will take that we are old fashioned and proud of it if that is the case.

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By *zreal_rdgMan
over a year ago

Reading


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

I can only speak personally. In my youth I had a gay experience and it just wasn’t for me. I get zero arousal from guys. Just not my cup of tea I guess.

If I had any attraction to guys I’d be exploring that. Who knows one day that may change. I think sexuality can evolve over time. Not closed to any possibilities

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"The only time I've ever watched gay porn was sitting in my mum's lounge with my 80 year old mum and niki

Nothing twitched and I've never had the desire to watch it since, so no, not all.

"

Was it Rocketman

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

See now, I'm bi, but I never watch gay/bi porn. Am I a some kind of weirdo

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love gay porn. Girl on girl is the hottest thing ever. Men on men ? Nah think I'll pass

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

Not read all the thread quotes but what do you think

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years."

42 years single and still 100% straight, I avoid any couples profiles where the word Bi appears next to the male half of the couple.

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years.

42 years single and still 100% straight, I avoid any couples profiles where the word Bi appears next to the male half of the couple."

YOU’RE Michael Caine!! OMG

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By *ulgehunterMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

Gay is hot

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years.

42 years single and still 100% straight, I avoid any couples profiles where the word Bi appears next to the male half of the couple.

YOU’RE Michael Caine!! OMG"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naddo~ No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes things happen in the heat of the moment . I’d never thought I’d ever try bi .

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"No definitely not, some guys are so straight you can’t get them to bend over

Obviously need to do some flexibility work"

Only if they can become flexible backwards

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I'm a little gay, only 5'3 xx

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


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Is every man a bit gay/curious?

"

Having been here more years than I care to remember I have seen this question asked many many times and always from a bi or curious guy ..it's "almost" as if they are trying to justify their orientation by saying it's not just me every guys is ..I'm not saying that's the reason for the question just saying it's how it comes across to me

Just accept some are some are not

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Is it that binary ?

I don't like labels, don’t watch male porn, don’t fancy guys at all in the slightest but would possibly snog and grope a convincing tgirl If she was hot and if a bi guy wanted to touch me in a three or foursome I’d possibly go along . Does that mean I am a gayer ?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Is it that binary ?

I don't like labels, don’t watch male porn, don’t fancy guys at all in the slightest but would possibly snog and grope a convincing tgirl If she was hot and if a bi guy wanted to touch me in a three or foursome I’d possibly go along . Does that mean I am a gayer ? "

Yep

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

Of course not.

Hubby is very definitely straight.

Lots of other men and women are completely straight.

Not sure why the myth persists that "everyone's a little bit bi".

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Is it that binary ?

I don't like labels, don’t watch male porn, don’t fancy guys at all in the slightest but would possibly snog and grope a convincing tgirl If she was hot and if a bi guy wanted to touch me in a three or foursome I’d possibly go along . Does that mean I am a gayer ?

Yep "

Here’s me thinking I’m like some alpha Dom with my sub princess , I’m so deluded, although to be fair I did quite enjoy doing the girls nails when they were kids.... it’s all making sense now

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Umm not even a little bit

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"Is it that binary ?

I don't like labels, don’t watch male porn, don’t fancy guys at all in the slightest but would possibly snog and grope a convincing tgirl If she was hot and if a bi guy wanted to touch me in a three or foursome I’d possibly go along . Does that mean I am a gayer ?

Yep

Here’s me thinking I’m like some alpha Dom with my sub princess , I’m so deluded, although to be fair I did quite enjoy doing the girls nails when they were kids.... it’s all making sense now "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Fknell ........ nothing of mine would twitch i'f i'd have watched porn with my parents either ........

Thumbs up to mum tho ........ I tire of those that think they invented sex and that little old ladies don't have a scooby about what's going ondo your teeth really go in a glass by bedside table lass? "

No they don't. Between you and the bloke who thinks I wear pads..... Grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 6 billion percent straight, I will never touch a cock as it actually freaks me out at the thought of it, so no definitely not.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Straight guys aren’t sexually interested in men. Dead easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you see these days is desperate beggy gay and bi men claiming everyone is bi or straight men will easily experiment. Yet suggest gay men would easily and happily experiment with women or are all a little bit bi and you will cause bemusement. Really cringe being gay sometimes.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"All you see these days is desperate beggy gay and bi men claiming everyone is bi or straight men will easily experiment. Yet suggest gay men would easily and happily experiment with women or are all a little bit bi and you will cause bemusement. Really cringe being gay sometimes. "

Exactly this and suggest to a lesbian that she has bi-curious tendencies about cock and I know what the reaction would be. The truth is that people are either straight, gay, lesbian or bi.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

I'm old enough to remember when "Gay" had a completely different meaning.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Straight guys aren’t sexually interested in men. Dead easy. "

Fab straight or regular straight

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Straight guys aren’t sexually interested in men. Dead easy.

Fab straight or regular straight"

I know I can turn a straight guy but hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not this one.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Not this one."
I was joking.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"

I know I can turn a straight guy but hey ho "

That wouldn't take much doing Stevieboi, anyway when are you coming up to Derby?

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London


"As a bi male... the amount or straight guys who look wink and message me tells me they are... definitely..

I pointed this out in a thread some time ago, just trying to open a conversation really... some of the replies I received were: "How must we know you're bi unless we open your profile and look?"

...I mean huh?!? Really???

I get that you have to open a profile to get all the info, but if you claim you are straight straight straight... why is you just looky looking?

...but wow! People got defensive

I look at sporuts when I serve them up to Mr Ruggers, it doesn't mean I want to eat them, same as I look at womens and couples profiles but when we were meeting we wouldn't have wanted to meet them

Looking doesn't = gay or bi"

I didn't say looking makes you gay/bi, nor did imply it

What I'm talking about, specifically, is men who are straight (and block men) ...that look at my profile (with a pic of me... a guy)

I'm not pointing fingers to label people, we're all happy to label our own preferences ...ah fuck it, doesn't matter

...straight guys, consciously making the decision to browse obviously male profiles are free to do so without being questioned...

...looking doesn't make you any more than being human

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Nope, I'm totally straight. I've had a few guys try it on with me on nights out over the years (I used to worry that I "looked gay" when I was younger because of it) but I'm definitely not interested! Nothing against people who are and I have many gay friends, but it's strictly women for me

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

No they are not thats a bit like saying every guy who likes a woman in a school girl outfit is a fiddler and thats not true either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All you see these days is desperate beggy gay and bi men claiming everyone is bi or straight men will easily experiment. Yet suggest gay men would easily and happily experiment with women or are all a little bit bi and you will cause bemusement. Really cringe being gay sometimes.

Exactly this and suggest to a lesbian that she has bi-curious tendencies about cock and I know what the reaction would be. The truth is that people are either straight, gay, lesbian or bi. "

Agreed on the sexualities Lisa, many people are 100% straight or gay, or others are on the (wide) bi spectrum. I appreciate sexuality can be fluid for some people but not across the board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years."

Unless something dreadful happens, I’ll never find out

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Probably no, for everybody but we don't know what forms sexual orientation. There's a chance of course, as it's not only about having 1 taste or 2, it comes in so many flavours and often doesn't become clear to some adults until later age. It's complex.

That the multiple variants of it are in other animals and have been around im humans for thousands of years, it's possible that its origins predate humans and thus there may be the capability in most or all of humans, even if not fully active, if it's latent.

If it wasn't an advantageous adaptation, it should have died out and not have flourished for so long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

No is the answer

But I wish people would care less about threads like this and not act like it's the worse thing they could ever be accused of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you be a bit gay? Like you can't be a bit dead.

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By *r Average69Man
over a year ago

Thanet

Yep! Fact!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yep! Fact! "
it’s not a fact though!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"How can you be a bit gay? Like you can't be a bit dead."

my preference is bi guys. the amount of straight guys who ask how bi they need to be..lmao

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By *am069Man
over a year ago

London


"How can you be a bit gay? Like you can't be a bit dead.

my preference is bi guys. the amount of straight guys who ask how bi they need to be..lmao"

Hahaha how bi?!? that's new lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How can you be a bit gay? Like you can't be a bit dead.

my preference is bi guys. the amount of straight guys who ask how bi they need to be..lmao"

What do you say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?"

Yes.

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?

Yes."

So I watch straight porn and am 100% gay so going by yr analogy I'm now bi even tho I don't wanna fuck a woman?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe if you have a mmf or dp, DVP then by its very nature you must be bi..same goes for sloppy seconds or double oral.

If you are comfortable around other guys in that situation then you must be slightly bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?

Yes.

So I watch straight porn and am 100% gay so going by yr analogy I'm now bi even tho I don't wanna fuck a woman?"

You are no doubt watching straight porn to perve on and admire the straight men in it, that is what every gay man who watches it had said to me about their reasons for watching it, they take no notice of the woman. I doubt you sit there watching lesbian porn do you as no men in it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No definitely not, some guys are so straight you can’t get them to bend over "

I don’t have that problem, I can touch my toes

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"I believe if you have a mmf or dp, DVP then by its very nature you must be bi..same goes for sloppy seconds or double oral.

If you are comfortable around other guys in that situation then you must be slightly bi."

Interesting point about DVP when men claim they're not interested in guys or wanna play or touch them during a group session. Right let me get this...u dont wanna touch another bloke during this but yr quite happy to rub yr cocks together inside a woman to both get yrself off from the friction it causes. U can't tell me it's all about the woman yr with. Yr actually stimulating each other.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Many gay men would love to think this is the case...

Do you think there's a little bit of straight in all gay guys?

I don't think so.

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?

Yes.

So I watch straight porn and am 100% gay so going by yr analogy I'm now bi even tho I don't wanna fuck a woman?

You are no doubt watching straight porn to perve on and admire the straight men in it, that is what every gay man who watches it had said to me about their reasons for watching it, they take no notice of the woman. I doubt you sit there watching lesbian porn do you as no men in it? "

No I dont and fair point. But by nature some people are just curious is doesn't define their tastes or who they are.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"How can you be a bit gay? Like you can't be a bit dead.

my preference is bi guys. the amount of straight guys who ask how bi they need to be..lmao

What do you say? "

unless your getting or letting him get balls deep....lol

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"Many gay men would love to think this is the case...

Do you think there's a little bit of straight in all gay guys?

I don't think so. "

No but I know a few gay guys curious about pussy but that doesn't make them bi.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

Dose a guy watching a bit of gay/tv/trans porn, mean he has to be gay/bi?

Yes.

So I watch straight porn and am 100% gay so going by yr analogy I'm now bi even tho I don't wanna fuck a woman?

You are no doubt watching straight porn to perve on and admire the straight men in it, that is what every gay man who watches it had said to me about their reasons for watching it, they take no notice of the woman. I doubt you sit there watching lesbian porn do you as no men in it?

No I dont and fair point. But by nature some people are just curious is doesn't define their tastes or who they are."

If it did then im obviously gay and transgender?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not gay but my bf is

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Many gay men would love to think this is the case...

Do you think there's a little bit of straight in all gay guys?

I don't think so.

No but I know a few gay guys curious about pussy but that doesn't make them bi."

The question was is every straight guy a little bit gay/ I asked if every gay man was a little bit straight and I dont think so.

The only people i have ever heard say that every straight man is 'haveable'is gay men and i think it is more wishful thinking than anything else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many gay men would love to think this is the case...

Do you think there's a little bit of straight in all gay guys?

I don't think so.

No but I know a few gay guys curious about pussy but that doesn't make them bi."

No it makes them bicurious (like me), not fully gay as most fully gay men I know retch at the thought. Just like you would get bicurious straight men looking at gay porn rather than fully straight men.

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By *1bttmMan
over a year ago

Shoreditch east London


"Many gay men would love to think this is the case...

Do you think there's a little bit of straight in all gay guys?

I don't think so.

No but I know a few gay guys curious about pussy but that doesn't make them bi.

No it makes them bicurious (like me), not fully gay as most fully gay men I know retch at the thought. Just like you would get bicurious straight men looking at gay porn rather than fully straight men. "

That's why I used the word curious. Curiosity doesn't mean they wanna act upon it and being experimental to test the water doesn't make them bi either. Trying something once doesn't mean yr labelled with it for life.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Never found a man sexually interesting enough.

Enjoy the company of bi, gay men, find it usually intelligent and fun.

However, if I’m honest, can’t even stand two male actors on TV Kissing.

Am I denying myself?

Don’t know.

Just know it is not part of my swing life.

These questions do appear to be spilling over from the sister site though.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"
once I've got around to them they will be

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By *r Average69Man
over a year ago

Thanet


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?once I've got around to them they will be "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

If this was the case then the reverse would also have to be true meaning all gay people are a bit straight or hetrocurious.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Personally were more comfortable around people with more fluid boundaries and attitudes and less binary definitions about sexually, gender, relationships. We have teens and this generation sees things very differently , we’re probably GenX stuck in millennial bodies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Personally were more comfortable around people with more fluid boundaries and attitudes and less binary definitions about sexually, gender, relationships. We have teens and this generation sees things very differently , we’re probably GenX stuck in millennial bodies "
yes, my kids have gay and bi and gender fluid friends and straight males who dress in ‘women’s’ clothes - they are quite open about it. It makes it all a damn sight easier when everyone knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Peerin...... It makes it all a damn sight easier when everyone knows. "

Makes what easier ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Peerin...... It makes it all a damn sight easier when everyone knows.

Makes what easier ?"

talking about such things - they all openly talk about sex and relationships and it’s not something I was used to.

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By *appyAsLarry2014Man
over a year ago

Matlock

I prefer T and A, sorry

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I prefer T and A, sorry"
what’s T and A ?

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By *lymanMan
over a year ago

PLYMOUTH


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?

If this was the case then the reverse would also have to be true meaning all gay people are a bit straight or hetrocurious.

"

This exactly

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I prefer T and A, sorry what’s T and A ?"

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By *appyAsLarry2014Man
over a year ago

Matlock

Tits and ass.....was trying not to lower the tone too much

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

No!

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Cwmfelifach, nr Newport


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

I tend to get an awful lot of interest from 'straight' guy's on here and when I ask if they have read my profile I would say about 2 out of 10 apologise for contacting me, I would say it's certainly on the increase but I think its more of curiosity than being gay.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"Tits and ass.....was trying not to lower the tone too much"
Sweetie, if you meet the right demigirl you're going to get your mind blown, along with other things if you're lucky...

Mr Icebreaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

,

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By *unshine05Man
over a year ago

,

Nope, I'm straighter then the pole your mother dances from.

No into turd burglaring.

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

In my teens and twenties, I would have recoiled in horror at the thought of being spit roasted.

Your tastes change with time and sexuality isn't a rigid determinate entity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I'm straighter then the pole your mother dances from.

No into turd burglaring.

"

if angelina jolie came to u asking if you fuck her shitty hole u would jump at it too many girls like the bum lovin to use that statement but i feel your sentiment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant even watch guys kiss on tv instant eye close moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are always a bit curious especially if you are horny

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Uhmmmmmmmmmm ask them when they've been alone for a few years."

Hahahaaa exactly.

My inbox would tell you this is true too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You are always a bit curious especially if you are horny "

Complete and utter bollocks I'm afriad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think every man has gay/bi tendencies but I do think it’s a lot higher percentage than stats would suggest. Whether that’s due to being afraid to admit it or they just haven’t worked it it out yet.

Plus take into consideration some men are capable of having sex with someone they’re not attracted to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only gay if you kiss ? Right....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how many straight guys look at my profile and message, despite me saying I'm not interested as play with couples and sexy tv.

Need to be honest with yourselves more than anything..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just read a survey of 18-24 yr olds that said only half of respondents identified as completely heterosexual. So it would seem younger generations are more open minded, which allows them to express themselves more freely. Hopefully this attitude will spread across the rest of society

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go near inkeds arse and it would dry up quicker than the Sahara desert.

Im always teasing him trying to get a reaction but i think if i seriously touched him in that way he would knock me the hell out haha.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Go near inkeds arse and it would dry up quicker than the Sahara desert.

Im always teasing him trying to get a reaction but i think if i seriously touched him in that way he would knock me the hell out haha.

"

Interesting..I think lots of str8 guys associate arse play with 'gay stuff'

Such a shame cos much fun can be had with fingering/prostate etc and still hang on to your hetero status..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly


"I just read a survey of 18-24 yr olds that said only half of respondents identified as completely heterosexual. So it would seem younger generations are more open minded, which allows them to express themselves more freely. Hopefully this attitude will spread across the rest of society "

More information, less prejudice and an acceptance of more fluid ideas towards sexuality and sexual identification. All bloody good things, I reckon.

Still, some people are and will always be 100% of one idea. And that's cool.

People are generally cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all

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By *anni and RicCouple
over a year ago

York

Can't speak for anyone else, but I certainly enjoy having a bit of gay in me! Ric x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi all how are you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"More ‘straight’ guys watch gay or trans porn than you would expect. Is every man a bit gay/curious?"

No - saying it in small words for the hard of understanding

Identity is not about behaviour. Someone is gay because they identify as gay.Sex with the same gender is a behaviour not an identity

Oh and unless you mean trans masc porn your bigotry is showing because trans women are women so its perfectly normal for straight men to find their porn arousing

Ms Icebreaker

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By *ust looking 24TV/TS
over a year ago

Oldham

No depends on the individual and like the saying how do u know whst icecream u like intil youve tried them all

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

No. Not at all.

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By *ub_Jess_TVTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

Oh I've lost count the amount of times guys have said to me "I'm not gay but...."

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Doesn't everyone appreciate a big beautiful cock when they watch porn (if they do) or a fit guy with their wife etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I'm straighter then the pole your mother dances from.

No into turd burglaring.

"

Did I see you say something about constructing a sentence?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What's the definition of the 'gay' in use here?

If you gathered the initial group with a little bit or a lot of gay in them into 1 group, separated from the rest and then gave only those non-gay 6 months in isolation...

Those who haven't shown a little bit of gay by 6 months don't get a chance to win £500 million and have to live in a tiny enclosure with unfed crocodiles, alligators, poisonous snakes, spiders, and scorpions without anything to use as a weapon against any of them. The animals outnumber you 1000 to 1.

Only those who enjoy the gay sex that they may have can move to the gay enjoyment group and they must have sex with the majority of them. The longer they are in the gay enjoyment group, the more chances they have of winning £500 million. Unfortunately not all of those who went into the non gay group in the isolation area will be able to move out of it, only those who will have the most gay sex enjoyment and while space lasts, though they'll not know how much safe space exists in the gay safe area.

The likelihood of all of the people staying in the same 2 groups is probably small.

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By *JsandstockingsCouple
over a year ago

warwickshire


"Fknell ........ nothing of mine would twitch i'f i'd have watched porn with my parents either ........

Thumbs up to mum tho ........ I tire of those that think they invented sex and that little old ladies don't have a scooby about what's going on"

Great reply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm strictly fanny

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I won't talk out of school but I watch men with men and trust me 90% of the ones I watch are either married or in a relationship and have straight on there profile.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Just checked !! Yep, I'm a little gay xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well some of us seem to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I'm strictly fanny "

Tranny fanny?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm full gay but I'm straight as an arrow

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

I pretty much think people are either gay, straight, bi or have no interest in any sex whatsoever... Out of that may fall many self defined sub categories but pretty much that covers it all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, I'm straighter then the pole your mother dances from.

No into turd burglaring.

"

I reported this post yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I'm straight. Or maybe I just haven't seen the right penis yet, though on Fab that's unlikely

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Yep

But you're especially gay if you said you're not on this thread

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