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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What/who do you class as a time waster?

I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

I'm wasting my time now looking on fab while I should be eating breakfast instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.

I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s usually men who ask ladies for sex and get turned down and immediately brand the ladies timewasters.

Suck on sour lemon and sour grapes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.

I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up"

Couldn't agree more.

If you are stating youre not looking to meet from the off then nothing more should be expected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn’t call you a time waster if you’re up front at the start and say you’re not meeting.

I save that term for people I’ve made plans to meet with and they haven’t turned up

Couldn't agree more.

If you are stating youre not looking to meet from the off then nothing more should be expected "

It’s literally on my profile. They message me to say they’ve read my profile, and I’m a time waster. Okay

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"What/who do you class as a time waster?

I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "

Someone who agrees to meet, then either cancels last minute, or fails to show, I class a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What/who do you class as a time waster?

I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "

I don't think you qualify, I'd say someone who goes through all the motions, agrees to meet, even picks a place and time only to change their mind at the last moment or continually postpone the meet.

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By *uriousMe2018Couple
over a year ago

Aldershot

We find alot of time wasting couples. When you make the effort chatting to people, make plans to meet then get ghosted or they disappear from the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What/who do you class as a time waster?

I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "

I think that's just people living in hope because they think you will change your mind ha

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

If you state not meeting, not a time waster.

If you message asking to meet without reading the "not meeting" status = self time waster.

If you fail to turn up after arranging to meet = time waster for both parties.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya"

Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya

Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today? "

Yes sir!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya

Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today?

Yes sir!"
oooooh! I’ll be wearing a cowboy hat at a jaunty angle and spurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also someone that refuses to send a face picture until the afternoon before an evening meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also someone that refuses to send a face picture until the afternoon before an evening meet "

Ooooft I wouldn’t be arranging anything until I see their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been called it too. I would say time wasters are people you are arranging a meet with who ghost you or people who don't turn up to a meet

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By *on manMan
over a year ago

N West

Even travelled waiting for an address to be let down=total time waster

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Damn! It was the hat wasn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also for me, a time waster is someone who chats to ya, arranges a meet and bails/ghosts ya

Wanna meet on the pier at 3.43pm today?

Yes sir!

oooooh! I’ll be wearing a cowboy hat at a jaunty angle and spurs. "

See ya soon buddy

I’ll be wearing purple leather trousers

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"What/who do you class as a time waster?

I’ve been told many a time that I’m a time waster because I’m not meeting. But I’m still unsure who’s time I have been wasting "

Your are no time waster as you are clear and to the point you're not interested in meeting quite obvious but what is a time wasting is arranging to meet I'm not showing up string people who have have 0 chance of ever gaining from the exchange.

Not sure you need to worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters to me are those asking questions in messages that are answered in the profile. We've spent the time writing the profile, won't waste our time repeating sections of it in messages.

Mrs

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"I've been called it too. I would say time wasters are people you are arranging a meet with who ghost you or people who don't turn up to a meet "

Agree!

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply the ones that stand you up when a meet is arranged.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People who don't turn up when they say they will.

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