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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/3 times per week

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By *inkxRabbitWoman
over a year ago

Mostly in GU24

2 or 3 times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away."

I would be happy with 4 times

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away."

I'd love 3 or 4 times a week, 2,3 rounds at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away."

Every day whilst I'm still young-ish.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I say because I spoke to a few pals in the past, some say they only have sex once or twice a month, I sense they would prefer this to be higher however some seem fairly content with it.

A past relationship we would have sex every time we were alone.

The most important thing is that it is fulfilling for both parties in any loving relationship, whatever the rate is I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away.

Every day whilst I'm still young-ish."

Why only younger and not older?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away.

I'd love 3 or 4 times a week, 2,3 rounds at the time"

Quite a schedule to keep up with

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Oh it all varies so much with a proper life partner. Once a month... 5 a week.... These things aren't at the forefront of life most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's why I said taking other complications away. Life can be a passion killer and it's not for the want of trying but you can easily lose the 'momentum' so to speak

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I would be happy with twice a day

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

5 to 6 days a week and twice on weekends

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Every day

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away.

I'd love 3 or 4 times a week, 2,3 rounds at the time

Quite a schedule to keep up with "

I'm sure that could be improved with equally committed partner in crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day"

Multiple times a day.

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Every day

Multiple times a day. "

That's the spirit

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There's no definite answer to this.

It should be any time that passion is between you.

Whether it's 3 times a day or 3 times a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a day at least.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've generally done it 2 or 3 times a week over many, many years with some partners. I'd probably settle for a couple of times each, depending on how many of them and other sex going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't tie it down. When we fancy it is my closest answer. Do others honestly want sex to schedule?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as much as she wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't tie it down. When we fancy it is my closest answer. Do others honestly want sex to schedule?

If their arse looked as inviting as yours, then yes. On the hour, every hour

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I couldn't tie it down. When we fancy it is my closest answer. Do others honestly want sex to schedule?

Not at all, it is "I really fancy You now" moment, but on rounded average some numbers tend to appear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't tie it down. When we fancy it is my closest answer. Do others honestly want sex to schedule?

If their arse looked as inviting as yours, then yes. On the hour, every hour

Lol I must disappoint many then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't tie it down. When we fancy it is my closest answer. Do others honestly want sex to schedule?

Not at all, it is "I really fancy You now" moment, but on rounded average some numbers tend to appear "

Nah. I don't have rounded numbers.

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By *eandHim2019Couple
over a year ago

preston

Whenever work ,family responsibility, everyday life allows .theres no figure on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we both wanted it. Its supposed to be a mutual thing isnt it?

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d like it daily. Even if it’s just a quickie. It puts me in a good mood so really they’d be doing themselves a favour

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By *hilleddevilMan
over a year ago

north Manchester

Ha ha, don't have kids then! They leave time for very little..apart for when they go for sleep overs

or if you pull a sick and they are at school

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you have sex with a steady partner, in an ideal world taking other complications away.

I'd love 3 or 4 times a week, 2,3 rounds at the time

Quite a schedule to keep up with

I'm sure that could be improved with equally committed partner in crime

I wasn't referring to the practicalities but you would be worn out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I don’t know ... let me get my crystal ball out

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

"Oh I don’t know ... let me get my crystal ball out

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could you have a look at my perfect number to please lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mr can go a week without it but for me at else once a day

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's no definite answer to this.

It should be any time that passion is between you.

Whether it's 3 times a day or 3 times a month.

There's not, and also depends person to person.

I was asking how much you would want that to happen though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day

Multiple times a day. "

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Every day

Multiple times a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh I don’t know ... let me get my crystal ball out

could you have a look at my perfect number to please lol"

Yours is 3

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ha ha, don't have kids then! They leave time for very little..apart for when they go for sleep overs

or if you pull a sick and they are at school"

I knew a couple with young kids who were having sex twice a day. Dunno how they were doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the partner to be honest, I've been with partners where we almost burnt each other out, having sex at least 3 - 4 times daily and sometimes we'd stay up for most of the night.

I was also with someone where it was 3 times a week and no more than 1 round ( I was called abnormal when I tried for more :o).

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Inevitably the people I want to have sex with the most will never be regular enough. I'd settle for a lot of sex on a weekend and holiday shag-fests (if anyone wants to whisk me off to Gran Canaria?!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least 3 times a week would be nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Inevitably the people I want to have sex with the most will never be regular enough. I'd settle for a lot of sex on a weekend and holiday shag-fests (if anyone wants to whisk me off to Gran Canaria?!)

Now that's what you should think like, you have lofty expectations but know that from experience perhaps that it's not feasible.

However there's a difference between what you want and what you are willing to compromise on. The faster you learn that the better.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

With a FB/FWB ideal world couple of times a week.

In a live in relationship ideal world two or three times a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as we were both up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FWB/FB 2/3 times a week

Live in partners 5-7 a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days several times a day and some days none.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To the people with the whole 'but it depends from person to person' and 'you can't force passion' points. Well that's ok but sometimes you do need to make time for it and arranged schedules etc. can really aid to keep that alive, else you can find yourself falling into the slippery slope of losing all sexual desires for them quicker than you can say celibate!

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Ideally I'd like it at least 4 times a week however I had sex 7 times last year so it's wishful thinking on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an ideal world, every night. It wouldn't have to be every night like, but sex is great and if it remains great each time then I'd like it every night please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to be with them every day or evening, or even every weekend... This will never be possible in its current format.. Or if it was, something bad would have happened.. So I'll stick with my once a month hope x

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By *inkyandperky555Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We have it 3 to 4 times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I feel like it. What normal person can put a number to that??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever we felt like it

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

2 to 3 times a month on average, would be peaks and troughs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever we felt like it

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ok then me and you right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day... Hence why we cohabit

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Were averaging a couple of times a week. Not too bad i guess

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By *edoriartyCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"2 to 3 times a month on average, would be peaks and troughs."

I'd want it more than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day... Hence why we cohabit

You got it going on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would like to be with them every day or evening, or even every weekend... This will never be possible in its current format.. Or if it was, something bad would have happened.. So I'll stick with my once a month hope x"

Dont stick... twist

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By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move

Currently several times a day

High sex drives and lots of fantasies!

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"2 to 3 times a month on average, would be peaks and troughs.

I'd want it more than that!

I'll get a man in

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Currently several times a day

High sex drives and lots of fantasies!"

You want to do that or are achieving it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Whenever I feel like it. What normal person can put a number to that??"

I could put a number on it, guess I just don't know if I'm normal though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont stick... twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally? Twice a day.

In reality...3/4 times a week is acceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice a day

But some days, if I was busy, not at all. I hate routine!

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

At least once a day in an ideal world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1/2 a day if nothing preventing it, probably unsurprising

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daily.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Every partner I've been with we've had sex daily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least once a day

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By *edVelvet08Woman
over a year ago

Kettering

As often as possible

may it be 2,3,4,5 times a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as possible, every opportunity, loving spontaneous all round the house with a regular partner. Just a fantasy though, reality is a bitch!!

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london

Honesty, ideally 2/3 times day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Twice a day

But some days, if I was busy, not at all. I hate routine!

Only twice? Three times the charm

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm a bit weird. I can't be bothered every day but then the days I do I'd happily go like 3 times. Or some weeks I'm like a bitch on heat and want it all the time and then I won't even get myself off for a week. Temperamental libido!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I'm a bit weird. I can't be bothered every day but then the days I do I'd happily go like 3 times. Or some weeks I'm like a bitch on heat and want it all the time and then I won't even get myself off for a week. Temperamental libido!"

Let me send you my phone number.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Ideally, twice a day.

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Is 5 times a day being greedy pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and my partner have it 4 or 5 times a day

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By *eddynAngelCouple
over a year ago

Tamworth

In an ideal world?

Full V intercourse? Once a day, maybe twice on special occassions.

But oral? Multiple times a day ideally

We manage most days thankfully.

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