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Does swinging teach you about yourself?

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Have you made any big personal realisations because of your time on Fab?

For me the personal growth has been bloody profound. And is ongoing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The growth I’ve made so far has amazed me. I’ve been working on myself for a while, but fab and more particularly the people I’ve met have accelerated that growth and development.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Yes, I have a smaller penis than the average male on fab.

Oh and sometimes I find I struggle to differentiate as to when to be flippant and when to really question my true motivation.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

yep im 50/50 with it though. Some good some bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me realize that I will do almost anything in the heat of the moment . Especially with couples .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt a few things about myself. But then I'm always learning new things about myself and fab is just a minor part of that

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes know more about myself that I thought I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it has enabled me to recognise and embrace my sexuality, opened me up to experiences I hand to contemplated I would enjoy and connect the dots of my sexual history so I could integrate it into who I am. It has been an emotional journey and I’ve been confronted with many hometruths along the way. I hope that journey continues.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's more a realisation that self-perception and how others perceive me don't necessarily match and to a degree that has altered how I think of myself

In other ways it has possibly had a negative impact but about things I recognise and can see are me overthinking rather than actual problems - so tend to try and think of those in more objective terms when I can

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've done a lot of work on myself, but swinging has helped me bring it together, accept myself, embrace myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It teaches you about others and their likes and dislikes. I am enjoying learning & teaching

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

It’s made me review some pretty core beliefs about myself and the world which has been valuable. I feel a lot more comfortable in my own skin now.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yes. I've learned to accept myself more, that beauty doesnt necessarily mean I have to have a slim, toned, fit body. It's also brought me out of myself more. I've found my confidence x

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've learned to stand up for myself. Be less of a people pleaser

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve learned to continue being myself, rather than pretend to be something I’m not

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I've learned that what's important to me and to my relationship with Mr TMN always comes first, no matter what. I've got more comfortable with saying no and not apologising for it. And that I like to show off!

Mrs TMN x

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

It has taught me quite a lot about myself and the people here

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It taught me that I will get my kit off with alarming speed. Too! Mr N by surprise too

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By *niceguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

It's improved my self confidence

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes. In lots of ways except I’m not any taller.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It helps with accepting knock backs, but like the vanilla world really lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

no ive always been the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt that I liked being watched having sex.

I’ve also learnt that nsa sex does nothing for me anymore and I’m bored of the whole lifestyle.

I’ve learnt that there are more judgmental people on Fab than I’ve ever met in my real life.

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By *essons in LustCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Yes. I've learned to accept myself more, that beauty doesnt necessarily mean I have to have a slim, toned, fit body. It's also brought me out of myself more. I've found my confidence x"

This xx

Usually

Although less lately but mire due to life in general rather than just this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its taught me much about others....

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Have you made any big personal realisations because of your time on Fab?

For me the personal growth has been bloody profound. And is ongoing."

Massively and yes still ongoing. All in a good way tho, I’m loving the lifestyle

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Have you made any big personal realisations because of your time on Fab?

For me the personal growth has been bloody profound. And is ongoing."

Feel there easier places to find yourself than fab .

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yep, I've learnt I'm loveable and capable of love. It's a continuing journey and one that I'm very much enjoying. I'm more aware of my flaws but also the positive traits I have. I'm still discovering and exploring my sexuality which is a hoot. And I've learned that my voice matters and to speak up more when something doesn't work for me.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Have you made any big personal realisations because of your time on Fab?

For me the personal growth has been bloody profound. And is ongoing.

Feel there easier places to find yourself than fab .

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It certainly wasn't deliberate on my part

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I've learned to accept myself and my passed more, that beauty isn't necessarily always what you believe others see, mean Im fair from perfect, It's also brought me out of my shell sometime seems I can be a feisty one And more at times. I've found my confidence however shy at times

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Fab has given me so much more confidence about who I am and my sexuality. So much so that I don't really care what people think.

I always try and dress to impress but sometimes it goes wrong and that doesn't bother me anymore. I go out and about dressed, Supermarkets, Mcdonalds, town centres etc and I don't really know how or where I got that kind of confidence from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. I've learned to accept myself and my passed more, that beauty isn't necessarily always what you believe others see, mean Im fair from perfect, It's also brought me out of my shell sometime seems I can be a feisty one And more at times. I've found my confidence however shy at times "

That’s awesome dude.

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By *issyEMWoman
over a year ago

Nearly

I am more fussy and not after any fun..

Belive in love not in person who I love.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

It's given me a huge confidence boost. I used to be quite shy and nervous when meeting new people, but I'm used to meeting randoms for a social now and can quite happily chat for a couple of hours with pretty much anyone. Also I've come to accept that people are attracted to all shapes and sizes, and I don't need to drop a couple of dress sizes to be attractive.

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By *as_no_ideaWoman
over a year ago

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Although I am still relatively new to this lifestyle, I have learnt a few things, and will continue to learn...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest it's taught me that I'm more or less stuck in my ways.

I got the same comment in a club I visit that I got at a work do. "you stand in a corner like a shy guy but once you're dragged over to meet people you become the life of the party"

I'm not very diplomatic about expressing my opinions and I prefer to be in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It taught me that I will get my kit off with alarming speed. Too! Mr N by surprise too "

I can be clothed to naked in the blink of an eye now

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Yes, I think it does.

Swinging has confirmed that I am definitely bisexual.

I have also learned that I enjoy group sex and being watched, amongst other things.

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By *naswingdress OP   Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It taught me that I will get my kit off with alarming speed. Too! Mr N by surprise too

I can be clothed to naked in the blink of an eye now"

After I got over the worst of my body insecurity, I can walk around naked quite happily now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It taught me that I will get my kit off with alarming speed. Too! Mr N by surprise too

I can be clothed to naked in the blink of an eye now

After I got over the worst of my body insecurity, I can walk around naked quite happily now "

And being naked infront of total strangers which I thought would be worse than it is. I can make tea in the nude now

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