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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all..

Pondering a recent meet, when meeting up with a single male would you expect them to provide protection or the other way around??

Curious..

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We would want to provide our own tbh

Jo x

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I would never *expect* someone to provide protection - it's my sexual health, so I take responsibility for it and always come prepared accordingly.

Obviously if they have their own and prefer to use it then not a problem (by the time I meet I trust people enough)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We provided our own but expected a single man to ask if we hadn't made it clear

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would expect both parties to come prepared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you mean protection?

Like a taser?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry an umberella.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand


"Hi all..

Pondering a recent meet, when meeting up with a single male would you expect them to provide protection or the other way around??

Curious.. "

I do not provide specifically but I do bring some with me incase needed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What do you mean protection?

Like a taser?"

Sometimes would come in handy in clubs!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

As a single guy, I carry my own, because I know which brands are "comfortable" for me to wear, I tend to choose latex free as that negates a problem that may occur.

Most of the people I have met, also have their own and it is a question of trust. In that some people could use a pin if a) they want to get pregnant, or b) they are just an arsehole that gets off on that.

For this reason I always open a fresh box when meeting with someone for the first time and I would only ever use someone elses if they insisted and there was a fresh box available. Doesn't reduce all the issues, but it is managing risk somewhat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always carry an umberella."

Protection from the squirters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a single guy, I carry my own, because I know which brands are "comfortable" for me to wear, I tend to choose latex free as that negates a problem that may occur.

Most of the people I have met, also have their own and it is a question of trust. In that some people could use a pin if a) they want to get pregnant, or b) they are just an arsehole that gets off on that.

For this reason I always open a fresh box when meeting with someone for the first time and I would only ever use someone elses if they insisted and there was a fresh box available. Doesn't reduce all the issues, but it is managing risk somewhat."

Wow. That really is a lot of thought and actually makes sense. Thanks for the openness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would never *expect* someone to provide protection - it's my sexual health, so I take responsibility for it and always come prepared accordingly.

Obviously if they have their own and prefer to use it then not a problem (by the time I meet I trust people enough) "

Agreed that it’s the health of all parties involved therefore my opinion would be that if a single male is playing with a couple that he’d want to be careful himself and not expect the couple to provide condoms nor bareback! Especially when it’s indicated in our profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect both parties to come prepared. "

Me too!!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Never rely on the other person to bring it, always provide your own. If they forget what are you going to do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does looking the car doors count as protection???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

By the time I get to actually having a meet with a new person we would have already discussed condoms and made suitable arrangements for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry does locking the car doors count that should gave been lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have condoms on me for meets, but I would be surprised if the other party didn't have any as well...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I would expect both parties to come prepared. "

or have a discussion beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine's probably out of date.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I always carry my own. In general I've often found that the expectation is on the guy to bring condoms.

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough

Being a guy, I think that the man should bring it, but I also think that in this day and age there is nothing wrong with the lady / other person bringing some too just in case

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I would hope they would bring their own but I always do too as I'm not taking that chance.

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By *iberty RedWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I always have some with me but would hope who I was meeting came prepared too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd add that one of the topics of conversation before meeting is always about protection, if they have a preference, any allergies etc - and if necessary I will buy fresh accordingly

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I carry my own unless it's been discussed beforehand

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By *euschMan
over a year ago

peterborough


"I'd add that one of the topics of conversation before meeting is always about protection, if they have a preference, any allergies etc - and if necessary I will buy fresh accordingly "

Wow, that is thinking ahead, not a bad thing

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