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"Slimmed down a tad with my recent illness so that was an unexpected bonus Proper return to the gym now beckons " Illness is a bugger. My biceps are still too squishy after a nasty infection in December that derailed me. Hope the return is smooth. | |||
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"Slimmed down a tad with my recent illness so that was an unexpected bonus Proper return to the gym now beckons Illness is a bugger. My biceps are still too squishy after a nasty infection in December that derailed me. Hope the return is smooth." I'll avoid legs for the moment! | |||
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" I’m 10st down from 12 (in about 2 years, slow body transformation) 10.5% body fat down from 18%. I want to bulk up now but don’t want to take protein supplements. Gonna need to eat some chicken and push some weights." Amazing! Well done you. And you look incredible... | |||
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"Mine is going the right way, but at the moment for the wrong reasons I'm down from, at my peak, a size 24. About a 14 at the moment. Clinically no longer obese. Aiming to lose probably a stone and a half give or take, although that's final weight (muscle gain too) not just fat loss. My appetite has vanished which is entirely unlike me. Gym work going from strength to strength." That’s amazing! You look really good. | |||
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"Slimmed down a tad with my recent illness so that was an unexpected bonus Proper return to the gym now beckons Illness is a bugger. My biceps are still too squishy after a nasty infection in December that derailed me. Hope the return is smooth. I'll avoid legs for the moment! " | |||
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" I’m 10st down from 12 (in about 2 years, slow body transformation) 10.5% body fat down from 18%. I want to bulk up now but don’t want to take protein supplements. Gonna need to eat some chicken and push some weights. Amazing! Well done you. And you look incredible... " Thanks and well done on the running! An amazing progression. | |||
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"I've given up trying to make myself look good for other people I'm happy as I am, no six pack but there overrated # lovewhoyouare " Ditto | |||
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"I’m down 3.5 stone since August. Struggling a little now Xmas is over and done with but I’m starting to get back on track. Long way to go yet but I know I can do it " Wow 3.5 stoned is amazing! Well done x | |||
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"Mine is going the right way, but at the moment for the wrong reasons I'm down from, at my peak, a size 24. About a 14 at the moment. Clinically no longer obese. Aiming to lose probably a stone and a half give or take, although that's final weight (muscle gain too) not just fat loss. My appetite has vanished which is entirely unlike me. Gym work going from strength to strength. That’s amazing! You look really good. " Thank you! Came off a medication about four years ago, lost about half of the weight it made me gain quite easily. The rest is self worth and doing these things for myself. Knock on effects. Just before I started on the medication (six years ago) II bought an expensive for me coat which I loved. Only wore it a few times. Discovered just before Christmas that it fits me again. I cried. | |||
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"I've discovered the joy of doing this without beating myself up. It's easier now. Yes, I have goals, but they're sort of just a direction to go in. Not "I'm terrible/hideous/unworthy if the label on my pants is bigger than number X". I'm celebrating my body and my physical and mental strength. Trying new manoeuvres in the gym at the moment which are stressing a long term deficit from an injury. Feel the fear, do it anyway. See what's possible. Apart from physical well-being, I've stopped giving a shit what I weigh. How do I feel in my body? What am I capable of? Can I push it further? It's liberating." I think that’s the right way to do it. I only look at numbers to check if I’m progressing in the direction I want as visually the difference is not noticeable month over month. Numbers are a monitor, not a goal. The goal is feeling good in my skin. | |||
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"Mine is going the right way, but at the moment for the wrong reasons I'm down from, at my peak, a size 24. About a 14 at the moment. Clinically no longer obese. Aiming to lose probably a stone and a half give or take, although that's final weight (muscle gain too) not just fat loss. My appetite has vanished which is entirely unlike me. Gym work going from strength to strength. That’s amazing! You look really good. Thank you! Came off a medication about four years ago, lost about half of the weight it made me gain quite easily. The rest is self worth and doing these things for myself. Knock on effects. Just before I started on the medication (six years ago) II bought an expensive for me coat which I loved. Only wore it a few times. Discovered just before Christmas that it fits me again. I cried." I would have too! That’s such an achievement | |||
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"Constant and progressive x" Looking good! Going up or down? | |||
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"From my peak I estimate (I have no idea, I wasn't weighing myself) that I've lost a bit over 50kg/ about 8 stone. More if you consider gained muscle mass." Looking fabulous with it. Lovely photos x | |||
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"I’m down 3.5 stone since August. Struggling a little now Xmas is over and done with but I’m starting to get back on track. Long way to go yet but I know I can do it Wow 3.5 stoned is amazing! Well done x" Thanks you | |||
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"From my peak I estimate (I have no idea, I wasn't weighing myself) that I've lost a bit over 50kg/ about 8 stone. More if you consider gained muscle mass. Looking fabulous with it. Lovely photos x" Thank you. Day by day, etc. | |||
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"Generally I find people that get it and are on with it , look and feel great, pics here confirm that , perfect bods aren’t required by others to find you sexy , just good bods" Not aiming for perfect. Just healthy. Couldn't give a shit what others think about my body to be honest. | |||
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"Generally I find people that get it and are on with it , look and feel great, pics here confirm that , perfect bods aren’t required by others to find you sexy , just good bods" For me it's about feeling good in myself. | |||
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"It is going fine and I am on a slow bulk program to get bigger and I follow a diet that is called if it fits in your macros. I go to the gym 3 times a week and I also do lots of cardio, walking, swimming and yoga " You've got too much time on your hands.. | |||
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"I'm working on losing a stone but only really gradually. I'm happy if I stay the same. I'm concentrating more on increasing my fitness. I now swim 4-5 times a week. Only 40-50 lengths but I'm gradually building that up and might even start doing other exercise. The trouble I have is that every other form of exercise doesn't interest me so I don't stick to it. " Try fucking more black guys? | |||
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"I'm working on losing a stone but only really gradually. I'm happy if I stay the same. I'm concentrating more on increasing my fitness. I now swim 4-5 times a week. Only 40-50 lengths but I'm gradually building that up and might even start doing other exercise. The trouble I have is that every other form of exercise doesn't interest me so I don't stick to it. Try fucking more black guys?" | |||
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"It is going fine and I am on a slow bulk program to get bigger and I follow a diet that is called if it fits in your macros. I go to the gym 3 times a week and I also do lots of cardio, walking, swimming and yoga You've got too much time on your hands.." No not at all. I prioritise, there is 24hrs in a day there is always time | |||
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"Need to tighten up judging by new pictures, but leg definition is still good." Look good to us S | |||
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"At target with a 3 stone loss. Loving my new shape and the ease of buying a size 12 dress. Health benefits are an added bonus. " Buying below a size 16 is so easy. It's sad in a way, but for myself I'm delighted. | |||
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"It is going fine and I am on a slow bulk program to get bigger and I follow a diet that is called if it fits in your macros. I go to the gym 3 times a week and I also do lots of cardio, walking, swimming and yoga You've got too much time on your hands.." I'd suggest he has made time for things he finds positive and satisfying That's why I train 4 to 5 times a week , mountain climb bike and run , sup, and yoga I dont do much cardio | |||
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"Need to tighten up judging by new pictures, but leg definition is still good." You look great! I'm jealous of your stomach in the second pic! | |||
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"I've lost a stone in the last few months. Sadly no due to diet of specific exercise but due to my new job. I'm walking over 5 miles a day and dont have much time for eating I know it's not healthy but cant see away around it. I work at meal times. It has spured me to tone up though so considering some targeted exercise. " Sounds perfect! I need a job like that! | |||
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"For those who want to (you don't have to, love yourself), how's it going?" it's not going currently . Did well over xmas and new year... but just had a lot going on. X Got plans though as off on holiday in just over a month. Would like a stone off by then x | |||
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"Having my annual body dysmorphia wobble. No Swing, you're fine, stop it " It's a tough time after Christmas. I struggle this time of year too. Same again when the sun starts coming out and everyone starts showing more skin. | |||
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"It is going fine and I am on a slow bulk program to get bigger and I follow a diet that is called if it fits in your macros. I go to the gym 3 times a week and I also do lots of cardio, walking, swimming and yoga You've got too much time on your hands.. I'd suggest he has made time for things he finds positive and satisfying That's why I train 4 to 5 times a week , mountain climb bike and run , sup, and yoga I dont do much cardio " That is right as I prioritise as I like all the positiveness you get out of it as well with the feel good factor | |||
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"Having my annual body dysmorphia wobble. No Swing, you're fine, stop it It's a tough time after Christmas. I struggle this time of year too. Same again when the sun starts coming out and everyone starts showing more skin." I lost weight over Christmas. My brain is just being stupid. | |||
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"Can i bulk, whilst simultaneously reducing body fat percentage?" Not really. People will come along and say you can but one requires calorie surplus and the other requires defecit so it's a bit of a losing battle. If you increase your muscle mass but keep the same body fat percentage you will look different though. I assume that is shag's aim with his slow bulk as when people try to rapidly bulk they often gain some body fat too. | |||
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"Having my annual body dysmorphia wobble. No Swing, you're fine, stop it It's a tough time after Christmas. I struggle this time of year too. Same again when the sun starts coming out and everyone starts showing more skin. I lost weight over Christmas. My brain is just being stupid." Silly brains! Hugs! | |||
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"Having my annual body dysmorphia wobble. No Swing, you're fine, stop it It's a tough time after Christmas. I struggle this time of year too. Same again when the sun starts coming out and everyone starts showing more skin. I lost weight over Christmas. My brain is just being stupid. Silly brains! Hugs!" I'm much more at peace with it haha. It's now, am I making the most of myself rather than "you're worthless because..." | |||
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"Can i bulk, whilst simultaneously reducing body fat percentage? Not really. People will come along and say you can but one requires calorie surplus and the other requires defecit so it's a bit of a losing battle. If you increase your muscle mass but keep the same body fat percentage you will look different though. I assume that is shag's aim with his slow bulk as when people try to rapidly bulk they often gain some body fat too." My aim is to put on 10kg this year without going over my current 24% body fat. If i get towards 27, ill cut back on the calories again. | |||
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"My weightloss is going great! I started a new job as a postie 3 weeks ago and so far have lost a stone! No diet change at all, it’s purely down to the job. Today my Apple Watch tells me that I’ve walked 23000 steps which is 17km!" Wow! | |||
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"Find it so hard to get back into it after the new year and Christmas. I feel so tired all the time But hopefully thing will strat to change " Try vitamin D supplements | |||
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"Find it so hard to get back into it after the new year and Christmas. I feel so tired all the time But hopefully thing will strat to change Try vitamin D supplements" Second this. Transformed my energy levels. I then changed my diet and energy went through the roof! But Vit D is a great starting point. | |||
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"Mine's going ok. I lost 30lbs last year, no diet change (indeed I still overindulge every day-off), just a job walking 10-15 miles daily Got a bike last week and I'm enjoying it. Running had become a chore, good to have options. But oh.. I used to be a machine, in hindsight, I miss that. Just haven't got the same anger or need to prove myself or whatever mix it was that spurred me on." I'm a stubborn cow. Lots to prove | |||
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"Find it so hard to get back into it after the new year and Christmas. I feel so tired all the time But hopefully thing will strat to change Try vitamin D supplements Second this. Transformed my energy levels. I then changed my diet and energy went through the roof! But Vit D is a great starting point. " Already on the vitamin D. Just can't to seem to find the strength some days. Maybe just get old lol. | |||
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"Can i bulk, whilst simultaneously reducing body fat percentage?" Not exactly but you can alter your diet and you must get your macros right, that way you will lose body fat at the same time as keeping similar weight and the size you have and physically look like you have been putting size with the definition gained then start to clean bulk slowly keeping almost as lean but a lot heavier with the end result | |||
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"Can i bulk, whilst simultaneously reducing body fat percentage? Not exactly but you can alter your diet and you must get your macros right, that way you will lose body fat at the same time as keeping similar weight and the size you have and physically look like you have been putting size with the definition gained then start to clean bulk slowly keeping almost as lean but a lot heavier with the end result " Hmmm sounding more and more complicated!! Lol | |||
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"Can i bulk, whilst simultaneously reducing body fat percentage? Not exactly but you can alter your diet and you must get your macros right, that way you will lose body fat at the same time as keeping similar weight and the size you have and physically look like you have been putting size with the definition gained then start to clean bulk slowly keeping almost as lean but a lot heavier with the end result Hmmm sounding more and more complicated!! Lol" It can be | |||
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"Going super duper here lost an inch of fat yes an inch since Christmas Now building up again aiming to get back up to 21/22 stone prior injuries permitting " I assume you mean you have lost an inch of circumference not necessarily fat I measure my fat via skin fold An average of one mm accross my body equates just under 1 kg A great part of your loss will be water weight not fat If you had lost one inch 25 mm Average Of subcutaneous fat across your skin surface area that would be close to 22 kg fat This is not a criticism to reduce waist size by an inch in 3 weeks is fantastic I'm just clarifying that fat can be aherm "measured" a number of ways I'm at the other end of the scale aiming to lose just under 2mm on average of subcutaneous fat about 1.5 kg of pure fat Should take me 6 weeks | |||
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"Back in the swing of things yet?" I am. I managed swimming every day last week and have been mostly sticking to healthy eating. Managed a 3lbs loss this week. Very much back in it. | |||
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"I discovered my first hint of a visible bicep last week. I called it baby's first bicep ." I did too. I think I have teenage biceps now | |||
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"I discovered my first hint of a visible bicep last week. I called it baby's first bicep . I did too. I think I have teenage biceps now" I just have too much arm fat for them to show very well | |||
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"I discovered my first hint of a visible bicep last week. I called it baby's first bicep . I did too. I think I have teenage biceps now I just have too much arm fat for them to show very well " I messaged you | |||
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"May I join in I have just started to use a weighted hoola hoop to try and tone my mum tum apart from being covered in bruises I have so far lost an inch from my waist in a week hooping for 5 minutes a day " My friend has bought one too - she said she struggles with it but can tell the difference J x | |||
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"No massive change in weight but others tell me my shape has changed. I can't see it though. Really need to focus on my diet cos I'm doing a shit tonne of exercise but it's all for nothing cos you can't out train a bad diet!" In the last year or so I've lost less than a stone but two dress sizes and have become visibly muscular. I'm ignoring the freaking scale | |||
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"Lost over a stone this wk " Wow. Have you had sickness and diarrhoea? | |||
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"If that's Eddie Hall, he endorses the protein powder I use and the advertising makes me bloody cringe" Yep, that's him! | |||
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"If that's Eddie Hall, he endorses the protein powder I use and the advertising makes me bloody cringe Yep, that's him!" He's very impressive, but the protein powder advertising is very manly for super manly men... and I'm over here like, it's low calorie and doesn't mess up my eating plan? | |||
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"If that's Eddie Hall, he endorses the protein powder I use and the advertising makes me bloody cringe Yep, that's him! He's very impressive, but the protein powder advertising is very manly for super manly men... and I'm over here like, it's low calorie and doesn't mess up my eating plan?" Myo-band? | |||
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"If that's Eddie Hall, he endorses the protein powder I use and the advertising makes me bloody cringe Yep, that's him! He's very impressive, but the protein powder advertising is very manly for super manly men... and I'm over here like, it's low calorie and doesn't mess up my eating plan? Myo-band?" Yes, Oblivion. It's very good. | |||
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"My weight is ridiculously stable but pictures tell the tale." Pictures are good to show body shape. I don't weigh myself. But I'm counting calories. I love your swing dresses | |||
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"My weight is ridiculously stable but pictures tell the tale. Pictures are good to show body shape. I don't weigh myself. But I'm counting calories. I love your swing dresses" Thank you! I teeter between overweight and obese according to BMI, but if you actually look at me, I'm fairly lean and muscular. Still a work in progress of course. | |||
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"Hola! Couldn’t start in January as there were too many family things going on. However - my diet and exercise plan starts today. I’d like to lose 1st 8lb’s by June 1st - but I’m more concerned with getting fit and healthy, losing inches and getting toned. I’ve set myself a task of 4 hrs exercise per week - but as that includes walking it should be realistic. I start back at the gym tonight - swimming at first until I shed the first few lbs I think. " That sounds sensible | |||
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"I just beat my PB on deadlift 160kg clean, 170kg very shaky please no hate cos I’m proud of myself " Awesome! | |||
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