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What’s a ‘real’ man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Keep seeing posts saying as such, can anyone define what is a ‘real’ man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing posts saying as such, can anyone define what is a ‘real’ man. "

One who can do his own makeup? Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who sharpens a pencil with a stanley knife and straps down trailer loads while saying "thats not going anywhere"

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By *hongman1Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Someone who sharpens a pencil with a stanley knife and straps down trailer loads while saying "thats not going anywhere""

Haha that second one really made me chuckle!

I thought a “real man” is someone who doesn’t talk about his feelings, or shows that sometimes they struggle with life. Don’t real men walk around saying “you’ll be rate” “get on with it man” “man up ffs”??

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

To me a man is someone that shows his feelings works hard and honest about himself

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

To me anyone who identifies as a man is a real man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Identify as male? Real man

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What’s a real woman then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it would be a guy who is emotionally strong and mature enough to see your faults but like you anyway. Someone who knows that the hand you’ve been dealt and the things you’ve been through can make you act up sometimes but they have the balls to see c’mon now stop being a prick.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

Someone who pisses all over the toilet seat..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a real woman then?"

Identifies as female? Real woman

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"What’s a real woman then?"

Anyone who identifies as a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing posts saying as such, can anyone define what is a ‘real’ man. "

Everyone has a different definition of a real man.

I am a real man!

(Try to be)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That made me laugh as well - excellent response!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The terms will refer to things that users believe define masculinity or femininity.

I'm strong, stubborn, a protector of those I care about, assertive, etc... These are things people talk about being true of "real men". And here I am. A woman.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Someone who walks around with one of those pocket knife pliers thingyo’s in a little pouch on their belts

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

A real man burps loudly when he’s finished his pint and announces his desire for another

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

One with at least 50 veris. Otherwise he's a fake man. No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not me. I'm just a hologram.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"To me anyone who identifies as a man is a real man."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know what make a real man. But hubby is pretty damn close. My best friend. My lover. My protector. Emotionally weak enough to cry and show his feelings yet strong enough to carry on. A man that still gets up every morning with a spring in his step despite going through chemo. He still puts himself last on the list and everyone and everything is a priority above him. I adore you Cookie

Xx

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I don't know what make a real man. But hubby is pretty damn close. My best friend. My lover. My protector. Emotionally weak enough to cry and show his feelings yet strong enough to carry on. A man that still gets up every morning with a spring in his step despite going through chemo. He still puts himself last on the list and everyone and everything is a priority above him. I adore you Cookie

Xx"

Definitely a real man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what make a real man. But hubby is pretty damn close. My best friend. My lover. My protector. Emotionally weak enough to cry and show his feelings yet strong enough to carry on. A man that still gets up every morning with a spring in his step despite going through chemo. He still puts himself last on the list and everyone and everything is a priority above him. I adore you Cookie

Xx"

Oh, thats so bloody lovely

Warmed my cockles that has

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who walks around with one of those pocket knife pliers thingyo’s in a little pouch on their belts "

Do they have a chain attached to their belt which keeps a minimum of 50 keys together?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's generally used as a backhanded derogatory term for people those that use the term don't consider to be masculine or up to their standards in some way.

I tend to give them a wide berth

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it's generally used as a backhanded derogatory term for people those that use the term don't consider to be masculine or up to their standards in some way.

I tend to give them a wide berth "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I presume it's just like a "real" woman only male? Wouldn't know because I've been told I'm not a real woman in the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know what make a real man. But hubby is pretty damn close. My best friend. My lover. My protector. Emotionally weak enough to cry and show his feelings yet strong enough to carry on. A man that still gets up every morning with a spring in his step despite going through chemo. He still puts himself last on the list and everyone and everything is a priority above him. I adore you Cookie

Xx"

Apart from putting himself last I agree with this. Cookie you need to look after yourself as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a real woman then?

Anyone who identifies as a woman"

Ooo - does that mean I can be a dolphin like Gerald Bovski?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a real woman then?

Anyone who identifies as a woman

Ooo - does that mean I can be a dolphin like Gerald Bovski?"

Why would "the system" object to my use of a cartoon character's name - Bovski?

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

As with they saying ‘beauty is in the eye of the beholder’ a real man would be whatever the person perceived it to be. So what one person sees a real man might be strong, protective, physical etc. Another might see it as sensitive, caring etc and someone might see it as all of that. A real man is whatever you or the person looking wants it to be

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Not a robot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A real man is a man who doesn't really give a shit if others think he's a real man or not.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What’s a real woman then?

Anyone who identifies as a woman

Ooo - does that mean I can be a dolphin like Gerald Bovski?

Why would "the system" object to my use of a cartoon character's name - Bovski?"

It doesn't - it just picks up on the R-O-F-L in the middle of the name and thinks you're using the emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s a real woman then?

Anyone who identifies as a woman

Ooo - does that mean I can be a dolphin like Gerald Bovski?

Why would "the system" object to my use of a cartoon character's name - Bovski?

It doesn't - it just picks up on the R-O-F-L in the middle of the name and thinks you're using the emoji "

Of course, thanks.

It's cheery to know that at least one little bit of AI is still even dafter than me

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

A man who can give in when necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a slight used to ingratiate oneself to men with certain characteristics and a put down others who have different characteristics. Unpleasant term

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me it would be a guy who is emotionally strong and mature enough to see your faults but like you anyway. Someone who knows that the hand you’ve been dealt and the things you’ve been through can make you act up sometimes but they have the balls to see c’mon now stop being a prick.

"

Jeez, you'd love the fella then. Think you've just described him in one paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it would be someone like my grandad.

Film star good looks

War hero but never gave it the big one

Sporting star in his day..but always modest.

Hard as nails. Still dropping blokes with 1 punch in his 60s... but never a bully.

Bust most of all the love he showed his family

Proper legend RIP x

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

A real man is someone who is confident, not cocky. Has a set of principles he doesn't compromise on for the sake of others. Is assertive, but not overbearing. Has clear masculine traits that are tempered with respect and consideration. Is loyal to his friends and fiercely protective of his loved ones. Doesn't seek out conflict but tackles it head on when it comes.

My take anyway.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’m a real real man, I can park the car..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's generally used as a backhanded derogatory term for people those that use the term don't consider to be masculine or up to their standards in some way.

I tend to give them a wide berth "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it's my sense of humour, but I chuckle when someone says they want a 'real man.'

I imagine a masculine hairy man. He's probably a lumberjack, tears down trees with his hands and wrestles bears for fun.

His love making skills are very animalistic. The only sexual positiin he knows is doggy style and he is named Bob.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Keep seeing posts saying as such, can anyone define what is a ‘real’ man. "

There's no such thing.

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