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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this?

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

People judge others for what they believe

I think we all do it to some extent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so frustrating. I've known too many people who are like that. So judgemental and fake.

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

I don't have any answers or opinions that I would share on here but this is so so sad , thoughts go out to you and your friend xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this? "

Because not everyone is like you xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People judge others for what they believe

I think we all do it to some extent "

Maybe we do, perhaps we shouldn't. I never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Sadly that’s society today. Just be true to yourself and ignore all the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not condoning your colleagues prior behaviour but I think if a colleague I didn't particularly like lost their son I'd feel desperately sad for them because it is such a monumentally shit thing to happen and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

People can feel empathy and sadness for other people because of the awful circumstances they find themselves in regardless of the people involved.

But your colleague isnt stupid, he'll know that your support is born out of friendship too.

And maybe your other colleagues will use this as a reason to question their previous behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this? "

Bloody unnacceptable behaviour in this day and age and it is like a pack mentality. One starts, they all follow...

I saw it on Facebook recently, on a post about a planning application for a local Mosque in our town! Well you would think Jck the Ripper was moving in the way they started.

I aired my opinion and the abuse I got through messenger was awful...

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By *ustfulbigboyMan
over a year ago

North Wales


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this? "

There's a problem in work if that's happening fucking hell, wish was there with you to set them twats straight!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend."

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do? "

Just be his friend like you are doing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this?

There's a problem in work if that's happening fucking hell, wish was there with you to set them twats straight! "

Thank you, it's fuckin horrible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do?

Just be his friend like you are doing."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do? "

I and my ex lost a child. It hurts and never goes away. People avoided us or had that look in their eyes, didnt know what to do or say.

There is nothing anyone can ever do other than just be there, be a friend, hold them both in your heart and let them talk if they want to, and if they don't just still be there whenever they need you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do?

I and my ex lost a child. It hurts and never goes away. People avoided us or had that look in their eyes, didnt know what to do or say.

There is nothing anyone can ever do other than just be there, be a friend, hold them both in your heart and let them talk if they want to, and if they don't just still be there whenever they need you.

"

I'm sorry to hear that, I will totally, first thing I will do is just give him a hug and tell him that I will do anything he wants. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wish I knew. It's sickening the way some find a line of difference, after which they're no longer willing to accept someone's common humanity or place in society.

Community takes work. We need to include others as well as expect them to bend to us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish I knew. It's sickening the way some find a line of difference, after which they're no longer willing to accept someone's common humanity or place in society.

Community takes work. We need to include others as well as expect them to bend to us."

I feel awful for everyone as they know they have been wrong in the past judging this guy and now he's lost someone they are being supportive so they know they have been wrong. It's just sad that it takes something like this for people to come together. X

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I wish I knew. It's sickening the way some find a line of difference, after which they're no longer willing to accept someone's common humanity or place in society.

Community takes work. We need to include others as well as expect them to bend to us.

I feel awful for everyone as they know they have been wrong in the past judging this guy and now he's lost someone they are being supportive so they know they have been wrong. It's just sad that it takes something like this for people to come together. X"

I feel most awful for him. If people feel bad for not treating a fellow human as human... Honestly they should feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this? "

Is there a reason why they’ve questioned why you get on with him so well? Have you made comments in the past maybe that makes them surprised at your friendship?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Perhaps the fact they have become concerned for his loss may be a good thing. It's a sign of common humanity rather than just seeing people as labels.

Peace to your friend.

I think people were embarrassed today due to comments they have made in the past, sad that it's taken this to happen for people to realise that this is a human being. Don't know what to do for him. What can you do?

I and my ex lost a child. It hurts and never goes away. People avoided us or had that look in their eyes, didnt know what to do or say.

There is nothing anyone can ever do other than just be there, be a friend, hold them both in your heart and let them talk if they want to, and if they don't just still be there whenever they need you.

I'm sorry to hear that, I will totally, first thing I will do is just give him a hug and tell him that I will do anything he wants. X"

And that will mean a lot to him xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving him their condolences isn't really a 2 faced things, I think it's more of a 'human being' thing?

Theres people who I cant stand at work but it would make me sad to know that they have come through something like that regardless whether I get on with them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this?

Is there a reason why they’ve questioned why you get on with him so well? Have you made comments in the past maybe that makes them surprised at your friendship?"

I was also thinking this, but didnt want to be the one to say it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't people just except people for what they are no matter of religion or anything else.

I have made a good friend in work who is an absolute amazing guy. My other close work colleagues have questioned why I get on with him so well because he's Muslim. I don't give 2 fucks what he is he is brilliant. Today we found out he lost his son last night. All of a sudden these people become concerned. I am so angry and had to walk out of work today. 2 faced horrible bastards. Why are people like this?

Is there a reason why they’ve questioned why you get on with him so well? Have you made comments in the past maybe that makes them surprised at your friendship?"

It's all to do with clicks and all that male shit. I thought that died with stone age but obviously not. But the main priority is that people realise his loss and move forward.

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