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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right. This has been prompted by Cluster Fucktress’s thread and some conversations Ive been have with Fab forum friends about bi MMFs.

There have been numerous mentions of women fantasising about meetiings with two or more bi men. However as RachelMark said on the CF’s thread bi male mates are difficult to find. Also the prospect of meeting two bi guys is both exciting and scary and if the vibe isn’t right it wont happen.

So my question is. Should the bi guys on Fab do more on developing friendships with other bi guys with the potential to team up? Is there a call for it? Is it a shit idea? What could we do if it is a good idea? Etc etc.

Your thoughts and feelings on the subject?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom? "

I think bi tag teams could be a good tag line. I like the idea of names too. Perhaps some naked wrestling thrown in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been advocating this for a while on my page. Always up for drinks and mates anyway... if anything more comes out of it. Bonus...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

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You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been advocating this for a while on my page. Always up for drinks and mates anyway... if anything more comes out of it. Bonus..."

Agreed. I think building the friendships is a key part of it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

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Why is he the only guy you’d ask if you don’t mind me asking?

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows "

I think there’s some form of smutty innuendo in going for the bulls eye somewhere in this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

You keep,your darts away from me. But we could call ourselves the Arse Arrows

I think there’s some form of smutty innuendo in going for the bulls eye somewhere in this. "

Easy tiger

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In all honesty I find the idea of "teams" a bit...hmmm not sure what the right word is but whenever I see a MM profile that is two guys teaming up "to give the ladies a good time" it just doesn't sit right with me - know you don't mean it that way bro, but it's what springs to mind.

I think the scenario you suggest needs to happen a little more organically than being a specific "thing" that you set out to find or set up.

Always enjoy bi MMF though, definitely my favourite way to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all honesty I find the idea of "teams" a bit...hmmm not sure what the right word is but whenever I see a MM profile that is two guys teaming up "to give the ladies a good time" it just doesn't sit right with me - know you don't mean it that way bro, but it's what springs to mind.

I think the scenario you suggest needs to happen a little more organically than being a specific "thing" that you set out to find or set up.

Always enjoy bi MMF though, definitely my favourite way to play"

I think youre right that why I was hesitant about posting this. I don't quite know the best way to frame it.

One of the things I have noticed is bar a couple of friends like you I don't really talk to other bi guys. The conversations on messages from them when my filters are open are in not focused on developing friendships and even on the forum few of us interact with each other much

Therefore when opportunities arise, the conditions for something to work aren’t in place.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

G Man Fiddles and the Doc, we could be the stars of a bisexual middle age porn film, or a new age folk band who wear naturally died wool underpants and play instruments made of old kipper boxes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"G Man Fiddles and the Doc, we could be the stars of a bisexual middle age porn film, or a new age folk band who wear naturally died wool underpants and play instruments made of old kipper boxes. "

Hey,hey I play guitar and sing already so may be the joke isn’t such a joke and a I know there are other bi guys that are musicians too.

As for the Porn film I’m not sure who’d watch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

Why is he the only guy you’d ask if you don’t mind me asking?"

Lots of reasons. I haven't met with loads of men. Most were just one off's. A few I've seen more than once.

I got on so well with this guy. We had a laugh, had similar personalities and just hit it off.

He seems respectfull and I wouldn't have a problem introducing him to a woman.

Some blokes have come across as arrogant or pushy and I wouldn't want to meet them myself again let alone introduce them to someone else.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

Why is he the only guy you’d ask if you don’t mind me asking?

Lots of reasons. I haven't met with loads of men. Most were just one off's. A few I've seen more than once.

I got on so well with this guy. We had a laugh, had similar personalities and just hit it off.

He seems respectfull and I wouldn't have a problem introducing him to a woman.

Some blokes have come across as arrogant or pushy and I wouldn't want to meet them myself again let alone introduce them to someone else.

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That makes perfect sense thanks for coming back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat"

Yes, bi socials are hard to find. Most blokes just want to get stuck in and suck eachothers cocks. Lol.

I've seen a few profiles on Fabguys where someone is looking for mates or someone to go out for a pint with and a chat. Takes a bit of searching though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat"

That’s it. I don’t think any guy who’s messaged me had any intention of wanting a social. The focus is quite different to other conversations I have. It was one of the things that was perplexing me when I posted this..

Like GM above bi Threesomes or moresomes would be right up there as one of my preferred ways to play but finding the people you want to do that with is a real challenge. Also the dynamic of a bi MMF with a couple is potentially very different to three or more friends meeting up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat

Yes, bi socials are hard to find. Most blokes just want to get stuck in and suck eachothers cocks. Lol.

I've seen a few profiles on Fabguys where someone is looking for mates or someone to go out for a pint with and a chat. Takes a bit of searching though. "

I decided Fab Guys wasn’t for me for that reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far "

And once again the curse of geographical spread also comes into play because blokes I’d genuinely love to meet up for a beer with and play pool, or have a coffee and a chinwag with are miles away.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one as being a similar experience to that of many single women on here (albeit on a much lower level) - the majority of messages I get from guys are sexual and wanting to meet now, which is just not my thing - but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

As for taking that to MMF, I don't think you can plan it, or have someone in mind as such, it needs to happen organically and naturally and with three way attraction and that is not something you can plan as such, or "team up" for.

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay


"I've had guys suggest teaming up but nothing ever comes of it. I'm also finding it difficult to find bi socials but, not really casting my net that fat

Yes, bi socials are hard to find. Most blokes just want to get stuck in and suck eachothers cocks. Lol.

I've seen a few profiles on Fabguys where someone is looking for mates or someone to go out for a pint with and a chat. Takes a bit of searching though.

I decided Fab Guys wasn’t for me for that reason"

Fabguys has become distant. I get more out of Grindr and this site...more out of Grindr altogether but it is as you say, get stuck in.

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

It's a wide field, general fab socials can work.

Trying to set things up by messaging is hard work all the usual issues of no shows, or people actually wanting something different to what the meet was for.

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By *athan 123Man
over a year ago

rochdale oldham border

It is noticed that there is no northern lads on this thread well apart from me ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one as being a similar experience to that of many single women on here (albeit on a much lower level) - the majority of messages I get from guys are sexual and wanting to meet now, which is just not my thing - but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

As for taking that to MMF, I don't think you can plan it, or have someone in mind as such, it needs to happen organically and naturally and with three way attraction and that is not something you can plan as such, or "team up" for."

I’m not sure that would always be the case, but having no contradictory evidence. I think the thing is to have established some friendships. My guess is that it would be easier as friends who already have chemistry to attract others. It reduces one of the variables considerably. I could be completely wrong though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is noticed that there is no northern lads on this thread well apart from me ha ha"

Yes there is Nathan but you say you are straight.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

Beards here, I have several good mates that are bi and we meet women quite often. We all know what each other likes and we all have female partners.

I personally from experience don’t think the woman would enjoy watching two guys that didn’t know each other well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Beards here, I have several good mates that are bi and we meet women quite often. We all know what each other likes and we all have female partners.

I personally from experience don’t think the woman would enjoy watching two guys that didn’t know each other well. "

Thanks that’s something I imagined would be often the case

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a wide field, general fab socials can work.

Trying to set things up by messaging is hard work all the usual issues of no shows, or people actually wanting something different to what the meet was for."

So have you found bi mates at Fab socials?

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Nice thought.. for me the beauty of a bi mmf is the three way intimacy. So a level connection is definitely part of that.

My experience in the past is friend/lover who knew someone..because I trusted his judgement that I would connect with the other partner and he was right.

No mmf is the reason why I came here..but now I'm not advertising or chasing anything so if it flows, it flows.

I'm in full support of bi men teaming up .. what harm can it do!

I get messages from 'mmf team' men, but tend not to be bi.

I'm still more likely to connect with a man, deepen the friendship and then go from there.

However, come the spring, anything goes

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

*bi mmf not no mmf!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice thought.. for me the beauty of a bi mmf is the three way intimacy. So a level connection is definitely part of that.

My experience in the past is friend/lover who knew someone..because I trusted his judgement that I would connect with the other partner and he was right.

No mmf is the reason why I came here..but now I'm not advertising or chasing anything so if it flows, it flows.

I'm in full support of bi men teaming up .. what harm can it do!

I get messages from 'mmf team' men, but tend not to be bi.

I'm still more likely to connect with a man, deepen the friendship and then go from there.

However, come the spring, anything goes "

I think the connections and friendships are at the heart of what will make it really work, whether that is the couple finding the man or a couple of bi mates finding the woman. Or even better the woman finding them....

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I’m more than happy to chat to other bi guys socially or for playing (to the extent of what is possible for me personally).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far "

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services "

How many would you think were bona fide?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m more than happy to chat to other bi guys socially or for playing (to the extent of what is possible for me personally).

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Will you be coming in your suit and gas mask?

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one....

but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

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I’m on fabguys too and most contacts there are “come round and unload on my face!”

I’m more interested in chatting and seeing a natural progression rather than a “wham bam”. Making some like minded friends that I can talk to, flirt with, exchange stories/fantasies/hot porn links and maybe cam with.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I’m more than happy to chat to other bi guys socially or for playing (to the extent of what is possible for me personally).

Will you be coming in your suit and gas mask?"

Depends on what people are into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

How many would you think were bona fide?"

I’ve only actually spoken to 3 guys and 2 of those are the same ‘team’ the ones who have already met before and meeting again tomorrow. They both said they’re happy for me to watch and would get me a dominoes if I’d take a few pics of them together using their phones!

The other guy said he could get a guy that would be up for being watched but the first two guys said they’re happy to meet socially first before coming to their hotel room and don’t care if I’m involved as they were meeting each other anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m more than happy to chat to other bi guys socially or for playing (to the extent of what is possible for me personally).

Will you be coming in your suit and gas mask?

Depends on what people are into."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

How many would you think were bona fide?

I’ve only actually spoken to 3 guys and 2 of those are the same ‘team’ the ones who have already met before and meeting again tomorrow. They both said they’re happy for me to watch and would get me a dominoes if I’d take a few pics of them together using their phones!

The other guy said he could get a guy that would be up for being watched but the first two guys said they’re happy to meet socially first before coming to their hotel room and don’t care if I’m involved as they were meeting each other anyway. "

Are you doing it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services "

No one likes a show off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

No one likes a show off "

Tulip’s probably on the hotlist of half of the men on Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

How many would you think were bona fide?

I’ve only actually spoken to 3 guys and 2 of those are the same ‘team’ the ones who have already met before and meeting again tomorrow. They both said they’re happy for me to watch and would get me a dominoes if I’d take a few pics of them together using their phones!

The other guy said he could get a guy that would be up for being watched but the first two guys said they’re happy to meet socially first before coming to their hotel room and don’t care if I’m involved as they were meeting each other anyway.

Are you doing it?"

Not now no, I thought I was getting blown out tomorrow for my vanilla date cos I hadn’t heard off the guy since Monday but he’s messaged today to confirm all is ok for tomorrow.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Who’d be interested in me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

How many would you think were bona fide?

I’ve only actually spoken to 3 guys and 2 of those are the same ‘team’ the ones who have already met before and meeting again tomorrow. They both said they’re happy for me to watch and would get me a dominoes if I’d take a few pics of them together using their phones!

The other guy said he could get a guy that would be up for being watched but the first two guys said they’re happy to meet socially first before coming to their hotel room and don’t care if I’m involved as they were meeting each other anyway.

Are you doing it?

Not now no, I thought I was getting blown out tomorrow for my vanilla date cos I hadn’t heard off the guy since Monday but he’s messaged today to confirm all is ok for tomorrow. "

Right. Have a great night. Hopefully another opportunity will appear soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

No one likes a show off

Tulip’s probably on the hotlist of half of the men on Fab "

Was wondering who the hell Tulip was then I’m changing that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

And once again the curse of geographical spread also comes into play because blokes I’d genuinely love to meet up for a beer with and play pool, or have a coffee and a chinwag with are miles away."
I agree you have to be lucky to find someone local.l certainly wouldn't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

No one likes a show off

Tulip’s probably on the hotlist of half of the men on Fab "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who’d be interested in me? "
It would be a damn sight easier if you weren’t so bloody far away

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who’d be interested in me? It would be a damn sight easier if you weren’t so bloody far away"
it’s the southerners curse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve popped a status up asking if anyone is interested - not a sniff so far

I’ve had about 80 guys offering their services

No one likes a show off

Tulip’s probably on the hotlist of half of the men on Fab

Was wondering who the hell Tulip was then I’m changing that! "

I know you by so many names that I thought Tulip would be funny and it’s better than CF. I’ve already typed it fully once and got RSI doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Who’d be interested in me? It would be a damn sight easier if you weren’t so bloody far away it’s the southerners curse "

Chap from Brighton further up the thread

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've been fortunate that I've met a few guys who know other guys, and I've had several bi MMFs without trying terribly hard. That was sheer dumb luck, though.

Starting from scratch... God. I genuinely have no idea.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Who’d be interested in me? It would be a damn sight easier if you weren’t so bloody far away it’s the southerners curse

Chap from Brighton further up the thread "

Hmmmm.....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Straight guys do it so I don't see why not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been fortunate that I've met a few guys who know other guys, and I've had several bi MMFs without trying terribly hard. That was sheer dumb luck, though.

Starting from scratch... God. I genuinely have no idea."

Dumb luck or making good connections?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Straight guys do it so I don't see why not."
Yep they do. I think it is more recently that being openly bi on here has been received with more acceptance and perhaps why the bi guys are not as visible. Particularly when many are still identifying as straight on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right. This has been prompted by Cluster Fucktress’s thread and some conversations Ive been have with Fab forum friends about bi MMFs.

There have been numerous mentions of women fantasising about meetiings with two or more bi men. However as RachelMark said on the CF’s thread bi male mates are difficult to find. Also the prospect of meeting two bi guys is both exciting and scary and if the vibe isn’t right it wont happen.

So my question is. Should the bi guys on Fab do more on developing friendships with other bi guys with the potential to team up? Is there a call for it? Is it a shit idea? What could we do if it is a good idea? Etc etc.

Your thoughts and feelings on the subject?"

I know for a fact Peach really gets off on seeing me with another guy. I'd say I'm 80%/20% straight/bi, meaning I'm more likely to be attracted to the ladies but I can be bi with the right guy. Same personal laws and rules of attraction apply to both sexes though. As for effort I put into being bi, because of the laws of attraction it's not something I can force or push. Connections with whomever, M or F, have to be genuine and flow easily with intelligent humour and respectful debate. And that hint of grrrr

Fuzz

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don’t mind organising a bi social in Brighton but I ain’t gonna be a no mates Billy sitting there on my own.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've been fortunate that I've met a few guys who know other guys, and I've had several bi MMFs without trying terribly hard. That was sheer dumb luck, though.

Starting from scratch... God. I genuinely have no idea.

Dumb luck or making good connections?"

My dumb luck. His good connections

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t mind organising a bi social in Brighton but I ain’t gonna be a no mates Billy sitting there on my own. "
Bloody Brighton. Do you have a helicopter I can borrow

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been fortunate that I've met a few guys who know other guys, and I've had several bi MMFs without trying terribly hard. That was sheer dumb luck, though.

Starting from scratch... God. I genuinely have no idea.

Dumb luck or making good connections?

My dumb luck. His good connections"

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES!

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"I don’t mind organising a bi social in Brighton but I ain’t gonna be a no mates Billy sitting there on my own. "

Only 7 months til pride you best get making plans quickly lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don’t mind organising a bi social in Brighton but I ain’t gonna be a no mates Billy sitting there on my own.

Only 7 months til pride you best get making plans quickly lol "
I never go, I’m always in Cornwall, surfing and sunbathing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES!"
we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you?"
about 7 inches

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches "

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches "

Only 7? Slacker!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches

Only 7? Slacker!"

Oh well I’d be far too disappointing then

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches

Only 7? Slacker!

Oh well I’d be far too disappointing then "

That's why I want 2. Silly!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches

Only 7? Slacker!

Oh well I’d be far too disappointing then

That's why I want 2. Silly! "

Of course why didn’t I think of that you can sellotape them together to make 13

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Yes! Yes! Yes!

In case I didn't make it clear, my answer is YES! we hear you loud and clear Keeley. However If you don’t mind me asking what would make it feel right for you? about 7 inches

Only 7? Slacker!

Oh well I’d be far too disappointing then

That's why I want 2. Silly!

Of course why didn’t I think of that you can sellotape them together to make 13 "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one as being a similar experience to that of many single women on here (albeit on a much lower level) - the majority of messages I get from guys are sexual and wanting to meet now, which is just not my thing - but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

As for taking that to MMF, I don't think you can plan it, or have someone in mind as such, it needs to happen organically and naturally and with three way attraction and that is not something you can plan as such, or "team up" for.

I’m not sure that would always be the case, but having no contradictory evidence. I think the thing is to have established some friendships. My guess is that it would be easier as friends who already have chemistry to attract others. It reduces one of the variables considerably. I could be completely wrong though."

I'm not saying it can't or won't happen - just that it's not necessarily as simple as two guys pairing up and going looking for it.

As Beards suggested when you have established friendships (whether that be MM or MF) and an MMF is decided upon then yes bringing in others who one of you know that fit the bill is one way - but it still takes attraction and connection etc all ways round for it to work - and I would imagine a lot harder from an MM looking for an F perspective (irrespective of CFs thread) unless there is a large amount of trust in place.

I'm probably not articulating my thoughts very well on this but I kind of know what I mean in my head

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I know a guy.. #youknowwhoyouare

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I know a guy.. #youknowwhoyouare "
what if they don’t?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

"

Didn't realise we had another resident in Cloud Cuckoo Land

Watch out for Doc though, he gets a bit too frisky sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom?

I think bi tag teams could be a good tag line. I like the idea of names too. Perhaps some naked wrestling thrown in "

I’d like to watch

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome

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By *rghYeTimbersMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Tried this as a social last Friday one couple turned up will try again soon.

Had much better luck at the general fab socials once people relaxed a bit and conversation flowed.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome "

Would you mind sharing that little gem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mates with other bi guys, nah, it won’t work, we can’t play in the same Darts team if we’ve sucked each other’s cocks.

Didn't realise we had another resident in Cloud Cuckoo Land

Watch out for Doc though, he gets a bit too frisky sometimes "

I think Fiddles moved in recently. I don’t know how aware he is of his neighbours or whether his move was influenced even

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one as being a similar experience to that of many single women on here (albeit on a much lower level) - the majority of messages I get from guys are sexual and wanting to meet now, which is just not my thing - but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

As for taking that to MMF, I don't think you can plan it, or have someone in mind as such, it needs to happen organically and naturally and with three way attraction and that is not something you can plan as such, or "team up" for.

I’m not sure that would always be the case, but having no contradictory evidence. I think the thing is to have established some friendships. My guess is that it would be easier as friends who already have chemistry to attract others. It reduces one of the variables considerably. I could be completely wrong though.

I'm not saying it can't or won't happen - just that it's not necessarily as simple as two guys pairing up and going looking for it.

As Beards suggested when you have established friendships (whether that be MM or MF) and an MMF is decided upon then yes bringing in others who one of you know that fit the bill is one way - but it still takes attraction and connection etc all ways round for it to work - and I would imagine a lot harder from an MM looking for an F perspective (irrespective of CFs thread) unless there is a large amount of trust in place.

I'm probably not articulating my thoughts very well on this but I kind of know what I mean in my head "

I think I understand.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Tag team? Could work

Do they have to have names? Can I be in The Legion of Doom?

I think bi tag teams could be a good tag line. I like the idea of names too. Perhaps some naked wrestling thrown in

I’d like to watch "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome "

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

"

Is that so you get all the weeman to yourself?

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome "

That maybe a good spot for after MLS. Would you be so kind to messgebthe details please.

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By *ooBoo2300Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome "

Oh which club is this pls?

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Personally my preferred way of playing MMF with another bi guy (assuming the three way chemistry...which is vital...is there) would be to treat it as an MM meet with the F as a voyeur for as long as she wants and then ease her into the playing.

I imagine some MMF encounters are more like “You suck mine for a bit then I’ll do yours then we spitroast her.” I mean good luck to you if that’s what you want but there are other ways.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally my preferred way of playing MMF with another bi guy (assuming the three way chemistry...which is vital...is there) would be to treat it as an MM meet with the F as a voyeur for as long as she wants and then ease her into the playing.

I imagine some MMF encounters are more like “You suck mine for a bit then I’ll do yours then we spitroast her.” I mean good luck to you if that’s what you want but there are other ways."

I think the more unrestrained it is with no holes barred and everyone playing with everyone the hotter it would be for me. However I’m all for those involved just agreeing a preferred way to play together. I also think there’s a element of going with the flow within agreed boundaries.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"

I think the more unrestrained it is with no holes barred and everyone playing with everyone the hotter it would be for me. However I’m all for those involved just agreeing a preferred way to play together. I also think there’s a element of going with the flow within agreed boundaries."

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome

Oh which club is this pls? "

Club SX in Blackpool. I've also seen fully bi play on the stage, so it's not restricted or only on special nights sort of thing

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Those local enough, I know a club with a bi room where bi guys are always welcome

Oh which club is this pls?

Club SX in Blackpool. I've also seen fully bi play on the stage, so it's not restricted or only on special nights sort of thing"

Not been to Blackpool in years.... mmm think a road trip may be required soon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m looking at hotels in Blackpool right now!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’m looking at hotels in Blackpool right now! "

There are lots of B&Bs in walking distance of the club.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Personally my preferred way of playing MMF with another bi guy (assuming the three way chemistry...which is vital...is there) would be to treat it as an MM meet with the F as a voyeur for as long as she wants and then ease her into the playing.

I imagine some MMF encounters are more like “You suck mine for a bit then I’ll do yours then we spitroast her.” I mean good luck to you if that’s what you want but there are other ways.

I think the more unrestrained it is with no holes barred and everyone playing with everyone the hotter it would be for me. However I’m all for those involved just agreeing a preferred way to play together. I also think there’s a element of going with the flow within agreed boundaries."

All the best bi MMFs I've been lucky enough to experience have been free flowing and just seeing where they take us - but then that's my preferred method regardless of the combination (within boundaries and limits of course)

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone "

only if you wear your Everton shirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had lots of experience with two or lots more bi guys at once and it’s been mind blowing every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve had lots of experience with two or lots more bi guys at once and it’s been mind blowing every time.

"

I bet

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt "

Of course I will nothing else though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. "
it might as well be a straight MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve found a few. Now I’ve got to work out my work schedule and I’ll be booking up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt

Of course I will nothing else though "

I’ll wear my LFC one and nothing else

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt

Of course I will nothing else though

I’ll wear my LFC one and nothing else "

Derby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt

Of course I will nothing else though

I’ll wear my LFC one and nothing else

Derby "

It would be fun

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt

Of course I will nothing else though

I’ll wear my LFC one and nothing else

Derby

It would be fun "

Yes it would ....Everton getting fucked again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't we just team up and be a massive group of bi guys and if you want one you have to have us all , because we don't meet alone

only if you wear your Everton shirt

Of course I will nothing else though

I’ll wear my LFC one and nothing else

Derby

It would be fun

Yes it would ....Everton getting fucked again "

I might let you score too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. it might as well be a straight MFM"

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is a social arranged I would be up for meeting.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. it might as well be a straight MFM

Agreed "

I've obviously been very lucky then as I don't think any of mine have been like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If there is a social arranged I would be up for meeting. "

I think a regional approach might work with smaller groups that are advertised but anyone could join them. Probably the simpler the better.

My experience of guys trying to get together hasn’t been good though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. it might as well be a straight MFM

Agreed

I've obviously been very lucky then as I don't think any of mine have been like that "

Why doesn’t that surprise me?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If there is a social arranged I would be up for meeting.

I think a regional approach might work with smaller groups that are advertised but anyone could join them. Probably the simpler the better.

My experience of guys trying to get together hasn’t been good though."

And if I tried I'd probably get a bunch of straight guys trying their luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there is a social arranged I would be up for meeting.

I think a regional approach might work with smaller groups that are advertised but anyone could join them. Probably the simpler the better.

My experience of guys trying to get together hasn’t been good though.

And if I tried I'd probably get a bunch of straight guys trying their luck "

You’d definitely get at least one bi guy

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. it might as well be a straight MFM

Agreed

I've obviously been very lucky then as I don't think any of mine have been like that

Why doesn’t that surprise me? "

Well there might have been spitroasting but not as you might think

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That’s how I have always gone with a bi MMF I’ve started with the other male and after a while the female has slowly joined in.

Most bi meets are just about spitroasting and little is spent on any other part of the meet. it might as well be a straight MFM

Agreed

I've obviously been very lucky then as I don't think any of mine have been like that

Why doesn’t that surprise me?

Well there might have been spitroasting but not as you might think "

Oh that’s exactly what I would think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off to bed now. Night all

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other "

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up "

Never are one to cut a long story short G man

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Never are one to cut a long story short G man "

Swallowed a dictionary when I was younger is my problem

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up "

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other "

That’s really a good way of summarising many of the things that have been said. All we have to do is get to know each other. The rest will follow if the chemistry is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a mmf fun about 2 months ago and I’m gay

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Had a mmf fun about 2 months ago and I’m gay"

Does that mean you only played with the guy?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

A tag team be handy

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight "

Come on, everybody fluffs, oh you mean that fluffs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I fucked the woman too

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight "

Let's get you into the orgy room. You might

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

That’s really a good way of summarising many of the things that have been said. All we have to do is get to know each other. The rest will follow if the chemistry is there."

You got it

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

Come on, everybody fluffs, oh you mean that fluffs. "

Different type of fluff Fiddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After making her cum with my tongue

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

Let's get you into the orgy room. You might"

I might, if and when I venture to a club, and it all just happens naturally

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

Let's get you into the orgy room. You might

I might, if and when I venture to a club, and it all just happens naturally "

Blackpool beckons

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

Let's get you into the orgy room. You might

I might, if and when I venture to a club, and it all just happens naturally

Blackpool beckons "

Haha steady on.... one day

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Letting it happen naturally with people you know is a better way for it to happen. At the end of the day everyone needs to be on the same page and like each other

Said in two sentences what I managed to turn into an essay further up

Well you know I don’t fluff, just say what I’m thinking straight

Let's get you into the orgy room. You might

I might, if and when I venture to a club, and it all just happens naturally

Blackpool beckons

Haha steady on.... one day "

Blackpool is patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met a gay guy on fabguys last year. I wouldn't call him a mate, but we've kept in touch as we got on really well and he's a lovely decent man.

He's never been with a woman and would like a MMF threesome.

He's the only guy I'd ask if I was to find a woman that wanted the same.

Is that so you get all the weeman to yourself?"

No. I've put the main reason above.

He's never slept with a woman and wants to know what it's like.

On my part, I have a fantasy to be in the middle between a man and a woman. Fingers crossed it'll happen this year.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After making her cum with my tongue "

Did you enjoy that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did and fucked her straight after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then the other guy went in straight after me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had not In 4 weeks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I did and fucked her straight after "

Seems your sexuality is more fluid than you imagined

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Is the right place to be suave, charming, sensitive with a hint of masculinity, a jolly good laugh in the pub, capable of enjoying a pint of best bitter and yet able to appreciate the difference that a good tonic makes to a G&T.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I liken being a bisexual guy looking to meet other guys one to one....

but there are a few about who are happy for a chat, a laugh and see where things go.

So it is possible, just have to see the wood for the trees.

I’m on fabguys too and most contacts there are “come round and unload on my face!”

I’m more interested in chatting and seeing a natural progression rather than a “wham bam”. Making some like minded friends that I can talk to, flirt with, exchange stories/fantasies/hot porn links and maybe cam with.

"

My experience of fabguys is the same. There definitely needs to be that connection. We had a longterm bi guy, who is now a very close friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is the right place to be suave, charming, sensitive with a hint of masculinity, a jolly good laugh in the pub, capable of enjoying a pint of best bitter and yet able to appreciate the difference that a good tonic makes to a G&T. "
Probably, do you like cocktails too

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Is the right place to be suave, charming, sensitive with a hint of masculinity, a jolly good laugh in the pub, capable of enjoying a pint of best bitter and yet able to appreciate the difference that a good tonic makes to a G&T. "

It might be...why do you know someone that is able to do that?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Is the right place to be suave, charming, sensitive with a hint of masculinity, a jolly good laugh in the pub, capable of enjoying a pint of best bitter and yet able to appreciate the difference that a good tonic makes to a G&T.

It might be...why do you know someone that is able to do that? "

I’ll get you three some paper umbrellas

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Im bored with bi guys........ As if

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"Im bored with bi guys........ As if "

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I love Willy's

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think yes

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By *ooBoo2300Woman
over a year ago

Manchester

Right - packing my bucket and spade - I’m off to Blackpool!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two messages today - seems to be getting some traction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Two messages today - seems to be getting some traction"

Excellent.

I’m trying a slightly different tack having updated my profile and that seems to be having the desired effect too.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I will take one from the top. Three from the middle and one from the bottom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I will take one from the top. Three from the middle and one from the bottom"

Bi Countdown

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By *ill-Ian KissesCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere over there


"Personally my preferred way of playing MMF with another bi guy (assuming the three way chemistry...which is vital...is there) would be to treat it as an MM meet with the F as a voyeur for as long as she wants and then ease her into the playing.

I imagine some MMF encounters are more like “You suck mine for a bit then I’ll do yours then we spitroast her.” I mean good luck to you if that’s what you want but there are other ways."

This is what I’d like but as cjs has bi male/gay night it’s hard to tell at a FFA who is a bi male that is be familiar with.

I would prefer watching initially then more than likely take part (as I’m a horny angel!) but chemistry & respect for all 3 concerned is vital to the point id want a social meet first.

Millie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always looking for fun bi guys. Maybe they need slippers as they always seem to get cold feet lol

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Two messages today - seems to be getting some traction

Excellent.

I’m trying a slightly different tack having updated my profile and that seems to be having the desired effect too."

How did you update your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will take one from the top. Three from the middle and one up the bottom"

Wahey

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d like a bi mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bi mate you can just have a beer with and a chat to would be great.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock


"A bi mate you can just have a beer with and a chat to would be great. "

Then suck his cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting, I havnt read all comments but my feelings if I were meeting two men together would be I would already want to know one of the men pretty well first, and it would be us as a pair looking for the other man, if that makes sense. I would be wary of two strange men already pals or a pair, I'd need a wingman I felt safe with in effect.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Interesting, I havnt read all comments but my feelings if I were meeting two men together would be I would already want to know one of the men pretty well first, and it would be us as a pair looking for the other man, if that makes sense. I would be wary of two strange men already pals or a pair, I'd need a wingman I felt safe with in effect. "

Agree with this. Big risk walking into a room with two strangers, trust levels, etc

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Interesting, I havnt read all comments but my feelings if I were meeting two men together would be I would already want to know one of the men pretty well first, and it would be us as a pair looking for the other man, if that makes sense. I would be wary of two strange men already pals or a pair, I'd need a wingman I felt safe with in effect.

Agree with this. Big risk walking into a room with two strangers, trust levels, etc "

Take one with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting, I havnt read all comments but my feelings if I were meeting two men together would be I would already want to know one of the men pretty well first, and it would be us as a pair looking for the other man, if that makes sense. I would be wary of two strange men already pals or a pair, I'd need a wingman I felt safe with in effect.

Agree with this. Big risk walking into a room with two strangers, trust levels, etc

Take one with you. "

And make him sit and watch only

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Thanks guys I had a chuckle

I think it’s a good idea. Nothing more nerve wrecking than meeting people you don’t really know.

If I was the woman meeting the two men I would say that I would need to know at least one of them really well to trust his judgement in the second male. However, I would prefer if I knew them both. If they both already had a connection though that would a bonus and probably ease the nerves a little

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your contributions. Hopefully some of you will be able to find appropriate partners with a good bond of trust and mutual chemistry that enables you to enjoy great bi threesomes and moresomes.

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