FabSwingers.com forum: Loveliness on Fab

By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Tell us a bit about the lovely people on Fab. No names, let's not piss on lamp posts. Not just or even primarily sexual.

You may or may not #knowwhoyouare

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

^ Is lovely

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

There are lots of people here who show that they genuinely care for others.

It can be a kind and empathetic post in a thread, but I’ve found that the genuine message that shows that somebody is interested in you, not in the way of carnal shenanigans but in a genuine, caring and interested in somebody else way.

Now that’s lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ is also lovely

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"^ Is lovely

And a year older apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all the boobs that are on show

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I've chatted to many on here and, yes, I have a few favourites.

Including a couple of ladies I like very much.

Soooo many with both outer and inner beauty.

Very few people annoy me.

Big hugs.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I spent over a week in hospital not long after I joined Fab, and someone I'd just met was the most incredible emotional support during a lonely horrendous time. Really shaped my experience here and helped me cope.

Plenty of people have had my back both physically and emotionally in various ways over time.

Lots of helpful advice in private.

One that sticks out is, I'd just received a huge diagnosis. One I'd waited years for. I was wandering around in a haze. Someone I never should have asked - some boundaries are best kept up, and I made mistakes - somehow managed to help me unpack a lot of the emotional baggage in the immediate aftermath. Someone who knows almost nothing about this and really wasn't equipped to do it. But fuck it made an enormous difference.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"^ Is lovely

And a year older apparently

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Most have been lovely to me and I appreciate it xx

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Most have been lovely to me and I appreciate it xx"

Smile at the world and the world smiles back

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Most have been lovely to me and I appreciate it xx

Smile at the world and the world smiles back

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’ve made some incredible friends in my time here. Those that just know when things are tough, those that offer the best advice, those that just talk random crap and make me smile, those that bug the shit out of me but I still adore. And that one that’s like a sister to me. The girl I speak to daily that I completely adore and accepts me for the flawed human I am, just as I do her. That’s friendship.

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

There's one I'm particularly fond of

There are several who are really lovely

I generally like and get along with all

There's one who I would not give my last Rolo to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loveliness on fab.

Where to start?

For years, decades even I have tried to deny my urges/desires. I have convinced myself I am weird, wrong and unworthy.

It hasnt been a nice place to live.

I recently found the balls to get involved in the forums, and the acceptance I have experienced had warmed my heart. I have had chats both public and PM with lovely non judgemental people. Straight, bi, gay, Male,female and all ports in between.

Thank you to all the fab lovelies out there. Thank you for showing me that me is ok!

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Loveliness on fab.

Where to start?

For years, decades even I have tried to deny my urges/desires. I have convinced myself I am weird, wrong and unworthy.

It hasnt been a nice place to live.

Thank you to all the fab lovelies out there. Thank you for showing me that me is ok!"

You are who you are, your self expression is valid, and you are beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve made some incredible friends in my time here. Those that just know when things are tough, those that offer the best advice, those that just talk random crap and make me smile, those that bug the shit out of me but I still adore. And that one that’s like a sister to me. The girl I speak to daily that I completely adore and accepts me for the flawed human I am, just as I do her. That’s friendship. "

Awww, I adore you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So many lovely people on here. Hopefully I will meet some one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are 3 guys that iv met via Fab (not the forums though) who are great friends away from swinging too.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Awww, I adore you too

knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loveliness on fab.

Where to start?

For years, decades even I have tried to deny my urges/desires. I have convinced myself I am weird, wrong and unworthy.

It hasnt been a nice place to live.

Thank you to all the fab lovelies out there. Thank you for showing me that me is ok!

You are who you are, your self expression is valid, and you are beautiful."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many lovely people who have been there for me at various times during my time on the forum.

One helped me when I got into a right old mess 5 or so years ago with some tough love.

One who I know is just there whenever I need him and is like a brother from a different mother in some ways.

One who helped me and supported me when I ‘came out’ as bisexual and helps me often with her humour and deep caring.

One who seems to be ever present at the moment and is an incredible support probably more than she realises.

One who is simply lovely and helped me to understand something when I thought I’d screwed up

I am fortunate to have also met some lovely people who I’ll never forget, but one in particular for blowing my mind while being supportive and understanding when I started meeting again.

You all have a place in my heart.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

There are many lovely people on here, and not just on the forums. I gets lots of great messages, from feedback/advice from forum posts to concern from hidden profile etc from folk i chat to regularly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww, I adore you too

your knob "

And it loves you

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Awww, I adore you too

your knob

And it loves you

Get a room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see the forums as a cure for loneliness so manny people just to interact with yeah some you will never meet but thats the internet age this place keeps me cheerful in the main helps people who struggle with personal issues in there life it serves as a great release

for me it does anyway when im mad i can rage without fear of jail time when im happy i can sing from the roof tops

before fab i was actually really reserved and full of self hatred especially when i got too old to play rugby at the level im used to

but now i vent it at will some like some hate it but thats the beauty of it im unlikely to meet those who dont like me

iv discovered so many things and know my worth thanks to a few of you and iv found a few of the closest friends iv ever had and 1 who is and always be special to me in every way

Now iv no idea if this was the op but as a message to all the new people of fab struggling with life break out from the shackles holding you back let your personality shine and you will be rewarded as i have been

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

There's been plenty over the years.

I even married one and we had a couple at the wedding. Still keep in touch with a few ex fabbers who have moved on.

The site isn't just full of horny folk looking for sex. It's an alternative social network for many.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

There are others, where common ground comes up in odd ways. Little comments here and there at arm's length, which mean more than people know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's been plenty over the years.

I even married one and we had a couple at the wedding. Still keep in touch with a few ex fabbers who have moved on.

The site isn't just full of horny folk looking for sex. It's an alternative social network for many.

That’s it’s main purpose for me

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"There's been plenty over the years.

I even married one and we had a couple at the wedding. Still keep in touch with a few ex fabbers who have moved on.

The site isn't just full of horny folk looking for sex. It's an alternative social network for many.

That’s it’s main purpose for me

And that's as valid as everyone just looking for meets, camming or whatever they joined the site for.

No different to a tee-totaller going into a pub to socialise. And lets face it - the folk on here are often a lot more interesting and amusing than many on bookface.

Plus there's boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since becoming active on the forums, I've had the pleasure of chatting with some interesting and genuinely lovely persons both inside and out of the forums, I'm sure they know who they are

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You lovely lurkers know who you are too x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I've been lucky to make and meet some truly wonderful friends. Even if I don't talk as often to some of you, I still think fondly of you.

From the group who were there for me after my best friend and dad died and even recently when I was in hospital - you've kept me laughing and smiling and were just there when I needed to talk. You listened to me and gave me the strength and space and love I needed to get through it. Thank you.

The people who have bought me brilliant cheese hampers and books that I love, been there when I am Aspie-ing out and reassure me, the grumpy mentor who I adore, the Disney view of the world that's in stark contrast to my own, the outrageous flirting and the people who sends me daily morning messages of love, daftness and beautiful Vs.

Thanks for helping me find my voice, for encouraging me profesionally, for gin fuelled days (and nights!), for wonderful audios, gigs, seminars and ridiculous gifs, burnt toasties, loyalty, respect and support and just being you. I always know that I can call one of you if things are good or bad and that's real friendship. I hope a few of you will be at the wedding.

And even the little messages of support, kindness and appreciation that people send on here. They mean a lot. It sounds a bit daft and sentimental (fuck the whole thing does really!) but the world can be really crappy at times but it's less so when there's genuine niceness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met some fantastic people on here, many of who have been very supportive of me when I needed it.

There are quite often posts in here that spread happiness. Iswinginadress did one the other day, and Noras secret service.

It’s lovely and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a couple of people I would hope to be friends with for a long time, they've helped me look at things differently and just been there to listen or offer advice with no agenda beyond just being there which I will be eternally grateful for. Restores your faith in humans a bit when people who could easily take advantage don't.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Met and spoken to some lovely people whilst here,

Plus met my other half here over 4 years ago so its all good

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I admire those that are going through difficult times and can open their hearts to someone who has offered to be there for them. I know it's hard to open up to someone you may not have met.

The same admiration goes to anyone that opens their heart out to someone they've noticed is in need of a shoulder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive come across and been chatting to some lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven’t noticed. All the people I speak to are arseholes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's been plenty over the years.

I even married one and we had a couple at the wedding. Still keep in touch with a few ex fabbers who have moved on.

The site isn't just full of horny folk looking for sex. It's an alternative social network for many.

That’s it’s main purpose for me

And that's as valid as everyone just looking for meets, camming or whatever they joined the site for.

No different to a tee-totaller going into a pub to socialise. And lets face it - the folk on here are often a lot more interesting and amusing than many on bookface.

Plus there's boobs.

That is certainly the case,. the conversations are generally much more interesting than any other social platform Ive been on. i hardly go on any of the others nowadays. i have a few WhatsApp and Messenger groups of different friends and family and the Fab social network. That is plenty without being bombarded with boolocks on Bookface and Twatter

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Lots of loveliest humans in the forums. Some I talk to often, some occasionally and others I haven't yet had the pleasure

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

This is such a lovely thread that it needs Vivian from the young ones to interrupt it!!

NO, NO, NO, NO! WE ARE NOT WATCHING THE BLOODY GOOD LIFE! BLOODY, BLOODY, BLOODY! I HATE IT! IT'S SO BLOODY NICE! FELICITY "TREACLE" KENDAL, AND RICHARD "SUGAR FLAVOURED SNOT" BRIERS! WHAT DO THEY DO KNOW? CHOCOLATE BLOODY BUTTON ADS, THAT'S WHAT! THEY'RE NOTHING BUT A COUPLE OF REACTIONARY STEREOTYPES, CONFIRMING THE MYTH THAT EVERYONE IN BRITAIN IS A LOVABLE MIDDLE CLASS ECCENTRIC, AND I! HATE! THEM!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"This is such a lovely thread that it needs Vivian from the young ones to interrupt it!!

I've missed you guys. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lovely people on here, I’ve received some great support when things have been incredibly tough.

I made one friend who even though we don’t speak every day she’s better than a sister to me.

Some forumites have sent lovely messages offering support and advice when we’ve shared similar life experiences. I appreciate you all for the laughs, the tears and the wtf moments x

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I haven’t noticed. All the people I speak to are arseholes

Cheers love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience "

Hubby “chants” with guys most weekends at the football

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

Hubby “chants” with guys most weekends at the football

Are they on fab then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven’t noticed. All the people I speak to are arseholes

Opposites attract

Is one explanation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

Hubby “chants” with guys most weekends at the football

Are they on fab then

Auto correct strikes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

Hubby “chants” with guys most weekends at the football

Are they on fab then

Auto correct strikes again

Damn that auto correct

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I've been lucky to make and meet some truly wonderful friends. Even if I don't talk as often to some of you, I still think fondly of you.

That's beautiful.

That, right there, is what makes this little community wonderful.

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

I’ve met some of my favourite people on Fab. I’ve got a couple of exceptionally awesome friends, who are really important to me now, and that’s something that I didn’t expect.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience "

I think that it's harder for guys to make connections, mainly because they often view each other as 'the competition'.

For me though, the difference came when I started attending socials. Once people have met you and know that you're not just after one thing, it's much easier to make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I think that it's harder for guys to make connections, mainly because they often view each other as 'the competition'.

For me though, the difference came when I started attending socials. Once people have met you and know that you're not just after one thing, it's much easier to make friends. "
what he means is he realised most the guys of fab are munters and not really competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I think that it's harder for guys to make connections, mainly because they often view each other as 'the competition'.

For me though, the difference came when I started attending socials. Once people have met you and know that you're not just after one thing, it's much easier to make friends. "

I'd happily grab a pint or coffee with some of the fellas on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I think that it's harder for guys to make connections, mainly because they often view each other as 'the competition'.

For me though, the difference came when I started attending socials. Once people have met you and know that you're not just after one thing, it's much easier to make friends. "

I’ve been to many a social and regularly attend clubs. I’ve got one lady friend that I chat to and confine in. But in general I find the thinking is single guys are easily replaced.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I'll talk to anyone me I just like to be friendly, if people have competitions then it's in their head not mine I've never been like that in life tbh

I totally get what you mean though I think even off here men are like that in general. It's refreshing personally to know I'm different in that aspect actually and why would you want the attention of someone you essentially have to beg for, I'd rather have natural attention or a wank tbh lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lovely person off here on Monday. We'd not met before but conversation never stuttered and I had an amazing night. Totally normal.

As Bob Hoskins once said "it's good to talk"

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I really do need to go to socials but sadly life isn't permitting that at the mo. Hopefully sometime in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll talk to anyone me I just like to be friendly, if people have competitions then it's in their head not mine I've never been like that in life tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some real lovely people on Fab

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

I was in another city when I got the call about my stepdad being diagnosed with cancer. Long, looong way from home.

I mentioned it to a Fab friend who I was having a conversation with that day, because I was near them when I usually wouldn't be. They dropped their shit and came sat with me for an hour, had coffee and talked nonsense.

I appreciated that so much.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

A few years ago both of us found ourselves unexpectedly not working (a mix of illness and redundancy) and got into dire financial straits with no idea how to manage and hit rock bottom.

Some friends through fab, took it upon themselves to drive over an hour to us with a pot of coffee and a bunch of flowers just to brighten our day with their company and some much needed hugs.

They will always be friends and their lovely actions never forgotten xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience "

We will chat with anybody but unfortunately the main focus for the majority is sex talk and if the stated intention is just to chat that gets boring. There are a couple of people we do have just friendly chats with though and it's refreshing and often interesting and informative, especially and this person definitely knows who they are, the one who forced me to buy show stretchers.

I've said this before too, we have a line in our profile saying we are happy to meet just to chat and relax. Nobody wants to do that either.

Of course a lot of it could be because we just aren't the type of people others want to be friends with and that's ok. But I do think the number of people who genuinely want to make friends is very limited

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

*shoe stretchers

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It’s really a privilege to be let into someone’s world, the part they don’t share with most others because they’ll be judged harshly for actually enjoying sex.

There are others who have helped with a message or supporting comment and you never know how big an effect that can have.

If the meaning of life is making connections (some say it is) then making them good is where it’s at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I've said this before too, we have a line in our profile saying we are happy to meet just to chat and relax. Nobody wants to do that either.

I agree. Most the time I chat about all sorts on here. I find sex chat boring. Much prefer to find a level on other things. I wouldn’t expect to just chat with people that wasn’t attracted to me. I suppose for me personally clubs is the best way to be social and meet friends.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I've said this before too, we have a line in our profile saying we are happy to meet just to chat and relax. Nobody wants to do that either.

You only want to chat if there's attraction? That's not a criticism we are on fab not meet up lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made some lovely friends from the forum

And after posting about my recent health issuse I have had some lovely messages of support and people who check in regularly

I don't think there is anyone I wouldn't meet for a coffee and to chat shit with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I've said this before too, we have a line in our profile saying we are happy to meet just to chat and relax. Nobody wants to do that either.

You only want to chat if there's attraction? That's not a criticism we are on fab not meet up lol. "

I meant I wouldn’t expect anyone to chat to me if no attraction. I’ll chat to anyone. Tried to at a club before to a single guy. He said mate do me a favour don’t chat to me otherwise people will think we are gay

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don’t chant with guys. And most women will only chat if they are attracted to you.

It’s not always easy to make friends based on my experience

I've said this before too, we have a line in our profile saying we are happy to meet just to chat and relax. Nobody wants to do that either.

You only want to chat if there's attraction? That's not a criticism we are on fab not meet up lol.

We've been to quite a few organised socials and people are mostly very friendly but it is noticeable that the ones who aren't interested in us sexually will move away very quickly or noticeably scan the room with their eyes while trying to appear interested in what you're saying

. It is what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell us a bit about the lovely people on Fab. No names, let's not piss on lamp posts. Not just or even primarily sexual.

You may or may not #knowwhoyouare"

Did you mean on the forums or Fab in general ?

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

It's funny how sometimes it's easier to unload to complete strangers rather than to those closest to us. One in particular helped me thru a rather confusing, upsetting time. He's in another country so likelihood of meeting is low, but I'd love to thank him in person.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

I (Bear) often find myself chatting to people via the forums (male/female or couples) and then take it offline. No intent sexually from me at all but enjoy the banter and sometimes deeper chat. Honey is more likely to chat online to people shes attracted to specifically but we do balance each other out quite well.

Sometimes either approach can lead to play and more but oft not the initial intent. Probably means we're missing the point of fab

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

Lots of good people on fab either in forums and chat. Very lucky to get to know a few. The banter is top notch and lots of friendliness and caring folk on here. Get through the fakes, attention seekers and time wasters as it’s definitely worthwhile

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Tell us a bit about the lovely people on Fab. No names, let's not piss on lamp posts. Not just or even primarily sexual.

You may or may not #knowwhoyouare

Did you mean on the forums or Fab in general ?"

Either. Just a nice thread

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

And another person who gave me a huge eureka moment earlier today. Bloody hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are populated but heaps of kind, caring, wonderful people .

We have all seemed to navigate ourselves to the lounge and most have stayed .

When the chips are down , people rally round , lift and support ( A tad like a wonder bra ha ha )

We have a chuckle and there is what young people call banter . It's all great fun.

I will never forget the kindness shown to Pooch and I during his illness. Then the support I received from friends , when pooch passed across to the rainbow bridge . He's waiting there for me one day

Thank you friends

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's typically abundant from those who don't strive to be number 1 for attention or popularity, nor with wisecracks - as much as I love people and their humour here.

It may be just the odd couple of words that you see, though very often, that share some sweet tenderness, or postrrs who invest a lot, to support others who they're not aiming to gain sexually or reputationally from.

Thankfully it's the great diversity of people here, with a sufficiently large volume of those who do care about others, that makes fab stand out from sites that I know. Most of these people aren't looking for anything, no indirect gains etc. It highlights the great country and its people here.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I only talk to the lovely ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had nothing but nice experiences with the lovely forum users of Fab. Almost everyone has been welcoming and engaging, even when I'm being a dick and just trying to be funny...on every single thread lol

There have been advice threads helping people with all manner of issues, both Fab and non Fab related. There are always fun threads, which I like the most, giving people the chance to be humorous and show their funny sides. Even the "clique" threads have been relatively entertaining with the brunt of people agreeing that if you get involved in the forum with the right attitude then people will happily converse with you.

I have a few favourite whome I love to see post as they always make me smile, and a few other whome I know come across as controversial but still manage to get people chatting. I have met some wonderful people at social events and I hope to meet many more, and I've played with one of 2 who have given me nights that I will never forget.

I spend a lot of my time on here because of the diversity of Fabbers and the chance to get to know people I might not normally meet.

It's been an absolute pleasure getting to know you all and as people come and go I look forward to talking to new people and welcoming old favourites back

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I've had nothing but nice experiences with the lovely forum users of Fab. Almost everyone has been welcoming and engaging, even when I'm being a dick and just trying to be funny...on every single thread lol

I spend a lot of my time on here because of the diversity of Fabbers and the chance to get to know people I might not normally meet.

It's been an absolute pleasure getting to know you all and as people come and go I look forward to talking to new people and welcoming old favourites back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is so much loveliness on fab.

I think it's easy to focus on the negative but there are many gems lurking about these here parts.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"There is so much loveliness on fab.

I think it's easy to focus on the negative but there are many gems lurking about these here parts. "

Definitely

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

There are some real gems on fab. I've had a pretty rough months and I've some amazing support. And not always in the places you expect x

Some I would not have made it through the year without. Not all i sadly still talk to but mostly I've been overwhelmed by the emotional and friendly support x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely thread _naswingdress!

I've chatted to a few people who come across as very genuine. I've had the privilege of meeting some too. One or two I can count as friends. I hope to make more.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"There is so much loveliness on fab.

I think it's easy to focus on the negative but there are many gems lurking about these here parts. "

Your lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't have got through what I'm going through at the moment without my wonderful fab friends. I've got friends that check in with me every day, but also I've been overwhelmed with all the support and private messages I've received over the last couple of weeks, they were totally unexpected and have helped me greatly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't have got through what I'm going through at the moment without my wonderful fab friends. I've got friends that check in with me every day, but also I've been overwhelmed with all the support and private messages I've received over the last couple of weeks, they were totally unexpected and have helped me greatly. "
you killed that bee yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is so much loveliness on fab.

I think it's easy to focus on the negative but there are many gems lurking about these here parts.

Your lovely"

Thank you, as are you. X

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"There is so much loveliness on fab.

I think it's easy to focus on the negative but there are many gems lurking about these here parts.

Your lovely

Thank you, as are you. X"

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I absolutely adore you saffie. You are my sister. You have stood by me when other so called friends have been the biggest betrayal.

You know me better than anyone. You are the definition of loveliness. I love you so much and my journey on fab has been some what crazy you have stood by me through it all.

I’m so proud to call you my friend and am lucky enough to have found real love on here.

#illalwaysbethereforyou

#sistersforever

#willyoubemybridesmade

#lifeafterfabisamazing

#fuckthehaters

#youwillgrowoldandbeardedalone

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I absolutely adore you saffie. You are my sister. You have stood by me when other so called friends have been the biggest betrayal.

You know me better than anyone. You are the definition of loveliness. I love you so much and my journey on fab has been some what crazy you have stood by me through it all.

I’m so proud to call you my friend and am lucky enough to have found real love on here.

#illalwaysbethereforyou

#sistersforever

#willyoubemybridesmade

#lifeafterfabisamazing

#fuckthehaters

#youwillgrowoldandbeardedalone

Who said I meant you?!?!?

Stop being soft now. It’s disturbing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely adore you saffie. You are my sister. You have stood by me when other so called friends have been the biggest betrayal.

You know me better than anyone. You are the definition of loveliness. I love you so much and my journey on fab has been some what crazy you have stood by me through it all.

I’m so proud to call you my friend and am lucky enough to have found real love on here.

#illalwaysbethereforyou

#sistersforever

#willyoubemybridesmade

#lifeafterfabisamazing

#fuckthehaters

#youwillgrowoldandbeardedalone

Gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years the have been a few people that have reassured me that it it's okay to be me. I know I'll never be one of the most popular forumites and I often really struggle with being me so that reassurance as it is almost always unsolicited means far more than those offering it will ever know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Over the years the have been a few people that have reassured me that it it's okay to be me. I know I'll never be one of the most popular forumites and I often really struggle with being me so that reassurance as it is almost always unsolicited means far more than those offering it will ever know "

You’re one of most honest and real people on here. As for being a popular forumite , don’t believe that those who portray themselves as being nice as pie and concerned about others on the forums are actually like that behind the scenes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna rim me?

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

You're fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you’re one of the loveliest people I’ve ever spoken to

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"OP you’re one of the loveliest people I’ve ever spoken to

Thank you, I appreciate it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

They sometimes take some finding, but there are some lovely people on here, and I'm lucky enough to be able to call some of them friends

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Loveliness on fab.

Where to start?

For years, decades even I have tried to deny my urges/desires. I have convinced myself I am weird, wrong and unworthy.

It hasnt been a nice place to live.

Thank you to all the fab lovelies out there. Thank you for showing me that me is ok!"

Being yourself is more than ok. It takes a lot of strength and guts to allow people to see the real you. Be happy who you are

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've had some messages today that have made me smile. #youknowwhoyouare

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Anyone we have ever met at the townhouse are amazingly lovely and most are on fab xx

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

More loveliness today

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

This is a wonderful thread. Thank you Inaswingdress.

There are very lovely people on fab. I've met a few at recent socials and made a couple of long distance friends. I'm looking forward to seeing them again very soon.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

There should be threads like this permanently.

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By *lame2000Woman
over a year ago

Limerick

I didn't know what to expect when I first joined, but it wasn't friendships.

But that's what I have now and it's really great. I've been very lucky.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

There are some genuinely wonderful people on here. Some I have become good friends with even tho we live so far apart.I've met some amazing people as well and am lucky to have some who I meet regularly. It can be a fantastic place of support and kindness at times. It's also somewhere where you realise kinks are not to be ashamed of but embraced and good fun as well.

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By *naswingdress OP Woman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I definitely came for the sex.

The people you meet and the barriers you break down is why I stay.

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

I've befriended 3 of the loveliest girls & so far met 2 in person with the 3rd hopefully soon. All are now real life friends.

Also met the best tgirl friend i could ever wish for who helped & encouraged me & changed my life for good. A little bravery has brought great things to life.

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