Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to The Lounge |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? " Each to their own of course, But we do prefer a profile picture ;-) | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? " I wouldn't look at a profile with no photo. But that's just my preference. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? I wouldn't look at a profile with no photo. But that's just my preference. " You are seriously missing out! I have a fwb who people on here would call unicorn. Not just saying this. She really is stunning. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me." This | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't even look to be honest. Plenty of profiles have an avatar so why bother with the ones that don't " Missing out on unicorns. A lot of discreet stunning women who do not have the time to come on here would not have profile pics. Less messages. Easier to manage account. Trust me. I have one. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me." Proved you wrong! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me. Proved you wrong! " Did you? I don't think so. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me. Proved you wrong! Did you? I don't think so." You read my private message i sent you. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures" Guilty! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me. Proved you wrong! Did you? I don't think so. You read my private message i sent you. " I didn't... | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures Guilty! " Your pictures are wonderful! | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me. Proved you wrong! Did you? I don't think so. You read my private message i sent you. I didn't..." Ok. If you say so. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No photo no chat. I do make exceptions of the message adds a photo attached " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures Guilty! Your pictures are wonderful!" Let’s say that they are an interpretation of myself. And I like yours too! And in response to the op, I may well contact somebody with a well written profile and no picture provided they have a catchy status update or profile title. If they don’t They are not going to stand out. My eyes will be caught by the many other profiles which have an attractive avatar. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s probably been raised on the thread already but not having a profile pic will mean that you’re going to instantly be falling outside peoples filters. Couple that with the fact that as a single man, you’re already in the most blocked group of people on the site. You’re only harming your chances of any kind of meet" Fair comment. I agree. But... also people who have filters blocking people with no picture are also missing out. I found a unicorn who has no picture. I mean it. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s probably been raised on the thread already but not having a profile pic will mean that you’re going to instantly be falling outside peoples filters. Couple that with the fact that as a single man, you’re already in the most blocked group of people on the site. You’re only harming your chances of any kind of meet Fair comment. I agree. But... also people who have filters blocking people with no picture are also missing out. I found a unicorn who has no picture. I mean it. " Yeah very possibly, but the argument will be that they don’t necessarily have the time or inclination to find that one POTENTIALLY awesome person in the sea of shadow profiles. Making your own life easier with a pic. Also making it easier for those you want to interact with | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s probably been raised on the thread already but not having a profile pic will mean that you’re going to instantly be falling outside peoples filters. Couple that with the fact that as a single man, you’re already in the most blocked group of people on the site. You’re only harming your chances of any kind of meet Fair comment. I agree. But... also people who have filters blocking people with no picture are also missing out. I found a unicorn who has no picture. I mean it. Yeah very possibly, but the argument will be that they don’t necessarily have the time or inclination to find that one POTENTIALLY awesome person in the sea of shadow profiles. Making your own life easier with a pic. Also making it easier for those you want to interact with " Again. I agree. But also... those with no pictures might be because they do not have the time to go through the hundreds of messages they get a day. So productivity goes up with out a picture as well. Good arguments. Just saying... do not dismiss a no picture profile. Especially when they have amazing reviews and have written you a nice genuine witty message. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When I get messages from accounts with no profile photo, I don't even read them, I just delete them and don't look at the profile. It's a must for me. This " Those | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"there are some good profiles out there without profile pics but I’ve found that most without can’t even be bothered to fill anything in & when asked about pictures they refuse unless I add them on WhatsApp. Have you met your “unicorn” in real life? " Yes. I am seeing her. And i know people might say she might not be a unicorn to them. But thats irrelevant. Just saying i found a unicorn. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"there are some good profiles out there without profile pics but I’ve found that most without can’t even be bothered to fill anything in & when asked about pictures they refuse unless I add them on WhatsApp. Have you met your “unicorn” in real life? Yes. I am seeing her. And i know people might say she might not be a unicorn to them. But thats irrelevant. Just saying i found a unicorn. " You do know what a unicorn is? A single bi female, I am a unicorn | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It’s probably been raised on the thread already but not having a profile pic will mean that you’re going to instantly be falling outside peoples filters. Couple that with the fact that as a single man, you’re already in the most blocked group of people on the site. You’re only harming your chances of any kind of meet Fair comment. I agree. But... also people who have filters blocking people with no picture are also missing out. I found a unicorn who has no picture. I mean it. Yeah very possibly, but the argument will be that they don’t necessarily have the time or inclination to find that one POTENTIALLY awesome person in the sea of shadow profiles. Making your own life easier with a pic. Also making it easier for those you want to interact with Again. I agree. But also... those with no pictures might be because they do not have the time to go through the hundreds of messages they get a day. So productivity goes up with out a picture as well. Good arguments. Just saying... do not dismiss a no picture profile. Especially when they have amazing reviews and have written you a nice genuine witty message. " I take no notice of verifications. Just because someone else thinks your amazing, doesn’t mean I will. I mean, lots of women find Tom Hardy sexy and I have absolutely no idea what they see in him | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? Each to their own of course, But we do prefer a profile picture ;-)" No profile pic, it’s no from Stella | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
" so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures Guilty! " You must try harder | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? " I would definitely read the profile even without a pic. And yes, after few chats no harm in sharing a latest image thereafter. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. " As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :') | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :')" Yes that would make me take a look rather than a silhouette | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe the person with no profile picture is amazing, I'm missing out, etc. Don't care. I read all my messages, but it's never going any further than that. This is not one where you're going to win, OP. You need pictures for the vast majority to look at you seriously." | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. " Yes. The most grotesque tmi close up is better than nothing. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe the person with no profile picture is amazing, I'm missing out, etc. Don't care. I read all my messages, but it's never going any further than that. This is not one where you're going to win, OP. You need pictures for the vast majority to look at you seriously." Not about win or lose. As long as change one persons opinion on this. Then i am happy. No right or wrong. Its a debate. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. " I am sure the people who got catfish would not agree with you. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Maybe the person with no profile picture is amazing, I'm missing out, etc. Don't care. I read all my messages, but it's never going any further than that. This is not one where you're going to win, OP. You need pictures for the vast majority to look at you seriously. Not about win or lose. As long as change one persons opinion on this. Then i am happy. No right or wrong. Its a debate. " It's a debate that's been had many times and nothing has changed. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. I am sure the people who got catfish would not agree with you. " Just pop a photo of your hand, holding a teacup or something. Even your sock - at least it's a pic | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :') Yes that would make me take a look rather than a silhouette " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I mean, this is a bit "I didn't do my homework, but at least I didn't say the dog ate it". " Are you sure? | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :') Yes that would make me take a look rather than a silhouette " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I mean, this is a bit "I didn't do my homework, but at least I didn't say the dog ate it". Are you sure? " Yes. I'm certain of my analogy. And I'm in a good position to judge. My photos are unfiltered apart from colour effect, cropping, and in one instance I removed the brand name from an item of clothing. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"What I don't understand is the reluctance to have any picture at all. Many people need discretion due to careers etc. That doesn't mean you can't have fun with your profile pic ... something unusual that can on its own spark interest and conversation. You don't have to be recognisable in the pic, so long as you're in it ... even just your finger pointing at something. Communication takes many forms but studies have suggested that people form opinions in the first 30 seconds of "meeting" ... impact in your profile pic can give that edge in some ways. But hey, whatever works for you" I agree. Good argument. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :') Yes that would make me take a look rather than a silhouette " I find an orange frilly skirt makes an ideal profile picture too | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I think any profile picture is better than no picture. As far as profile pictures go, yours is a good one- definitely unique! :') Yes that would make me take a look rather than a silhouette I find an orange frilly skirt makes an ideal profile picture too " | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I wouldn't and gave filters to stop people contacting me ,if they have no pics There's nothing to pique my interest and its a waste of time chatting for ages only to find out there's no attraction . Everyone can add a pic of some sort" The only reason I don't have that filter on is because too many circumvent it and it pisses me off | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"No profile picture? Guarantee ignore. " Definitely it’s just a complete waste of time I don’t understand the reason you wouldn’t have one | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Is a picture necessary? I can show someone my picture after we got to know each other a little. But lets be honest. There are so many fake pictures, filtered pictures, misleading pictures, etc... that make my no picture profile look good. Don't you think? Would you look at a no picture profile? " I prefer to see a profile picture. Ones without I don't seem to look at the profile. | |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
Post new Message to Thread |
back to top |