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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can we just discuss the double standards of this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don’t send a photo. Simple as that really.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Wasn't it discussed earlier?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Don’t like their rules, don’t play their game.

DD - All Cornwall Naked Jelly Twister Champion

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"

Can we just discuss the double standards of this "

Simple really. I don’t do double standards, certainly not for random strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore and move on OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

"

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic"

They do it'cos they can ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic"

How is it toxic?

When I’m meeting, I want to not waste time. So I want to see your face upfront. If you’re fit and I wanna chat, I’ll send mine back. If not, I won’t reply. Simple as that. I couldn’t care if it’s double standards. I’m not wasting my time. (I don’t always have my fave visible)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic

How is it toxic?

When I’m meeting, I want to not waste time. So I want to see your face upfront. If you’re fit and I wanna chat, I’ll send mine back. If not, I won’t reply. Simple as that. I couldn’t care if it’s double standards. I’m not wasting my time. (I don’t always have my fave visible)"

"How is it toxic?"

"I dont care if it's a double standard"

Really?

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Just don’t send a photo. Simple as that really. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s to discuss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skip the profile if you don’t like

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Don’t like their rules, don’t play their game.

DD - All Cornwall Naked Jelly Twister Champion "

This. All the way...

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

Surely they will send their face pic after yours.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Ignore the message OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic

How is it toxic?

When I’m meeting, I want to not waste time. So I want to see your face upfront. If you’re fit and I wanna chat, I’ll send mine back. If not, I won’t reply. Simple as that. I couldn’t care if it’s double standards. I’m not wasting my time. (I don’t always have my fave visible)

"How is it toxic?"

"I dont care if it's a double standard"

Really?"

Yes, really. No one is forcing you to do anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely they will send their face pic after yours."

That would be the polite thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely they will send their face pic after yours."

Doubt it if no attraction

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

They asked for a face pic- but did they specify it had to be of you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, really. No one is forcing you to do anything "

Ofcourse they're not, they're just showing that they're a pretty shitty person.

Hold on met me put the face too, maybe it'll make people think my justification is valid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They asked for a face pic- but did they specify it had to be of you? "

This is perfect. Pictures of Brian Peppers inbound!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic"

Stick to the other 40-50% or try men or TVs instead i guess *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, really. No one is forcing you to do anything

Ofcourse they're not, they're just showing that they're a pretty shitty person.

Hold on met me put the face too, maybe it'll make people think my justification is valid

"

I didn’t say your justification wasn’t valid. I just pointed out that if you don’t like something and don’t agree with it, don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, really. No one is forcing you to do anything

Ofcourse they're not, they're just showing that they're a pretty shitty person.

Hold on met me put the face too, maybe it'll make people think my justification is valid

I didn’t say your justification wasn’t valid. I just pointed out that if you don’t like something and don’t agree with it, don’t do it. "

The onus of justification isnt on me I think you misread my comment

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why should I put a public face pic on my profile if I don’t want to? If you don’t want to send a face pic to someone who doesn’t have one on their profile, just don’t do it. You can either message her without one and probably get deleted, or you can move on to someone you deem less “toxic”. The women of Fab don’t owe you public face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a girl post a thread looking guys for a gangbang and watch the number of guys who say 'I'm in' without seeing her face. A lot of guys on here just want to get their dick wet, a lot of girls want to feel an actual attraction.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"Have a girl post a thread looking guys for a gangbang and watch the number of guys who say 'I'm in' without seeing her face. A lot of guys on here just want to get their dick wet, a lot of girls want to feel an actual attraction. "

Sad but I have to agree with this in a lot of cases

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why should I put a public face pic on my profile if I don’t want to? If you don’t want to send a face pic to someone who doesn’t have one on their profile, just don’t do it. You can either message her without one and probably get deleted, or you can move on to someone you deem less “toxic”. The women of Fab don’t owe you public face pics."

And the men of fab dont owe your their privacy in exchange for a deleted message, get over yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why should I put a public face pic on my profile if I don’t want to? If you don’t want to send a face pic to someone who doesn’t have one on their profile, just don’t do it. You can either message her without one and probably get deleted, or you can move on to someone you deem less “toxic”. The women of Fab don’t owe you public face pics.

And the men of fab dont owe your their privacy in exchange for a deleted message, get over yourself"

Nobody owes anyone anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is double standards but it's also the way they run their profile.

As people have said above, if you don't like it don't message.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Why should I put a public face pic on my profile if I don’t want to? If you don’t want to send a face pic to someone who doesn’t have one on their profile, just don’t do it. You can either message her without one and probably get deleted, or you can move on to someone you deem less “toxic”. The women of Fab don’t owe you public face pics.

And the men of fab dont owe your their privacy in exchange for a deleted message, get over yourself"

If you don't want to send face pics, don't send face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't it discussed earlier?

Must have missed it, sorry.

I get that it's easy to just not play the game but I'd say at least 50-60% of girls on here have that exact standard set. Usually accompanied by "tired of being fucked around by time wasters" or something similar.

Toxic"

Have also seen plenty of male profiles requesting face pics yet not having any of their own OP. Usually accompanied by "I can't have face pics on here because of my job"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooooo try not

Do

Or do not

There is no try

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why should I put a public face pic on my profile if I don’t want to? If you don’t want to send a face pic to someone who doesn’t have one on their profile, just don’t do it. You can either message her without one and probably get deleted, or you can move on to someone you deem less “toxic”. The women of Fab don’t owe you public face pics.

And the men of fab dont owe your their privacy in exchange for a deleted message, get over yourself"

Like I said, you don’t have to send one. Why is your privacy more important than ours? A face pic in a message is still more private than one on your profile, which is what you seem to be demanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP it's not split standards Prehaps you take into account what is going on from the other side?

Single ladies and couples get loads of mail from single guy's because seriously this place is absolutely full of them, usually mail is of low quality "fancy a Fuck" with little to no effort or the usual cut and paste lark with attached cock pic/pics!

Add into the mix that probably half to two thirds are cheating on their wife or girlfriend.

Surely if you wanted to better your chances and float above the rest of the dross you would just be better attaching a face picture to your opening message and putting a polite message that says that you took into account the information on their profile? True it's upto you if your sharing face pictures or not but there's an awful lot of profiles that says please attach a face picture and no Dick pics for a pretty good reason.

End of the day who wants to send mail just to go straight onto the deleted pile and if you have nothing to hide where is the issue?

Also think of it like this we get a message from a random M,MF or F asking for face pic's out of the blue in reality if they have attached one we think yeah and simply respond with one of our own but if they didn't but ask for one of us we think that its a bit cheeky to ask without already one attached and don't. Surprisingly how meny strangers take acception in "you first as you asked" Lol

It's all about showing your genuine in this game

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