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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I read lots of posts from people saying i love my new toy that does this n that etc....we all know toys can enhance sex...so my question to you is...

Im not a huge fan tbh...yes to some BDSM stuff etc, but im not really bothered in all honesty...nowt beats a REAL cock, REAL fingers attached to a MAN..well for me anyway..

Can you do without your toys?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I gave up toys.....for cocks

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I gave up toys.....for cocks

"
I just think everyone is toy mad recently!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very rarely use toys in our play... real thing so much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys have their place but they are no substitute for the real thing.

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

Think i'm might be in the minority, I have one toy which is used very rarely

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

They're not a must at all,there is no comparison to the real thing,but can sometimes add some extra fun

When im on my own and don't have the real thing its a different matter

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I gave up toys.....for cocks

I just think everyone is toy mad recently! "

Know what you mean, requests to me have shown an epidemic of requests, the last few months.

As you say, nowt beats good cock, nothing is close to great cock, and the right cock on the guys with the right mind's is stratospherically so far away from a toy. Now, for self pleasuring, where there's no cock, it's different.

1 great cock not fitting the bill, get more in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like my toys, and want to get a wand, think my bullet is my current fave.

but yes i love the touch from a real man

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

When I moved house recently I threw quite a few things out....I decided that the quality of cock I was getting recently far outweighed the quality of a sex toy.....so the toys went in the bin!

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"i like my toys, and want to get a wand, think my bullet is my current fave.

but yes i love the touch from a real man"

Oh I'd be lost without my bullet! It always hits the spot and enhances the pleasure for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also not a fan of toys. I've only got one vibrator, and I only chose that as its silver with diamantes on the bottom. Its ok and does the trick if my man is not around but I don't use it regularly. Definitely a poor substitute to a flesh and blood cock, fingers and tongue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read lots of posts from people saying i love my new toy that does this n that etc....we all know toys can enhance sex...so my question to you is...

Im not a huge fan tbh...yes to some BDSM stuff etc, but im not really bothered in all honesty...nowt beats a REAL cock, REAL fingers attached to a MAN..well for me anyway..

Can you do without your toys? "
Really like the laptop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like to use toys on women... esp if we are having a long play session as my fingers can get tired... and i love having toys used on me when me and mark are having fun together and he has finished the first time and he uses toys on me makes me cum and gets himself horny again doing that then we go again lol so yeah for me toys are pretty essential

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I read lots of posts from people saying i love my new toy that does this n that etc....we all know toys can enhance sex...so my question to you is...

Im not a huge fan tbh...yes to some BDSM stuff etc, but im not really bothered in all honesty...nowt beats a REAL cock, REAL fingers attached to a MAN..well for me anyway..

Can you do without your toys? Really like the laptop "
what the fuck do you do with your laptop then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys never really worked for me then I heard all the fuss about the Hitachi wand, so I ordered one of those, threw all the rest away and use the wand every evening. I'd be going nuts lately without it.

However, I don't like anyone else using it on me, it's just too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me they're a novelty.

I have 2 huge boxes full of toys, yet, save my rabbit, they have only been used the odd once or twice.

We sometimes get them out for meets, but not often. Sometimes the 2 of us will have the odd mutual masturbation session.

for the most part tho they are forgotten about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When decent gents with real cocks are far and between, I'll have my toys to keep me sane.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"When decent gents with real cocks are far and between, I'll have my toys to keep me sane. "
Why dont you let your fingers do the walking?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

I bought some Nerf guns the other day ...... for my nephew of course ...... ahem!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I bought some Nerf guns the other day ...... for my nephew of course ...... ahem! "
what do you do...shoot your cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think i'm might be in the minority, I have one toy which is used very rarely "
no ur not! I also hav 1 toy that is gathering dust in the drawer beside my bed... Feels cold & I also don't feel the need 2 use it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Can you do without your toys? "

HEll NO!!!!

i love my toys, granted i mostly use mine for 'me time' but they do have there place at times with me and kev especially the remote control ones that can be worn when we are out and about

Kat x x x

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I would never consider toys to be a substitute for the real thing, but I do love my wand. Mostly used for either solo sessions or during group play.

Femme asked the question "why don't you let your fingers do the walking"

- well my fingers work very well in bringing me to orgasm but find it near on impossible to have multiples using just fingers...where my wand just keeps them rolling along......bliss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When decent gents with real cocks are far and between, I'll have my toys to keep me sane. Why dont you let your fingers do the walking? "

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My hands are small and the fingers cannot reach the spot where I have itches!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a whole drawer....no suitcase full of em but that comes with the job......(ann summers po) but i have to say prefer the real thing anyday but when home alone and feel.the need out comes my trusty toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toys are fine for the odd occasion but they are no substitute for the real thing.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Toys have a must if you don't wash them after play.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Ideally, toys should just enhance sex, and (being the owner of a cock) not be a replacement for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck all wrong with toys...i had a meet one time and had a great game of buckaroo as she sucked my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally, toys should just enhance sex, not be a replacement for it."

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I remember reading on the side of the box of my very first vibrator ‘Sold as a novelty item’… and to me, during a meet, that’s what they are, a novelty. A bit of titillation to add variety during the evening… if I remember to get the bag out. I don’t feel anything is missing if they are not used, but I’ve always had fun when they have made an appearance.

The exception is robocock… which lives by my bed and is my lazy wank tool.

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By *uintillianMan
over a year ago

washington services

I agree=toys should enhance sex not be a replacement for it. As a single bloke i have a massive toy collection which i use with fore-play,as fore-play and sumtimes during sex with a partner.

But then i`m greedy,i jussst love too see a woman having mind blowing orgasms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my toys..but they do give me arm ache.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I remember reading on the side of the box of my very first vibrator ‘Sold as a novelty item’… and to me, during a meet, that’s what they are, a novelty. A bit of titillation to add variety during the evening… if I remember to get the bag out. I don’t feel anything is missing if they are not used, but I’ve always had fun when they have made an appearance.

The exception is robocock… which lives by my bed and is my lazy wank tool.

"
Robocock sounds fucking scary...

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"I bought some Nerf guns the other day ...... for my nephew of course ...... ahem! what do you do...shoot your cock? "

yeah ..... at your face

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I read lots of posts from people saying i love my new toy that does this n that etc....we all know toys can enhance sex...so my question to you is...

Im not a huge fan tbh...yes to some BDSM stuff etc, but im not really bothered in all honesty...nowt beats a REAL cock, REAL fingers attached to a MAN..well for me anyway..

Can you do without your toys? "

I enjoy them when they come out from under the bed but can also leave them and not feel I have missed out on anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im lost without my lego and my mechanno

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

i love my toys, but a good session with them just leaves me wanting a good fuck to round things off

although not many people can make me cum as easily and quickly as toys - the day i find a man who's fingers can go as fast as my fave he gets chained to the bed! and sometimes just lying there getting repeatedly close but not quite can be frustrating.

and as has been mentioned toys can be a quicker route to multiples, once that starts everything triggers another!

i have been known to start all by myself and get worked up so i'm ahead of the game (so to speak) and then put them away when company arrives

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