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  So I was having a conversation regarding whether or not it was considered more appealing to hook up with dabbers that had more verifications or less, mixed response. What do you think? | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "No, not at all. | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "Nope, would it bother you? | |||
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"Makes no odds to me, personality and physical attraction are key, I'm looking to share sexy fun not marry them." So you wouldn't marry someone with lots of verifications? | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "
I have several times met a couple with over 200 verifications. | |||
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"Makes no odds to me, personality and physical attraction are key, I'm looking to share sexy fun not marry them. So you wouldn't marry someone with lots of verifications? "I'm already married  | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "Why would it? I know people who are not of fab that have many one night stands after a night out and their numbers are probably in triple digits. Now if they joined fab they wouldn’t necessarily have those verifications to portray how many people they have been with. So what’s the difference? How do you know the person with no verifications hasn’t had sex with as many people as the person with 100? | |||
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"Makes no odds to me, personality and physical attraction are key, I'm looking to share sexy fun not marry them. So you wouldn't marry someone with lots of verifications?
I'm already married "Does she have lots of verifications? Because if she does she'll be pretty mad at you right now | |||
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"I don't think it would bother me to much, particularly if there was a mutual attraction for all involved. I'd still be game,but I think I'd have a limit unless confirmation of checks could be proven. " You'd only ask for checks from people with lots of veris but not from those with just a few? | |||
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" I think I'd have a limit unless confirmation of checks could be proven. " How would this work ? For example, by looking at my profile you would never know that I had over 100 verifications on a previous profile. | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "It wouldn't bother us, no, its a swinging site  | |||
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Is it how many they have met or more to the truth who have they met ?  | |||
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"I personally would want to that from anyone, we have yet to meet anyone, but the conversations we have had regarding checks, people seem to be unable to prove this. " What exactly do you want them to prove? | |||
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"I personally would want to that from anyone, we have yet to meet anyone, but the conversations we have had regarding checks, people seem to be unable to prove this. " What proof are you asking for? What proof are you providing? | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own "What proof are you asking for? | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own "If you click reply+quote under the post you're responding to we'll know who you're answering | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own "It is each to their own, but as partners you obviously have to agree who you meet | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own
If you click reply+quote under the post you're responding to we'll know who you're answering "oh sorry wasn't aware | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own
It is each to their own, but as partners you obviously have to agree who you meet "yeah exactly, this the reason for the conversation, mixed views on who I guess. | |||
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"Well we get a text message to confirm ALL CLEAR - GUMCLINIC a simple screen shot would suffice, but it doesn't seem to be the case in other regions. Not sure why I had assumed it would all be the same method of confirmation. " , That's good you're checked, but only valid for the day of testing, so not failproof. | |||
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"Well we get a text message to confirm ALL CLEAR - GUMCLINIC a simple screen shot would suffice, but it doesn't seem to be the case in other regions. Not sure why I had assumed it would all be the same method of confirmation. " I get these too and always send a screenshot if asked but, like everyone, we are only as good as our last sexual encounter. Clean test results are reassuring, and better than people that don't have tests at all. | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own
It is each to their own, but as partners you obviously have to agree who you meet yeah exactly, this the reason for the conversation, mixed views on who I guess. " so your partner isn't happy to meet others with lots of veries? What are his concerns? | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications? "But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know. | |||
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was just laughing to myself thinking, we have only been signed up a week, probably see my profile next years with a heck ton of veris looking like a right wally  thanks everyone for your opinions. Happy fabbing | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know. "Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know. "You can switch on to show how many verifications you have, but a little misleading as some will be same profiles re verifying | |||
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"Do you mean Fabber? " Good question. Or is a dabber something else new I'm missing out on too? I'd hate that. | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own
It is each to their own, but as partners you obviously have to agree who you meet yeah exactly, this the reason for the conversation, mixed views on who I guess.
so your partner isn't happy to meet others with lots of veries? What are his concerns? "He is, I don't think he is particularly fussed about that. Just wants to make sure they are clean, hygienic, mutually compatable and can cater to our needs. | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks "If they've been verified 150 times it will say they have even if they only show one. | |||
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"Do you mean Fabber? Good question. Or is a dabber something else new I'm missing out on too? I'd hate that." Predictive text, I did mean fabbers | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks
If they've been verified 150 times it will say they have even if they only show one.
"Not if they hide their summary | |||
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" was just laughing to myself thinking, we have only been signed up a week, probably see my profile next years with a heck ton of veris looking like a right wally thanks everyone for your opinions. Happy fabbing "Haha good luck and have fun! | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks
If they've been verified 150 times it will say they have even if they only show one.
"Yeah your right it does, but you can also publish what the other Fabbers comments? T | |||
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" was just laughing to myself thinking, we have only been signed up a week, probably see my profile next years with a heck ton of veris looking like a right wally thanks everyone for your opinions. Happy fabbing
Haha good luck and have fun!"Thank you,  | |||
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"Yeah of course, establishing genuine, non time wasters is great and all, experience I guess, I'm personally not to fussed about someone's experience I like to lead to be fair, but again, its mixed views on it. I don't judge, I just have my preference. Partner has his.. And its not the same as mine. It really is each to their own
It is each to their own, but as partners you obviously have to agree who you meet yeah exactly, this the reason for the conversation, mixed views on who I guess.
so your partner isn't happy to meet others with lots of veries? What are his concerns?
He is, I don't think he is particularly fussed about that. Just wants to make sure they are clean, hygienic, mutually compatable and can cater to our needs. "Of course it can be a bit of a minefield, especially compatibility, all four have to be happy with each other | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
You can switch on to show how many verifications you have, but a little misleading as some will be same profiles re verifying "But If they've switched it off it just solely shows as 15 meets, not a 100 meets with the tally broken down below it, so doesn't matter how many veris people have. | |||
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" was just laughing to myself thinking, we have only been signed up a week, probably see my profile next years with a heck ton of veris looking like a right wally thanks everyone for your opinions. Happy fabbing
Haha good luck and have fun!
Thank you, "You're welcome | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks
If they've been verified 150 times it will say they have even if they only show one.
Yeah your right it does, but you can also publish what the other Fabbers comments? T"Yes you can. It has also just been pointed out to me by my long suffering husband That you don't need to show number of verifications.
The best thing to do is to to your account and "manage verifications" and see what options are available. | |||
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"So it wouldn't bother you if they had more than 100 verifications?
But someone could have more than a 100 veris but only choose to show 15 of them, you would never know.
Another good point, we still don't have a full understanding of all the features on this platform. Thanks
If they've been verified 150 times it will say they have even if they only show one.
Yeah your right it does, but you can also publish what the other Fabbers comments? T
Yes you can. It has also just been pointed out to me by my long suffering husband That you don't need to show number of verifications.
The best thing to do is to to your account and "manage verifications" and see what options are available. " | |||
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"Do you mean Fabber? Good question. Or is a dabber something else new I'm missing out on too? I'd hate that. Predictive text, I did mean fabbers " | |||
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" So I was having a conversation regarding whether or not it was considered more appealing to hook up with dabbers that had more verifications or less, mixed response. What do you think? "The number doesn't bother me, many of my verifications are from socials and club events, not just people I've had sex with - I expect lots of others are the same. | |||
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"Well for me 'personally' I prefer LOTS of sex, with quality rather than quantity. But like I said its mixed opinions, and no ones judging... " Why does quantity mean no quality?! | |||
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" So I was having a conversation regarding whether or not it was considered more appealing to hook up with dabbers that had more verifications or less, mixed response. What do you think? "I'm not a fan of dabbers but the occasional dibber yes | |||
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"As someone else said, your test is only really valid for the moment you have it done since you could go straight out and fuck someone bareback as soon as you've had the test. " If your having a full screening done at the clinic your tests aren't even valid for the moment you have them done unless you haven't had any sexual contact for 12weeks before having the tests | |||
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