FabSwingers.com forum: Women rule

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boys rule girls drool so say horrid Henry and the purple hand gang

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Boys rule girls drool so say horrid Henry and the purple hand gang

I hate that little shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Boys rule girls drool so say horrid Henry and the purple hand gang

I hate that little shit"
i used to call my oldest it i was right to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody rules this site its just that there are more men than women and women are more selective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Utter rubbish

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By *hMyGawdCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Women rule the dating / mating game in real life too. It's not just a FAB thing.

Just one aspect of female privilege.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking fabulous thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex on tap??? You're kidding right!?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Unless you are an utter prick - women are and always have been the gatekeepers. Fab is no different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

That’s pretty much how I always picture you! Apart from riding me like a horse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Brilliant!

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

Self worth is in short supply on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex in tap if you have no morals or standards yes!

Otherwise no. So I don’t think women rule the site at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

I think I must need a plumber, my tap appears to be broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

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By *nto My ArmsMan
over a year ago

Herts/London

As has been said umpteen times before, if you've ever been privy to the hundreds and hundreds of revolting and crass messages that women on here are bombarded with daily, you'd think very differently.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

I think I must need a plumber, my tap appears to be broken."

I've seen that film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As has been said umpteen times before, if you've ever been privy to the hundreds and hundreds of revolting and crass messages that women on here are bombarded with daily, you'd think very differently. "

This!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

girls rule boys drool

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Unless you are an utter prick - women are and always have been the gatekeepers. Fab is no different. "

Always? Want to tell the significant majority of Human history that?

There is a new series on Netflix called Sex Explained and whilst it's not "new" information, I saw the episode on attraction the other day. Given we've been constantly seeing lots of hot women with husbands that make us feel queasy, it stuck with me when they said how men select mates based on looks, but women select more on how well they will be looked after, income, strength and all that.

So that works just fine (of a sort) in real life, but when the motivations for women no longer apply here, you're left with a huge imbalance in appeal. And also therefore a huge power imbalance.

And you've got to look at whether it's the tail wagging the dog as to WHY most men are ugly. Or at least "not our type" when male looks aren't prized anywhere near as much, so therefore we don't find it attractive. Could well be that society values a monobrow as the pinacle of sexual attraction, but we don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Exhausting sifting through messages, dissappointment daily in the male species and their inability to read, saddened by the abuse I sometimes recieve, then I find someone I like and they dont show up, or if they do they are a 1 minute wonder then you never here from them again.

In a rare event, very rare, after putting up with all the above shit, I might actually get what I am looking for. Most of my good fun comes from clubs though sadly not here

Do you still feel we rule the roost?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Love it!

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By *partacus2024Man
over a year ago

Near You

"Sex in tap if you have no morals or standards yes!

Otherwise no. So I don’t think women rule the site at all! "

exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

The only power I have on here is the message filters and the block button. Definitely no sex on tap though, I'm fussy.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

In a rare event, very rare, after putting up with all the above shit, I might actually get what I am looking for. Most of my good fun comes from clubs though sadly not here

Do you still feel we rule the roost?"

"Male" isn't a species, it's a gender

Oh you absolutely do rule, but it must be fucking hardwork, and really shitty. But you know it's your yea or nay almost everytime. You do realise women *can* be equally fucking nasty and stupid too, right? We see it less due to the dynamics but no single woman we've talked to directly has been capable of conversation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

In a rare event, very rare, after putting up with all the above shit, I might actually get what I am looking for. Most of my good fun comes from clubs though sadly not here

Do you still feel we rule the roost?"

Yeah, he will still feel that way. It’s been explained many times to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

In a rare event, very rare, after putting up with all the above shit, I might actually get what I am looking for. Most of my good fun comes from clubs though sadly not here

Do you still feel we rule the roost?

"Male" isn't a species, it's a gender

Scientifically I am aware of what a species is

Most single women on here are usually men aswell tbh, I am never rude unless spoken to rudely first.

Always a polite no if not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Sorry but this type of question is just a way to trigger a response. Surely you know that this is total bs.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"dissappointment daily in the male species and their inability to read"

"Scientifically I am aware of what a species is

Just Roy Walkering it...

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Women rule the dating / mating game in real life too. It's not just a FAB thing.

Just one aspect of female privilege."

There's validity in this I feel

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Nobody rules this site its just that there are more men than women and women are more selective. "

Women are only more selective, because there are more men lol x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Women rule the dating / mating game in real life too. It's not just a FAB thing.

Just one aspect of female privilege.

There's validity in this I feel

It's nonsense. Only true of the the men who are willing to let it be so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody rules this site its just that there are more men than women and women are more selective.

Women are only more selective, because there are more men lol x"

Or it’s simply because they won’t fuck someone they don’t find attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Isn’t that just the rule of life of fab any where in the world

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Ladies can be choosy /fussy ....Sue is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Women rule the dating / mating game in real life too. It's not just a FAB thing.

Just one aspect of female privilege."

This is true, and so it should be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

No, that’s penis pics on tap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

No, that’s penis pics on tap"

God sake why do I bother, I’m so easily baited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Lol that you did that everyday

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Ladies can be choosy /fussy ....Sue is

So can some men believe me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

No, that’s penis pics on tap"

Yep! Doesn't mean we actually what them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

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Another day, another ridiculous thread from the OP designed to raise blood pressures and create controversy I see

There's a very simple answer - no-one "rules" the site, everyone has their own difficulties with it and yes women could possibly have "sex on tap" from a bunch of desperate men whose only interest is sex, any sex BUT pretty much every woman I have talked to on here is a *lot* more discerning than that.

Everyone, that understands the site, has the right attitude, expectations and approach to it, is equal and has an equal chance of finding what they want from it regardless of their gender or category they fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dissappointment daily in the male species and their inability to read

Scientifically I am aware of what a species is

Just Roy Walkering it...

I am also aware of what I wrote

it is a common figure of speach, not to be taken literal

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

No, that’s penis pics on tap

Yep! Doesn't mean we actually what them"

So really, that's what this is about, women have more choice than men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't rule anything, we just have a different experience to most men.

Yes we have more choice but if none of those choices are good ones how are we any better off?

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Women rule the dating / mating game in real life too. It's not just a FAB thing.

Just one aspect of female privilege.

There's validity in this I feel

It's nonsense. Only true of the the men who are willing to let it be so. "

I'm very much my own person if truth be told, I believe in equality between genders as backwards as that may sound. But I feel the general consensus of the world these days is women have more leverage, I love powerful women so it doesn't bother me in the slightest it just seems to be how it is

It's like the old age thing isn't it, like men think they're the boss in a relationship but really women wear the shoes, that type of malarkey lol

I think there's gobshitery from either side of the fence tbh in equal measure

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Hang on... I'm supposed to be getting sex on tap? What the bewildering hell happened, because that's yet to start.

I demand my (un)fair share of sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re the man but I got the I got the I got the power.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

I don't equate attention to finding people I'd like to have sex with!

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"We don't rule anything, we just have a different experience to most men.

Yes we have more choice but if none of those choices are good ones how are we any better off? "

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By *andy2123Couple
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"We don't rule anything, we just have a different experience to most men.

Yes we have more choice but if none of those choices are good ones how are we any better off? "

Are you looking for sex? Or more than that hun. X

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol"

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Sex on tap??? You're kidding right!?

I know right! If be scared of slipping and it getting lodged up my bum! Would I call an ambulance or a plumber?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

If you get on fab guys, you could have it too!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Haven't you asked this numerous times and had an equal number of answers?

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I'm not a subject, or an object, and not ruled by anyone...

It's called FREEEEEDOM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You keep banging on about women ruling the site. You keep getting given the same responses about how easy it is for women to get "sex on tap" but 95% of the time that not the kind of sex women want.

Sure if you wanna see yourself as fuck all more than a vagina to be filled then yeah, Brucey bonus baby, but those who do have concerns about their safety, rules and boundaries, attraction, then it ain't that easy.... no matter what you believe.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I'm working so sorry I can't reply.

But yes I stand by what I said. I imagine you all have a thousand cocks standing to attention in your inbox.. All gagging for it.

If that isn't sex on tap then I don't know what is.

Work, abuse, and at 990 of them I don't want.

Bulk delete and an early night.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

*at least

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Haven't you asked this numerous times and had an equal number of answers? "

The answer isn't going to change the thousandth time you ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t rule anyone!

As for sex on tap, that’s ludicrous. On the rare occasion I’m lucky enough to have a couple of my lovely fab friends around, yes for sure it’s on tap.

The vast majority of the time I find myself answering messages, shaking my head at the crassness of approaches. Unless we want to fuck anything and anyone, sex is most definitely not on tap

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?"

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention. "

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him. "

SMH

strong words there

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him. "

Interesting.

I can’t understand why anyone would join a sit like this looking for women if they clearly don’t like them.

I love women.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

I'm standing next to you, flowing hair blowing in the wind, golden thigh boots and norse armour swirls around my breasts. I have a staff with a crystal clitoris orb on the end. Which man do you want? When I point my orb at him a beam if light will overcome him and draw him in for your bidding. Oh the power!

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

I could live in this world x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

This is my favourite thing I've read all day

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By *ucky88oMan
over a year ago

london

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Wow the kingdom is growing yay xx

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there "

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex on tap? Mine must be broken

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sex on tap? Mine must be broken

Chunky's plumbing services are available xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Do they?.. Not the way I see it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?"

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the OP is slagging women off. It's how he sees it.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

You may not directly do so - but you make sweeping generalisations and derogatory remarks that do so by inference

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

I think I just fell in love with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex on tap?

Not like that at all.

Sure it could be if I was willing to meet people I don't really fancy and likely have bad sex.

However why would I want that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general. "

I'm not going to respond to you anymore after this tonight, becsuse I know that you will go on all night! You are eager to make me look bad and you always come across as someone who is a proper drama queen and you are looking for any excuse to have a go at someone in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex on tap?

Not like that at all.

Sure it could be if I was willing to meet people I don't really fancy and likely have bad sex.

However why would I want that? "

Exactly this

A wanna fuck now message from someone who hasn’t read my profile, who hasn’t made any effort to get to know me.

Do you really think he’s going to give a shit if he makes me cum, if I decided to meet him?

He will only be interested in his own satisfaction and wouldn’t give a fuck if I enjoyed it.

So this sex on tap for women just doesn’t work if it’s a random stranger on here asking.

Sorry Mickey, but you do come across that you have very little idea of women and sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sex on tap?

Not like that at all.

Sure it could be if I was willing to meet people I don't really fancy and likely have bad sex.

However why would I want that? "

Surely you also get interest from men who you do fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex on tap?

Not like that at all.

Sure it could be if I was willing to meet people I don't really fancy and likely have bad sex.

However why would I want that?

Surely you also get interest from men who you do fancy "

It takes a lot to turn my head and keep my attention. Therfore it's rare I have sex at all!

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general.

Tbh you make yourself look bad with the repetition and negativity.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general.

Righty-O!

Read some other comments suns_ine, I'm not the only one who thinks it.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

One thing I've often wondered, based on women being aware of getting so many awful or disrespectful messages on a daily basis, is how they manage to see those messages, but not the respectful, well considered ones from guys who take the time and effort? As a bit of an experiment I sent half a dozen a few days ago, all individual, all with a little humour, all related to the individual I sent them to, among other considered details, plus attaching face photos (no cock shots - I never do) and yet not one appears to have even been read. How does that work? Just curious!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"One thing I've often wondered, based on women being aware of getting so many awful or disrespectful messages on a daily basis, is how they manage to see those messages, but not the respectful, well considered ones from guys who take the time and effort? As a bit of an experiment I sent half a dozen a few days ago, all individual, all with a little humour, all related to the individual I sent them to, among other considered details, plus attaching face photos (no cock shots - I never do) and yet not one appears to have even been read. How does that work? Just curious!

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read "

Thank you for that (genuinely so). It's been a source of frustration when reading the words of single women who complain about lack of decent messages, but appear to ignore ones that are. At least I now know its because I'm ugly, or my profile sucks!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles. "

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

- it's so easy to be too serious on here sometimes - and I'm guilty of it on occasion. I'm aware that being relatively short and bald means I won't be for a lot of women and possibly 'ugly' in some eyes, but what you've said finally made sense of it. We can't 'make' people find us attractive, they either do or they don't. All I hope for is that people will read my message for what it is and take a look at me - after that it's down to personal taste.

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By *xycpl699Couple
over a year ago

kilmarnock

"Another day, another ridiculous thread from the OP designed to raise blood pressures and create controversy I see

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

unfortunately not a lot of sex, as I prefer a man than a boy

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

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By *ugartolloMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

I agree with what you said here and support you as well in most areas, this is something on the male side of things where us guys read allot of messages about women complaining of receiving negative or rude messages, indicating that they get too many messages in the day and cannot reply to them all (may be true for some), however, it is best to just simply click reply and say sorry not my type and not leave anyone hanging, as i gather this frustrates women extensively and it's only in return to us guys taking the time to construct and send a meaningful message which could bring about a wonderful connection, but, as you've indicated that you look at the profile without reading the message. Respectfully you could simply reply with a template response of "thank you for taking the time to contact me, however, i don't think you are a match for me" (or something of that nature). Yourself and allot of other beautiful females on this platform will be respected on a much greater level.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

That's when the abuse starts, it's much easier to just delete a message rather than open myself up to abuse, threats and general nastiness.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Girls don’t rule this site, only the desperate ones think they do.

‘‘tis a site of equals, well unless I’m in play charge.

Things only become scarce if people’s perceive a lack of something. usually internet primas on here.

Chase them, become desperate, and create a

waste of energy, well in my world,

There are lot’s of stunningly fun ladies on here.

Don’t let your (fantasy) full balls get in the way,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

That's when the abuse starts, it's much easier to just delete a message rather than open myself up to abuse, threats and general nastiness."

Also, if I did that for everyone, even using a cut and paste message would probably take a while. That's a lot more time than I really want to spend on strangers on the internet that I'm not attracted to/ don't like and will never meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Your magic is working, I’m your humble servant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually look at the profile before even opening the message, if they aren't my type they often don't get read

Well that's one way to take what I said

For me, it's usually because they haven't read my profile, they only have cock shots, they can't accommodate or they have negative profiles/slag people off in their profiles.

I WAS just joking (though it's never bad to have a little humility)

I do it with anyone who has read my profile, and I know if they have or havn't btw, if they cannot show me the respect of reading my profile I sure as hell won't read their message, let alone reply to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Oh how did I miss this. That one, that one over there please

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Are you having a laugh? I think I need a plumber cos my tap is most definitely broken!

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general.

Righty-O!

Read some other comments suns_ine, I'm not the only one who thinks it. "

I've come to the same conclusion more than once tbh

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By *r NeilMan
over a year ago

Lancs Mancs

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Utter rubbish

"
not so lol

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Have you not had your answer from the hundred of other times you’ve asked this question?

I think he just enjoys the attention, any attention.

He hates women and spends most of his life on the forum making it very clear then wonders why nobody wants to shag him.

SMH

strong words there

Other people agree, you do come across in that way, almost all of your threads are slagging women off or making snide remarks about them. Why?

Wrong. I never slag anyone off, go and check my threads.

Oh really? You slag women off in general.

Righty-O!

Read some other comments suns_ine, I'm not the only one who thinks it.

I've come to the same conclusion more than once tbh

Glad to see its not just me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not just you at all, Keeley.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Monkey wanders in ...

Did I miss something?

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Self worth is in short supply on here.

Wow

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Not just you at all, Keeley."

Good

I'm still keeping the drama queen crown though

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Not just you at all, Keeley.

Good

I'm still keeping the drama queen crown though

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By *rufinWoman
over a year ago

notts

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

God I love the power. Way more than the sex. A daily dose of rejecting men, then laughing and stroking my pussy. A female Dr Evil

How does it feel to be so powerless and at my mercy? Mwah haha

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

God I love the power. Way more than the sex. A daily dose of rejecting men, then laughing and stroking my pussy. A female Dr Evil

How does it feel to be so powerless and at my mercy? Mwah haha"

I used to listen to a podcast which talked about bathing in male tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

God I love the power. Way more than the sex. A daily dose of rejecting men, then laughing and stroking my pussy. A female Dr Evil

How does it feel to be so powerless and at my mercy? Mwah haha

I used to listen to a podcast which talked about bathing in male tears"

Only the alpha male’s tears though. Extra salty. Good for the skin

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

God I love the power. Way more than the sex. A daily dose of rejecting men, then laughing and stroking my pussy. A female Dr Evil

How does it feel to be so powerless and at my mercy? Mwah haha

I used to listen to a podcast which talked about bathing in male tears

Only the alpha male’s tears though. Extra salty. Good for the skin "

So salty you could float upon it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

God I love the power. Way more than the sex. A daily dose of rejecting men, then laughing and stroking my pussy. A female Dr Evil

How does it feel to be so powerless and at my mercy? Mwah haha

I used to listen to a podcast which talked about bathing in male tears

Only the alpha male’s tears though. Extra salty. Good for the skin "

Mmhm.

It was called the Misandry Hour

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Did someone mention powerful mentally strong women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did someone mention powerful mentally strong women

Yeah, they’re a bad thing on fab

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Did someone mention powerful mentally strong women

Yeah, they’re a bad thing on fab"

Know your place. On your knees

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol

You're talented how did you do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol

You're talented how did you do that

Magic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine me standing atop a tall building, hands on hips, feet apart, multi coloured catsuit spray painted on, large cape billowing out behind me as I survey my kingdom of compliant men. Grand.

Now that's a hot image

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"Did someone mention powerful mentally strong women

Yeah, they’re a bad thing on fab

Know your place. On your knees"

Bad is a great word and a stern finger point would get me on my knees no words needed

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol

You're talented how did you do that

Magic

Left over Christmas fairy dust

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I wish these forums had proper emotes like fb, people make me chuckle lol

You're talented how did you do that

Magic

Lol I'm actually in awe of the simplest of things right now lol

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

There's me thinking ladies were asking for equality ... according to the op its guys that need fab equality ..who's with me bro's.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Erm some ladies may RULE the weak minded

However from my perspective its they do not xxx

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By *heHookyMonsterMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I'm a big fan of strong, independent women in general. A woman who wants you rather than needs you. This is true in the vanilla world as well as on Fab. I'm not a sub by any means (far from it) but am always attracted to a woman as an equal. Lovely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How does it feel to be resented for something that's not my fault or my problem? Pretty fucking shit, since you ask. Actually, really fucking shit. Esp knowing how many women suffer violence from the men in their lives, how many are called benefit whores while single fathers are portrayed as heros, how women are still regarded as damaged goods if they've had sex outside a committed relationship. The fact we're portrayed as having it made when all that actually means is we won't act as free prostitutes for anyone who asks is insulting and sickening and as someone said simply the result of weak thinking and entitlement. Hope that answers your question.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes is nigh on idiotic and from my perspective genuine woman whom I would want to meet would understand this and NOT use the silly statement regarding attraction .face pic swaps are essential however I'm not wanting quick hook ups and the right women always have the nouse to discover more then reciprocate when mutually appropriate xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women may get inundated with messages from here purely down to the ratio of men to women but I’d say the power lies with the men with regards to how much comes out of it.

Like it’s the man that determines whether it would be a regular meet, that’s what I think anyway.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Idiotic or downright desperate .which forum advice suggests most genuine women would not want a man of such low calibre

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

How is expecting attraction and stating it silly? I don't have time to mess about with men who might suspect me of being a man, I have enough verifications to prove otherwise so if someone won't send a face pic for that reason, I'm happy with them not messaging me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Idiotic or downright desperate .which forum advice suggests most genuine women would not want a man of such low calibre "

Idiotic or desperate to show your face? How do you introduce yourself to people in person?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Idiotic or downright desperate .which forum advice suggests most genuine women would not want a man of such low calibre

Idiotic or desperate to show your face? How do you introduce yourself to people in person?"

He must walk backwards

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Idiotic or downright desperate .which forum advice suggests most genuine women would not want a man of such low calibre

Idiotic or desperate to show your face? How do you introduce yourself to people in person?"

Point missed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap? "

Well it has been said that a wise man's tools are analogies and puzzles. To imagine yourself how these women feel with this "power" you talk about cursing through their veins, here's a little exercise for you, my blue-knackered chum;

Imagine you're on a desert island, about 100 square miles in area. There is a fit woman on this island somewhere who is everything you seek in a lady's company both in form and mind...And she is rather keen on you...But stop those happy thoughts right there.

The only problem is there are also a tribe of baboons, around 200 in number, entirely female, and they all want to pin you down and bounce their hairy primate asses upon your cyan-bollocked boner, making inane howls and primitive grunts whilst they do so. They stink to high heaven and endlessly stalk you wherever you are, grabbing you roughly and making their intentions plain.

Even if you somehow manage to come across this elusive woman who is your perfect match both in and out of the bedroom, it is likely your flirtations will be continuously interrupted by a handful of the hairy beasties and woe betide you do anything that makes too much of a sound as the entire fucking horde of savage twats will swarm all over the pair of you and any hope of coupling with this heavenly woman will be temporarily dashed...

How does this little setting make you feel Mickey, old bean? Powerful perchance? Or irritated to fuck?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

How does this little setting make you feel Mickey, old bean? Powerful perchance? Or irritated to fuck?

I love you

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

And I have little time for anyone who cannot grasp that many profiles are men and I have zero desire to send my face to a random man who could be anywhere in the world and do anything he wants with my pics

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

Just because most of you forum ladies are demonstrably genuine the rest of female fab land is most certainly not so clear cut and again I suggest I would have zero interest in any woman who could not empathize with said facts x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?"

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I will add, this site seems a lot quieter these days than when I used to come on a lot a few years ago, especially in the chat rooms it seems it used to bursting with energy at one point. So maybe people are just being more picky these days and choosing their matches more wisely idk

I've noticed there seems to be more idiots about not being pleasant to women etc and fake profiles too, maybe that has something to do with it also (idk x 2)

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

But is there any need for the bitchy comments about people who do send pics immediately? Alot of people do it who aren't idiotic or desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can have the same number of cocks eager for attention everyday, Mick. Just change your profile to say you're bi. But you don't want an inbox full of cocks everyday? Well, guess what.....

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Oh dear.

Nice to see that in times of trouble, the OP can always rely on the 'old faithful' to rouse a bit of division and friction.

You've had your answer (oh so) many times.

I think it's time to find a new drum to beat.

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By *aughtierthanyourealiseMan
over a year ago

Widnes

And if you're a mentally stimulated person it just has to feel right and click doesn't it

Maybe actually getting to know people so people become accustomed to you will bring more activity in terms of friends and other adult shenanigans

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

But is there any need for the bitchy comments about people who do send pics immediately? Alot of people do it who aren't idiotic or desperate."

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone."

Erm that's what I'm saying

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

I wouldn't interact with someone so far away as there would be no chance of us meeting. I also wouldn't interact with someone I suspected of catfishing. If you choose to do so, knowing there's a chance it's a guy, then that's on you. Still no need to insult other people for not using the site the way you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When will you all realise its ruggers and the rest of the admins and mods whos rule fab

THIS IS THE WAY

I HAVE SPOKEN

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?"

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

I say until one is confident the profile is owned by a lady the advice to send a pic regardless is poor and one should as you say block and move on as the profile holder man or woman is not a suitable match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

Point missed again

WE DO NOT KNOW WHO IS BEHIND A PROFILE

Sarah from ashby could be Bob from anywhere

surely this is just standard internet protocol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"When will you all realise its ruggers and the rest of the admins and mods whos rule fab

THIS IS THE WAY

I HAVE SPOKEN

Tis true

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

" Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man"

No word twisting

The guy suggested some lady profiles ask first message for face pic

The response above clearly suggested they should send face first message or expect nothing

That's pretty strong incentive to say comply or get nothing

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

Point missed again

WE DO NOT KNOW WHO IS BEHIND A PROFILE

Sarah from ashby could be Bob from anywhere

surely this is just standard internet protocol "

I think you're the one missing the point.

How are you hoping they will prove they are female? Pictures? Voice call? Cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When will you all realise its ruggers and the rest of the admins and mods whos rule fab

THIS IS THE WAY

I HAVE SPOKEN

Tis true

"
see see i can be clever i just chose not to be

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

Point missed again

WE DO NOT KNOW WHO IS BEHIND A PROFILE

Sarah from ashby could be Bob from anywhere

surely this is just standard internet protocol

I think you're the one missing the point.

How are you hoping they will prove they are female? Pictures? Voice call? Cam? "

Did not say prove

Usually I'll know or be confident within 2 messages who is who but even then I'd advice caution I'll reiterate why do you think it reasonable that I should nonchalantly send Bob in my same village my face pic ?

And if I cannot quickly form a reasoned conclusion if it may or not be Bob the demand for my pic will not be accepted

As I say the power most certainly is not with womens profiles

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

" Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man"

No word twisting

The guy suggested some lady profiles ask first message for face pic

The response above clearly suggested they should send face first message or expect nothing

That's pretty strong incentive to say comply or get nothing"

No it's asking someone if they would expect someone to meet them without knowing what they look lile. There is no reference to how soon a face picture 'should' be exchanged.

Also if someone does have conditions of wanting a face picture straight away and you don't wish to do so then as you've agreed above you should just move on and therefore you do get nothing and so do they. It works both ways. That's how incompatibility works.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

Point missed again

WE DO NOT KNOW WHO IS BEHIND A PROFILE

Sarah from ashby could be Bob from anywhere

surely this is just standard internet protocol

I think you're the one missing the point.

How are you hoping they will prove they are female? Pictures? Voice call? Cam?

Did not say prove

And if I cannot quickly form a reasoned conclusion if it may or not be Bob the demand for my pic will not be accepted

As I say the power most certainly is not with womens profiles"

Within 2 messages? How? I'm genuinely curious.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

" Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man"

No word twisting

The guy suggested some lady profiles ask first message for face pic

The response above clearly suggested they should send face first message or expect nothing

That's pretty strong incentive to say comply or get nothing

No it's asking someone if they would expect someone to meet them without knowing what they look lile. There is no reference to how soon a face picture 'should' be exchanged.

There was most certainly explicit reference to FIRST message by the OP and that explicit reference was quoted and commented on

So I disagree there

Your second paragraph I concur with in its entirety and most saddened that I have been unable to make that clear ?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Ok would you send your pictures to Jeb in Texas?

And would sending your pics to Jeb be sensible ?

Because I'll reiterate

I said IF one is not confident whom the profile host is

IF ,IF one does not have enough data to validate then one may well be sending jeb that pic

But let's extend this

It seems I'm rather popular with the boys , both local and world wide

They sometimes appear with a ladies profile

Sometimes I'm sure sometimes I'm not

I would be an idiot if I sent a local man my face pic

Iv been stalked more than once

Thus

I would be an idiot or desperate hoping ,if I sent face pics to unknown profiles just because they claim to be female

Point missed again

WE DO NOT KNOW WHO IS BEHIND A PROFILE

Sarah from ashby could be Bob from anywhere

surely this is just standard internet protocol

I think you're the one missing the point.

How are you hoping they will prove they are female? Pictures? Voice call? Cam?

Did not say prove

And if I cannot quickly form a reasoned conclusion if it may or not be Bob the demand for my pic will not be accepted

As I say the power most certainly is not with womens profiles

Within 2 messages? How? I'm genuinely curious."

Many horny men leave their tells in their often short response

The ladies I quest on the other hand also stand out

Those inbetween Male or female will not have been compelling enough to seduce me into communicating further thus a block and move forward

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

" Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man"

No word twisting

The guy suggested some lady profiles ask first message for face pic

The response above clearly suggested they should send face first message or expect nothing

That's pretty strong incentive to say comply or get nothing

No it's asking someone if they would expect someone to meet them without knowing what they look lile. There is no reference to how soon a face picture 'should' be exchanged.

There was most certainly explicit reference to FIRST message by the OP and that explicit reference was quoted and commented on

So I disagree there

Your second paragraph I concur with in its entirety and most saddened that I have been unable to make that clear ? "

Could you possibly quote where Mickey has mentioned face pics in first messages as I can't find it anywhere and now I'm totally confused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Well that bit comes after you've exchanged few words.. Not thr first line of message..

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Women rule this site.

How do it feel to have so much power and to have so much sex on tap?

Most with a sky high ego..

Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man

I think I was crystal clear when I suggested

Thus imho sending a face pic before one is confident it is the lady you hope it describes

If your profile IS as you say crystal clear you are a lady then one WOULD be confident and withholding the pic would not be necessary

I clearly said IF one cannot validate the profile then one would be both idiotic and desperate

You know women look for women on here too right?

Indeed I do x not sure of the relevance of that fact

Because it means a lot of us are perfectly aware of what it's like to interact with other women on here and what their profiles alike.

As the majority have said, if someone requests you do something you don't wish to do just move on. Nobody is forcing you to send face pictures to anyone.

Erm that's what I'm saying

So why all the angst?

No angst

It was suggested by a lady above however that if a profile purporting to be a lady asked for a pic then a man really ought to comply because genuine people need to assess attraction early on

Nobody said anyone had to ‘comply’

you’re twisting words

" Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance

Were you expecting them to meet you without knowing what you look like? You gonna wear a paper bag over your head for the meet?"

Hmmm

I have zero interest in sending random men my face pic

And for many profiles claiming to be a lady the statistics lead us to know it's a man"

No word twisting

The guy suggested some lady profiles ask first message for face pic

The response above clearly suggested they should send face first message or expect nothing

That's pretty strong incentive to say comply or get nothing

No it's asking someone if they would expect someone to meet them without knowing what they look lile. There is no reference to how soon a face picture 'should' be exchanged.

There was most certainly explicit reference to FIRST message by the OP and that explicit reference was quoted and commented on

So I disagree there

Your second paragraph I concur with in its entirety and most saddened that I have been unable to make that clear ?

Could you possibly quote where Mickey has mentioned face pics in first messages as I can't find it anywhere and now I'm totally confused."

Ah my bad I've read

"Want to be discreet yet ask for picture in first instance"

I've read first instance to mean first message

As I'm obviously foolish could you explain what he ment by first instance which could not possibly be inferred to mean message

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over a year ago

Right thats it ruggeeeeeeers kick there arses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, we rule.

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