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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to?

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38

probably not the best place to be discussing wedding plans .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? "
yes can we both be in white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C planned most of our wedding. I wouldn’t know where to start

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? yes can we both be in white "

Is that not for virgins...I best wear cream

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"C planned most of our wedding. I wouldn’t know where to start "

That's sweet and my husband did too. It was a great day..he did good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? yes can we both be in white

Is that not for virgins...I best wear cream "
what a great idea

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? yes can we both be in white

Is that not for virgins...I best wear cream what a great idea "

Should we meet and you drop to your knees well I'll be expecting a ring

Cock rings not accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other half planned absolutely everything. We did it a few months ago. For blokes it's just hiring suites and getting the speeches right! Bloody fantastic day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? yes can we both be in white

Is that not for virgins...I best wear cream what a great idea

Should we meet and you drop to your knees well I'll be expecting a ring

Cock rings not accepted "
lol....... OMG...... shockarooney

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"My other half planned absolutely everything. We did it a few months ago. For blokes it's just hiring suites and getting the speeches right! Bloody fantastic day!!"

Aww congrats to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half planned absolutely everything. We did it a few months ago. For blokes it's just hiring suites and getting the speeches right! Bloody fantastic day!!

Aww congrats to you x"

Thank you so much xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half planned absolutely everything. We did it a few months ago. For blokes it's just hiring suites and getting the speeches right! Bloody fantastic day!!"
yes I'd get a leather suite easier to wipe down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My other half planned absolutely everything. We did it a few months ago. For blokes it's just hiring suites and getting the speeches right! Bloody fantastic day!!yes I'd get a leather suite easier to wipe down "

Lol sorry, suits!!!

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By *ottpair243Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield/Leeds

B (my wife) planned everything for ours but I had input when it came to choosing things I’d like to see/eat/experience etc. Where there were instances certain decor was not available that she wanted, I made alternative suggestions and we came to an agreement to ensure the whole set up didn’t deviate massively to whatever vision she had; everything looked great!

But based on what’s always said, your question or seen in the movies- nope I never had a scrapbook labelled “my wedding,” with picture cut outs of suits, flowers etc lol. The joint planning between us led to a beautiful day! But nothing I would say was been planned or thought of for years as a kid!

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By *ottpair243Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield/Leeds


"B (my wife) planned everything for ours but I had input when it came to choosing things I’d like to see/eat/experience etc. Where there were instances certain decor was not available that she wanted, I made alternative suggestions and we came to an agreement to ensure the whole set up didn’t deviate massively to whatever vision she had; everything looked great!

But based on what’s always said, your question or seen in the movies- nope I never had a scrapbook labelled “my wedding,” with picture cut outs of suits, flowers etc lol. The joint planning between us led to a beautiful day! But nothing I would say was been planned or thought of for years as a kid! "

Deviate from* typo lol

And could I be trusted to do it on my own...whilst she thinks I would do a good job as she’s said, based on how I helped- I wouldn’t want that responsibility...at all! As with most things, joint planning and decision making works best! I’m very “organic” and laid back she’s very “geometric” and precise etc- the perfect balance ...me planning on my own might have pissed her off when she starts inspecting the detail that looks good from afar! Lolol

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I can honestly say a wedding is something that I've never dreamed about, and I'll never have.

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By *nabelle21 OP   Woman
over a year ago

B38


"I can honestly say a wedding is something that I've never dreamed about, and I'll never have. "

This was me and then I met a guy and the rest was history...he planned the wedding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never dreamed of planning a wedding. Not sure I ever want one to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought I would have one in a forest with flowers in my hair like she did on the Film Robin Hood, or like the mammoths Ice Age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never dreamed of a wedding... maybe im a boy hahaha

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I didn't have a 'dream wedding' idea and my actual wedding was nothing like I would have wanted bar the dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can honestly say a wedding is something that I've never dreamed about, and I'll never have.

This was me and then I met a guy and the rest was history...he planned the wedding."
and three years later

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Nope never

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By *mileysimieMan
over a year ago

tewkesbury


"Just curious they say some ladies have thought about their wedding day since being little girls. That all important ever so special day.

So guys is it something you think about? Do you have a vision in your minds eye or just want it over get it over with and get to the party?

Would you let the guy plan your wedding...Guys could you be trusted to? "

I could be trusted but my wedding will have to be about a month long to fit in all my ideas

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s not something I’ve ever dreamed about or thought to do. From a very young age I’ve always said I’m never getting married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never really thought about it until recently.

Iv got a fair few ideas and I would want it us both to be equally involved in planning it but I'm definitely better at that sort of thing than my potential groom.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I always thought i’d have a big white wedding with all my family watching me walk down the aisle. But despite being engaged to two different men over the years, the reality of getting physically married didn’t appeal. I like to be free, to be able to just walk away, if i need to.

Also 99% of my family are now dead so if i were to ever get married in the future i’d do it in Vegas or something. But he’d have to be bloody amazing to get me to commit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought i’d have a big white wedding with all my family watching me walk down the aisle. But despite being engaged to two different men over the years, the reality of getting physically married didn’t appeal. I like to be free, to be able to just walk away, if i need to.

Also 99% of my family are now dead so if i were to ever get married in the future i’d do it in Vegas or something. But he’d have to be bloody amazing to get me to commit.

"
I'm amazing and I'm on my knees right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hoping to get married this year. I've never dreamt about a big wedding, doesn't interest me greatly and I see it as a waste of money. With the income my household makes I would much rather spend the money on a honeymoon or a car etc.

I'm hoping to just do a register office and then the two of us go on holiday somewhere lovely and hot. I'd be more than happy with that and luckily my partner is on the same page. I would be more than happy to let him sort all this out though as it's so simple! If it was a big wedding I'd have to be in charge of themes, colours, outfits, food etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've thought about it yes, but I don't have any ideas as such regarding anything other than the style/colour of the dress.

The first time I really had an idea in my head was when I saw the video for November Rain and I fell in love with her dress. I'm over that now but would still want the basic design as in the skirt bit being above the knee at the front and almost hitting the floor at the back. I'd want it white and black.

Would I trust B to organise? Absolutely. He would probably do a far better job than I would, even with the limited free time he has!

I never wanted to get married, I always saw it as an extra way of control, but now I suppose I see it as someone loving me enough to want to marry me and envisioning being with me until the end and me with them, which I've never been able to do until now. The ultimate sign of commitment and love.

Alas, I can't see a wedding happening though.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save the money for a blindingly brilliant once in a life time holiday... And get a civil partnership

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