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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A good listener and brain fixer or cheereruperer for those in pain who need it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. I’m crap at sympathy though. Giving and receiving! I’m more of a right what we gonna do about this then but let’s go out and have a few drinks whilst we think about it

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I believe I am yes

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Both, I'm a woman, I can multi task

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By *bwredcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

Good listener, sometimes good with advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be. Not sure I’m that great at it, but had good feedback.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"A good listener and brain fixer or cheereruperer for those in pain who need it?"

. Yes, yes and yes.

I'm a bit of an all-rounder.

Just call my uncle chunky.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I am a very good listener and very sympathetic. Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of both. It depends who needs it.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I'm a good listener and can offer sympathy when I think it's deserved. When it isn't, I tell it like it is as otherwise i'd be doing the person a disservice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a cheererupper. And I give really awesome cwtches

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I’m a cheererupper. And I give really awesome cwtches "

Can I please get one then?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think most people are "good" listeners up to a certain point - from that point it depends on headspace, relationship with the other person etc.

I think I cheerlead my friends well if I believe in what they are doing. Even if I don't, I'll still support them as much as possible (but tell them I think they are being a bit bloody daft).

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Listener.

People can usually solve their own problems but just need a sounding board to talk through the options. You never get the full picture, and can make things worse by making assumptions.

But somewhere lively can be as good as somewhere quiet.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I try to be both when I can be.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be both and try my best to be when I see or sense someone in need, there's darkness all around so it's always good to bring a little light when possible.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

No I’m shit as you well know. My sympathy is a pint and a ‘plenty more fish in the sea’ speech

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I try to be both supportive and a good listener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great listener and advice given to only those that ask for it....

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

My grief counselor died last week.

Luckily he was so good..that I dont give a shit.

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