FabSwingers.com forum: Fourplay or sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But not coldplay i dont wanna jump off a bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to when I was younger but not so much now. It might have had something to do with the chemistry between myself and my partner at the time though

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"But not coldplay i dont wanna jump off a bridge"

I would have Coldplay

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

. Can we have both. Then I'll tell you afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Fiveplay is one better

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?

. Can we have both. Then I'll tell you afterwards?

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, I guess it depends on the person and the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do

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By *obo999Man
over a year ago

Fife

yeah I usually enjoy foreplay more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this conversation the other night. The fella classes any form of orgasm play as having sex, even if he doesn't penetrate me, where I'm more just penetrate me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

Even if it doesn't lead to sex?

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By *apmanMan
over a year ago

Holmfirth

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

Even if it doesn't lead to sex?"

Just makes it more intense when you do. Occasions when there isn't time or place to go further, but ramps up the energy when there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

Even if it doesn't lead to sex?"

Yeah, even if it doesn't, it can be satisfying in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely prefer foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I definitely prefer foreplay "

Snap!! In fact I find sex rather boring without it..

A x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

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By *crookesMan
over a year ago

stamford

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

I agree, but then a quickie has its place too if you’re pushed for time!!

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more "

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

Even if it doesn't lead to sex?

Just makes it more intense when you do. Occasions when there isn't time or place to go further, but ramps up the energy when there is.

True

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

Fore play without sex isn’t pointless at all. You can get so much pleasure and satisfaction from fore play without the need of traditional penetration. There is nothing quick about fore play unless you choose to make it that way !

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

Ok agree, FP is very satisfactory and can be carried for long and can be very exciting(love edging btw) but it's also named fore play for a reason, to worm up all the nerves and tissues for Grande finalle. All I'm saying is all that build up is fantastic and I love it even if it doesn't lead to penetrative sex but leads to satisfactory end of play time

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

We agree

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Foreplay all day long then sex all night!

Jo.Xx

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

We agree

great as I started to think I suddenly got old and traditional and lost the plot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love foreplay but like penetration to finish off

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

We agree

great as I started to think I suddenly got old and traditional and lost the plot lol

Haha no, we just worded it differently, the end result needed was the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.

Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I love foreplay, to me it's more important and pleasurable than penetration.

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By *rHandsomeHunkMan
over a year ago

dudley

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"
I like both but can’t have sex without foreplay

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

We love fourplay...... messing round hands all over playmates but then we love sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

We agree

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 play over sex any day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more one on one play....

Slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

Does foreplay include Dinner ,movie & drinks as well

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By *iss ScherzzoWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"But not coldplay i dont wanna jump off a bridge"
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Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

I agree, but then a quickie has its place too if you’re pushed for time!!"

True

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?

Does foreplay include Dinner ,movie & drinks as well

Of course

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

"I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.

Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.

This. It promotes an androcentric view of sex. Seeing as only around 18% of women report being able to orgasm from penetration alone, it de-prioritises the ways in which women typically get off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fore during and after play please

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By *ust cheerfulMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Fore during and after play please"

Me too

I love this sensitivity, everything feels greater

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By *sSforfunCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"For me you can’t have sex without fore play

FP is essential to getting all the nerve endings awakened, the senses alive and edging each other until you can’t take it no more

Fore play without sex is pointless, sex without fore play is just a quicky. Proper fun require presence of both.

My preference is hot fore play and then banging sex

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By *sSforfunCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I think foreplay is an outmoded term based on a view that the culmination of sex is orgasm due to penis to vagina intercourse.

Pleasure can be found in many different acts and not all necessary leading to orgasm and certainly not all involving penetration.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fore during and after play please"

Great thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"
got to have foreplay, would say I do enjoy more than sex x

especially going down on my woman

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Foreplay all day long then sex all night!

Jo.Xx "

We couldn't cope with that. We are too old to go 24 hours without sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Foreplay all day long then sex all night!

Jo.Xx

We couldn't cope with that. We are too old to go 24 hours without sleep."
never to old, never give up ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Foreplay all day long then sex all night!

Jo.Xx

We couldn't cope with that. We are too old to go 24 hours without sleep."

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love foreplay, builds tension and can go on for as long or little as you want, hands roaming, lips exploring

Even if it doesn't lead to sex?

Yeah, even if it doesn't, it can be satisfying in itself. "

It sure can

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex? I like both but can’t have sex without foreplay

Can you have fourplay without sex ?

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

Prefer foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is half the fun

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We like it a lot, don’t like people who rush, although sometimes you do just need to tear at clothes and do it like animals!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we missing Post-Play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mutual foreplay.

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By *andK78Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Plenty of foreplay while watching porn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay...love the teasing and exploring...and you get to use all 5 senses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Foreplay is half the fun "

Just half?

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

I have had some excellent just foreplay session.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Definitely keep and enjoy the memories of foreplay far more than penetration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like it a lot, don’t like people who rush, although sometimes you do just need to tear at clothes and do it like animals! "
I truly have no recollection of the last time I did that. I’m wondering if I ever have

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely keep and enjoy the memories of foreplay far more than penetration "

I'd be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But Foreplay is sex?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I’m not really a keen golfer but I’ve heard it’s necessary

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But Foreplay is sex? "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not more than. It all came mea together in one indulgent package

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay then sex but I suppose you could just have foreplay

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not more than. It all came mea together in one indulgent package "

Very true

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"yeah I usually enjoy foreplay more. "

A few do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I do .i love it so much that i call it 5 play lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sometimes I do .i love it so much that i call it 5 play lol

Why 5?

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By *umpty01Man
over a year ago

glasgow.

Definitely.

The more the better,

Teasing, flirting touching, the build up of all that energy.

It’s the best drug there is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love foreplay before sex.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Foreplay? Yes please

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Kissing is fantastic, there are times I enjoy it more than sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"
I love both!!

a good foreplay leads to a steamy sex..

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By *wentMan
over a year ago

blackpool

I like the feeling of wanting to cum in foreplay. But like the move onto sex.

Oh them feelings of years gone by. ??

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I like foreplay,

Then sex,

More foreplay,

Then more sex.......

You get the drift..

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By *abads121Man
over a year ago

Havant/london

I'd happily go down on a girl for hours. But is a rare day I get off from oral. So sex is key to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely.

The more the better,

Teasing, flirting touching, the build up of all that energy.

It’s the best drug there is!"

Sure is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love foreplay. Sex with no foreplay is not that great

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love foreplay. Sex with no foreplay is not that great "

This is so true

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Foreplay makes it better and more sexy..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Foreplay makes it better and more sexy.."

This is very true.

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

Yeah I think I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a different feeling than sex both essential

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a different feeling than sex both essential "

Both just go together

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes"

Yes what?

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By *safunmancMan
over a year ago

manchester

I love the build up but love sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good foreplay leads to great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is amazing but I particularly like blowing my beans

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Both are important xx

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How long do people spend doing foreplay?

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"How long do people spend doing foreplay? "

Four day’s if you’re Sting

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By *enuinefunlovetoteaseMan
over a year ago

near lowestoft town

Me me me can tease for hours lol

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

surely its the orgasm that is the aim of the journey weather thats achieved by one or both does it matter our sex lives involve a lot of fore play and mutual masturbation what ever floats your boat on the day

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

"How long do people spend doing foreplay?

Four day’s if you’re Sting"

most of us dont have that amount of spare time

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

They are not interlinked at a base level. I wouldn't want one without the other....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both is good but foreplay is probably more fun. I love going down on a girl and watching her bite her lip and her eyes roll back. Enjoy using my hands and fingers too so. Sex is just the end result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay or four play like group sex or tennis?

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"They are not interlinked at a base level. I wouldn't want one without the other.... "

That should have said ARE interlinked at a base level.

Bloody phone!!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

Absolutely not. I orgasm constantly during penetrative sex. Wouldn’t swap that for foreplay only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

Foreplay is definitely the best part

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Raises hand x

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By *exyman0113Man
over a year ago

leeds

Foreplay is the best part for me. Giving oral, teasing with my hands, kissing that's the bit I really enjoy.

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

There is no point in one without the other

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Does anyone like foreplay more than sex?"

Yes if done well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need both, foreplay is the starter and sex is the main course lol

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I need both, foreplay is the starter and sex is the main course lol"

This so what’s the pudding?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I need both, foreplay is the starter and sex is the main course lol"

Cup of tea and a chocolate biscuit for afters?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Good foreplay leads to great sex."

Not always

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By *entlemenpipMan
over a year ago

not far

I prefer 4play I get turned on by turning others on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I prefer 4play I get turned on by turning others on "

It seems most do. Could you have one without the other though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay can be just as special

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Foreplay can be just as special"

True

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