FabSwingers.com forum: When neighbours become good friends

By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

Do you get on with your neighbours?

Have they become like family friends or can't you stand them and would move to get away from them?

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By *forfun500Couple
over a year ago

walsall

"Do you get on with your neighbours?

Have they become like family friends or can't you stand them and would move to get away from them?"

Say hello ask how they are if we feel like it but thats as far as it goes

Keep ourselves to ourselves no drama that way

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The couple who live over the hall from us are lovely and we go for drinks and stuff with them

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

And what sort of stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last place I lived the old lady next door became almost like a bonus grandmother. My neighbours where I am now seem nice enough.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not really. They are fairly decent but far from friends.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not "

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

I had really great neighbours. She died and the family moved away.

We had barbies in the summer, I/they were good for a cup of sugar. They were really good people. Now I have someone I hardly see, which is also good in it's way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the most nosey old man next door, I changed my work hours recently and he picked up on it

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The last place I lived the old lady next door became almost like a bonus grandmother. My neighbours where I am now seem nice enough."

A bonus grandmother...like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

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I hope it curls a fat one off in the hallway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

I hope it curls a fat one off in the hallway"

What have I ever done to you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

I hope it curls a fat one off in the hallway

What have I ever done to you?!"

Apart from being super cute, not a lot actually

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Do you get on with your neighbours?

Have they become like family friends or can't you stand them and would move to get away from them?

Say hello ask how they are if we feel like it but thats as far as it goes

Keep ourselves to ourselves no drama that way"

That's the thing with getting to know people, it can create drama.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I have the most nosey old man next door, I changed my work hours recently and he picked up on it

These kind of neighbours can e good for getting tour parcels..give them something to do

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

On 1 side really good friends in fact I almost married there daughter on the other side I'd not piss on him if he was on fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun "

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I had sex with my old neighbor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I became friends with my neighbour once we discovered each other on here

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I had sex with my old neighbor "

Is that why they are an old neighbour

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

Just as well you're friends. Could you imagine it if you weren't, being so close would be awful.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"On 1 side really good friends in fact I almost married there daughter on the other side I'd not piss on him if he was on fire."

that's quite a contrast

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

I hope it curls a fat one off in the hallway

What have I ever done to you?!"

If the cat should do a curler, we'll pop it through his letterbox....sharing is caring

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"I had sex with my old neighbor

Is that why they are an old neighbour

They are old but she still comes to mind when I split with ex as I fucked ex’s friend and sister she don’t know about sister

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I had sex with my old neighbor

Is that why they are an old neighbour

They are old but she still comes to mind when I split with ex as I fucked ex’s friend and sister she don’t know about sister "

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

My neighbour is my landlord. He's a great bloke.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"On 1 side really good friends in fact I almost married there daughter on the other side I'd not piss on him if he was on fire.

that's quite a contrast"

It keeps life entertaining

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted "

Including sisters?

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Thirty years in this house. I know the people on one side well enough to say hello to; I know the people on the other side well enough to totally ignore them. I did say hello to the people across the street when they moved in about ten years ago, but have no idea what their names are.

It's a quiet little community...

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

Including sisters?"

Of course

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Thirty years in this house. I know the people on one side well enough to say hello to; I know the people on the other side well enough to totally ignore them. I did say hello to the people across the street when they moved in about ten years ago, but have no idea what their names are.

It's a quiet little community..."

Mines a really quiet little close. I miss my old neighbours

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

Including sisters?

Of course "

I may have got this wrong but her sister...the ex's sister?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

Including sisters?

Of course

I may have got this wrong but her sister...the ex's sister?"
you are asking for some paracetamol

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By *ornyguy169Man
over a year ago

birmingham

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

Including sisters?

Of course

I may have got this wrong but her sister...the ex's sister?"

Yeah only regret was didn’t get to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

Just as well you're friends. Could you imagine it if you weren't, being so close would be awful."

Yes and I'm moving out later this year and she's worried about who is going to move in.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

Just as well you're friends. Could you imagine it if you weren't, being so close would be awful.

Yes and I'm moving out later this year and she's worried about who is going to move in. "

good luck with the move, I hope you get good neighbours

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I only wish I did them together but we was an open couple so we did what we wanted

Including sisters?

Of course

I may have got this wrong but her sister...the ex's sister?you are asking for some paracetamol

2 please

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Live on a very friendly street and neighbourhood. Often meet neighbors down the pub.

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Live on a very friendly street and neighbourhood. Often meet neighbors down the pub.

I'd definitely lend you a cup.of sugar if you were my neighbour

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Live on a very friendly street and neighbourhood. Often meet neighbors down the pub.

I'd definitely lend you a cup.of sugar if you were my neighbour

I'd pop over any time for your sugar

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s London, they are just there and we say hi when see each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

Just as well you're friends. Could you imagine it if you weren't, being so close would be awful.

Yes and I'm moving out later this year and she's worried about who is going to move in.

good luck with the move, I hope you get good neighbours "

I'm moving in with Ash and he's OK I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have neighbours.

I have good friends who happen to live next door. On both sides.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Had to move once, neighbours from hell , but current ones are friendly and helpful , there is a private Facebook group for our little area so you get a lot more interaction, trade and people helping each other out regularly.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Our neighbors above us flood us 3 times a year, the ones next door keep themselves to selves. The other next door say hello and that’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself lucky in that everyone in my close gets on fantastically well. I've thought about moving a couple of times, but wouldn't risk moving somewhere where I may not get great neighbors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeh my next door are very good friends were both into bikes/cars ect we didnt get on when i moved in but get on like a house on fire now, go to the local every friday

The rest of the village inc my other neighbour dont particularly like me

theyre just all stuck up

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"My neighbour is a really close friend. We were friends before I moved in.

That sounds good fun

It is, you'd have be good friends to live here.

My house is in her garden and her dining room, kitchen and bedroom window look directly into my garden.

Just as well you're friends. Could you imagine it if you weren't, being so close would be awful.

Yes and I'm moving out later this year and she's worried about who is going to move in.

good luck with the move, I hope you get good neighbours

I'm moving in with Ash and he's OK I guess.

I guess

That's great news..I'm really pleases for you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m about to get new neighbours so I hope so!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old miserable shit downstairs is.. Well, just that. The lovely girl across the hall is nice though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lovely neighbors. The old man next door is questionable but harmless enough.. The 2 families behind are great people. Our 4 houses are like a mini community. Last year when we were broken into it was my neighbours who spotted the smashed window. They were so helpful and kind. They also hold Chinese new year, they make us feel very welcome and the food is incredible. They dig out cars in the snow, assist my sons who get home before I do if needed and are usually on hand if I have an emergency! I don't have much family so to me this means the world.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our closest neighbours are 2 miles away so we don't have any problems at all.

I would probably struggle if I moved to somewhere with neighbours, I would have to keep the noise down and I would have to remember not to open my curtains when totally naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy on one side is ridiculously good look and the woman on the other is really odd to the point I hide sometimes if I see her coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was fairly friendly with the flat opposite ours primarily as she used to ask me to cat sit and I prefer animals to people but she works away now and rents the flat out. Theres 5 other flats in our block. 2 couples we exchange pleasantries. The woman down stairs is seriously fucking rude (and that's from someone who is quite anti-social) and the others I wouldn't recognise if my life depended on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Airbnb next door to me, it's like a revolving door of randomers lol

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Yeh my next door are very good friends were both into bikes/cars ect we didnt get on when i moved in but get on like a house on fire now, go to the local every friday

The rest of the village inc my other neighbour dont particularly like me

theyre just all stuck up

What's their problem with you?

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

Immediate neighbours one side great,Retired couple take parcels in, put bins out when I forget, keep an eye on house when not there, other side just pass time of day, couple of doors away are a lovely Polish couple who make porno films.Further up the close are a couple of "Petrol Heads" who I get on well with and in the block of flats overlooking the Close is a woman whom I met on here and with whom I have had a couple of meets. All in all a nice set up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was married we moved next door to a lovely older couple, the day we're moved in they brought us a cake over and offered to look after the kids. They were totally fantastic, used to make up a bag of sweets and pocket money each week for the boys when they were younger. He adored our dogs to the point that when we landscaped our garden part of the specification was to have a proper path for the dogs to run over to the wall where he would fuss and feed them as they wore a groove in the old lawn.

He loved his gardens and fish pond and I'd help when needed - eventually when managing front and back gardens became too much I paved the front for them. He passed away followed by their two oldest children leaving only the youngest who had little time for his mum - to be fair she could be a cantankerous old lady at times, the type to call the police because someone had dared to park outside her house. My ex wife used to go and sit with her every day so she wasn't alone and then we would visit her in a home when eventually she couldn't manage the house.

Looking back I have nothing but fond memories and it's made me sad typing this - they were the only neighbor's who have become really close to me, the rest have ranged from a friendly natter every now and then to banging on their front window at 7am because they've parked over my drive again and I couldn't get to work.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Really fortunate as I have immediate neighbours who are great. There's one lot a few doors away who are inconsiderate and monopolise parking, blocking the road too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close to my neighbours in that we have nice conversations, help each other out readily, have at least one annual get together in the road and look out for each other. However we live our own lives and can go for periods of not chatting to each other because we’re on different timetables. We don’t socialise together as a rule except for get together. I would really miss the current group if they moved, especially our nearest neighbours.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Do you get on with your neighbours?

Have they become like family friends or can't you stand them and would move to get away from them?"

I live next door to my dad and it's yes to all of the above

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"The neighbour across from me has asked me to stop luring her cat in with dreamies and feeding it.

I will not

Wait till it wee's on your carpet..you may reconsider

I hope it curls a fat one off in the hallway"

And you step in it first thing - pre slippers

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Anyone else singing the theme tune? Just me?

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By *nabelle21 OP Woman
over a year ago

B38

"When I was married we moved next door to a lovely older couple, the day we're moved in they brought us a cake over and offered to look after the kids. They were totally fantastic, used to make up a bag of sweets and pocket money each week for the boys when they were younger. He adored our dogs to the point that when we landscaped our garden part of the specification was to have a proper path for the dogs to run over to the wall where he would fuss and feed them as they wore a groove in the old lawn.

That is a lovely example of good neighbours.

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