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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A big no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A big no. No matter the length of time, it’s always a face to face conversation

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely no. Face to face or at least a voice or video call. Text or msg is the cowards way out.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I would imagine what that would feel like to the other person before doing it

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Definitely a big no

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

Not the best way, but I would rather get a text, than someone being with me because they couldn't pluck up the courage to tell me to my face.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

No! How does that even sound ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the best way no

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Better than people ghosting

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

It's a no from me

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

It is the cowards way of breaking up. She/he at least deserves better than that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not the best way, but I would rather get a text, than someone being with me because they couldn't pluck up the courage to tell me to my face."

That's true.

Also it might not be possible to see the person face to face. But if you're likely to run into them socially it would be really awkward if you'd texted them to break it off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a Dear John letter once. That hurt, especially as my name isn't John.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know the OP said, but it doesn't sound good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know the OP said, but it doesn't sound good "

He’s been seeing a woman for a few months and wanted to know if it was ok to dump her through text xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Better than people ghosting"

Again I agree.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just do it for the giggles and science!

It's all down to the type of person you are, so you know the answer to your own question anyway.

Had it done to me in more ways than one and its shitty. It's shitty however you are told but at least face to face it shows respect for the person. They can see and hear your emotion as you end it.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

My ex for 14 years split up with me by text when I was in a different country. Classy

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To be fair to the op it could be that it was done to him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know the OP said, but it doesn't sound good

He’s been seeing a woman for a few months and wanted to know if it was ok to dump her through text xxx"

I don't think it is. At least a phone call, but best in person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My ex for 14 years split up with me by text when I was in a different country. Classy "

That is definitely not OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know the OP said, but it doesn't sound good

He’s been seeing a woman for a few months and wanted to know if it was ok to dump her through text xxx"

@OP that isn't okay. Just have a face to face conversation. It definitely shows more respect that way.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

If you don’t have the guts to do it face to face you can at least do, is have a phone conversation and explain, rather than text tennis

Nothing worse than coming home to a piece of paper, with two lines on it !

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"To be fair to the op it could be that it was done to him."

That is true, without seeing the original OP and how it was worded

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"My ex for 14 years split up with me by text when I was in a different country. Classy

That is definitely not OK. "

No, I didn't think so either. It's the coward's way out.

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"My ex for 14 years split up with me by text when I was in a different country. Classy "

That's one missed out in the lyrics "Forty ways to leave your lover" was it Simon and Garfunkel?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s not related to me, was just a thought for a good discussion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never a good way to do it.

But on the other hand I'd rather not have to try to withhold how I was actually feeling if they were to do it to my face!!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"It's never a good way to do it.

But on the other hand I'd rather not have to try to withhold how I was actually feeling if they were to do it to my face!!"

Why should you hold back how you are feeling though ?

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"It’s not related to me, was just a thought for a good discussion "

Type a new opening post

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't know the OP said, but it doesn't sound good

He’s been seeing a woman for a few months and wanted to know if it was ok to dump her through text xxx"

He didn't say that. He said something along the lines of 'is it ok to break it off with someone by text if you've been seeing them for a couple of months" not that he was intending to do it

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

If it's a romantic relationship then face to face, if it's someone from fab you've been meeting regularly for sex only, I think text is fine. I'd be OK with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send an email

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"A big no. No matter the length of time, it’s always a face to face conversation "

I I wasn't feeling it with someone and they messaged me to say bye..I don't think I'd really mind.

Maybe they just got there first and saves on a face to face.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38


"If it's a romantic relationship then face to face, if it's someone from fab you've been meeting regularly for sex only, I think text is fine. I'd be OK with that. "

this..ever the voice of reason

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