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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

Have you ever had sex with someone, you wouldn't normally say was your preferred type.

Yet there was something about the person was sexy nonetheless?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, loads of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the girls I've been with have been pretty good looking, maybe they lowered their standards for me?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, my husband

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

It depends on how you meet/get to know someone. Sometimes chemistry just wins over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes lots... especially as I've got older and can't be bothered going to the gym...options get limited

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I don't have a type

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Yes.. I have been surprised by some people I have found sexual.. Or had a sexual attraction to... But I don't have a particular type... There are certainly physical And characteristic traits I like but they are certai ly not set in stone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, there are lots of different factors that make someone attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there isnt something about that other what's the point....

I dont think I've ever really had a type. Just those who touch me in some way, and hopefully me them....

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area


"It depends on how you meet/get to know someone. Sometimes chemistry just wins over!"

Exactly this. Honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I've only ever had sex with people I've found attractive and wanted their willy in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally speaking if Im having sex with them, they will be my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically I have a type theoretically, but in reality, it comes down to individuals and not all fit my physical preference.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"It depends on how you meet/get to know someone. Sometimes chemistry just wins over!

Exactly this. Honey "

Yep...sometimes a picture or just seeing someone in the flesh looks sooo attractive, but when you get chatting to someone their personality, or lack of it can be a real turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Then again, I rarely have sex with anyone who is my type, either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry is everything

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

since joining fab, i've been a lot more open minded about the type of women I go for.

So now it's mostly based on whether we get along and have the same flirty sense of humour

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

The first time I (Luke) went to a club a few years ago I was propositioned by a woman who definitely wasn't my type but that didn't seem a good enough reason to say no.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I think if your mind is restricting yourself to a certain type, and automatically rejecting anything else, then you're limiting yourself to other possibilities and finding different connections with others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think if your mind is restricting yourself to a certain type, and automatically rejecting anything else, then you're limiting yourself to other possibilities and finding different connections with others!"

Yep. That's exactly what I'm doing. It's why fab works so well

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I think if your mind is restricting yourself to a certain type, and automatically rejecting anything else, then you're limiting yourself to other possibilities and finding different connections with others!

Yep. That's exactly what I'm doing. It's why fab works so well "

Fab is a good way to explore different avenues of thought without the pressure of just diving right in! Chat by text also a good way of figuring someone out, it doesn't often take long to see if someone is genuine or not!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't got a limited preferred type. I do recognise immediately who isn't my preferred type though

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I haven't got a limited preferred type. I do recognise immediately who isn't my preferred type though "

Yes! this is a better way of looking at it!

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By *athiaschristopher OP   Man
over a year ago

LONDON

good stuff, thanks for the replies.

So you're all basically saying CHEMISTRY (ie personality, communication...), can be more of, or as much of a turn on.

As any desired physical requirements?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a specific type ...

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