FabSwingers.com forum: Are you bothered by a wink?

By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They appear rarely enough that I always look, but nothing ever comes of it.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

I check them if it says I have them, hardly takes any time out of my day to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really get them, I’ll use them to show interest unless they say they don’t check winks

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By *adetMan
over a year ago

South of Ipswich

Always nice to receive but I tend to only ever wink back

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I look and use them regularly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's always nice to be appreciated, but what next? Wink back and nothing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s nice to receive a wink...

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Yes I check winks send some back sometimes

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By *ance123321Man
over a year ago

Moray & London

It’s good to receive a wink once in awhile

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By *oneyjule65Couple
over a year ago

Halifax

I love getting a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check out who winks me and often send winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a wink always a nice thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I check them but they are always from guys fs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never check

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Started with a .....wink..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

never even used to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check mine, I sometimes wink back...and it usually ends there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get one and they have pics I tend to send a message or wink back.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?"

Yes. You never know.

Many do turn out to be a timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?

Yes. You never know.

Many do turn out to be a timewaster "

How are they a time waster?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use and check them.

I like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I like the look of the sender I’ll message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will look at people's profiles if they wink and if I like what I read I wink back

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

If they look interesting from their profile pic we will take a look at the persons profile and wink back if they tickle our fancy, annoying when their profiles hidden though grrrrr!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It states in my profile i bulk delete winks and friends requests, so i also know they havnt bothered reading my profile if they send them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only look if I've joined in a winking thread on here.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?

Yes. You never know.

Many do turn out to be a timewaster

How are they a time waster?"

Normally a guy on a couples profile just after kicks and not meets.

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

It started with a Wink, in the back row of the classroom

Nothing wrong ith a good old fashioned wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it’s like a way of flirting on here usually if I wink and they wink back I will message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at them.

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

If someone wink and if we like there profile we will message or wink back.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Yes I've had some good meets off the back of a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t say I particularly get them. Do give them out as I find it easier than dropping that first message (damn you anxiety!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?"

I always look and thank them for winking me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free to send winks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete them straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually check if from a lady or couple. Most are from guys wasting there time so just ignore.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"Usually check if from a lady or couple. Most are from guys wasting there time so just ignore."

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By *r GLTMan
over a year ago

Richmond Upon Thames

I see my last post on this forum completely went over everybody's head

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I look at them but 99% have either not read my profile or read it and winked anyway.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

If I get a wink, I generally respond.

If I wink someone, it's probably because there is nothing in the profile to talk about, but the description or picture seems okay.

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By *inkysexpotMan
over a year ago

leeds

Winks are a good way of showing interest

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By *toobguyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get them occasionally,and also send the odd one. Rarely anything comes of them though.

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By *llaboutthewifeCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have a look very occasionally but not looking to meet anyone new atm.

Jo x

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I do indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send lots of winks but get little response

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I have a look at them, but most have fairly blank profiles so there's no point winking back or messaging.

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By *tella Heels OP TV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

"I have a look at them, but most have fairly blank profiles so there's no point winking back or messaging."

Yep I get that

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

I use them and look at them

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I rarely check my winks. Usually just delete them. As a rule the only time I send a wink is to say hello to a forum friend who I haven't been in touch with for a while .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We just delete them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes I do. If I'm having a nosy at a poster's profile and see they've winked it inspires me to check out the other winks.

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We look at them but rarely (if ever) wink back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,not bothered at all we just delete them as and when they appear.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

"I rarely check my winks. Usually just delete them. As a rule the only time I send a wink is to say hello to a forum friend who I haven't been in touch with for a while .

Just had a look. I got 83 winks. Whoopie. I don't think I will waste time looking at all the profiles and replying. If they can't be bothered sending a message, I don't have the time to check them out.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

On the rare occasion that I get one, I get excited .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink or a message stirs my groin!

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By *ilthy and ProudCouple
over a year ago

Stratford upon Avon

Always! Quite tight with wink giving though...

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

For men I'd said it's nice to receive them from a lady, shows an interest which is a rare occurance lol

I ways reply with a thanks and sometimes we get to chatting.

Women on here I imagine wake to hundreds so they become just another thing to bulk delete.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Question is do you really bother looking or checking out winks?"

Yes I do! The majority of women are either too shy, or don’t know how to send an opening message, and seem to prefer sending a wink instead

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By *r and Mrs B xxCouple
over a year ago

Chippenham

They're a total waste of time. We used to look at them and if the winker was of interest to us wink back, but 9 times out of 10 nothing ever comes of it. We just delete now.

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