FabSwingers.com forum: Looks or Personality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

But

You see plenty of stunning women with fellas with no teeth and who look like they just climbed out of a bin lorry.

Which leads me to believe women really do go for personality while men are as vain as fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're wrong."

Soz about your situation I guess there is always one exception

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You're wrong.

Soz about your situation I guess there is always one exception

What situation is that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're wrong.

Soz about your situation I guess there is always one exception

What situation is that?"

Oh sorry again I thought you were speaking from experience tallyho....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do say opposites attract, but I think you've stretched here!!

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

No, woman can be just as and in some cases more shallow than men.

It always has been and always will be on an individual basis.

Its more of a case men are more likely (not always) to drop a standard by a littlen(or a lot) while generally women won't budge at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality always wins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not true.

Women will fuck any guy with loads of money over everything.

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why shallow?

Can good looking people only have flat personalities?

Must you always be attracted to personality otherwise you're shallow?

Fancy whoever you want to fancy and leave others to do the same.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d say he had a bucket full of cash to be honest or he’s hung like a donkey

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm."

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure. "

That’s what it sounds like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m totally about personality and intellectual stimulation .... iv has pretty boys who are clever and all the other mix’s this threads suggests

And for me .... stimulate me ... you got me

I do treatments on a celebrity who is , let’s say not the most attractive

His “friend” .... stunning

But he is a total darling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure. "

Correct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell you what really fucks me off.

Guy thinks I'm good looking.

Then sees my body, not his cup of tea, that's fine. But he'd want me to give him a BJ but nothing more. That makes him a self obsessed cunt.

For me, looks and personality, it can't be one or the other. They got to stimulate my mind as well as my body.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking? "

Also, are all women who are not thin ugly?

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

chemistry always 1st, has to be some degree of attractiveness, but thats in the eye of the beholder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking? "

Well put it this way and its only my opinion I would consider a women with good facial features more and nice slim with curves in the right places more attractive than a woman with good facial features but they are very big.

If the point you are trying make is thats a very shallow opinion well I'll help you with that. Yes it is shallow viewpoint. Carry on......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks "

Just because you rely on yours doesn’t mean we all have that privilege.

You’re a 10

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

Also, are all women who are not thin ugly? "

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Looks

Just because you rely on yours doesn’t mean we all have that privilege.

You’re a 10 "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

If the point you are trying make is thats a very shallow opinion well I'll help you with that. Yes it is shallow viewpoint. Carry on...... "

I wasn't making any point, I was asking a question as I was curious about the answer. Don't be so defensive about your preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

If the point you are trying make is thats a very shallow opinion well I'll help you with that. Yes it is shallow viewpoint. Carry on......

I wasn't making any point, I was asking a question as I was curious about the answer. Don't be so defensive about your preferences. "

Im not worried

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

If the point you are trying make is thats a very shallow opinion well I'll help you with that. Yes it is shallow viewpoint. Carry on......

I wasn't making any point, I was asking a question as I was curious about the answer. Don't be so defensive about your preferences.

Im not worried

I also didn't say you were worried

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I tell you what really fucks me off.

Guy thinks I'm good looking.

Then sees my body, not his cup of tea, that's fine. But he'd want me to give him a BJ but nothing more. That makes him a self obsessed cunt.

For me, looks and personality, it can't be one or the other. They got to stimulate my mind as well as my body."

This! Both are as important as the other. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to save face. I don't care who you are, I will always call you out on it.

People will have different tastes of physical attraction but bottom line is that you don't ever put personality over physical, because we ALL base our decision on getting to know somebody from a visual point first. However if personality is not there then the attraction will go no further - but you still won't suddenly decide to get with somebody you are not physically attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

If the point you are trying make is thats a very shallow opinion well I'll help you with that. Yes it is shallow viewpoint. Carry on......

I wasn't making any point, I was asking a question as I was curious about the answer. Don't be so defensive about your preferences.

Im not worried

I also didn't say you were worried

Can we hug this one out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely wrong OP. Looks fade personality stays the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Money attracts women

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely wrong OP. Looks fade personality stays the same. "

My plastic surgeon told me the exact same thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Money attracts women "

Phew thank god you came in Im getting out now

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I don't get this whole money attracts women thing. I'm an independent woman who earns plenty of my own money thanks

I think looks can often spark the initial interest but without personality these people would no longer be attractive to me

I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality

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By *ackinabox19Man
over a year ago

Harrogate

I don’t care how stunning facially or body wise a lady is if she’s got no personality it’s an absolute none starter for me, that’s just my preference we are different.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast

"That's not true.

Women will fuck any guy with loads of money over everything.

;-)

Misstiera, define loads of money. Are you talking just well off or like millionaire lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell you what really fucks me off.

Guy thinks I'm good looking.

Then sees my body, not his cup of tea, that's fine. But he'd want me to give him a BJ but nothing more. That makes him a self obsessed cunt.

For me, looks and personality, it can't be one or the other. They got to stimulate my mind as well as my body.

This! Both are as important as the other. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to save face. I don't care who you are, I will always call you out on it.

Glad someone agrees with me at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's not true.

Women will fuck any guy with loads of money over everything.

;-)

Misstiera, define loads of money. Are you talking just well off or like millionaire lifestyle?"

Twenty quid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tell you what really fucks me off.

Guy thinks I'm good looking.

Then sees my body, not his cup of tea, that's fine. But he'd want me to give him a BJ but nothing more. That makes him a self obsessed cunt.

For me, looks and personality, it can't be one or the other. They got to stimulate my mind as well as my body.

This! Both are as important as the other. Anyone who says otherwise is trying to save face. I don't care who you are, I will always call you out on it.

Not always the case, I've never based my decision on getting to know someone based on visual point and I'm sure many others are the same, there's been times where I've become attracted to someone after I've interacted with them and got to know them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it too much not to settle unless you have both?

Initially looks might draw you in, but if the personality is crap then you ain't gonna stay. On the other hand, I've gotten to know a few women in work that I wouldn't have initially been attracted to, but since getting to know them I now see them differently and do fancy them. I dont fuck around at work though so all I will ever do is fancy them lol dam it

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I don't get this whole money attracts women thing. I'm an independent woman who earns plenty of my own money thanks

I think looks can often spark the initial interest but without personality these people would no longer be attractive to me

I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality"

I agree with this. I don't care how much anyone earns as long as they can look after themselves then I don't care I don't need a guy to look after me financially just as long as he can look after himself then it's fine.

I've also become attracted to guys who initially I may not have fancied because of their great personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here - Ive dated the models and the stunners who've turned out to be self righteous cheaters and rather ugly inside.

Give me just a bit of everything now and I'm happy. As someone said, beautiful looks fade but a beautiful personality rarely does.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Personality for me first.

I couldn't meet someone who I can't have a giggle with.

You could be stunning, but if you're stuck up your own arse then we ain't gonna get on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks

Just because you rely on yours doesn’t mean we all have that privilege.

You’re a 10 "

You're an 11 so you should be pushing this agenda hard

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By *j69funCouple
over a year ago

kildare

Personality everytime

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"I don't get this whole money attracts women thing. I'm an independent woman who earns plenty of my own money thanks

I think looks can often spark the initial interest but without personality these people would no longer be attractive to me

I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had no luck at all on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An nice fat wallet can overcome a lot of aesthetic difficulties for many ladies

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

But

You see plenty of stunning women with fellas with no teeth and who look like they just climbed out of a bin lorry.

Which leads me to believe women really do go for personality while men are as vain as fuck.

Discuss"
maybe your eyes are only drawn to an attractive woman and thats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you ever noticed

You never really see a very good looking fella with an ugly woman they usually have thin great body swinging from their arm.

You never see them with an ugly woman but you see them with a thin woman? I don’t get it.

I guess his idea of not ugly is thin with a good body. Not sure.

Correct

You think all thin women are good looking?

Also, are all women who are not thin ugly?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"
didnt take long to just blew your own opinion up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this whole money attracts women thing. I'm an independent woman who earns plenty of my own money thanks

I think looks can often spark the initial interest but without personality these people would no longer be attractive to me

I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality"

It's a pussy magnet. I've proved it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's both looks and personality, with a wide range of personal choices on which has the greater importance.

If everyone was single today, I think there's a similar range for any gender that would be shown. These 2 things are of course not the only criteria of importance.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality"

Ah, that explains why you're with Moriarty. I did wonder about that.

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality

Ah, that explains why you're with Moriarty. I did wonder about that."

Wrong, she just likes my massive cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personality...... no looks..... no personality sorry can't pic...... both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality

Ah, that explains why you're with Moriarty. I did wonder about that.

Wrong, she just likes my massive cock."

You just said it was average!

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Works both ways doesnt it?

You could be gorgeous bit have a crappy personality or plain but be an amazing person.

For me, I need both but personality will always win out xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree Ive seen plenty of good looking guys with girls that have surprised me.

Ok we're currently seperated but I would say on the whole beast is probably above me in attractiveness traits. I have a nice face but let's face it my body is fat and lumpy where as he looks like a tall long haired well built Adonis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I disagree Ive seen plenty of good looking guys with girls that have surprised me.

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awwww hope you get back together

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’ve seen a fair few gorgeously stunning men with women who you wouldn’t expect. And yes, the same with women.

However i always remember what a hunk of a guy once told me as i rebuffed his advances because i felt that i wasn’t quite up to his level of attractiveness.

“You have no idea what a person finds attractive just by looking at their physical appearance. YOU are prejudging” He then went on to list his favourite pornstars which were in line with that he’d told me and i felt silly and realised that sexiness and beauty are in the eye of the beholder.

Lesson learnt.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve seen a fair few gorgeously stunning men with women who you wouldn’t expect. And yes, the same with women.

However i always remember what a hunk of a guy once told me as i rebuffed his advances because i felt that i wasn’t quite up to his level of attractiveness.

Lesson learnt.

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but to judge beauty on the basis of a pornstar what an accolade lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need a really nice person to balance out my inner cunt

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By *ultrySiriWoman
over a year ago

Arundel

Those slickest looking ones usually come with shit personalities. And a whole bag of casanova tricks. Quick. Run

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

o/p not strictly true. I used to work for a perfumery and cosmetic company. I have to say the majority of women there were fine regardless of physical looks. Most attractive were the ones with a great sense of humour. A good line in chat with lots in common was important also. Some had what you would probably call "model" looks but they were as shallow as they come with nothing to say.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Those slickest looking ones usually come with shit personalities. And a whole bag of casanova tricks. Quick. Run

Pick a fat guy then.

Just saying.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"I’ve seen a fair few gorgeously stunning men with women who you wouldn’t expect. And yes, the same with women.

However i always remember what a hunk of a guy once told me as i rebuffed his advances because i felt that i wasn’t quite up to his level of attractiveness.

Lesson learnt.

but to judge beauty on the basis of a pornstar what an accolade lol

You can tell a lot about a man from the porn he watches

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

"Those slickest looking ones usually come with shit personalities. And a whole bag of casanova tricks. Quick. Run

Pick a fat guy then.

Just saying. "

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve seen a fair few gorgeously stunning men with women who you wouldn’t expect. And yes, the same with women.

However i always remember what a hunk of a guy once told me as i rebuffed his advances because i felt that i wasn’t quite up to his level of attractiveness.

Lesson learnt.

but to judge beauty on the basis of a pornstar what an accolade lol

You can tell a lot about a man from the porn he watches

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or makes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are stunning to look at but their character is ugly.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Some people are stunning to look at but their character is ugly. "

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generalisations are almost always untrue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get this whole money attracts women thing. I'm an independent woman who earns plenty of my own money thanks

I think looks can often spark the initial interest but without personality these people would no longer be attractive to me

I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality"

Well said, I couldn’t agree more

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I fell in love with my partners personality. I was not the slightest bit attracted to him when we met nor him me. However over a year we realized we had fallen in love. Never would of thought id end up with someone 22 years older than me. But it works as weve been together 14 years

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"I've also had it the opposite way round where someone who would not be deemed as classically attractive became attractive to me as I spent time with them and got to know their personality

Ah, that explains why you're with Moriarty. I did wonder about that.

Wrong, she just likes my massive cock.

You just said it was average!"

Don't believe everything you read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people just take a genuine person the wrong way online. Specially men cause women get thousands of messages

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

It always surprises me when you see a really pretty girl with the local hulking sted head psychopath who is known for glassing people in pubs and generally carrying on like he's one of the Kray twins, there's no accounting for taste I guess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What surprises me, is that other people are bothered about others partner choices.

Someone might be ugly to you. To someone else, they’re the most gorgeous person they’ve ever seen.

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