FabSwingers.com forum: Is age.....

By *i fem hunters OP Couple
over a year ago

london

Nothing but a number???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's only a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person. Some are old farts, others are young at heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To a point.

Till your knees start making popping noises when you get up from the sofa.

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

No. It’s not only a number for me. There’s a reason we have an age of consent, age to vote, drink & smoke.

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36

Just a number in my eyes

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

Wonder how many will post to this thread saying “Age is just a number” while having age filters on their profile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many will post to this thread saying “Age is just a number” while having age filters on their profile!!"

Good point.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Age is not just a number. Sometimes it matters, sometimes not.

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By *r Cheeky97Man
over a year ago

Devon

It seems to be on this site I have had nothing and iv been on here for over 2/3years and everyone says it's my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is not just a number. Sometimes it matters, sometimes not. "
totally agree with you

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

When you get to my age you forget about your age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes. It depends on the person

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wonder how many will post to this thread saying “Age is just a number” while having age filters on their profile!!"

I only have an age filter to reduce the amount of messages I receive.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys. "

Blows raspberry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an age filter... alive!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Depends on the person. Some are old farts, others are young at heart. "

Very true

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I have an age filter... alive!"

Fussy git.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys.

Blows raspberry.

See what I mean...!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys.

Blows raspberry.

See what I mean...!"

I'm gonna tell my mum on you.

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys.

Blows raspberry.

See what I mean...!

I'm gonna tell my mum on you.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Age isn't always just a number. I've met men in their thirties who act more mature the some men in their fiftys.

Blows raspberry.

See what I mean...!

I'm gonna tell my mum on you.

I'll let you off. Only because I like your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an age filter... alive!

Fussy git.

Git I may be, fussy I am not!

Oh ... hang on, no, the other way round!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I have an age filter... alive!

Fussy git.

Git I may be, fussy I am not!

Oh ... hang on, no, the other way round!"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number to me. I have age restrictions on my profile for a reason! I feel uncomfortable at the thought of playing with people under a certain age and that's the way it is.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No.

I'd feel uncomfortable with anyone young enough to be my son or old enough to be my dad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing but a number???"

It certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. People who think that way tend to be creepy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been keen on younger than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to agree that it is. However if a 47 year old was dating / sleeping with an 18 year old I would think it very weird and a little gross if I'm honest.

Each to there own though. Xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

When I turned 45 I was shocked to see how many peoples ages ranges I was no longer in and I’m seriously considering giving up in August when I turn 50 cos there will be even less ladies interested. Yes it’s a number but it affects ones chances on here to a considerable degree.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Just a number because some 20/30 Yrolds are such boring old farts with beer belly’s and some 40s and 50s are super fit and sexy like us !

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Age is more than a number, it’s a state of mind. I may be in my 50’s but I’m not ready for Velcro fastening shoes, trousers with elasticated waists and cardigans just yet.

A friend of mine used to be a party animal back in our youth. Now he rarely leaves the house other than for work or shopping. I meet him for a coffee at the weekend and he’s happy with his life, which is the most important thing. Personally I think life is still out there to be lived and I will continue to enjoy myself whereas my friend thinks I’m mad.

It’s subjective and although the hair is greying and I now tend to nod off in front of the TV life as a 50-something is great.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Its a number alright and if past a certain number then its a no

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"Age is more than a number, it’s a state of mind. I may be in my 50’s but I’m not ready for Velcro fastening shoes, trousers with elasticated waists and cardigans just yet.

It’s subjective and although the hair is greying and I now tend to nod off in front of the TV life as a 50-something is great."

This chimes with me too. Thank you for this thought.

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

"When I turned 45 I was shocked to see how many peoples ages ranges I was no longer in and I’m seriously considering giving up in August when I turn 50 cos there will be even less ladies interested. Yes it’s a number but it affects ones chances on here to a considerable degree. "

I’m identifying with this. However, and I don’t think this is just imagination, with age I seem to be attracting more attention - second glances, new girl at work very chatty etc - in “real life”... Maybe it’s the same for others?

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Its a number alright and if past a certain number then its a no "

So if you had the best sex in the world with someone, then found out they lied about their age significantly, and you understood why and forgave that , would it a be a no to next time ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No age isnt any number its just time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiences"
jasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Ageing is what makes meat taste better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you get to my age you forget about your age.

And why you just walked upstairs, in fact forgetting becomes a new skill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

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i got to find the furry cup of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

i got to find the furry cup of life

Ah lifes sweet nectar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do what all the ladies do and lie about it. Im actually 30 but I think saying 41 is more appealing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a beautiful 49 year old female last year and we celebrated her 50th

she is simply one amazing female possibly the best year I have ever spent was with this female

amazing

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"No. It’s not only a number for me. There’s a reason we have an age of consent, age to vote, drink & smoke.

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By *hisCharManMan
over a year ago

South Manchester

Hope so at my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing but a number???"

Yes and no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

i got to find the furry cup of life

Ah lifes sweet nectar! "
you have to to drink from it for hours

Tho at least thats what a guy on fab told me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days it's only a number--- some days it's a millstone!

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Is age a number? Well, being numb is its eventual outcome.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Its a undeniably a number.

In my opinion it's hugely significant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do what all the ladies do and lie about it. Im actually 30 but I think saying 41 is more appealing.....

Or do what the men do and give a false age to cheat the filters and harrass women that you know damn well don't want to be contacted by people your age and have tried to stop you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

i got to find the furry cup of life

Ah lifes sweet nectar!

you have to to drink from it for hours

Tho at least thats what a guy on fab told me

Gosh make sure you have a long pee beforehand then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My filters are set for good reasons. Age is important to me: I want to have conversation as well as sex, and that's easier with a chronological peer.

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

For me it's just a number but also means no response or fabs or meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just do what all the ladies do and lie about it. Im actually 30 but I think saying 41 is more appealing.....

Or do what the men do and give a false age to cheat the filters and harrass women that you know damn well don't want to be contacted by people your age and have tried to stop you. "

Damn never thought of that. Ok changing it to 65 to be compatible with all the 22 year olds

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Huge generalisation alert.

Age and maturity are very different things. However in general a person of 45 is going to be more emotionally mature than a person of 25. They will also have a different attitude and approach to sex, which is basically what it boils down to when discussing age on fab.

I don't want a guy whose goal and is to experience an older woman because "she knows what she wants and how to get it" or a man who reckons he's doing me a favour because he can "go all night".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

65 year old here... hubba hubba

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Depends on whether they act their age. Some older people can be very young at heart and in body and mimd, some older people are just..well just old.

You also get some younger people who are old before their time which we don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think age is more a rich tapestry of experiencesjasy reminded me to watch indiana jones and last crusade

Come to see the tapestrys

Careful you don't age whilst watching it

i got to find the furry cup of life

Ah lifes sweet nectar!

you have to to drink from it for hours

Tho at least thats what a guy on fab told me

Gosh make sure you have a long pee beforehand then

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good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

65 year old here... hubba hubba

Lol, shame ur not really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

65 year old here... hubba hubba

Lol, shame ur not really

Damn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing but a number???"
of course it is but its also a guide to wrinkles, grey hair, pot bellies, loss of stamina and many other things associated with the aging process

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person. Some are old farts, others are young at heart. "

Some young hearts smell like old farts... Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Nothing but a number???of course it is but its also a guide to wrinkles, grey hair, pot bellies, loss of stamina and many other things associated with the aging process "

Old age is no place for sissies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing but a number???of course it is but its also a guide to wrinkles, grey hair, pot bellies, loss of stamina and many other things associated with the aging process

Old age is no place for sissies.

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you transcend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends tbh , everyone's DNA or make up is different, " and some say life can beat you down ,break your heart ...steal your crown ..( Tom Petty lyrics there )..but it ALL depends on how one approaches ageing ,one can give themselves the best chance by not Smoking , drinking , eat healthy etc etc but could fall ill ,so in my opinion the bottom line regards ageing is ALL about ones health ,it is our most precious possession ,no matter what age one is ,good health in mind and body is everything .so in my opinion ,it all depends on ones individual circumstances as to whether age is just a number .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

65 year old here... hubba hubba

Lol, shame ur not really

Damn

Nice try tho, and still in my age limits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age is part of the attraction for me, so no, it’s not just a number

65 year old here... hubba hubba

Lol, shame ur not really

Damn

Nice try tho, and still in my age limits

Oh well then! Come over here and let me entertain you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's initially a number but then people can and do interpret it in their chosen way. Like all data concerning us, others will be open to using that data according to their preferences. And age is a fairly widely used indicator of potential compatibility here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"Yes it is

Not according to your profile it ain’t mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it is

Not according to your profile it ain’t mate.

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I'm old so I have to call it a number

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

It’s not just a number on here, that’s why so many people fib about their age

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"It’s not just a number on here, that’s why so many people fib about their age

True

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Everyone’s different so you have to say yes and I feel younger than my years which is always a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only age I’m concerned with is on my cognac bottle

I’ve met a 29 year old more switched on then a 50 year old

So there’s my tuppence worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are similar in age to our grown up kids its a big no....also a big no if they are eligable for a bus pass..

We want to meet to have fun not compare a list of ailments..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are similar in age to our grown up kids its a big no....also a big no if they are eligable for a bus pass..

We want to meet to have fun not compare a list of ailments..

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banged my knee this morning just can't seem to straighten it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"Nothing but a number???of course it is but its also a guide to wrinkles, grey hair, pot bellies, loss of stamina and many other things associated with the aging process "

It can be a really bad guide too, for a guy if your t count is naturally high and you’ve looked after your mind and body you don’t get any of those things. I don’t know about women but I’d guess it’s similar, hormone levels, lifestyle, maturity/ attitude are much more important than a number - which in my experience many on here lie about anyway

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Wonder how many will post to this thread saying “Age is just a number” while having age filters on their profile!!"

We put age filters only to keep down on messages, you usually find those that are set at 18 to 99 are more interested in the fabs than meeting, a 20 year old wouldn’t meet an 99 year old surely that would be one wrinkle too many for there to be attraction

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