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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

What one thing would you like to change about your past?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clichéd I know but nothing. I'm happy with who and where I am now and I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the past shaping me.

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Clichéd I know but nothing. I'm happy with who and where I am now and I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the past shaping me. "

So not one memory you would like to erase?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd have got myself the medical (etc) help I needed from infancy rather than adulthood. I survived, I prevailed, but fuck it should never have been this way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have met Princess Peach and contracted an array of STI's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hide the car keys just once, but nothing else really....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have met Princess Peach and contracted an array of STI's"

Your chest scribble looks like a bra

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clichéd I know but nothing. I'm happy with who and where I am now and I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the past shaping me.

So not one memory you would like to erase?"

Not that I can think of. The bad things that have happened to me shaped my life. The not so bad things have faded into insignificance so why bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats a very hard question to answer tbh to change things would remove the lessons of pain learned of the past il say nothing live for today and hope for tomorrow

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'd have got myself the medical (etc) help I needed from infancy rather than adulthood. I survived, I prevailed, but fuck it should never have been this way. "

I'm being nosey I know is your health better now x

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hide the car keys just once, but nothing else really...."

You hid them from me

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I wouldn't have met Princess Peach and contracted an array of STI's"

Ahhh explains the warts

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

My first wife. God I hate that bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hide the car keys just once, but nothing else really....

You hid them from me

"

Point missed but I still love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have met Princess Peach and contracted an array of STI's

Your chest scribble looks like a bra

P"

Your bra's may as well be scribbled on

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school "

There's a small part of me which would like a time machine. Go back to primary and secondary school, at my current age. Beat the hell out of those little shits and save worse for the teachers who ignored or contributed to it.

And get child me the fuck out of there.

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"My first wife. God I hate that bitch "

That's why I divorced you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have got married lol

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd have got myself the medical (etc) help I needed from infancy rather than adulthood. I survived, I prevailed, but fuck it should never have been this way.

I'm being nosey I know is your health better now x"

Mostly, thank you. But not as good as it could have been with early intervention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have met Princess Peach and contracted an array of STI's

Your chest scribble looks like a bra

P

Your bra's may as well be scribbled on"

If they were it would look probably look better. I got mothball holes where my nipples sit.. ... you know, right by the underwire

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring my dad back but if that is too far fetched then not hand my heart over so easily to be stamped on

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'd have got myself the medical (etc) help I needed from infancy rather than adulthood. I survived, I prevailed, but fuck it should never have been this way.

I'm being nosey I know is your health better now x

Mostly, thank you. But not as good as it could have been with early intervention. "

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school

There's a small part of me which would like a time machine. Go back to primary and secondary school, at my current age. Beat the hell out of those little shits and save worse for the teachers who ignored or contributed to it.

And get child me the fuck out of there. "

I would most definitely like to borrow said time machine and do the exact same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have got myself the medical (etc) help I needed from infancy rather than adulthood. I survived, I prevailed, but fuck it should never have been this way.

I'm being nosey I know is your health better now x

Mostly, thank you. But not as good as it could have been with early intervention. "

Glad your getting it under control xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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None of them. They've all shaped me into who I am today. Also, what about the butterfly effect?

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hide the car keys just once, but nothing else really....

You hid them from me

Point missed but I still love you "

Point missed?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"My first wife. God I hate that bitch

That's why I divorced you."

I miss the reach arounds though

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"My first wife. God I hate that bitch

That's why I divorced you.

I miss the reach arounds though "

Nope won't marry you again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"My first wife. God I hate that bitch

That's why I divorced you.

I miss the reach arounds though

Nope won't marry you again."

Just ‘swing’ then?

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"My first wife. God I hate that bitch

That's why I divorced you.

I miss the reach arounds though

Nope won't marry you again.

Just ‘swing’ then? "

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have believed my friend and seen what was on front of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erase 2003/4 the lost year 4 walls and my own thoughts. It taught me alot mind.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I'd not stay married for so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I definitely would

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I'm not someone who is good at discussing feelings (though I'm getting better); I show love through actions rather than words.

I've lost a lot of people I love and if I could change anything it would be to tell each of them how very much I love them.

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By *zQTWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I wouldn’t change anything. None of it. If it didn’t happen, I wouldn’t be where I am today and so I have no regrets

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school

There's a small part of me which would like a time machine. Go back to primary and secondary school, at my current age. Beat the hell out of those little shits and save worse for the teachers who ignored or contributed to it.

And get child me the fuck out of there.

I would most definitely like to borrow said time machine and do the exact same "

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Get my mental health sorted as a teenager, rather than waiting until I was 30 and having a breakdown before I spoke to a GP.

Stayed in contact with my dad, he died a few years back and I always regret not speaking to him for so long.

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school

There's a small part of me which would like a time machine. Go back to primary and secondary school, at my current age. Beat the hell out of those little shits and save worse for the teachers who ignored or contributed to it.

And get child me the fuck out of there.

I would most definitely like to borrow said time machine and do the exact same "

My son was getting so badly bullied at school that we ended up home educating him. I just couldn't see him go through that any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have beat the school bullies ass earlier than I did and had a better time at school

There's a small part of me which would like a time machine. Go back to primary and secondary school, at my current age. Beat the hell out of those little shits and save worse for the teachers who ignored or contributed to it.

And get child me the fuck out of there.

I would most definitely like to borrow said time machine and do the exact same

My son was getting so badly bullied at school that we ended up home educating him. I just couldn't see him go through that any more. "

It's horrible for any child to go through. You question yourself and ask what is wrong with me that no one likes me? My bullying was as much physical as mental but man I'd rather have been beaten up everytime. As it turns out towards the end of the bullying did get a little physical with a group of 3 boys who would hit you with sisters in class or trip you up when you walked past them in the outdoor. It got to a point where I felt I would explode and the main fucker decidied he wasnt gonna let me go to lunch after maths class and stood in the doorway holding me back. I brought my arm back and then swung and caught him sweet on the chin and he fell to the ground and I stepped over him then went for lunch trembling and waiting for retaliation. It never came, I was left alone from then and so I came out of myself and started to enjoy school. I wouldn't wish bullying on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Dusters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I could change losing my husband x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have a accepted my sexuality earlier, and avoided decades of shame and secrecy.

And bought shares in Google

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