FabSwingers.com forum: Preference vs racist ?

By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

So I work at a Premier vehicle dealership, I got asked by a customer that their light bulb needs replacing I said not to worry we can take care of that for you, minute in the conversation she asked me is there anyone that can fit it for me please ( as though I cant do it cause I am a Woman, lol i said yeah no worries I'll fit it for you to what she replied urm yeah sure but can that guy fit it ?

I said who Chris ? She said if that is his name yes please, to that I thought oh okay maybe she knows him so I said oh you know Chris, she said no ? Why do you say that, then I said I'm sorry I thought you knew him it's why you wanted him to fit the light bulb, she then dropped the bomb shell and said no because hes White

Excuse me madam ? Cause he is white, could a white guy serve me please to which I giggle and laughed and said yes ofcourse no problem at all to which one of my colleague overheard the conversation and completely put a stop to the transaction called security and asked to have her escorted out the showroom.

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know OP, I really wanted to read all of your post and give my humble opinion. However I have issues, I freely admit, with your statement that most people on here are closet racists. You’re entitled to your opinion of course, but seeing there’s about 40,000 online users I would love to see your evidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmmm"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another post to devide people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a closet racist

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"You know OP, I really wanted to read all of your post and give my humble opinion. However I have issues, I freely admit, with your statement that most people on here are closet racists. You’re entitled to your opinion of course, but seeing there’s about 40,000 online users I would love to see your evidence."

Racism is wrong

But the sweeping generalisation??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I lightbulb moment

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

Racism is wrong

But the sweeping generalisation??

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I lightbulb moment

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

Well this doesn't smell like a steaming pile of bullshit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not in the closet... I definitely hate racing!

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

Well this doesn't smell like a steaming pile of bullshit

I caught that distinctive whiff too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

Well this doesn't smell like a steaming pile of bullshit

So cynical for one so young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

Well this doesn't smell like a steaming pile of bullshit

I caught that distinctive whiff too

Me too. Hence I deleted my sensible comment

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

I agree.

Calling most people closer racists when you don’t know most people on here is ridiculous.

Many people do have race preferences on here, and no doubt about it some are racists, but not all.

Having sex with someone is different to being served by someone.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?"

I have no idea ?

What is the difference ? No joke..no bullshit, im being real ? I mean my manager took offense and he apologised on her behalf, but I was not offended one bit, I laughed and got my day over with just like that.

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"I do love a hidden closet racist ( most people on here ) but I appreciate the blunt racist like I have witnessed today

But hey wait, what actually happened you ask ? Well I'm glad you asked handsome stranger..

I was not shocked nor was I feeling offended, I simply just laughed. I then said to my colleague and my manager that it was not a problem I was happy to serve the customer till the very end.

It was then she said the classic line it's my preference LOL I'm not racist LOL and I remembered Fab and most profiles on here state that.

Is there a difference guys and girls ?

I'm not bothered I'm not angry and I'm definitely not feeling anything about it, I just wanted to know people's opinions

P.s it was a good day, I still took her money, they refused to fit the light bulb and it was me who fitted the bulb and wished her a good day after.

What would you have done ?

Well this doesn't smell like a steaming pile of bullshit

Definitely. Sound to me like the OP made this whole scenario up in order to make this post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm.

I dont see how someone's preference on here is any way close to the racism you suffered today.

That was racism.

I have no issues if someone's preference isn't a fat girl like me. I have no issues if someone didn't want to fuck white woman as they are not attracted to them. I have no issue if someone's preference is a man not a woman.

You get where I'm going with this? Attraction and letting someone fuck you is a whole different ball game to letting someone serve you

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Hmmm.

I dont see how someone's preference on here is any way close to the racism you suffered today.

That was racism.

You get where I'm going with this? Attraction and letting someone fuck you is a whole different ball game to letting someone serve you "

I understand, but when she made the preference comment, I had to laugh even more to defend her comment she made.

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

You can’t compare the two tbh.

Having sex with somebody is completely different to being served by someone who is equally as professional as the next person with white skin.

If I choose to have sex with only black women due to preference, but I treat everyone the same in all other aspects of life, then I don’t see the problem.

To have an issue with a professional serving you for no other reason than the colour of their skin is different. But this scenario didn’t happen did it mate.

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By *ersnickety PantsWoman
over a year ago

Club Meets Only

So she's escorted out for making a racist comment but still got the service she asked & paid for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?"

Out not to. Doh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see preference and racism as the same thing. This thread has been done to death. I don’t meet South Asian men.

Does that make me me racist to those who are the same race?

No one needs to justify anything but I’ll justify myself as some people think there are NO OTHER reasons than racism.

I was brought up in a very religious household and religion was the centre of my world. All the people in my community were south asian and religious. So the thought of playing with a south asian guy just brings up religion in my head and all the things I heard over and over for my whole life (gays are bad, lesbians are bad, sex before marriage is wrong, etc etc). For me its psychological. I just can’t get in the mood for sex because of all those associations.

Yes there are racist people in the world. Yes there will be racists here on fab. But if a racist approaches you in real life you may say something back and then what? As you said the with the lady in the store; you just moved on! Same principle applies here. Just move on.

If someone says its a preference. Well my day job is to determine the reasons for behaviour and to predict future behaviour. I can’t be arsed trying to understand others when the knowledge neither benefits or harms me. Why do i need to concern myself.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"So she's escorted out for making a racist comment but still got the service she asked & paid for?

And 'as though I cant do it cause I am a Woman'

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?"

The car was in the parking bay, I had already finished taking the payment when she said that, she was not pushed out the building, or any fruit or salad was thrown at her at the moment of time, I'm paid to do a job, I blank the rest out to be honest if it offended me I would stop serving her and get someone else to do the transaction but I wanted to try my patience and see what I would of done and I think I handled it pretty well.

No1 asked why she made that comment, my manager said it was absolutely unacceptable and he wouldn't hear it in his department and said please leave, I said I'll see a job till the end and I done so, I didnt make eye contact with her when she stood next to me, got the job down and said there you go it's all done madam and proved a valid point that I was much bigger then her pathetic comment and her bigotry way of thinking.

Perhaps I tried to win her over but hey ho

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I think choosing who you sleep with is nothing like what you experienced today.

What a piece of shit to do that. I don’t run a customer facing business but if any of my staff experienced something like that their money and person would not be welcome anywhere near my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?

Perhaps I tried to win her over but hey ho"

Well, Im glad no salad was thrown at her

That would have made the floor slippy

And that would be a major health and safety headache

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?

Perhaps I tried to win her over but hey ho

Well, Im glad no salad was thrown at her

That would have made the floor slippy

And that would be a major health and safety headache"

I know right ! Lol

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

What happened after she was escorted to the showroom?

Why wasnt her blatant racism questionned?

Perhaps I tried to win her over but hey ho"

Bigot?

Was it because of your race, or your creed, belief or opinion?

Asking for a friend

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’ve taken a big brown dick out of my mouth so I can facepalm freely at this post

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

So, was she also sexist since she believed you couldn't do it because you're a woman even though you're not?

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"So, was she also sexist since she believed you couldn't do it because you're a woman even though you're not?"

Good spot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you think op, was she racist or jjust having a preference ?

I have no idea ?

So someone didn't want to be served by you because of your colour, an act that belongs in the days before Rosa Parkes and you weren't offended?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, was she also sexist since she believed you couldn't do it because you're a woman even though you're not?"

Yeah I didn't like to mention that weird bit either. Although as a good friend of mine is a female mechanic plenty of people assume she isnt qualified or capable of doing even the most minor work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, was she also sexist since she believed you couldn't do it because you're a woman even though you're not?"

I thought that at first but if you read it again he’s talking about her. It’s the way it’s written.

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Why are people obsessed with racism on this site ..

It baffles me..

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

"Why are people obsessed with racism on this site ..

It baffles me..

Not only are people obsessed with racism, or at least using that word, I think people are negatively obsessed with the fact people have choice on here & have a preference and want to be picky.

Some people don’t like being rejected.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What's Chris's number or profile?

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