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Pleasure and pain

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By *stella OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

How do we know that pleasure is good and pain is bad?

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm not sure it's that straight forward.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a fine, fine line

/earworm

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Cause when she stops talking it doesn’t hurt anymore

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"It's a fine, fine line

/earworm"

Sounds unpleasant

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"Cause when she stops talking it doesn’t hurt anymore "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum said.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"It's a fine, fine line

/earworm

Sounds unpleasant "

https://youtu.be/rH8hcfhG1Jo

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

For some pain is pleasure so what makes that.

Not me I’m a wimp lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We make our own distinctions on what we interpret as positive, negative etc. Our sensory systems are complex, some or all of the same physical systems will be used to form what we sense, which we then interpret in the way that we do.

Individuals also have preferences, including tolerance levels - how much or little we'll accept, before stopping something or seeking more.

We also aren't fixed in what we'll prefer, including having a higher tolerance for pain when sexually aroused. Our motivations also influence our tolerance - including the concept of no pain, no gain. We may believe that something that's got a higher pain level is more beneficial or damaging, even if evidence indicates otherwise. And context is all - we'll find pain in some contexts, where the same experience is interpreted as pleasure in another.

It can be helpful to experience things ong this spectrum, giving insight into our tastes and interpretations as well as helping us to understand how much control we have over our perceptions and desires.

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