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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I listen to rain and thunder storms on YouTube, that’s sends me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on to you tube and listen to waves your love it really works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get off your phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay down

Close

Eyes

Pass out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Herbal tea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I listen to rain and thunder storms on YouTube, that’s sends me off. "

That's what I have on my app just not working this week

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get off your phone "
tried that the last 2 nights no use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hennessy xo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Herbal tea "
can you make it and deliver it I can't be arsed moving

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hennessy xo "

I've had a bottle of red instead tonight no use

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Herbal tea can you make it and deliver it I can't be arsed moving "

It might be cold when I get to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanking help me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20mls of night nurse Green liquid will give you sleep.. If you can take it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read "

Normally I would but struggling to concentrate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Herbal tea can you make it and deliver it I can't be arsed moving

It might be cold when I get to you "

Flask?

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Night Nurse. I'm a terrible sleeper, especially if my anxiety is bad, and I occasionally use it just to knock me out so I can get a decent sleep and recharge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wanking help me"

.my mojo vanished with my man

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"Read

Normally I would but struggling to concentrate"

Read some random small articles, doesn't need to be anything you have to concentrate on.

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By *ayRosesWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Clear your mind (easier said than done I know) and focus on your breathing. Every time you feel your mind wander, bring yourself back to focusing on that.

Trick from pilates

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Off to buy some night nurse tomorrow. I do have zopiclone for When I get really exhausted as I'm a terrible insomniac but I try not to have induced sleep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read

Normally I would but struggling to concentrate

Read some random small articles, doesn't need to be anything you have to concentrate on. "

Ill give it a go thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clear your mind (easier said than done I know) and focus on your breathing. Every time you feel your mind wander, bring yourself back to focusing on that.

Trick from pilates "

I gave tried meditation but no luck. My head is a bit full tonight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me. "

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wanking help me

.my mojo vanished with my man "

Sorry to hear that

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I've started listening to audiobooks on YouTube. Nice a relaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I at times listen to music, focusing on that, it doesn't allow my mind to go in other directions.

What is it that helps you relax?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly "

.this girls been dumped today so not happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going for a walk in the evening might help. Fresh air should do you good.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening "

WHAT?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have night terrors and sleep paralysis, always this weird old woman sitting on my chest sucking my breath out my nose and mouth. Fucking slag.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Probably depends on the reason.

There’s some great pills I use occasionally for night flights when I need to work next day that put you out fast but it’s probably a bad idea for you. why aren’t you sleeping ?

Alcohol, worrying about things and even the tiniest bit of light is really bad, if you have you got rid of those and still can’t sleep maybe you’re just not that tired. All that relax and bath stuff is nonsense btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening "

Ohh sorry me and my big text mouth. X

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Eating nachos in bed and listen music

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I at times listen to music, focusing on that, it doesn't allow my mind to go in other directions.

What is it that helps you relax? "

I don't ever relax

My mind is on the go constantly. I'm a planner and organiser.

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By *raffitiMan
over a year ago

Melton

I really struggle with insomnia.

Tricks that only sometimes help:

*warm drink

*warm bath

*eating lots of chocolate, walking about house whilst I have the high, then when the sugar rush dies, head to bed

*masterbate a minimum of 3 times

*listen to ambient natural sounds or gentle piano

*start to learn a language

*watch a documentary

*eat a lot of hot food

*turn the heating up

Hope something from here may help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of studies done on insomnia on bbc1 & 2.

Hope you get sleep I'm a 5 hr max pet night. Sleepers give me no benefit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening

Ohh sorry me and my big text mouth. X "

It's ok. Don't worry. I think that's part of my sleep issue tonight. The last 2 nights is my usual no sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening "

Sorry OP. I listen to music to help me sleep or having the TV on in the background sometimes works. If you lay there awake too long, get up for a bit and so something (tidy up etc) then try again, it works sometimes Xx big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop using the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have night terrors and sleep paralysis, always this weird old woman sitting on my chest sucking my breath out my nose and mouth. Fucking slag. "

Sorry. Wont do it again, I thought u liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a wank , then listen to radio 3 very quietly in bed , guaranteed sleep !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably depends on the reason.

There’s some great pills I use occasionally for night flights when I need to work next day that put you out fast but it’s probably a bad idea for you. why aren’t you sleeping ?

Alcohol, worrying about things and even the tiniest bit of light is really bad, if you have you got rid of those and still can’t sleep maybe you’re just not that tired. All that relax and bath stuff is nonsense btw "

This^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening "

Ahh, that’s other level shit. Nah you won’t sleep much tonight. Your brain will be rattling round probably thinking what you did wrong and going through the motions.

You know that what you’re feeling today won’t be how you feel in a couple of months but that doesn’t really help your situation now.

Just keep chatting on here. I’ll help you if I can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right thanks for all your tips and the ones I've received in pm. I'm going to try the bath stuff see if it helps and curl up with a hot chocolate I figure may have more chance sleeping that way if I'm not stressing in bed x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening

Ahh, that’s other level shit. Nah you won’t sleep much tonight. Your brain will be rattling round probably thinking what you did wrong and going through the motions.

You know that what you’re feeling today won’t be how you feel in a couple of months but that doesn’t really help your situation now.

Just keep chatting on here. I’ll help you if I can. "

Thank you been a head fuck day. He's regretting it I think and I'm stubborn so who knows what the future holds but my sleep was shit the last 2 nights too before today

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Aww sorry hun didn’t see you been dumped that’s shitty, just mourn and process that shit , sleep can wait a while, or do the drugs....I don’t think listening to whales on YouTube will help that much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Get your other half to soothe tickle you. Drift off instantly

.this girls been dumped today so not happening

Ahh, that’s other level shit. Nah you won’t sleep much tonight. Your brain will be rattling round probably thinking what you did wrong and going through the motions.

You know that what you’re feeling today won’t be how you feel in a couple of months but that doesn’t really help your situation now.

Just keep chatting on here. I’ll help you if I can.

Thank you been a head fuck day. He's regretting it I think and I'm stubborn so who knows what the future holds but my sleep was shit the last 2 nights too before today"

I struggle with knowing my worth but I know it’s important when negotiating what’s right for you.

I don’t know the circumstances but usually when it’s fresh you’ll want them back?

If they ended it then let them end it and let them miss you. Just disappear. All the things that are upsetting you will be upsetting them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have night terrors and sleep paralysis, always this weird old woman sitting on my chest sucking my breath out my nose and mouth. Fucking slag. "

Kinky

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"20mls of night nurse Green liquid will give you sleep.. If you can take it"

That’s what I used to do when got stuck in a rut of no sleep, definitely works

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me. "

When I can't sleep it's usually because my internal monologue won't stop.

I use either a clock that ticks or a metronome (I have a metronome set to 60 beats per minute set quietly). I listen to the ticking and visualise it in some way, like counting the ticks and visualising the numbers, or visualising a pendulum. I really make an effort to concentrate on it for as long as I can.

This helps drown out my internal monologue and I drop off because my mind is then occupied with something repetitive and boring. It's a bit like working for a living!

It's very effective. I have been using this method since my teens.

Luke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have night terrors and sleep paralysis, always this weird old woman sitting on my chest sucking my breath out my nose and mouth. Fucking slag.

Sorry. Wont do it again, I thought u liked it"

only just saw this. Made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you take magnesium?

That can affect sleep if you’re deficient.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Use the mindfulness app. Breathing and relaxation techniques might help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rid your room of all electrics, even when off static plays havoc with your sleep.

No phone, the blue light stimulates the brain.

I have Alexa on my landing and I ask her to play low level nature sounds, either thunder, the sea or rain.

I have to have my room in complete darkness too so blackout curtains it is.

Have you tried mindfulness? Get some techniques on how to switch off

Sorry to hear about your relationship, that can't be helping your sleep patterns

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Only go bed when you are tired rather than lie down and stare at the ceiling. Echinacea and Hibiscus tea helps me chill before hand as well. I also try and go to bed having planned and managed everything that’s on my mind. Putting it all away mentally for the morning.

Concentrate on the route cause but that’s another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rid your room of all electrics, even when off static plays havoc with your sleep.

No phone, the blue light stimulates the brain.

I have Alexa on my landing and I ask her to play low level nature sounds, either thunder, the sea or rain.

I have to have my room in complete darkness too so blackout curtains it is.

Have you tried mindfulness? Get some techniques on how to switch off

Sorry to hear about your relationship, that can't be helping your sleep patterns"

The sleep was crap before the breakup to be honest. One of the reasons I'm a grouchy bitch.

I dont have TV etc in my bedroom I do have my phone - I need it for my alarm etc and I use sleep apps on it to help, they were helping but this week nope my body is fighting sleep. If I get to sleep like I did at 2 this morning I awake for 5.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you take magnesium?

That can affect sleep if you’re deficient. "

Never heard of that I will look into it. I am due a serious MOT as my colleagues think I'm b12 deficient because I keep getting swollen lips so a gp visit is on the cards but think the gp will need to book a morning clinic just for me

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Clear your mind (easier said than done I know) and focus on your breathing. Every time you feel your mind wander, bring yourself back to focusing on that.

Trick from pilates "

Mindfulness meditation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the craziest Naughtiest longest session of sex so I naturally crash out and sleep so good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me. "

Try to engage in physical activity... A gym visit in evening will drain you out - this helped me.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Have some down time before you go to bed, read a book and get absorbed into it. Listen to chill out acoustic music, deep breathing, they may help.

Your pain will ease. Massive hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've not slept more than 2 hours a night for the last 3 nights and I'm struggling add to that emotional turmoil is there any tips to sleep? My white notice app is annoying me.

Try to engage in physical activity... A gym visit in evening will drain you out - this helped me. "

Some of us are made for that some of us aren't...I'm in the not category. Besides I'm at work till 8 then have a 45 commute home it's not happening even if I was one of those people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have some down time before you go to bed, read a book and get absorbed into it. Listen to chill out acoustic music, deep breathing, they may help.

Your pain will ease. Massive hugs xx"

Done it all - as I say it's not to do with my situation either I couldn't sleep before. Medication route tonight I think x

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

One more thing to try before hard drugs I just remembered from my younger days lifting to induce deep sleep after a hard session - big mug of hot chocolate , organic raw cacao if poss and couple of zinc , magnesium or ZMA caps.... but you might need a shave in the morning. Good luck x

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Swimming clears my head and I tend to have a good sleep after it. The headspace app is also good.

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