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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

How do you nicely tell a guy that he's rubbing your clit too hard without ruining the moment?

I don't know if I'm just too sensitive but it seems the last few guys I've been with have gone at my clit like they're trying to remove a tough stain.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

‘Be gentle, I’m fragile’ and then play a recording of glass smashing

Honestly though; I’d just move their hand and ask them to be gentle. Every time they do it too hard, I’d move their hand away

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Go easy, softer really turns me on. Like this" ... then demonstrate. Simps x

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I ruin the moment with an ouch, but generally I discuss not pneumatic drilling my lady junk before he gets into my pants

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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago

Merseyside


""Go easy, softer really turns me on. Like this" ... then demonstrate. Simps x "

this

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By *akemepurrWoman
over a year ago

Fife


"How do you nicely tell a guy that he's rubbing your clit too hard without ruining the moment?

I don't know if I'm just too sensitive but it seems the last few guys I've been with have gone at my clit like they're trying to remove a tough stain.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated "

Keep removing the hand with an ‘ow’. They should get it. If they don’t give them the boot. I’ll never forget trying to escape the man with rough nails!!!! Lady parts are delicate and should not be abused!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you nicely tell a guy that he's rubbing your clit too hard without ruining the moment?

I don't know if I'm just too sensitive but it seems the last few guys I've been with have gone at my clit like they're trying to remove a tough stain.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated "

Scream at the top of your voice " you fuc#ing idiot your doing it wrong" if he doesn't get the message ...push him to one side and get your vibrator out

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"How do you nicely tell a guy that he's rubbing your clit too hard without ruining the moment?

I don't know if I'm just too sensitive but it seems the last few guys I've been with have gone at my clit like they're trying to remove a tough stain.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated "

Try "I like when a guy does it...'' in your best sexy, turned on voice. Or "Slow and gentle you big hunk of man, tease me" positive instruction goes a long way never come across to negative he wants to please you but may have only dealt with women that only wants it the other way or has been watching to many pornos.

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By *urvySub87 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

It's so frustrating because the rest of his skills are mind blowing but it's just....owch. I'll try asking him to go softer though, see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily not had this problem but there’s been a few guys that can finger a certain way that gets the g-spot going and you know if it continues there’s gonna be a squirt and it’s been on my bed so just gently move their hand away would be my advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luckily not had this problem but there’s been a few guys that can finger a certain way that gets the g-spot going and you know if it continues there’s gonna be a squirt and it’s been on my bed so just gently move their hand away would be my advice. "

There should be laws to stop...someone from stopping themselves squirting ....it's a gift from God

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By *randmrsmanchesterCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Just tell him to be a bit gentler.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you nicely tell a guy that he's rubbing your clit too hard without ruining the moment?

I don't know if I'm just too sensitive but it seems the last few guys I've been with have gone at my clit like they're trying to remove a tough stain.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated

Scream at the top of your voice " you fuc#ing idiot your doing it wrong" if he doesn't get the message ...push him to one side and get your vibrator out"

defo what NOT to do!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

If he has anything about him, he will be looking for signs and not in his own head.

In younger days, ‘it’s nicer like this worked.

In fact it still does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy for a woman to say what she wants or how she prefers things. Once had a woman say be gentle beforehand and I obliged.

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