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Why has it become so hard to meet ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi All,

Well I have been a member on this site for around the past 10-11 years now. I'm not constantly looking for meets or even on the site every week but I have noticed over the past five or six years that it seems harder and harder to actually find people who either actually want to meet up or who actually turn up!

Has anyone else noticed this problem?

I have no idea if it's my old age or volume of competition but it would be nice to know your thoughts and if you too have had similar issues?

I use a false name on this site as I have to keep my private life totally separate from my fundraising and business life otherwise people will only make the wrong assumptions. Not married anymore, that went be the wayside a decade ago and since then I have been living the life I want and not what others expect of me.

I'm a genuine safe, sane and clean guy who sometimes says the wrong thing in a poor attempt of humour! I have a wicked dry sense of humour and this too can turn some people away. I live on a small island in the south of the UK that is so far behind the times its unreal. This is why I like to work all over the UK and cycle to London and back, I need the sanity!

It feels like life is starting to pass me by and I'm missing out on meeting people and indulging in a few intelligent, adventurous and erotic meetings with the right people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep saying this, only use Fab as a back up to the swinging clubs, Fab alone even for us is next to useless, we've been messed around so many times we've given up on finding meets on it anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When was it ever less than borderline impossible?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Way back it seemed great, everyone seemed to have the patience to at least reply to a message regardless if they were interested or not and the volume of time wasters seemed low!

Maybe I was just lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The problem with single guys attending swinging clubs is the cost and ratio of single guys to everyone else!

It feels like for a guy to be successful on here he needs a 9" tool, built like an Adonis and looks like a supermodel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here over 10 years and had no meets or messages. It's all about having patience and never giving up

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By *alcon404Man
over a year ago

London

It’s always been a task to meet on Fab. I’ve never found it easy, but I don’t mind because I seek out quality meets.

The older you get without a doubt the less people will be attracted to you, that’s life. But in all my years of using Fab I wouldn’t describe meeting as easy, and I wouldn’t want it to be tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s great for meeting couple and unicorns. But for meeting guys we have given up on here. Just can’t find any we like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are unicorns?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women that meet couples. Unicorns because they are meant to be mythical. But we haven’t found that.

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By *azziegWoman
over a year ago

Atherton


"Keep saying this, only use Fab as a back up to the swinging clubs, Fab alone even for us is next to useless, we've been messed around so many times we've given up on finding meets on it anymore. "

This is so true.. We only use fab as a contact point for people we have met while clubbing etc.. Just been let down to many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks. I would have thought there would be many single women wanting to meet couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks. I would have thought there would be many single women wanting to meet couples."

In two years we've played with one woman off Fab, so if its that difficult for a couple ican imagine what it's like for a single guy.

We actually met at a swinging club as 2 singles 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks. I would have thought there would be many single women wanting to meet couples.

In two years we've played with one woman off Fab, so if its that difficult for a couple ican imagine what it's like for a single guy.

We actually met at a swinging club as 2 singles 2 years ago "

I guess I should count my blessing in the past then as I have had many meets with women and couples! Even in the past 12 months I have had three meets off here. So I guess I shouldn't complain at all. I thought it was just me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The problem with single guys attending swinging clubs is the cost and ratio of single guys to everyone else!

It feels like for a guy to be successful on here he needs a 9" tool, built like an Adonis and looks like a supermodel! "

Thats a trap everyone falls into thinking it is not correct

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've met a handful of single ladies off here, but they have come about through flirting on the forums. I can't remember the last time that I sent a preemptive faf message

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