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"I am not fat, I am not slim. I have hips, boobs of a more than small size, so curvy is what I use." Amen to that. | |||
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"God only knows tbh" This God says you're fabulously curvy. | |||
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"So for me, I would define curvy as slim/average with bigger hips, bum and/or boobs. I would describe myself as ample as I don’t particularly have an hour glass figure and I’m bigger than average. It’s hard to know exactly though because everyone views people differently and one persons average is a another’s large/slim. " it is ... Each to their own | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. " That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. " Can I have fabulously fat? Lol | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') " Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! " Amazing, that's what you are =) | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! " You're beautiful You're beautiful You're beautiful, it's true - Here you go, have an earworm | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! " What you are is: God damn sexy. End of. | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =)" I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! " Nobody really knows what they are, you just have to go with what makes sense really. What makes sense for you won't really make sense for others. They are nothing more than general labels at giving a quick descriptive idea of body shape. The female body generally has more varied "shapes" individually than men do. We are very basic in that department. | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals " Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Nobody really knows what they are, you just have to go with what makes sense really. What makes sense for you won't really make sense for others. They are nothing more than general labels at giving a quick descriptive idea of body shape. The female body generally has more varied "shapes" individually than men do. We are very basic in that department. " I think it’s been agreed we’re all just gonna put fabulous down | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =)" Keep me updated! | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) Keep me updated! " I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) Keep me updated! I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated " You don’t | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) Keep me updated! I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated You don’t " Soz | |||
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"Do you think they'll ever have body type 'sack of mash' asking for a friend (Princess Peach)" Everyone at work is getting chips or a jacket tonight. I'm taking mash off the menu P | |||
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"Why do people assume that, because I refer to myself as fat, that I am insulting myself, or that I don't think very highly of myself? It's all in our mindset and mine tells me the truth... I am fat and bloody wonderful " Because reclaiming the word is still in process | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) Keep me updated! I think I speak for everyone when i say keep us all updated You don’t " Noted, I'll update everyone except this guy :') | |||
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"I'm ripped to shreds " Sounds painful. | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! Amazing, that's what you are =) I wish we lived closer so we could be gal pals Me too! A move southward might be on the cards for me nearer to the end of the year, so who knows =) Keep me updated! " Move to Devon! :D | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " And you can look at pictures, ask for yourself, without being publicly derogatory. | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves " I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me? | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me? " Budge up, I'll take a seat | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. Really? I heard we're all fugly munters who have too high of an opinion of ourselves I've got room on my fugly munter bench. Who's with me? " That bench you speak of is my lap. | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " I'd say it's very subjective and a lot comes down to how you've been treated in the past, your upbringing, having confidence or lack of instilled in you. I mean, I'm an above average human in lots of areas, below average in others. In looks I'd say I'm above average if I was slapped in the centre of redneck county 70 years ago but when I look in the mirror I see a normal, average person. P | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. I'd say it's very subjective and a lot comes down to how you've been treated in the past, your upbringing, having confidence or lack of instilled in you. I mean, I'm an above average human in lots of areas, below average in others. In looks I'd say I'm above average if I was slapped in the centre of redneck county 70 years ago but when I look in the mirror I see a normal, average person. P" I use the word normal sparingly in my own case P | |||
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"I'd say curvy is size 12-16, generous size boobs and hour glass figure. Marilyn monroe had a beautiful curvy body. I think size 18 and above is still curvy depending on shape and height, but edging onto ample. Ample is thick waist and thick thighs and wobbly bits. That's just how I see it, obviously everyone's interpretation of the description won't be the same. " I think you are absolutely right and I agree 100% | |||
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"What's the difference? Obviously curvy people have curves, but everyone does to some extent. What makes you curvy rather than average, or ample rather than curvy in your opinion? I know the words we choose on our profiles don't matter really, recent photos are a much better illustrator of body type, and it's all very subjective. I'm just interested as to why people choose particular labels. " We class curvy as a more fuller figure like I have. | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " Think Frank needs a wank | |||
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"I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " That’s subjective. How you view people will be different to how I view people and different to how they view themselves. Your opinion ain’t fact. And I’m sure plenty have an opinion on you which doesn’t match how you are yourself. | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. Think Frank needs a wank " | |||
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"Im curvy... I think " Beautiful curves. But I'm a little bias. | |||
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"I had a conversation about this yesterday... Some of you ladies have a very strange opinion of what you look like... I'd say 50% of the females on here put themselves in an above average category when they clearly are not. " And who has decided that then? You? Thank you for expressing your opinion. We’re all free to use whatever language we like when describing ourselves. Perception being what it is, pics are also very handy | |||
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"Don’t care about the difference tbh. Good set of pictures that show the woman I want to meet accurately is enough for me" | |||
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"Im curvy... I think " I'd call you perfect... | |||
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"Im curvy... I think I'd call you perfect... " Ahh! You're biased though! xx | |||
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"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps. I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that. I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. " I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing. I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition | |||
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"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps. I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that. I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing. I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition" I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic | |||
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"My personal opinion Athletic, self explanatory " Is that athletic in a Mo Farah way, an Anthony Joshua way or the chap that beat him sort of way? All pretty open to interpretation, I think. | |||
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"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps. I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that. I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing. I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition" Then that's entirely up to them. It may be seen as deluded by others but it is not the place of someone else to say that how a person choses to discribe themselves is wrong. | |||
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"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps. I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that. I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing. I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic" Exactly my point. | |||
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"What's the difference? Obviously curvy people have curves, but everyone does to some extent. What makes you curvy rather than average, or ample rather than curvy in your opinion? I know the words we choose on our profiles don't matter really, recent photos are a much better illustrator of body type, and it's all very subjective. I'm just interested as to why people choose particular labels. " I rolled a dice | |||
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"I'm more than the sum of my lumps and bumps. I discribe myself how I choose and many over my time on fab have felt the need to challenge me on that. I couldn't care less what the actual definitions are, I chose how I discribe myself and no one else. I think that's the point with regards to the definitions given, people can use them however they see fit. Personally, I think that there needs to be a degree of consensus of definition otherwise they mean nothing. I'm not saying that people are wrong, my issue is mainly when an overweight person calls themselves athletic but that's because it's the only one with a quantifiable definition I've a female friend who is 5'10, a size 18, she plays women's rugby and could probably crush a man's skull with her extremely muscular thighs... Technically she would be classed as overweight but she is undoubtedly athletic Exactly my point. " I’m 6ft tall and weight train, I’m a size 20. I could also crush lots of things with my thighs I have myself down as large because I think people expect Jessica Rabbit it you say curvy, and Jessica Ennis if you say athletic. I’m tall and broad so I think large fits best. Some would disagree, but unless Fab are going to define each category then all we can do is our best. I describe myself in my profile as best as I can, no interest in deceiving anyone. | |||
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"I think everyone should just put fabulous down. That's a great idea! The others are too confusing. Like I'm not slim, but I also don't have an hourglass figure- just a huge ass. :') Yeah I thought I was bigger than average then I saw someone said what average actually was, so now I’m confused. I’ve got big boobs but no hips/waist definition so I wouldn’t describe myself as curvy. I honestly don’t know what I am! " You’re you | |||
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