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"Confident people? " Do we? I don't! I don't know why anyone would | |||
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"We don’t. We hate arrogant people that assume it’s confidence. " Or confident people that are also arrogant. Blurred lines and overlaps between the two. But that is essentially it, when the confidence appears to be or is arrogance | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? " Grrrrr .... dont get me started! | |||
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"Confident people? " Insecure people hate confident people I love confident people | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? Grrrrr .... dont get me started! " (Blows raspberry). | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? Grrrrr .... dont get me started! (Blows raspberry). " That's precisely why | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? " Who could hate you CG? xx | |||
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"To everyone asking - yes, confidence is very disliked. Only if you’re female, though " Sweeping generalisation ahead I think men love a confident woman - and by that I mean, comfortable in their own skin and not afraid get what they want. Other women can see them attention seekers As stated it’s a very broad sweeping observation (dismount white knights!) | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? Who could hate you CG? xx" I know. I'm adorable. | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? Grrrrr .... dont get me started! (Blows raspberry). That's precisely why" Big hugs. | |||
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"To everyone asking - yes, confidence is very disliked. Only if you’re female, though Sweeping generalisation ahead I think men love a confident woman - and by that I mean, comfortable in their own skin and not afraid get what they want. Other women can see them attention seekers As stated it’s a very broad sweeping observation (dismount white knights!) " I think insecure people can dislike confident people. I don't think it's gender specific. I had a man dislike me for the 4 years he knew me because early on he called me unattractive for swearing at my own flat party at university and my response was that I didn't need him to be attracted to me. We ended up living in the same big house the next year and I tried to be nice but he just never wanted to know and seemed annoyed that everyone else we lived with was friends with me. Some men also seem to prefer insecure women as they're easier to manipulate which is a bit sick. Some insecure women can also dislike other women for being confident but I don't think most women do at all. The loud mouth, cocky types of any gender are annoying to most but they usually aren't actually confident people. It's usually a persona to mask a lot of deep seated insecurity. | |||
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"I consider myself confident. Am I hated then? Grrrrr .... dont get me started! (Blows raspberry). That's precisely why Big hugs. " ;-) | |||
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"Insecurity and some people just see the need to knock people down. Misery begets misery. If it’s real confidence that is. " | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! " Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message ." You don’t?! I’ll need to completely rethink my cock pic and “suck this” first message now...! | |||
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"Confident people? " I don't think that people do. I find confidence sexy, especially in women. | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . You don’t?! I’ll need to completely rethink my cock pic and “suck this” first message now...! " I'm afraid so | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . You don’t?! I’ll need to completely rethink my cock pic and “suck this” first message now...! I'm afraid so " Knew I was doing something wrong! Or maybe I have an ugly cock?! | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message ." As you stated earlier these things aren’t gender specific (although we only have our own gender viewpoints to go on) women call men arrogant if they have the temerity to turn then down! | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . You don’t?! I’ll need to completely rethink my cock pic and “suck this” first message now...! I'm afraid so Knew I was doing something wrong! Or maybe I have an ugly cock?!" Maybe both. | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . As you stated earlier these things aren’t gender specific (although we only have our own gender viewpoints to go on) women call men arrogant if they have the temerity to turn then down!" | |||
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"There’s a fine line between confident, arrogant, and deluded! Haha according to a lot of men on fab though, us women are all deluded because we won't sleep with every man who sends us a dick pic and 2 word message . You don’t?! I’ll need to completely rethink my cock pic and “suck this” first message now...! I'm afraid so Knew I was doing something wrong! Or maybe I have an ugly cock?! Maybe both." I thought mine was decent looking-for a cock | |||
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"We don’t. We hate arrogant people that assume it’s confidence. " Agree. | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. " So is high confidence. It just depends who you ask. | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. " Yep | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. Yep " And confidence is all too often described as arrogance. God help a woman who isn't classically attractive displaying confidence for she will be described as "above herself" or "up her own arse". Likewise a woman who is attractive saying that she is for she will be described as "ugly on the inside". I'm sure it's the same for men and obviously my comments are a huge generalisation | |||
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"Confident people? " I come across as confident, but I’m really not | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. Yep And confidence is all too often described as arrogance. God help a woman who isn't classically attractive displaying confidence for she will be described as "above herself" or "up her own arse". Likewise a woman who is attractive saying that she is for she will be described as "ugly on the inside". I'm sure it's the same for men and obviously my comments are a huge generalisation " It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. Yep And confidence is all too often described as arrogance. God help a woman who isn't classically attractive displaying confidence for she will be described as "above herself" or "up her own arse". Likewise a woman who is attractive saying that she is for she will be described as "ugly on the inside". I'm sure it's the same for men and obviously my comments are a huge generalisation It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves " You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. Yep And confidence is all too often described as arrogance. God help a woman who isn't classically attractive displaying confidence for she will be described as "above herself" or "up her own arse". Likewise a woman who is attractive saying that she is for she will be described as "ugly on the inside". I'm sure it's the same for men and obviously my comments are a huge generalisation It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. " Gotta get those sympathy fucks | |||
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"Don't get ne started. Low confidence is celebrated and even encouraged in women. Yep And confidence is all too often described as arrogance. God help a woman who isn't classically attractive displaying confidence for she will be described as "above herself" or "up her own arse". Likewise a woman who is attractive saying that she is for she will be described as "ugly on the inside". I'm sure it's the same for men and obviously my comments are a huge generalisation It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. Gotta get those sympathy fucks" Is it that? Or is it if I say I'm ugly everyone will tell me I'm not? What about success in other areas of life? Why the negative attitude to someone who is obviously wealthy? | |||
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"It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. Gotta get those sympathy fucks Is it that? Or is it if I say I'm ugly everyone will tell me I'm not? What about success in other areas of life? Why the negative attitude to someone who is obviously wealthy? " Reverse snobbery is real? No, surely not. I do think though that women (and men and tvs etc) shouldn't tear each other down. Do away with the assumptions that someone who is confident is a twat and up themselves. Fuck the belief that if someone is lacking in confidence they are doing it to play games or get attention. Take people as they are and lift each other up instead of casting negative aspersions. | |||
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"It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. Gotta get those sympathy fucks Is it that? Or is it if I say I'm ugly everyone will tell me I'm not? What about success in other areas of life? Why the negative attitude to someone who is obviously wealthy? Reverse snobbery is real? No, surely not. I do think though that women (and men and tvs etc) shouldn't tear each other down. Do away with the assumptions that someone who is confident is a twat and up themselves. Fuck the belief that if someone is lacking in confidence they are doing it to play games or get attention. Take people as they are and lift each other up instead of casting negative aspersions. " | |||
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"It’s bloody annoying. God forbid we don’t hate ourselves You don't have to actually hate yourself, you just have to pretend you do. It's all part of the game. Gotta get those sympathy fucks Is it that? Or is it if I say I'm ugly everyone will tell me I'm not? What about success in other areas of life? Why the negative attitude to someone who is obviously wealthy? Reverse snobbery is real? No, surely not. I do think though that women (and men and tvs etc) shouldn't tear each other down. Do away with the assumptions that someone who is confident is a twat and up themselves. Fuck the belief that if someone is lacking in confidence they are doing it to play games or get attention. Take people as they are and lift each other up instead of casting negative aspersions. " People who really lack confidence don't do it to get attention but people who pretend to do. | |||
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