FabSwingers.com forum: Teaching someone a lesson

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it be completely wrong to publically share a guys phone number who is being a bit of a slime ball and sending me his number without my asking for it? (Along with multiple other unanswered messages, and yes I will be blocking him before anyone suggests it)

Getting very fed up of guys relentlesaly having one sided conversations with themselves in my inbox, and not taking "no" for an answer.

Really do feel like teaching him about stranger danger and why he shouldn't and his number out to people that dont want/have not asked for it

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Oooo no..I wouldn't do that. It's against the rules anyway.

Yes, block, move on.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

Just block him x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No don’t do it. You will end up with a forum ban for it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be very adult like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't share on the forum, but even if it did result in disciplinary at this point I'm not sure I care anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do that he's not worth or

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him in a message then block

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Just block and move on.

Not worth a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block the snot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't share on the forum, but even if it did result in disciplinary at this point I'm not sure I care anyway "

Don't lower yourself to that level, I'm sure you are much better than that, if the person is being persistent, reporting and blocking is the only right answer.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Think of it this way OP - by blocking him and not doing anything else you are starving him of the attention he craves - and potentially saving yourself a whole heap of trouble not only with the site but elsewhere too - be the bigger person and just block and ignore

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Just block, no need to share

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

How would you feel about your number being put out there without your consent?

He may have sent it to you, but it was for you and nobody else.

Would be an extremely immature and honestly shitty thing to do, regardless of what he is doing. Just block him and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But why is it ok for guys to do that? Blocking them doesn't stop them from sending the same shit to everyone else. I get it's just a phone number (along with other unwanted messages), but surely that level of brazen stupidity will eventually result in issues for them anyway?

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By *oulja_01000Man
over a year ago

North East

My mother used to tell me: 'Two wrongs don't make a right' - God I feel like I'm turning into my mother

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

whether its right or wrong its against forum rules.

For that reason I will close the thread now

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"But why is it ok for guys to do that? Blocking them doesn't stop them from sending the same shit to everyone else. I get it's just a phone number (along with other unwanted messages), but surely that level of brazen stupidity will eventually result in issues for them anyway? "

It's not OK. But that's not your problem

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