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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you constantly chat with people who you want to meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"No "

Glib

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places


"Do you constantly chat with people who you want to meet? "

Nah, I just meet them...

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Nah, I seems I'm pretty dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m awkward as fuck and feel like I’m bothering them. Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to work... And sleep .. And eat...

... I'd rather just fuck

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"Nah, I seems I'm pretty dull."

For instance I'm currently sat alone playing the witcher 3. Fun times woo woo!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I wan't sex not conversation.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Define constant.

I'll continue a conversation to death quite often, if a convo has been established. But I won't be consistently hounding them with a need to chat with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do. Helps with nerves. Getting to know them a bit better.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"No. I wan't sex not conversation."

Just like Elvis said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you constantly chat with people who you want to meet? "

No, God forbid I ever find mY self a fekkin pen pal. Alough today I have been ovley active on fourms. So kinda making you all. Y tempory pen pals for the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I wan't sex not conversation.

Just like Elvis said "

Fuck I farted..... Then nothingg..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No, I’m awkward as fuck and feel like I’m bothering them. Yay"

This is how I feel. I rarely if ever meet anyone, but I feel like I'm hassling women.. Because they get a lot of messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I wan't sex not conversation."

You don't want to get to know someone a little first?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I chat enough with people of interest but, until I meet, I'm not going to do excessive chat, as we may not be compatible.

I keep ny actions appropriate to the type and depth of the relationships that I have

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do. Helps with nerves. Getting to know them a bit better. "

Yeah I feel like this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

By constant I'd say maybe hour or 2 a day.

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph


"I chat enough with people of interest but, until I meet, I'm not going to do excessive chat, as we may not be compatible.

I keep ny actions appropriate to the type and depth of the relationships that I have "

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By *exyredheadtattooCouple
over a year ago

Beaumont

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na I ghost from people constantly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message then they reply or vice versa, not always right away. This goes on indefinitely until such time as we are either no longer "friends" or one of us has died

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, I’m awkward as fuck and feel like I’m bothering them. Yay

This is how I feel. I rarely if ever meet anyone, but I feel like I'm hassling women.. Because they get a lot of messages. "

I don't feel the need to constantly message them if you had something to chat about you have to message surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

War and Peace at the very least!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To the people who said no then so you just send "down to fuck" messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

We regularly chat to those we may want to meet but only constantly chat to each other.

Thank fuck free minutes, texts, WhatsApp and wifi for vid calls are a thing or we may die from withdrawal symptoms from each other

P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nope.

We regularly chat to those we may want to meet but only constantly chat to each other.

Thank fuck free minutes, texts, WhatsApp and wifi for vid calls are a thing or we may die from withdrawal symptoms from each other

P"

So yes really that's what I mean should've phrased it better

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours "

To be fair I'd probably do the same

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same"

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know "

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day "

Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London

Very hard to know how much to chat, how much isn't bothering them. I'm in that situation atm and feel I'm going to put her off before we get to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good.

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good."

Was going to ask if they must have nice rims

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"No. I wan't sex not conversation."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Very hard to know how much to chat, how much isn't bothering them. I'm in that situation atm and feel I'm going to put her off before we get to meet "

If she ain't into it it ain't right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When someone really piques my interest then I’ll chat to them a lot usually on WhatsApp leading up to meeting. I let them send me pictures of themselves and videos as well. All good."

I bet you do you naughty minx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No. I wan't sex not conversation. "

Do you just message someone and say let's fuck ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day "

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway "

Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes because the best guys or the best connection is with someone who lives the other end of the bloody country x

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I don't want a pen pal but I don't want to just meet a random person that I don't know the first thing about. I'll chat for a few days first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority "

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly."

I check in regularly regardless

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway

Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face? "

Alot actually

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day "

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

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By *ingcom76Man
over a year ago

cheltenham

I like chatting as well as meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to work... And sleep .. And eat...

... I'd rather just fuck "

That's strange, in you bio, you just want to chat and not meet anybody?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world. "

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to work... And sleep .. And eat...

... I'd rather just fuck

That's strange, in you bio, you just want to chat and not meet anybody? "

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I think it finds its own level.

Personally I can do either end of the scale (lots of messages, or virtually none), without a preference. So I tend to fall in line with what the other person seems to be up for.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply "

It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.

I check in regularly regardless "

Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply

It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we don’t constantly chat with those we plan on meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply

It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so"

drop everything for a sentence ?????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen. "

Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No we don’t constantly chat with those we plan on meeting "

However that said we mainly meet couples in clubs

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

Apparently all you women just want sex. But I’ve never seen these women before hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently all you women just want sex. But I’ve never seen these women before hahaha"

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Group chat on whatsapp prior to a meet is fun, share a few naughty pics and flirt with each other. Some really get into it, some are a little uneasy being seduced in a group chat

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply

It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so

drop everything for a sentence ????? "

You come across very needy pal. Just chill a bit. Try it and see if this approach works better for you. If not keep pestering them, I’m sure this is what the fit girl wants. You’ll learn grasshopper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

People do have lives away from Fab and unfortunately for you your not their number 1 priority

So you're so busy you can't respond in a day

Sometimes yes. Fab doesn’t rule my world.

Fab has to rule your world to reply to someone in a day???? Unless you're sending essays to each other I don't see how it takes 2 minutes to reply

It does seem very needy to expect someone to drop everything just cause you say so

drop everything for a sentence ?????

You come across very needy pal. Just chill a bit. Try it and see if this approach works better for you. If not keep pestering them, I’m sure this is what the fit girl wants. You’ll learn grasshopper "

I ain't trying for anything with anyone im happy on the forums

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.

I check in regularly regardless

Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!

"

Not messaged you for 3 weeks!

Right best fix that!

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By *attb179Man
over a year ago

London


"Group chat on whatsapp prior to a meet is fun, share a few naughty pics and flirt with each other. Some really get into it, some are a little uneasy being seduced in a group chat "

Group with who??

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Maybe it’s different with swingers but sometimes we can be out of the house all day work etc then come home have food watch a film together and not bother to check our phones till next day ........never had a issue if we don’t reply for 24 hours we simply explain and pick up where we left off ....

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

What is a "meet"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not constantly, but the guys I like and plan to meet check in regularly.

I check in regularly regardless

Not in approximately 2hrs and 33.5. 5th of a second you havent!

Not messaged you for 3 weeks!

Right best fix that! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we might chat for a few days then not for a few weeks.

Everyone has a life, job etc outside of FAB which for me at least takes priority.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway

Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?

Alot actually"

Well in that case, you would probably bore me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I once got blocked by someone I was due to meet off here, because I read but didn't reply to one of her messages within 24 hours

To be fair I'd probably do the same

The meet wasn't for a couple of weeks, and some people have lives away from fab as well ya know

Still not a reason to ignore someone for a day

Crikey, you're needy. It was only gonna be a social meet anyway

Oh, and we had been chatting for quite a while beforehand, how much shit can you chat before you meet someone without actually meeting them and having naff all to say to them face to face?

Alot actually

Well in that case, you would probably bore me anyway "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, we might chat for a few days then not for a few weeks.

Everyone has a life, job etc outside of FAB which for me at least takes priority."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like chatting "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What is a "meet"?"

Think it's like pork or beef, something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen.

Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not "

I’ve been here years dude, they all know I’m bat shit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I was going to meet someone I’d have their number and if I WhatsApp’d them and they left me on read for a day I’d assume they weren’t keen.

Let's all start calling the fit girl needy shall we ? No thought not

I’ve been here years dude, they all know I’m bat shit! "

If you were a 47 year old bloke I think you would've been in for it aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm constantly chatting shit. It's like verbel diarrhea.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I'm constantly chatting shit. It's like verbel diarrhea. "

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