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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle " Wish it were that easy. | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle " This exactly | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy." I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" We only start with socials and what is there to worry about if you meet somebody for a chat? | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. " Are women not meant to be confident? | |||
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"Try to ignore them and hope they dont get any worse." This. And faff too much with my makeup. | |||
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"I’m always nervous regardless if I’ve met them before. But it’s all part of the excitement and when I see them I smile and try to relax " I don't mind the nerves from second and third meets. | |||
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"I see nerves as a good thing, to me it shows that their opinion matters and I care about the outcome. If I didn't get a nervous reaction to meeting them, I probably wouldn't meet them. " True | |||
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"It's those pre meet nerves that I enjoy; sometimes I'm shaking all over but deep down I know that the moment I see them all my nerves just go and I get on and enjoy the meet." True | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" Turn the nervousness into excitement, embrace the new experience. | |||
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"I’m always nervous regardless if I’ve met them before. But it’s all part of the excitement and when I see them I smile and try to relax I don't mind the nerves from second and third meets." If they are lucky to get that far, lucky them | |||
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"I like that nervousness feeling and you can bet they’re feeling it too " I'd be hoping they are | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident?" If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited." You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" Both get stripped off and start snogging has always worked for me | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited." Good point | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol" Hope it was fun. | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol Hope it was fun." We are still friends now. Must be my charm and wit she likes. Lol | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol Hope it was fun. We are still friends now. Must be my charm and wit she likes. Lol" Charming is always good. | |||
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"I try and reframe it and see it as natural adrenaline which is good. If I didn't feel that way, there'd be little to no point in meeting them. Generally I talk to a couple of good friends who remind me of my worth and that goes some way to alleviating the "oh fuck" feeling. And remembering that it's fun and how much I enjoy meeting others. Sometimes hearing that the other person is excited/nervous helps as well." So very true. | |||
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"I love those first meet nerves, the butterflies in the stomach the heart pumping, it's mostly adrenaline and perfectly normal, I would say everyone gets them. Just enjoy the excitement and expectation of it all." Tingles in the clit. | |||
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"Just chatting first to break the ice and an understanding that you done need to go beyond that if not comfortable. " Its getting others to understand that. | |||
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"Agreed and that's part of the challenge in finding the right people." True. | |||
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"How do you calm yours? We only start with socials and what is there to worry about if you meet somebody for a chat? " Youd be surprised | |||
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"I’m always nervous regardless if I’ve met them before. But it’s all part of the excitement and when I see them I smile and try to relax " A smile always helps. | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" Learn to thrive off them. I often get my man to set secret meets so I don't over stress. I'm very honest about my nervous, but I also like them. What the point of doing things if you don't get a buzz?? | |||
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"How do you calm yours? Learn to thrive off them. I often get my man to set secret meets so I don't over stress. I'm very honest about my nervous, but I also like them. What the point of doing things if you don't get a buzz??" True. | |||
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"We get very nervous on a meet. It feels like being on blind date or a job interview hoping you get the job lol. Even tho you have been chatting a while. Once the conversation starts to flow the nerves soon go." I get so bad I sometimes have the shakes | |||
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"We get very nervous on a meet. It feels like being on blind date or a job interview hoping you get the job lol. Even tho you have been chatting a while. Once the conversation starts to flow the nerves soon go. I get so bad I sometimes have the shakes " . If I saw you like that I'd just give you a big hug. Hugs can heal anything. | |||
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"We get very nervous on a meet. It feels like being on blind date or a job interview hoping you get the job lol. Even tho you have been chatting a while. Once the conversation starts to flow the nerves soon go. I get so bad I sometimes have the shakes . If I saw you like that I'd just give you a big hug. Hugs can heal anything. " Aww bless you. I totally agree a hug heels everything, I tend to give a kiss on the cheek and a hug say nice to meet you. | |||
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"We get very nervous on a meet. It feels like being on blind date or a job interview hoping you get the job lol. Even tho you have been chatting a while. Once the conversation starts to flow the nerves soon go. I get so bad I sometimes have the shakes . If I saw you like that I'd just give you a big hug. Hugs can heal anything. " That they can. | |||
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"I wish I could get those first meet nerves. Still waiting to have a meet hahahahahahaha" You'll get there eventually | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? " I guess guys get a lot of no shows | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows" Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows" Yea, but what are my chances if I made another trip to Dublin to try the local kandi | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows" Women do to | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating " It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages." Note to self.. sort profile out x | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x" Yah that would be a help. | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help." Best get to work x | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help. Best get to work x" You've hidden the profile now. | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" Ideally with a nice drink and a flirty chat to break the ice and feel the excitement | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help. Best get to work x You've hidden the profile now." Was an improvement i think - lol | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help. Best get to work x You've hidden the profile now. Was an improvement i think - lol" Be nice | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help. Best get to work x You've hidden the profile now. Was an improvement i think - lol Be nice " I’ve got my ink and quill put as we speak x | |||
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"I try and reframe it and see it as natural adrenaline which is good. If I didn't feel that way, there'd be little to no point in meeting them. Generally I talk to a couple of good friends who remind me of my worth and that goes some way to alleviating the "oh fuck" feeling. And remembering that it's fun and how much I enjoy meeting others. Sometimes hearing that the other person is excited/nervous helps as well." Sort of this. I’m not a naturally confident person but I get a buzz from the nerves. Same way I get nervous before I take part in a sporting event or things like that. | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" I never got these which is weird.. I did drink during the meet so that helped. I think if you just imagine them naked you will be fine | |||
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"Every meet is like first meet nerves.. And Usually starts with, is she going turn up? Is she going to turn out to be a he? I guess guys get a lot of no shows Hope 2020 changes that for me.. so frustrating It has to be hard (no pun intended) for guys on here. Theres so many guys compared to women. It takes a lot for a guy to stand out when a female is getting tons of messages. Note to self.. sort profile out x Yah that would be a help. Best get to work x You've hidden the profile now. Was an improvement i think - lol Be nice I’ve got my ink and quill put as we speak x" Glad to here it. | |||
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"How do you calm yours? Turn the nervousness into excitement, embrace the new experience. " Good advice. | |||
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"Think it’s a lot easier if your a cple as you have someone to help ease your nerves...Don’t think I could Cope with my nerves without my husband xx" Must be hard for a female to meet a couple on her own. | |||
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"Honestly I don't, that's what socials are for. So I only look a tiny bit of a complete dufuss if sex happens. " | |||
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"Think it’s a lot easier if your a cple as you have someone to help ease your nerves...Don’t think I could Cope with my nerves without my husband xx" Never thought of it that way. | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol" I'm always excited. It's in my jeans. | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol I'm always excited. It's in my jeans. " And o thought you'd peed your pants. | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" just try to be yourself and honest I find that works | |||
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"How do you calm yours?just try to be yourself and honest I find that works" Thanks | |||
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"Try to ignore them and hope they dont get any worse." I couldn't | |||
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"Hehe my kind of advice! A good glass of wine or gin and lemonade for me " Good idea. | |||
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"By having about 10 wee's beforehand! Why ?" Cause I need to go when I'm nervous | |||
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"How do you calm yours?" definitely releave myself before hand always helps alot | |||
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"By having about 10 wee's beforehand! Why ? Cause I need to go when I'm nervous" I get you now. | |||
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"How do you calm yours? definitely releave myself before hand always helps alot" | |||
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"It's just another person, whome you hope likes you and will have sex with you. What's to be nervous about? Just let the nerves keep you on your toes and know that after a little while you'll settle Wish it were that easy. I still get nerves, use them to your advantage. Embrace them and let the other person know. Are women not meant to be confident? If you are, yes! Besides, confident women still get nerves! I remind myself that nervous and excited are the exact same physiological response--then try to convince myself I'm just excited. You seemed very excited when we met.... All those years ago. Lol I'm always excited. It's in my jeans. " What's in your jeans? | |||
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