FabSwingers.com forum: Age Limits

By *arkSuede OP Man
over a year ago

London

Good morning fabs (GMT time)

Have an innocent question to ask

There are quite a few women on here that I’ve seen who I am sexually attracted to who may be a few years older than me (some by greater degrees of age), however, when I go to send a message, it states that they do not accept messages from us younger deers

I personally don’t have an age cut-off point per say. (Also, please understand, this is by no means wishing to sound like I’m whinging, purely seeking perspectives)

Do you have an age cut-off point in difference of years?

And to women who are a few years older than my age group, is there a reason for preferring to avoid younger fellas?

Do you find that the younger the potential partner, there seems to be a lack of either experience or maturity in not only sex, but communications and conversation?

Or is it simply lack-of attraction to younger men, hence the avoidance? Or is it something else..? Would love some takes

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By *epsonWoman
over a year ago

Biddulph

Men generally have wider parameters in who they will have sex with in most areas, including age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to not meet anyone young enough to be my child. Hence my age limits

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't accept messages from anyone under forty. In fact if you're not a man between forty and sixty you can't message me. I've broken this rule a few times and without exception it's not been a success.

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

I don't think it's about attraction so much

A lot of women won't meet younger guys who are closer to their children's age group

Some find there's a maturity in attitude thing

It's just a matter of their preference, which is to be respected, although I understand why you ask the question

I guess it depends how many years you mean by "a few years"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning fabs (GMT time)

Have an innocent question to ask

I personally don’t have an age cut-off point per say. (Also, please understand, this is by no means wishing to sound like I’m whinging, purely seeking perspectives)

Do you have an age cut-off point in difference of years?

And to women who are a few years older than my age group, is there a reason for preferring to avoid younger fellas?

Do you find that the younger the potential partner, there seems to be a lack of either experience or maturity in not only sex, but communications and conversation?

Or is it simply lack-of attraction to younger men, hence the avoidance? Or is it something else..? Would love some takes

Freedom of choice. No other reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have less in common with men under a certain age

I have a child nearing 30. for me that age group is just too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think about age too much. Age doesn't really define a persons personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Let me turn the question back to you.

What are your reasons for your cut off age? Mine are probably similar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t find younger men attractive. Simple as that. It’s so annoying when men don’t respect that; ‘oh but you’re 22, you should be attracted to me, I’m 23 I’m older’ blah blah blah

Fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t find younger men attractive. Simple as that. It’s so annoying when men don’t respect that; ‘oh but you’re 22, you should be attracted to me, I’m 23 I’m older’ blah blah blah

Fuck off.

And *most* aren’t very mature. They join fab because they think it’s instashag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has an age preference OP, including you if you are honest about it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I find anyone under 25 too young. Don't know why, just do.

My upper limit is more that I had to set it somewhere, and I find that over a certain age I get diminishing returns in terms of messages.

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By *outhbucksCouple
over a year ago

Great Missenden

We have to have a social as well as sexual connection with anyone we play.

We don't have too many things in common with under 40s we think and definitely don't want to play with people as young as our children.

Some just don't get it that it's not just about sex for us.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"We have to have a social as well as sexual connection with anyone we play.

We don't have too many things in common with under 40s we think and definitely don't want to play with people as young as our children.

Some just don't get it that it's not just about sex for us.

As an old soul I run into this occasionally, but, hey, that's life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just prefer guys older than me, it's really that simple

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I just prefer guys older than me, it's really that simple"

Taxi to Gillingham please xxx

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We just feel it to be a bit creepy to playing with someone our offsprings age wife and I would go ten years younger, wife ten years older too, I would go fifteen, and if they looked like Helen miren I would cap the age lol

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

"I just prefer guys older than me, it's really that simple

Taxi to Gillingham please xxx"

Don’t blame you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just prefer guys older than me, it's really that simple

Taxi to Gillingham please xxx"

Welcome for a cuppa and a hug anytime CG xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just attracted to people older than me, I've got nothing against younger men, they're just not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cut off ages are minimum 98, maximum 99 lol

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm attracted to older men usually. I find people younger than me have different interests, have no idea about some of the things I'm talking about, etc.

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By *on_mclaneMan
over a year ago

manchester

Back in the day I was really attracted to older women than me, remember fancing one of my mother’s friends when I was about 25, never did anything but she always gave me the horn, I’m 41 now and tend to stick to meeting ladies from 30ish to 50 any younger and I’d feel a lil bit wrong having a niece who’s 24 plus imo girls from early 20s to 30s all look and dress the same, guess they want to be with Instagram models ffs ??????????

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