FabSwingers.com forum: Athletic, slim, average or curvy?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’d of said athletic as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you labelled yourself just fine

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh my gosh I'm so sorry you've had this kind of message. Those kind of people are truly ugly.

You look amazing and I think you've described yourself perfectly Frida x

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd say you were athletic or slim but it's up to you how you want to define yourself. I'm a size 14/16 and I'm short. I put curvy down on mine but I'm fat, that isnt an option though. That's why pics are put up, to show body size/shape. Definitely sour grapes, you are gorgeous x

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Oh my gosh I'm so sorry you've had this kind of message. Those kind of people are truly ugly.

You look amazing and I think you've described yourself perfectly Frida x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

xN"

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your body! (ED survivor here too)

I think you've described yourself very well. Nice bum by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless you, totally get where you're coming from. As someone who also has struggled through an eating disorder, through my teens, I know how hard it can be. The demons still try to rear up sometimes and it's a battle to not slide back again. People can be thoughtless and no one has the right to pass judgement.

You look amazing. The wife xx

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

I think the the sour grapes category has just been created!

Nice one for spotting it and i think youre gorgeous and brave, dont let it get to you x

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By *aughty Lovers 69Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

That is disgusting behaviour that you have had to deal with OP xx

Please try not to let it get to you, you are perfect just the way you are xxx

It shouldn't matter what size people are, everyone has feelings and shouldn't be treated so nastily, as if there isn't enough body consciousness already in society xx

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Lol I wouldn’t describe you as curvy either! The worlds full of idiots. To me you look good enough to eat!

Mrs J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are dicks

You are gorgeous

Fuck them (but not literally obviously!)

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By *rAngleseyMan
over a year ago

Anglesey

awful behaviour Op. Don`t take it to heart, They are just sour.

You have a great body & definitely athletic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the the sour grapes category has just been created!

Nice one for spotting it and i think youre gorgeous and brave, dont let it get to you x "

It was Tom that spotted it actually, it got to me a little too much for me to see through it....Thank you.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

It's horrid how people feel the need to throw personal insults about because they can't handle rejection. I'm sorry you had to deal with that.

You look pretty perfect to me, I'd love to have your figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would 100% say you are athletic built. I class myself as Curvy but tbh this weekend whilst out I was told by a guy (that I refused to snog!) I was fat!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They are dicks

You are gorgeous

Fuck them (but not literally obviously!)"

Haha! Definitely not! Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't care how you choose to define yourself, you would get it whatever you put down

What's the username so we can see if they've been honest or being hypocritical?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bellend behaviour. For the record I’d classify your both as athletic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say you were athletic or slim but it's up to you how you want to define yourself. I'm a size 14/16 and I'm short. I put curvy down on mine but I'm fat, that isnt an option though. That's why pics are put up, to show body size/shape. Definitely sour grapes, you are gorgeous x"

Thank you, lovely, straight back atcha! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your gorgeous and they are just jealous

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I'd describe your body type as perfection

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By *atinocoupleCouple
over a year ago

SF, NY, London (in that order)

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

xN"

Sorry to hear this. Mrs is literally a tri-athlete and describes herself as curvy as she is Latina. But those thighs are STRONG! It's all meaningless.

Your profile is gorgeous however. That's the best description x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nope. Self defined. Just sour grapes.

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I would say tell them to go shove there message up their arse sideways and don't use lube

Or maybe something along them lines, it's not important what others think of you but what you think of you

Ray

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By *uscularLoveMan
over a year ago

london

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

xN"

I see alot of different physiques on a daily basis and you are better than average

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would 100% say you are athletic built. I class myself as Curvy but tbh this weekend whilst out I was told by a guy (that I refused to snog!) I was fat!! "

So glad you didn't snog him! xxN

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope. Self defined. Just sour grapes. "

I'm getting my big girl pants and think I've just decided to block couples now. It's a shame, because I get on with so many couples from the forums, on a social basis.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a shame they used curvy as an insult and you took it as an insult.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being curvy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They are dicks

You are gorgeous

Fuck them (but not literally obviously!)

Haha! Definitely not! Thank you. "

You have an amazing body, they’re just gutted you turned them down.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I wouldn't worry about it. I'm a 12/14 and get some tell me I'm too small to class myself as curvy and others tell me I'm just fat so *shrugs*

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Nope. Self defined. Just sour grapes.

I'm getting my big girl pants and think I've just decided to block couples now. It's a shame, because I get on with so many couples from the forums, on a social basis.

Thank you

xN"

It is a shame that some spoil things. In all demographics. But I get it.

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By *esse1972Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

Nope your as described, I know it’s difficult but ignore the remarks like you said just sour grapes. Enjoy yourself xx

xN"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, ignore 'em. You look great and I certainly wouldn't argue with Athletic. Sounds like they just can't take a "no thanks" with any grace.

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By *kippy321Man
over a year ago

london

U look like your description

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

xN"

I'm so sorry this happened to you, as a fellow ED survivor I know how much these comments can hurt.

You're beautiful, but unfortunately that's not a drop down option. Athletic suits you just fine, you look great- if I could have a body like that I definitely would =)

Try not to let it get to you lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sour grapes definitely, you have a gorgeous figure and I think slim or athletic covers it fine.

I don't even look at what the body type description is I just look at pictures and it's all about if I like what I see.

Jeez some people are awful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s a shame they used curvy as an insult and you took it as an insult.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being curvy."

I totally see where you are coming from. I do not see curvy as an insult if the woman is curvy. But my OP was asking for a definition of curvy incase I was misleading people or didn't use the right label to describe myself on my profile? I have a round bum, but I'm not curvy, my boobs are but a handful at most.

So please don't make me out to consider being curvy an insult. I absolutely do not.

And please consider the fact that I had a body image issue in my 20's that still rears its ugly head from time to time. Try having bulimia for 5 years, and beaten it over and over again as it tries to resurface at every opportunity, then consider how you'd feel.

PS: I reckon I'm now going to change my body type to fabulous.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Just put down body type as perfect and happily so xx

Gorgeous body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Soooo..... we've had yet another message from a couple this evening.

I replied back to thank them for their compliments, but explained that as per our profile, we do not play with couples.

I expected a civil response. Instead, I've had a short response back, the gist of it being that they were being polite as I'm not really athletic looking, should put down curvy as my body type.

I know it was "sour grapes" - but being an eating disorder survivor (my twenties legacy), it's got to me a little. I'm a size 8 (upper body) 10 (lower body) - 34c bra. WTF!

Is there a definition on body types I should be aware of?

xN"

Def athletic, leggy too

Hate labels tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s a shame they used curvy as an insult and you took it as an insult.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with being curvy.

So please don't make me out to consider being curvy an insult. I absolutely do not.

PS: I reckon I'm now going to change my body type to fabulous.

You have a lovely body, whatever word you want to describe it

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

Ignore the sœur grapes - you're hot. I would say a combination of curvy and athletic. Definitely don't look out of shape. Tell them to do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible thing to say. Foul behaviour.

And you're most definitely athletic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body shapes constantly change people are made of water

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just put down body type as perfect and happily so xx

Gorgeous body"

Thank you xxN

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

You’re defo athletic

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I am slightly different but I would put athletic type body having muscle definition. Where I would put yours at slim but anyway I think you look great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look amazing. That should be a option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry you had this OP

People often feel entitled to comment on people's body shape on here. It's entirely up to you how you choose to describe yourself, if other people don't agree then Sod um and they should keep their opinions to themselves.

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